{"id":13889,"date":"2020-03-06T09:37:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-06T09:37:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13889"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:52:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:52:20","slug":"5-giochi-mentali-che-gli-uomini-emotivamente-insicuri-fanno-alle-donne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-giochi-mentali-che-gli-uomini-emotivamente-insicuri-fanno-alle-donne\/","title":{"rendered":"5 giochi mentali che gli uomini emotivamente insicuri fanno con le donne"},"content":{"rendered":"

Gli uomini insicuri sono i pi\u00f9 pericolosi perch\u00e9 cercano di nascondere la loro insicurezza attraverso la manipolazione.<\/p>\n

They are frustrated because they don\u2019t believe in themselves, so they seek their emotional strength through hurting you.<\/p>\n

Quando hanno il controllo su di voi, danno un senso alla loro vita e pensano di avere il controllo su qualcosa, o in questo caso su di voi, il che li fa sentire importanti.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

At first, you can\u2019t see through their insecurities because they hide them so well and you fall into their trap. When he starts showing his true face, you don\u2019t get it either, not at first.<\/p>\n

Sapete che ha qualche problema e potreste anche pensare che sia un po' perso e che abbia bisogno di una direzione.<\/p>\n

You think you can change him and show him the right way, but you don\u2019t, you can\u2019t. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Non cambier\u00e0 mai finch\u00e9 sar\u00e0 infelice con se stesso e l'unica persona che pu\u00f2 cambiarlo \u00e8 lui e non voi.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

So, you end up hurt, crying yourself to sleep because you decided to give him a chance and he took it and manipulated you into oblivion. He made you act the way he wanted and you didn\u2019t even realize it.<\/p>\n

Sei stato preso in giro come uno stupido da un maestro manipolatore<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Per evitare che questo accada di nuovo, per risparmiarvi dolore e lacrime sprecate, leggete queste manipolazioni che gli uomini emotivamente insicuri infliggono per colpevolizzarvi e farvi rimanere con loro:<\/p>\n

Vi incolpano<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Vi incolpa perch\u00e9 manca di autostima, quindi fa in modo che si tratti di voi e vi incolpa solo per distogliere l'attenzione da se stesso.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to face his own mistakes, so he tricks you into facing your own.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 un classico tipo di abuso emotivo, perch\u00e9 le parole fanno male e a volte fanno ancora pi\u00f9 male degli atti.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

When this happens, it\u2019s best to get out of the conversation or don\u2019t even let him into the situation to manage to incolpare te per qualsiasi cosa<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This can be exhausting and it\u2019s best to find consolation with your friends. Seek their advice and don\u2019t let him corner you to attack you.<\/p>\n

They play \u2018the bait and switch\u2019 game<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Quando si discute, tira fuori le armi e ribalta la discussione, facendo di voi la causa principale del problema.<\/p>\n

Darebbe la colpa a voi, anche se non avete fatto nulla di male.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, vi manipola per farvi fare quello che vuole e che voleva fin dall'inizio.<\/p>\n

At some point, you\u2019ll get tired of arguing and you\u2019re going to back down just because you don\u2019t want to defend yourself anymore and you\u2019ll try to prove to him that you are not guilty of anything.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Never back down if you are right. Don\u2019t let someone make your life miserable.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t be with him, then leave him because you obviously weren\u2019t meant to be.<\/p>\n

You deserve to be happy and his manipulations will make you miserable and it won\u2019t stop, ever.<\/p>\n

Ti fanno vergognare<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Infamare qualcuno pu\u00f2 essere estremamente pericoloso, ma ha anche un risvolto completamente diverso.<\/p>\n

Chi si vergogna di qualcuno lo fa per la propria insicurezza.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 per questo che vi metter\u00e0 in difficolt\u00e0 e vi svergogner\u00e0 per farvi sentire una merda.<\/p>\n

The thing is, he is doing this to you because he doesn\u2019t want you to see that you are better than him. He is afraid that you\u2019re going to leave him if you realize this.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Never give him the satisfaction of making you feel like crap. Don\u2019t give him a chance to make you dependent on him.<\/p>\n

Siete una donna forte e indipendente e non avete assolutamente bisogno di nessuno.<\/p>\n

Siate voi stessi e don\u2019t let anyone put you down<\/a>. Try to distance yourself from his shaming and don\u2019t let it bother you.<\/p>\n

If this starts happening on a regular basis, just leave him because let\u2019s face it, you don\u2019t need him.<\/p>\n

Si comportano semplicemente da idioti<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Pensate a lui come a un ragazzo perfetto che vi tratta come la sua principessa. Pensate che voglia darvi il mondo, o almeno si comporta cos\u00ec quando siete da soli, ma nel momento in cui uscite con lui e quando siete circondati dai suoi amici, si trasforma in un vero e proprio coglione.<\/p>\n

He becomes obnoxious and you don\u2019t even recognize him. He does this to cover up his insecurities, as he feels like a bigger man when he puts someone down in front of others.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Avvisatelo e parlatene con lui. Ditegli come vi sentite quando vi fa questo.<\/p>\n

Give him a chance to correct his behavior and if he does it again, just leave. You don\u2019t need that in your life.<\/p>\n

They play \u2018the roller coaster\u2019 with you<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say that he\u2019s taken you out on a dinner or to a movie, or you stayed at home, but you talked and had fun.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter where you were, the important thing is that you enjoyed each other\u2019s company.<\/p>\n

Ebbene, il giorno dopo si comporta in modo stranissimo e si comporta come se qualcosa fosse andato storto quando eravate insieme.<\/p>\n

In questo modo sembra che non sia sicuro di ci\u00f2 che pensa di voi, o se gli piacete del tutto.<\/p>\n

You will try and wrap your head around this, and you\u2019ll wonder where it all went wrong.<\/p>\n

By doing so, you\u2019re giving him all the attention he didn\u2019t deserve because he tricked you into giving it to him.<\/p>\n

You should\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n

Talk to him once again. Ask him why he\u2019s acting like that, and if he needs someone to talk to.<\/p>\n

Se accetta, bene. Probabilmente ha un problema reale e vuole il vostro aiuto.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, se rifiuta in modo sprezzante, lasciatelo perch\u00e9 non \u00e8 altro che un insicuro ricercatore di attenzioni che passer\u00e0 il resto della sua vita a manipolarvi per farvi amare.<\/p>\n

If you like Maria\u2019s work, check out her new book, \u201cOn Getting Over A Narcissist\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n

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