{"id":137518,"date":"2021-10-31T20:39:41","date_gmt":"2021-10-31T20:39:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=137518"},"modified":"2021-10-31T20:39:41","modified_gmt":"2021-10-31T20:39:41","slug":"amicizia-a-distanza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amicizia-a-distanza\/","title":{"rendered":"10 consigli per salvare con successo la vostra amicizia a distanza"},"content":{"rendered":"

Avere un vero amicizia platonica<\/a> is something all of us desire. It’s not quite so easy to find, and we usually spend many years with falsi amici<\/a> who don’t really care about us.<\/p>\n

Now, imagine finally filling that void only to have it taken from you one day in an instant. That’s the problem with long distance friendships.<\/p>\n

Perhaps they’ve just finished high school and got a new job in another city, or they fell in love with a foreigner. The bottom line is you lost someone dear to you, and you’re not quite sure what to do.<\/b><\/p>\n

Come si mantiene un <\/i>amicizia a distanza<\/i>?<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c8 possibile farlo? Come?<\/i><\/p>\n

If you find yourself tormented by these questions, stay with me because we’re about to answer them!<\/p>\n

L'amicizia a distanza \u00e8 possibile?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

La risposta \u00e8 s\u00ec.<\/i><\/p>\n

Amicizie a distanza o relazioni a distanza<\/a> of any kind, can be really hard to bear, and even harder to maintain. You believe that as soon as they go away, that’s it. Nothing will ever be the way it was.<\/p>\n

However, it’s actually upon you to not let this happen. It’s not enough to wish for something. Dovete fare lo sforzo necessario perch\u00e9 la vostra amicizia funzioni.<\/b><\/p>\n

Text each other, make phone calls, or whatever else you think will help you maintain the friendship because truly, it’s not impossible.<\/p>\n

Come sopravvivere a un'amicizia a distanza?<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

As we’ve established, if you try hard enough, you will definitely succeed. Loving each other isn’t enough. Good friends show the love they feel in their actions.<\/p>\n

Ma di quali azioni si tratterebbe esattamente?<\/i><\/p>\n

Come si pu\u00f2 fare un <\/i>l'amicizia a distanza funziona<\/i>?<\/i><\/p>\n

Se cercate una risposta a queste domande, significa che ci tenete abbastanza da non permettere mai la separazione dalla vostra amica, nonostante la distanza. Visto che vi sentite cos\u00ec, ecco i trucchi che possono aiutarvi:<\/p>\n

1. Accettare le cose come sono<\/h3>\n

When our long distance friends leave us, it’s natural that we are so overwhelmed with grief that we can’t think straight. Allow yourself to feel your emotions for as long as you need. After all, you did just lose your best friend, didn’t you?<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, you shouldn’t let sadness prevent you from seeking out the best in the current situation<\/b>. Forse sono lontani, ma ci sono ancora molti modi per rimanere amici per sempre. Dopotutto, siamo nell'era dei social media.<\/p>\n

2. Assicuratevi di parlare regolarmente<\/h3>\n

There are so many apps nowadays that you can use to talk to your friend. It doesn’t matter if it’s WhatsApp or Viber, the bottom line is you can easily keep your friendship alive.<\/p>\n

Se si trovano troppo lontani, i diversi fusi orari possono essere d'intralcio. Per esempio, ho un'amica in Australia e quando mi sveglio lei \u00e8 gi\u00e0 andata a dormire.<\/p>\n

Still, we find time for each other. It has been more than four years, but we always know what’s going on in each other’s lives.<\/p>\n

Since it isn’t just me who lost her but rather two other friends, we found that a group chat was also the perfect way to keep each other posted about our lives.<\/p>\n

The point is, if you really make an effort, you won’t lose your friendship.<\/b><\/p>\n

3. Essere curiosi della loro vita<\/h3>\n

When we don’t see our friends for a very long time, we are tempted to share every little detail of our daily life. In our excitement to include them in our happiness, we often forget to ask them how they’re doing.<\/p>\n

I’m often guilty of this, too. Since my friend prefers to be the listener, she rarely talks about herself, and I make the mistake of not asking her.<\/p>\n

