{"id":13736,"date":"2018-02-02T11:20:35","date_gmt":"2018-02-02T11:20:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13736"},"modified":"2022-02-28T10:57:59","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T10:57:59","slug":"forse-non-sono-perfetto-ma-sono-fottutamente-incredibile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/forse-non-sono-perfetto-ma-sono-fottutamente-incredibile\/","title":{"rendered":"Forse non sono perfetto, ma sono fottutamente incredibile"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’ve been chasing perfection for so long, that I lost myself along the way. I listened when they said I laughed too loud, so I stopped laughing. I listened when they said that I had weird-looking teeth, so eventually, I stopped smiling. I listened when they said that my ears were too big, so I wore my hair down all the time. I listened when they said that I was too much, that I was not enough, that I was so not perfect, that I almost gave up on myself. But you know what? I finally realized that just because I\u2019m not perfect it doesn\u2019t mean that I\u2019m not fucking incredible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not a good dancer, but that doesn\u2019t mean that I\u2019ll stop dancing. Even if it looks like I\u2019m having a stroke, I\u2019m having a hell of a good time. I got 99 problems, but someone\u2019s opinion ain\u2019t one. Ho imparato a vivere la mia vita al massimo<\/a>perch\u00e9 vivere nella paura non \u00e8 affatto vivere.<\/strong> So what if a make fool out of myself? I had a good time. What if I trip and fall? At least we all had a good laugh. But how am I supposed to know if I\u2019m good at something, if I don\u2019t give it a try? Or at least, a couple of hundred of them.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not that much of a lady. I\u2019m the one who has superhero panties alongside Minions ones and black lingerie. I\u2019m the one who tried to seduce a boyfriend, but forgot that she was wearing socks with Nutella jars on them (they\u2019re awesome, by the way). I\u2019m the one who drinks beer and enjoys a really good hamburger. I\u2019m the one who is the only grown-up in the movies when they\u2019re showing cartoons. I\u2019m the one who falls more times on skates than not. But still, I\u2019m loving every single fail of mine, I\u2019m loving every silly thing I do, because it feels good.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not much of an adult, either. I eat ice cream straight out of the box and spend Saturday evening with stupid romcoms or Il Trono di Spade<\/a>. I\u2019m always late and hate to spend hours on dressing up. I have a dozen dresses in my wardrobe, but I\u2019m not wearing any of them, really. I forget my sister\u2019s birthday and I suck at picking out presents. But she still loves me, she still knows I care, even though I bought her socks for the last three years in a row.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not what people consider to be perfect. I\u2019m not curvy, I don\u2019t have doll eyes and big lips. I don\u2019t have long-ass legs and a tiny waist. But I\u2019m still me. I\u2019m still loving this loud laugh of mine, my funny body and big ears. Mi ci \u00e8 voluto troppo tempo per accettare chi sono, per sprecarlo confrontandomi con l'idea di perfezione. Cos\u00ec ho creato la mia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll always be this dorky, funny and childish woman I am now. I\u2019ll always be the one who lowers her walls first, and I\u2019ll always wear my heart on my sleeve. I\u2019ll always eat that ice cream straight out of the box and wait till the last minute to do the laundry. I\u2019ll always have crazy underwear, because is there anything fiercer than wearing Wonder Woman panties under a little black dress? I\u2019ll always laugh loudly and rock that ponytail with my big ears. So, does that mean that I can\u2019t enjoy life? Does that mean that I should be body shamed constantly? Does that mean that I\u2019m less worthy than the perfect ones? It sure as hell doesn\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, what I\u2019m trying to say is: You do you. Darling, there\u2019s no one strong enough to be in your shoes.<\/strong> There\u2019s nobody else out there who lived what you lived, there\u2019s no one out there who dreams the way you do and who loves as hard as you do. There\u2019s nobody out there who has the right to make you feel like you\u2019re not worthy, like you\u2019re not good enough<\/a>. Because you fucking are. You walked through your own hell, fought your own battles and look at you, you\u2019re still standing. You\u2019re fierce, gentle, amazing and perfect in your own way. There\u2019s only one you, so show the world what an amazing one that is.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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