{"id":13870,"date":"2018-02-05T14:48:53","date_gmt":"2018-02-05T14:48:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13870"},"modified":"2022-02-22T12:00:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T12:00:44","slug":"5-motivi-per-cui-anche-le-donne-forti-chiudono-le-relazioni-difficili","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-anche-le-donne-forti-chiudono-le-relazioni-difficili\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui anche le donne pi\u00f9 forti finiscono in relazioni difficili"},"content":{"rendered":"

Essere forti non \u00e8 cos\u00ec facile come sembra. Le donne forti tendono a dimenticare che possono anche essere vulnerabili, e per questo sono solite dare troppo a persone che non sono disposte o incapaci di ricambiare.<\/p>\n

Una donna forte \u00e8 indipendente, sicura di s\u00e9, emotivamente intelligente e consapevole di s\u00e9 e sa di avere molto da offrire. Ma non per questo \u00e8 meno umana. Pu\u00f2 facilmente farsi accecare dall'amore, per cui le persone a cui tiene spesso si approfittano della sua natura forte ma gentile.<\/p>\n

Ci sono alcuni motivi per cui a volte anche donne forti<\/a> finiscono in relazioni difficili e dolorose, nonostante la loro tempra, o meglio, proprio a causa di essa:<\/p>\n

1. Being a strong woman doesn’t mean that you are shielded from all the toxic and narcissistic people.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

It means that they are even more overpowering to you. Toxic people need others who have emotional intelligence, confidence, toughness, and inner strength, so that they can drain them. They rely on a person\u2019s compassionate heart that will always help and be there for them. Tossico e narcisista<\/a> gli uomini hanno tutto da guadagnare dalle donne forti, ma non hanno nulla da offrire.<\/p>\n

2. I traumi del passato possono riemergere durante la relazione.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

They were born strong and life made them stronger. Strong women usually go through a lot of difficulties and hardship in life. They are so good at being on their own and entering a relationship can turn their world upside down. Psychologists even indicate that they might have been through a substantial trauma and they often come across partners who trigger that trauma. In a way, that’s their way of confronting their past.<\/p>\n

3. Sono abituati ad essere quelli che danno di pi\u00f9 e non ricevono quasi nulla.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

They are used to giving until they have nothing left, which is why they attract needy people\u2014the ones who have no problem taking all the love, understanding and support without giving anything in return. This happens because they are used to being independent, they are used to taking care of themselves, so they don’t see the lack of reciprocity until they are emotionally drained.<\/p>\n

4. Pensano di poter influenzare o cambiare una persona che amano.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Essi rimanere in relazioni sbagliate<\/a> longer than necessary because they feel like they have the power to change somebody. Their compassionate nature makes them think that they need to stick with any difficulty they may encounter in order to help the person they care about. They can waste a lot of time until they realize that they can’t change anybody or influence somebody who doesn’t want change in their life.<\/p>\n

5. Scelgono inconsciamente relazioni pi\u00f9 impegnative e difficili.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Whether they realize it or not, they tend to find \u2018normal\u2019 relationships boring. They like a challenge, a sort of project of fixing somebody or fixing a relationship they are in. They fail to realize that not everybody wants their help and there are people out there who are toxic by nature and there is no fixing them. The bad thing for strong women here is that they are so focused on the other person that they lose sight of themselves. They put all the effort in and end up being in a one-sided relationship.<\/p>\n

Per superare le relazioni difficili, queste donne forti devono smetterla di fare sempre la figura delle dure e si permettono di essere vulnerabili<\/a>. Sadness and hardship are inevitable parts of anyone’s life and that’s something that they need to accept. They are prone to building up walls after a bad experience and while that might help in the short-term, it pushes the good people (who are worthy of a strong woman’s attention) away from them in the long-term.
\nThey have to stop thinking that the weight of the world is on their shoulders and that they have a duty to fix everything. They aren’t the ones who have to put up with everything all the time just because they can handle it. They can’t be the ones giving more all the time. They need a partner who will help them in finding a balance between being strong and leaning on somebody else at times.<\/p>\n

The upside of all the difficulties they endure is that those wrong relationships they go through only make them stronger. They know what not to do in their next relationships. Experience teaches them that by choosing the same man again and again, they can’t expect a different outcome. They help them discover themselves, renew their strength and get out of a bad experience with the most valuable lesson of self-love.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Being strong is not as easy as it sounds. Strong women tend to forget that they can also be vulnerable, which is why they are used to giving too much to people who are unwilling or unable to give anything back. A strong woman is independent, confident, emotionally intelligent and self-aware and she knows that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":13873,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13870","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/amadeo-muslimovic-545385.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13870","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13870"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13870\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13873"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13870"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13870"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13870"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}