Ma, <\/b>un vero migliore amico<\/b><\/a> si rende conto che entrambe le parti sono ugualmente importanti.<\/b> Se sono inclini al silenzio, incuriositevi e accettate il ruolo di ascoltatori questa volta.<\/p>\n

4. Vedersi con la telecamera<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Since it’s impossible to see your friend face-to-face, try the best alternative \u2013 video chat.<\/p>\n

I don’t know if it has happened to you, too, but I sometimes forget what my friend even looks like. After all, so many years have passed. It’s not the same to receive a picture and see their facial expressions or movements during an actual conversation.<\/p>\n

Ringraziare per le meraviglie della tecnologia, e make sure you don’t forget their face even for a second<\/b>! There are so many applications to choose from \u2013 Facetime, Skype, Zoom, etc.<\/p>\n

If, on the other hand, you dislike making video calls, that’s perfectly valid. I, myself, belong to this group, so I understand you well.<\/p>\n

Se preferite altri modi di comunicare e pensate che siano sufficienti a preservare la vostra amicizia, allora fatelo.<\/p>\n

5. Fare cose insieme<\/h3>\n

Just because physical distance divides you doesn’t mean you still can’t do things together. In fact, for the sake of your friendship, you SHOULD try to make new experiences no matter how small.<\/p>\n

Se volete che la vostra amicizia torni ad essere quella di una volta, ecco alcuni suggerimenti che possono aiutarvi in questo senso:<\/p>\n

    \n
  1. Guarda i film.<\/li>\n
  2. Organizzare club del libro.<\/li>\n
  3. Play ‘Obbligo o verit\u00e0?<\/a>‘.<\/li>\n
  4. Gioco ‘Most likely to?<\/a>‘.<\/li>\n
  5. Avere un account fan condiviso.<\/li>\n
  6. Listen to each other’s favorite music.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    6. Se possibile, andate a trovarli<\/h3>\n

    If your friend hasn’t gone too far away, make sure that you visit them every now and then. There are so many luoghi da visitare<\/a> and so many things to do! Don’t let distance stop you. Go buy a bus ticket and spend a day together!<\/p>\n

    Texting can be extremely fun, but it still doesn’t beat face-to-face conversation.<\/p>\n

    Ho avuto la sfortuna di fare amicizia con persone provenienti da molte citt\u00e0 diverse. La maggior parte di loro \u00e8 andata via, ma comunque cerchiamo di incontrarci regolarmente per mantenere viva l'amicizia.<\/p>\n

    If it’s impossible for you to do it, that’s fine. In the end, distance can never harm you if you don’t let it.<\/p>\n

    7. Raggiungere per primi<\/h3>\n

    Sometimes, people truly are busy. Life gets in the way, and they rarely have time to properly communicate with anyone. Their obligations simply don’t allow them to.<\/p>\n

    However, this doesn’t mean that they no longer care about you. Abandon your pride, and text them first. Don’t always take into account who texted last. Se sentite il bisogno di parlare, fatelo. <\/b>Dite al vostro migliore amico quanto gli volete bene.<\/a><\/p>\n

    It’s true that both parties need to put in the effort, but there will always come a time when we have to be the person who tries more. While it’s important that your actions are reciprocated, do not hesitate to reach first. See where it goes from there.<\/p>\n

    On the other hand, if you\u2019re certain that it\u2019s a amicizia unilaterale<\/a>, it\u2019s okay to stop trying.<\/p>\n

    8. Inviate loro dei meme<\/h3>\n

    \"una<\/p>\n

    When someone’s far away, we tend to focus more on big events worth talking about. We barely realize the relevance of things such as jokes.<\/p>\n

    Se trovate un meme divertente, perch\u00e9 non condividerlo con un amico?<\/i><\/p>\n

    It’s so important that you <\/b>far ridere l'un l'altro<\/b><\/a>, whether it’s sending memes, recalling old inside jokes or creating new ones. Not only personal conversations can create a bond. Besides, memes can reveal a lot, can they not?<\/p>\n

