{"id":13783,"date":"2020-05-05T08:13:25","date_gmt":"2020-05-05T08:13:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13783"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:36:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:36:50","slug":"10-modi-per-raccontare-laccordo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-modi-per-raccontare-laccordo\/","title":{"rendered":"10 modi per capire che ti sta solo prendendo in giro (e come affrontarlo)"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Di solito siete voi a mandare per primi i messaggi.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Risponde sempre, ma non scrive quasi mai per primo. Gli piace che lei si sforzi, ma non \u00e8 disposto a fare lo stesso.<\/p>\n

The fact that you are always texting first tells him that you are very much into him. His ego is just growing and growing but that\u2019s leading you nowhere.<\/p>\n

The best thing you can do is to ignore him to get his attention. Don\u2019t allow yourself to be the only one trying.<\/p>\n

Efforts and investments must be mutual. Even when it\u2019s something as simple as texting. But let\u2019s be honest\u2014texting can tell you a lot.<\/p>\n

2. He refuses to put a label on your relationship because \u201cHe\u2019s not into labels\u201d.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Come on. Really??? This \u201cI\u2019m not into labels expression is as old as Greece and he still has the nerve to use it?<\/p>\n

A prescindere da quanto vi piaccia o se abbiate gi\u00e0 sviluppato dei sentimenti per lui, dovete ammettere che ne ha ben donde. Vi sta dicendo apertamente che \u00e8 l\u00ec per qualcosa di breve durata e casuale.<\/p>\n

Make sure you want the same things. Because it\u2019s highly unlikely that he will change his opinion.<\/p>\n

Soprattutto se sei presente a prescindere dalle etichette. Perch\u00e9 fare uno sforzo quando lui ha gi\u00e0 tutto quello che vuole da te?<\/p>\n

3. Trascorre del tempo con voi solo quando lo ritiene opportuno.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\u201cWe\u2019ll see.\u201d and \u201cI\u2019ll get back to you on that.\u201d are his favorite two sentences. If he is constantly dogging straightforward answers, he is just biding his time until he sees if he has something better to do.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a clear sign that he is keeping you on the bench.<\/p>\n

Next time he asks to see you, write: \u201cOh. I\u2019m not sure if I can make it. I\u2019ll get back to you on that.\u201d Play the game right and show him who the coach is.<\/p>\n

Non andrete da nessuna parte con lui se vi buttate su ogni sua chiamata e abbandonate tutto solo per poter passare del tempo con lui.<\/p>\n

Keep yourself busy and he will adjust his time to fit your schedule. If not, his loss. But at least you won\u2019t be strung along anymore.<\/p>\n

4. Sei solo un'esca.<\/span><\/h2>\n

98% of the time you spend together ends in sex. He is not too interested in texting if it\u2019s not flirting.<\/p>\n

Evita di vedervi quando avete le mestruazioni. Questi sono tutti indicatori del fatto che lui \u00e8 interessato a una e una sola cosa.<\/p>\n

If you are not down for that, tell him and leave. Sleeping with him won\u2019t change him or make him want a relationship with you. It will only procrastinate the situation or leave things where they are at now.<\/p>\n

This situation might suit you for a while but if you have feelings for him, you won\u2019t be happy with just sex.<\/p>\n

5. Ha una situazione irrisolta con la sua ex.<\/span><\/h2>\n

La sua ex fa ancora parte della vostra vita. O lei lo ha rovinato completamente o lui \u00e8 ancora in costante contatto con lei.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s che influenzano la vostra relazione<\/a> in a negative way and it\u2019s making you question everything.<\/p>\n

I am sorry but if this is happening to you\u2014you are probably his rebound girlfriend. He likes the time he spends with you.<\/p>\n

He wants you around but with this ex-situation, he is keeping you at arm\u2019s length and not allowing you to come closer and make your relationship stronger.<\/p>\n

Talk openly about it with him and see if there\u2019s any solution and how he really feels about you.<\/p>\n

6. Si allontana al minimo accenno di impegno.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Evita l'argomento dell'impegno e si butta subito su qualcos'altro appena pu\u00f2. Probabilmente \u00e8 un fobico degli impegni<\/a>. That\u2019s something that can be temporary but it also can be terminal.<\/p>\n

If you think it\u2019s temporary, avoid mentioning the topic. Give him time to get there all by himself. If it\u2019s terminal, you have probably already given him more than enough time.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 evidente che non siete sulla stessa lunghezza d'onda per quanto riguarda la direzione della vostra relazione. Quindi, la cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 non perdere altro tempo.<\/p>\n

7. Vi sta chiedendo tempo per mettere insieme la sua vita.<\/span><\/h2>\n

La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che lui fa tutte queste promesse e vuole solo tempo. Voi siete tutte solidali e continuate ad aspettare il giorno in cui lui metter\u00e0 la testa a posto, ma la triste verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non lo far\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

Potrebbe avere una vita incasinata e problemi che pensa possano far andare male una relazione. Ma nella maggior parte dei casi, questa \u00e8 solo una buona scusa per farvi aspettare.<\/p>\n

Se vedete che non fa alcuno sforzo per cambiare la sua situazione e non fa alcun progresso, \u00e8 probabile che non lo far\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

8. He wants out but he doesn\u2019t want to hurt your feelings.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Il modo migliore per accorgersi di questa situazione \u00e8 quando lui cambia drasticamente. Inventa scuse ed \u00e8 sempre occupato per vedervi.<\/p>\n

Non vi manda pi\u00f9 messaggi come prima. Sparisce e passano giorni senza alcun contatto. E tutto ci\u00f2 che ti offre quando torna sono delle scuse banali.<\/p>\n

He might be lacking the strength to tell you that he doesn\u2019t feel the same anymore. He doesn\u2019t want to hurt you but he is doing it anyway.<\/p>\n

Be open and honest with him and tell him that this situation is making you sad. See if there is any point in staying and working things out. Don\u2019t let the situation go any further.<\/p>\n

9. Promette di cambiare, ma non lo fa mai.<\/span><\/h2>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to lose you, so he makes all these promises about how he will treat you better, how he will change his behavior, how he will put more effort into your relationship and try to be a better man.<\/p>\n

Ma questa storia l'avete sentita una volta di troppo e non cambia nulla<\/a>. La triste verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che nulla lo far\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

He has had enough chances. Don\u2019t stay in a bad situation in the hope things will change.<\/p>\n

10. Siete gli unici a investire.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Lei \u00e8 l'unica che sta dando il suo cuore e la sua anima alla relazione. State facendo del vostro meglio, ma tutti i vostri sforzi sono vani.<\/p>\n

Passano inosservati. E l'altra persona \u00e8 abituata a prendere le cose senza dare nulla in cambio.<\/p>\n

Le relazioni unilaterali non funzionano mai. Smettete di dare il meglio di voi stessi alla persona sbagliata. Amate voi stessi abbastanza da allontanarvi quando le cose non vi rendono felici e amati.<\/p>\n

When you are underappreciated and poorly treated. You deserve the world\u2014don\u2019t settle for anything less.<\/p>\n

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