{"id":13861,"date":"2020-09-05T14:32:25","date_gmt":"2020-09-05T14:32:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13861"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:34:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:34:20","slug":"ha-dato-possibilita-meritate-ora-ho-finito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ha-dato-possibilita-meritate-ora-ho-finito\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti ho dato pi\u00f9 possibilit\u00e0 di quante ne meritassi, ma ora ho finito"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sono stato stupido? Cieco? O semplicemente innamorato?<\/p>\n<p>This is what I&#8217;m trying so hard to figure out, but my heart and my mind are confused about all the nagging thoughts telling me that I should&#8217;ve let go a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Prima che tutto cominciasse, ho visto una persona pronta ad accompagnarmi nella buona e nella cattiva sorte.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eri una persona che ritenevo il miglior partner nel crimine che potessi avere, un vero amico, ma anche l'amore della mia vita.<\/p>\n<p>Mi hai sempre fatto sentire cos\u00ec speciale e pensavo che stare con te non fosse altro che una benedizione. Ho scoperto che mi sbagliavo e che non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 nulla a cui possa aggrapparmi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mi dispiace interrompervi in questo modo, ma <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/stephanie-denning\/2016\/10\/he-doesnt-deserve-anymore-chances-so-stop-giving-them-to-him\/\" rel=\"noopener\">I&#8217;m done with giving you chances<\/a> and I&#8217;m done with waiting for you to change.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I won&#8217;t sit around and watch you take advantage of my love for you.<\/strong> No matter how much I&#8217;ve loved you all this time, I&#8217;ve decided that there is nothing more you can do for me to stay by your side.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110303\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been trying to understand you and your actions, but I ended up just making excuses for your awful behavior.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non ci sei mai stato per me.<\/strong> Eri sdraiato in grembo a un'altra donna quando io rimanevo sveglia ad aspettarti per tutta la notte.<\/p>\n<p>You would cry every time I told you that I couldn&#8217;t handle it anymore and I then would forgive you for the sake of my breaking heart.<\/p>\n<p>Cercavo di darmi la speranza che tu avresti trovato un modo per cambiare, cos\u00ec sarei rimasta ad aspettare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ma non ho fatto altro che aspettare e non ho mai visto risultati. Aspettavo con tanta pazienza, perch\u00e9 credevo nella sua capacit\u00e0 di cambiare e nella mia capacit\u00e0 di perdonare.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ma <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/oshin-ahlawat\/2017\/02\/these-are-what-your-unfulfilled-promises-feel-like\/\" rel=\"noopener\">promesse vuote<\/a> and words that don&#8217;t have any meaning were the end of us.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110304\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-apart.jpg\" alt=\"coppia infelice seduta sul divano e separata\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-apart.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-apart-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-apart-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-apart-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-apart-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-apart-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-apart-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-apart-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non c'era nient'altro che potessimo fare per aiutarci a ricostruire ci\u00f2 che avevamo distrutto. O meglio, VOI avete distrutto.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hai distrutto tutto quello che avevamo e ho smesso di cercare di rimediare.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>From the beginning of the relationship, I gave you too many chances to change what you\u2019d done wrong, but you only changed for the worse.<\/p>\n<p>Coming home drunk and holding the bras of unknown women were the highlights of our dysfunctional relationship. So I&#8217;m giving up.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m done, I&#8217;m giving up. There is no way in hell I&#8217;m going to suffer because of you.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not going to stand around and watch you take advantage of me and my kind, loving heart. Sorry, but I&#8217;m not sorry.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110305\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-her-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta nei suoi pensieri\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-her-thoughts.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-her-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-her-thoughts-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-her-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-her-thoughts-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-her-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-her-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-her-thoughts-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not able to endure this for any longer. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/non-e-mai-stato-necessario-andarsene\/\">So I&#8217;m leaving<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m leaving and I really do hope you find a way to love someone truly and unconditionally, just the way I loved you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Ti auguro di trovare una donna che ti dimostri che tradire \u00e8 la cosa peggiore che tu possa fare.<\/p>\n<p>That woman will be the end to all your little adventures and she will show you what loving really is, because I don&#8217;t have the power to fight for that anymore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>For the last time, I&#8217;m telling you goodbye. I&#8217;m done giving you chances. I&#8217;m finally free.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110302\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/I-Gave-You-More-Chances-Than-You-Deserve-But-Now-Im-Done-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ti ho dato pi\u00f9 possibilit\u00e0 di quante ne meritassi, ma ora ho finito\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/I-Gave-You-More-Chances-Than-You-Deserve-But-Now-Im-Done-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/I-Gave-You-More-Chances-Than-You-Deserve-But-Now-Im-Done-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/I-Gave-You-More-Chances-Than-You-Deserve-But-Now-Im-Done-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/I-Gave-You-More-Chances-Than-You-Deserve-But-Now-Im-Done-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Was I stupid? Blind? Or simply in love? This is what I&#8217;m trying so hard to figure out, but my heart and my mind are confused about all the nagging thoughts telling me that I should&#8217;ve let go a long time ago. Before it all started, I saw someone ready to go with me through&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":110306,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13861","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/I-Gave-You-More-Chances-Than-You-Deserve-But-Now-Im-Done-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13861","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13861"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13861\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110306"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13861"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13861"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13861"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}