    9. I periodi di silenzio sono normali<\/h3>\n

    It’s perfectly understandable if there comes a period when you don’t talk much, especially if you’re adults now. Your life may change drastically, or you wish for it to change, so you focus more on yourself.<\/p>\n

    Silence doesn’t necessarily suggest a lack of affection. Sometimes, you’re simply not up for a conversation.<\/b><\/p>\n

    Veri amici<\/a> don’t hold a grudge if you stay silent for a while. Follow this regola del codice della ragazza d'oro<\/a>, and when you’re ready, carry on where you left off. Time doesn’t change anything if there’s a true connection between two people.<\/p>\n

    10. Inviare loro dei regali<\/h3>\n

    Se il vostro <\/i>friend’s birthday<\/i> \u00e8 alle porte, perch\u00e9 non pensare a un regalo da inviare loro?<\/i><\/p>\n

    It doesn’t have to be anything spectacular or too expensive. What’s important is that you show them that you care.<\/p>\n

    Try to come up with something meaningful for both of you. If you’re having difficulties with that, you needn’t worry. There’s a whole variety of gift ideas to choose from which they will surely love.<\/p>\n

    P.S. If you\u2019re not even sure what to say to them, here\u2019s a list of 280 auguri e citazioni di compleanno pi\u00f9 toccanti e sentiti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

    I 5 migliori regali per l'amicizia a distanza che la vostra migliore amica adorer\u00e0<\/h2>\n

    \"la<\/p>\n

    Finding the perfect gift for your friend can sometimes be frustrating, but I (and Amazon) have got you covered. Below, you’ll find the most thoughtful gifts for your long-distance friend that will make your friendship all the more special:<\/p>\n

    1. Portachiavi dell'amicizia a distanza<\/a><\/h3>\n

    Do you want to let your friend know that you’ll always be there for them no matter what? Then, you’ll love this unique keychain that says “No matter what, no matter where. Always & Forever.”<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

    Una delle mie amiche ha ricevuto un portachiavi simile (solo in un colore diverso) dalla sua amica a distanza, e lo conserva ancora come dolce ricordo del loro profondo legame.<\/p>\n

    I must admit that I’m kind of jelly that no one gave me this keychain, but I truly hope that this will change in the near future.<\/p>\n

    Actually, I might give it to one of my friends, which means I’ll also have one because they come in a set of 2.<\/b> Che idea geniale, davvero!<\/p>\n

    I might as well do some DIY work because I’m not a fan of those artificial gift boxes. I prefer unique ones because they have more value (obviously)<\/p>\n

    2. Braccialetti di collegamento a distanza<\/a><\/h3>\n

    Immaginate di poter inviare un tocco al vostro amico tramite un braccialetto. Ebbene, questo \u00e8 possibile!<\/p>\n

    Quando inviate un tocco al vostro amico (toccando il vostro braccialetto), il suo braccialetto si illuminer\u00e0 del colore che avete scelto. Che bello essere vivi!<\/p>\n

    La cosa migliore \u00e8 che potete farlo indipendentemente da dove si trovi il vostro amico e in qualsiasi momento.<\/b> (However, don’t overdo it if you don’t want to annoy them).<\/p>\n

    Connection bracelets are also a great Valentine’s Day gift for relazione a distanza<\/a> coppie.<\/p>\n

    3. Cornice per l'amicizia a distanza<\/a><\/h3>\n

    “Together forever, never apart. Maybe in distance, but never in heart.”<\/i><\/p>\n

    If you like the previous sentence, then you’ll fall in love with this heartwarming picture frame.<\/p>\n

    Questa cornice in legno, realizzata a mano, pu\u00f2 contenere 2 fotografie, quindi assicuratevi di scegliere quelle pi\u00f9 adatte a voi e alla vostra famiglia. <\/b>amica<\/b>.<\/b> La parte pi\u00f9 carina di tutte \u00e8 un cuore fatto di lana tirato attraverso dei chiodi sotto la scritta.<\/p>\n

    The heart and wooden material add a vintage touch to the picture frame, and that’s why it totally rocks! And, yes, that’s why it is the perfect birthday gift as well.<\/p>\n

