{"id":13838,"date":"2018-12-05T11:44:09","date_gmt":"2018-12-05T11:44:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13838"},"modified":"2024-10-28T01:52:35","modified_gmt":"2024-10-27T23:52:35","slug":"nel-2019-vi-auguro-di-imparare-a-lasciar-andare-tutto-cio-che-vi-sta-distruggendo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/nel-2019-vi-auguro-di-imparare-a-lasciar-andare-tutto-cio-che-vi-sta-distruggendo\/","title":{"rendered":"Nel 2025, spero che impariate a lasciar andare tutto ci\u00f2 che vi distrugge."},"content":{"rendered":"

Anche se siamo distanti chilometri, voglio che tu sappia che so come sei. Sei il tipo di ragazza che si affeziona facilmente.<\/strong> Si danno sempre tante possibilit\u00e0 alle persone e si pensa che col tempo capiranno quanto si \u00e8 straordinari. Ma non succede mai davvero, giusto?<\/p>\n

So anche che ti preoccupi pi\u00f9 degli altri che di te stesso e che ti fa male vedere che intorno a te accadono cose brutte. So tutte queste cose perch\u00e9 sono come te.<\/p>\n

Date il vostro amore in modo disinteressato a tutti, pensando che lo ricambieranno allo stesso modo, solo perch\u00e9 avete un tale cuore grande<\/a>. Ma tesoro, devi sapere che le ragazze come te e me sono cos\u00ec rare al giorno d'oggi.<\/strong> We are like diamonds in the rough and no matter how much we try to put ourselves first, we somehow don\u2019t succeed at that every time.<\/p>\n

But before you get your heart broken again by a guy who doesn\u2019t deserve you or a friend who will betray you, know this: \u201cI hope that in 2025, you learn to let go of everything that is breaking you!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

I hope that you will see how amazing you are and that you will let go of all those toxic people around you. They don\u2019t deserve your time nor your love. They don\u2019t deserve for you to take care of them because they will never be able to truly understand you.<\/p>\n

After you let go of them, please do the same with guys who don\u2019t deserve you. Don\u2019t be with someone and think that they will change over time.<\/strong> Il dura verit\u00e0<\/a> is that they would have changed by now if they already felt something strong for you. Don\u2019t let them break your heart and leave you wondering if you could have done something better. Because you couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

It was all their fault. They were guilty of making mistakes and blowing every chance they had with you. So leave them now and don\u2019t risk getting a broken heart again.<\/p>\n

Una volta finito con loro, pensate solo a voi stessi e alle cose che vi preoccupano. You know that feeling of guilt, that you haven\u2019t done something right?<\/strong> Just let it go. It is the past, so leave it where it belongs. Start\u00a0the New Year totally fresh and get rid of the things that bothered you for such a long time.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t get anywhere if you keep worrying about things that you can\u2019t affect. Live in peace and don\u2019t think about your mistakes; that is the only way you can find your happiness.<\/p>\n

When you feel that you have made it, I want you to let go of some other things. Let go of negativity because it will bring you down to its own vicious circle and will play with your thoughts in a way you can\u2019t imagine.<\/p>\n

Get rid of the fear of what the future might bring because you think that you haven\u2019t done anything to deserve a bright future. Remember that you fought for yourself as hard as you could and don\u2019t let anyone convince you of the opposite.<\/p>\n

In 2025, I want you to stop putting others first, not because you don\u2019t want to but because they don\u2019t deserve you.<\/strong> Hanno avuto molte occasioni con te, ma in qualche modo finivi sempre per essere quello che sceglieva la pagliuzza pi\u00f9 corta.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t compare yourself to others because you don\u2019t know what lies behind their fake smile. Maybe all of them have a worse life than you but you don\u2019t see that because they know how to lie better.<\/p>\n

Stop taking things personally because sometimes you just bother your head with some stuff that wasn\u2019t even directed at you. Ricordate che tutte le persone cercheranno di farvi del male in qualche momento della vostra vita, ma siete voi a scegliere chi \u00e8 degno delle vostre lacrime.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Per favore, lasciate andare<\/a> of saying \u2018yes\u2019 to everyone just because you feel sorry for them. Tell me, when was the last time someone felt sorry for you? Bear in mind that people will use you as much as you let them, so don\u2019t think that you will hurt their feelings if you say \u2018no\u2019 from time to time. It is for your own sake.<\/p>\n

In the end, let go of your past because that can\u2019t define you. It is true that you might have done some things that were not right in your past but you can\u2019t think about them all the time. Leave the past where it belongs and look in the eyes of your future because that is where you have to go.<\/p>\n

Assicuratevi di essere felici della vostra vita e delle vostre decisioni, perch\u00e9 l'unica persona che deve giustificarsi siete VOI!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n

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