{"id":13885,"date":"2020-08-06T08:58:44","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T08:58:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13885"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:53:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:53:26","slug":"ok-voglio-adorare-meritare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ok-voglio-adorare-meritare\/","title":{"rendered":"Non c'\u00e8 niente di male se volete essere adorati, ve lo meritate"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cresciamo pensando che voler essere adorati sia qualcosa di molto egoistico. <\/strong><\/p>\n

We are being taught that it’s wrong to think of ourselves as someone who is wonderful enough to be loved and appreciated to the point where someone actually puts in effort to keeping us around.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There is this misconception that if we want to be loved we need to be humble and act like we don’t know our own worth, so that we don’t scare off someone we’re interested in.<\/p>\n

Ma perch\u00e9 \u00e8 cos\u00ec?<\/p>\n

People get offended the moment you tell them that you know how good you are at what you’re doing or if you tell someone that you are a true catch. It’s like we automatically lower their worth, when in fact it’s nothing like that.<\/p>\n

Se volete essere adorati, non c'\u00e8 nulla di male. Volete sapere perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 ve lo meritate.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You deserve to be treated with the utmost respect someone can give you and you should be someone’s priority.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You aren’t looking for something impossible, but rather something every single woman on this planet should have in a relazione amorevole e premurosa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Meritate di essere chiamati dal vostro partner ogni mattina, solo per augurarvi una buona giornata.<\/p>\n

If you’ve been mad at your partner and he comes knocking on your door to ask for your forgiveness, don’t feel bad because he did; he\u2019s just making up for what he did wrong.<\/p>\n

Vi meritate ogni minimo affetto che qualcuno possa dimostrarvi, perch\u00e9 anche voi vi date da fare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fate tutto il possibile per rendere felice il vostro partner e meritate di essere trattati allo stesso modo.<\/p>\n

You love your partner to the point where you would do anything for him to be happy, so wanting the same in return isn’t selfish.<\/p>\n

Io, come ogni altra donna, voglio essere adorata.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Throughout the years, I’ve always considered myself not good enough for that because those women who are adored are these wonderful fairy-like creatures.<\/p>\n

They are so beautiful that my low self-esteem didn’t let me see my own beauty, which led to me doing unbelievable stuff to please my partner and to make him feel loved and adored, when he wouldn’t do anything for me.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

If you’re giving yourself away this much, you really do need to see your own value to get the same amount of affection, love and attention in return.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ma cosa fare if you’re not adored by the man<\/a> che significa cos\u00ec tanto per voi? Lasciatelo andare.<\/strong> Vi meritate di meglio.<\/p>\n

You deserve all the best things in this world of ours and if he can’t provide you with them, then it’s not your fault.<\/p>\n

He simply can’t see what a catch you actually are and that is what makes him not worthy of your time and energy.<\/p>\n

Don’t just sit around waiting for it to change.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lei \u00e8 una donna forte e meravigliosa, il che significa che pu\u00f2 amare se stessa a sufficienza, finch\u00e9 non arriva qualcuno e si sente di nuovo abbastanza sicura.<\/p>\n

Lasciate che vi rendiate conto di queste cose e sappiate che siete tutto ci\u00f2 di cui qualcuno pu\u00f2 avere bisogno e desiderare, senza alcun dubbio sulla vostra capacit\u00e0 di crescere ogni giorno e di diventare qualcuno a cui gli uomini correranno dietro, perch\u00e9 siete gi\u00e0 tutto ci\u00f2 che volete essere e gli uomini vi adoreranno, nel momento in cui deciderete di adorare voi stesse.<\/p>\n

\"Non<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We grow up thinking that wanting to be adored is something very selfish. We are being taught that it’s wrong to think of ourselves as someone who is wonderful enough to be loved and appreciated to the point where someone actually puts in effort to keeping us around. There is this misconception that if we…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":118519,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13885","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Its-OK-If-You-Want-To-Be-Adored-You-Deserve-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13885","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13885"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13885\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118519"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13885"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13885"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13885"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}