    4. Confezione da 2 bicchieri tumbler Best Friends<\/a><\/h3>\n

    Realizzate in acciaio inossidabile (proprio come la vostra amicizia a distanza), queste simpatiche tazze tumbler sono dotate di cannucce, due spazzole per pulire le cannucce e una fantastica scritta:<\/p>\n

    “<\/i><\/b>Buoni amici<\/i><\/b> are like stars. You don’t always see them, but they are always there.”<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

    I’m sure this is enough to make your friend cry tears of joy. If it isn’t, then you can always give them an onion care package. Just kidding, of course!<\/p>\n

    I remember when my brother gave a similar tumbler cup to our mother on Mother’s Day. She has never been happier in her life because these cups are elegant, and they are made of quality material (which is her main criteria when it comes to everything).<\/p>\n

    So, I’m sure your friend will also fall in love with this special gift.<\/p>\n

    5. Lampade a contatto per l'amicizia a distanza<\/a><\/h3>\n

    Ricordate i braccialetti per le connessioni a distanza di cui abbiamo parlato sopra? Ebbene, queste lampade tattili funzionano secondo lo stesso principio.<\/p>\n

    With a simple touch of your lamp, you can brighten your friend’s day because all lamps will radiate the same shade of your choice.<\/b> Whenever you touch your lamp, you will let them know that you’re thinking of them, and vice-versa.<\/p>\n

    If you ask me, this is one of the most brilliant inventions since sliced bread because it’s thoughtful, stylish, and heartwarming… just like your long-distance friendship!<\/p>\n

    40 migliori citazioni sull'amicizia a distanza<\/h2>\n

    \"due<\/p>\n

    Sometimes, despite our efforts, we simply can’t properly express how we feel. Words fail us, and we end up ruining the greatness of our feelings with silly declarations, or else we don’t say anything at all.<\/p>\n

    Have you ever wanted to tell your friend how much you love them, but weren’t sure how?<\/i><\/p>\n

    Avete difficolt\u00e0 a esprimere quanto vorreste che fossero qui?<\/i><\/p>\n

    Se \u00e8 cos\u00ec, continuate a leggere per scoprire una grande quantit\u00e0 di citazioni sull'amicizia<\/a> che pu\u00f2 aiutarvi ogni volta che vi mancano le parole.<\/p>\n

    Citazioni sentite sull'amicizia a distanza<\/h3>\n

    1. \u201cWhenever I start feeling sad because <\/b>Mi manchi<\/b>, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss.\u201d <\/b>\u2013<\/b> Henri Nouwen<\/b><\/p>\n

    2. \u201cHow lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.\u201d \u2013 A.A. Milne<\/p>\n

    3. To know someone here or there with whom you can feel there is understanding in spite of distances or thoughts unexpressed \u2013 that can make of this earth a garden. \u2013 Johann Wolfgang von Goethe<\/p>\n

    4. \u201cIn French, you don\u2019t really say \u201c<\/b>Mi manchi<\/b>\u201d… you say \u201cTu me manques\u201d, which means \u201cYou are missing from me.\u201d <\/b>\u2013<\/b> Sconosciuto<\/b><\/p>\n

    5. \u201cWe all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere.\u201d \u2013 Tim McGraw<\/p>\n

    6. \u201cWhen twilight drops her curtain down and pins it with a star, remember that you have a friend though she may wander far.\u201d \u2013 L.M. Montgomery<\/p>\n

    7. \u201cThough we drifted apart in distance I still think of you as being right here. And, although we have many <\/b>nuovi amici<\/b>, it is our friendship that means the most to me.\u201d <\/b>\u2013 <\/b>Sconosciuto<\/b><\/p>\n

    8. \u201cNo matter how far you manage to go, distance will never be able to erase those beautiful memories. There is so much goodness that we shared together.\u201d \u2013 Lucy Aims<\/p>\n

    Citazioni ispirate all'amicizia a distanza<\/h3>\n

    1. \u201cSo what if the distance is too long? What matters is that we have the courage of love to cover any distance which dares to separate us.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

