Le relazioni con gli altri possono essere spesso disordinate e a volte lo sono al punto che ci si perde in tutto questo trambusto.<\/p>\n
Si finisce per chiedersi cosa diavolo stia succedendo e si finisce in un posto cos\u00ec buio senza avere idea di come ci si sia arrivati.<\/p>\n
We all enter relationships with other people hoping for the best, but what happens when \u2018the best\u2019 doesn\u2019t happen? What happens when instead of getting what you hoped for or what you deserved, you get your heart broken?<\/p>\n
After I\u2019d been through a lot in my life and after I\u2019d had one troppi cuori infranti<\/a>, I learned that I can\u2019t continue walking through life constantly rushing into things and ending up falling flat on my face all the time.<\/p>\n Quando finalmente ho imparato a permettermi di vedere oltre il dolore che gli altri mi hanno procurato, ho imparato alcune cose preziose nella vita.<\/p>\n Here are my 11 most important lessons\u2026<\/p>\n \u00c8 qui che commetto la maggior parte dei miei errori. Continuo a pensare che le persone siano come si presentano all'inizio.<\/p>\n And I never bother to look beyond their first layer, I never scratch to see what\u2019s under the surface. Sometimes there is more to people than we see at first, be that better or worse.<\/p>\n Nobody is perfect and everyone has flaws. Perhaps those flaws aren\u2019t displayed at first, but they are there and once all the excitement decreases, you\u2019ll be able to see them.<\/p>\n At the end of the day, we\u2019re all bound to show our true face to others eventually, so before you allow yourself to fall in love with someone, make sure you scratch under the surface and know who they really are.<\/p>\n Every time I got my heart broken, I thought this is it, this is the one that will break me completely, this is my end and from this one, I won\u2019t be able to recover.<\/p>\n And guess what? After each heartbreak, I recovered. Sometimes it took me a while, but eventually, I\u2019d always rimettere a posto i pezzi del mio cuore infranto<\/a> insieme.<\/p>\n At some point in your life, you\u2019ll think you\u2019ve come to the end of the road. You\u2019ll think how life couldn\u2019t hit you any harder and you\u2019ll think about giving up so many times.<\/p>\n And when this happens, think about how many times before you have been in that situation and yet you\u2019ve managed to pass through it.<\/p>\n Siete molto pi\u00f9 forti di quanto pensiate<\/a> because you\u2019ve been brought into this life to be a fighter and not a person who gives up. Give yourself some credit for that.<\/p>\n When I was the most down, it wasn\u2019t those people I thought would be there who were actually there for me, but those who truly cared for me. Those who I thought should be there for me couldn\u2019t stand the phase I was going through, nor did they bother to try and understand it.<\/p>\n They said that I was either being too dramatic about it or that I should just snap out of it. On the other hand, the people I wouldn\u2019t have thought of being there for me at first were actually the ones who held my hand when I needed it the most and who helped me get back up.<\/p>\n Just because you deserved for some people to be there for you in your darkest days, it doesn\u2019t mean that this is the way it\u2019s always going to happen.<\/p>\n And that’s okay. Pay attention to those who stuck by you even when you were not fun to be around because those are the people who truly care about you and those are the only ones who matter.<\/p>\n Dio solo sa quante volte sono stato spezzato dalle persone verso le quali nutrivo sentimenti negativi all'inizio. Ma, nonostante quello che provavo, ho dato loro il beneficio del dubbio e ho finito per prendere la pagliuzza pi\u00f9 corta.<\/p>\n Whenever you don\u2019t feel like welcoming someone into your life\u2014don\u2019t. You\u2019re allowed to say no, regardless of what those people did for you, and regardless of how much they like or love you, if the feeling is off.<\/p>\n Anche se pu\u00f2 non avere senso o se pu\u00f2 risultare un po' egoista, dovete a voi stessi rendervi felici.<\/p>\n For a long time, I had this habit of giving myself the most to those who were hurting me the most. I kept thinking if I gave them more love, they\u2019d choose to hurt me less, but I was wrong. I only ended up getting even more hurt for not allontanarmi quando avrei dovuto<\/a>.<\/p>\n Per quanto si possa amare, l'amore non \u00e8 mai una scusa per rimanere in una relazione tossica. L'amore non dovrebbe mai essere una scusa per permettere a qualcuno di trattarvi male o di distruggere la vostra autostima.<\/p>\n Always respect yourself enough to walk away from those who are just hurting you. Don\u2019t give your best to those who did nothing to deserve it.<\/p>\n La vita continuava a lanciarmi palle curve e io continuavo a inciampare. Tutto ci\u00f2 che mi accadeva tagliava sempre il mio cuore come una lama affilatissima.<\/p>\n Every time I wasn\u2019t loved or when I wasn\u2019t treated the way I deserved, I despaired, even at the smallest inconvenience. Then I opened my eyes and realized I couldn\u2019t continue walking through life afraid that something bad would happen or allowing everything to affect me.<\/p>\n When I learned to look beyond the pain I was going through, that\u2019s when I started growing.<\/p>\n Everything that happens in your life happens for a reason. And everything that happens will affect you, but it\u2019s up to you to choose whether you\u2019ll use it wisely or let it break you.<\/p>\n Dovete essere abbastanza saggi da imparare quando lasciare andare certe cose e dovete capire che non tutte le persone che entrano nella vostra vita sono destinate a rimanere e che non tutto ci\u00f2 che volete nella vita corrisponde a ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno.<\/p>\n Dovete iniziare a trasformare ogni cosa che vi \u00e8 capitata in una lezione e non in una battuta d'arresto.<\/p>\n God knows how many times I stuck by someone, mistaking what they gave me for love. God knows how many sleepless nights I\u2019ve had because I wasn\u2019t sure if the person I was with loved me or not.<\/p>\n E Dio sa quante volte sono stata spezzata da qualcuno che pensavo mi amasse.<\/p>\n See, when someone loves you, you\u2019ll know. There won\u2019t be second-guessing, there won\u2019t be nights when you can\u2019t fall asleep because your mind is busy wondering if someone loves you or not, you won\u2019t be confused or unsure.<\/p>\n When someone truly loves you, they\u2019ll do everything in their power to make sure you\u2019re aware of that. They\u2019ll make sure you feel special and loved. That\u2019s the only truth.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve held on to so many temporary people in my life that I forgot how those who are meant to stay look. I kept living with this illusion that all those who come into my life are meant to stay.<\/p>\n I kept thinking that all those I love will love me back. But this couldn\u2019t be further from reality.<\/p>\n11. Nessuno \u00e8 perfetto o come lo si immagina all'inizio.<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
10. Siete molto pi\u00f9 forti di quanto pensiate<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
9. Solo chi vi vuole veramente bene vi sar\u00e0 vicino nei giorni pi\u00f9 difficili.<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
8. If the feeling is off, you\u2019re allowed to say no<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
7. Rispettate sempre voi stessi per allontanarvi da chi vi fa solo del male.<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Everything that happens to you in life will either teach you a lesson or destroy you\u2014but the choice is always yours<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
5. If someone truly loves you, you\u2019ll know<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
4. Just because you love someone, it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re meant to be<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n