    2. \u201cThere is magic in <\/b>amicizie a distanza<\/b>. They let you relate to other human beings in a way that goes beyond being physically together, and is often more profound.\u201d <\/b>\u2013<\/b> Diana Cortes<\/b><\/p>\n

    3. \u201cA friend who is far away is sometimes much nearer than one who is at hand. Is not the mountain far more awe-inspiring and more clearly visible to one passing through the valley than to those who inhabit the mountain\u201d \u2013 Kahlil Gibran<\/p>\n

    4. \u201cTrue friendship is when two friends can walk in opposite directions, yet remain side by side.\u201d \u2013 Josh Grayson<\/p>\n

    5. Don\u2019t be dismayed at good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends. \u2013 Richard Bach<\/b><\/p>\n

    6. Absence is to love as wind is to fire: it extinguishes the little flame, it fans the big. \u2013 Umberto Eco<\/p>\n

    7. Distance sometimes endears friendship, and absence sweeteneth it. \u2013 James Howell<\/p>\n

    8. \u201cNo distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other\u2019s worth.\u201d \u2013 Robert Southey<\/p>\n

    Citazioni tristi sull'amicizia a distanza<\/h3>\n

    \"due<\/p>\n

    1. \u201cYour absence has gone through me like thread through a needle; everything I do is stitched with its color.\u201d <\/b>\u2013<\/b> W.S. Merwin<\/b><\/p>\n

    2. \u201cBut nothing makes a room feel emptier than wanting someone in it.\u201d \u2013 Calla Quinn<\/p>\n

    3. \u201cNothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes.\u201d \u2013 Henry David Thoreau<\/p>\n

    4. \u201cI think I’ll miss you forever, like the stars miss the sun in the morning sky.\u201d\u2013 Lana Del Rey<\/p>\n

    5. Odd how much it hurts when a friend moves away \u2013 and leaves behind only silence. <\/b>\u2013 <\/b>Pam Brown<\/b><\/p>\n

    6. You will never be completely at home again because part of your heart will always be elsewhere. That\u2019s the price you pay for the richness of loving and knowing people in more than one place. \u2013 Miriam Adeney<\/p>\n

    7. The scariest thing about distance is that you don’t know whether they’ll miss you or forget you. \u2013 Nicholas Sparks<\/p>\n

    8. \u201cYou can never love people as much as you miss them.\u201d \u2013 John Green<\/p>\n

    Didascalie di Instagram sull'amicizia a distanza<\/h3>\n

    1. \u201cThe distance cannot matter \u2013 Ours is a friendship of the heart.\u201d – Mary Anne Radmacher<\/b><\/p>\n

    2. \u201cIf the days won\u2019t allow us to see each other, memories will, and if my eyes can\u2019t see you, my heart will never forget you.\u201d \u2013 Wale Olabode<\/p>\n

    3. \u201cIf you think missing me is hard, you should try missing you.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

    4. “I wish I could teleport to you.”\u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n

    5. Ci separiamo solo per incontrarci di nuovo. <\/b>\u2013<\/b> Michael Scott<\/b><\/p>\n

    6. \u201cPoets use countless words to describe their pain, but I only need three: I miss you.\u201d \u2013 Caroline George<\/p>\n

    7. \u201cI carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart).\u201d \u2013 E. E. Cummings<\/p>\n

    8. \u201cI exist in two places, here and where you are.” \u2013 Margaret Atwood<\/p>\n

    Alla fine<\/h2>\n

    Sopravvivere a un'amicizia a distanza pu\u00f2 essere difficile, ma sicuramente non impossibile. L'unica cosa veramente importante \u00e8 che vi amiate abbastanza da far funzionare le cose.<\/b><\/p>\n

    There are so many ways to stay in touch these days. It really doesn’t have to end if you put in the effort.<\/p>\n

    Chiacchierate con i vostri amici, vedeteli in video e fate nuove esperienze. Ricordatevi di loro nel giorno del loro compleanno.<\/p>\n

    Your gifts don’t have to be all that spectacular, but it’s always the thought that counts. It really doesn’t have to end. Value your friendship enough not to give up on it.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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