{"id":13894,"date":"2020-07-06T09:05:06","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T09:05:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13894"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:01:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:01:06","slug":"13-segni-di-relazione-possessiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/13-segni-di-relazione-possessiva\/","title":{"rendered":"13 segni di una relazione possessiva"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le relazioni possessive variano a seconda della gravit\u00e0 della possessivit\u00e0. Se a volte si tratta di una gelosia lieve, pu\u00f2 arrivare a un livello tale da diventare tossica.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, no possessive relationship is healthy. Every possessive relationship starts off like a fairy tale, where you have met someone who cares deeply about you so you\u2019re not ready to look for signs that something is wrong, because it just feels good to be wanted.<\/p>\n

But if you feel like you\u2019re trapped in a relationship or the feeling of being stalked simply creeps up on you, maybe it\u2019s time to look for the signs that your partner is the possessive type.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s controlling<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Ha il bisogno di controllarti<\/a> wherever you go, as well as when and with whom. If he\u2019s not involved in the decision making, he\u2019s text-bombing you until he is.<\/p>\n

He has ways of manipulating you into following his requests, which ultimately leads to cutting you off from your friends and family, until he\u2019s the only one you have.<\/p>\n

Condividere \u00e8 prendersi cura, ma non per lui quando si tratta di voi.<\/p>\n

Chiede di conoscere le vostre password<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

\u201cCome on, what\u2019s the big deal? What are you hiding anyway?\u201d<\/p>\n

Social media accounts are something private that we share with our significant other when we feel like it, when we trust them in a way that they don\u2019t have the need to check up on us, because they trust us too.<\/p>\n

But demanding to know someone\u2019s passwords is neither healthy nor lovable.<\/p>\n

 Appiccicoso<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When we fall in love, it\u2019s natural that we want to spend every single moment with that person. We want to know how they feel, how they think and how they breathe.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 una sensazione cos\u00ec bella, ma con il passare del tempo impariamo a vivere separatamente, ma sempre insieme.<\/p>\n

Se si rifiuta di farlo, se vuole ancora passare ogni singolo secondo del suo tempo libero con voi, avete un problema.<\/p>\n

Vi chieder\u00e0 di lasciare i vostri amici per lui e di abbandonare i vostri hobby, solo perch\u00e9 vuole stare con voi.<\/p>\n

Ti perseguita<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

This is not something any of us is really ready to admit. He\u2019s my boyfriend, there\u2019s no way he can stalk me.<\/p>\n

But if you find him reading your messages, snooping around your phone and browsing history, logging into your accounts or popping up unexpectedly at your workplace or the bar where you\u2019re with your friends, he\u2019s a stalker.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not cute behavior, that\u2019s hella creepy.<\/p>\n

Accontentate i suoi desideri<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If he wants to go somewhere, you go there. Compromise is a word he\u2019s not familiar with, neither does he want to get to know it.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about him, because he knows what\u2019s best for you anyway. If you don\u2019t make his wishes come true, all hell breaks loose.<\/p>\n

Sbalzi d'umore<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

He\u2019s so happy you\u2019re finally with him, but the moment you mention a male colleague or a childhood friend, his mood changes.<\/p>\n

Anche le cose pi\u00f9 piccole farlo arrabbiare o turbare<\/a>. He\u2019s happiest when you\u2019re only with him and talk only about him.<\/p>\n

Accuse continue<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He\u2019s constantly accusing you of flirting with other men, no matter whether you did or not. If you talk to a man, you\u2019re flirting.<\/p>\n

If you look at a man, you no longer love him. If you want to go out with your friends, you\u2019re just looking for a way to cheat on him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always to blame, no matter what you do and how hard you try to prove your love to him.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t respect your personal space<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re in a relationship, why do you need space in the first place?<\/p>\n

La sua idea di donna perfetta \u00e8 quella di una donna completamente sottomessa a lui, quella che pu\u00f2 controllare e di cui sa tutto.<\/p>\n

If you ask for some time alone, he gets offended, because it must mean you\u2019re tired of him and you\u2019re obviously hiding something. But, let\u2019s be honest.<\/p>\n

Everybody needs some \u2018me\u2019 time.<\/p>\n

Bombardamento costante di messaggi<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re separated from him, at work or with your friends and family, he\u2019s message-bombing you constantly.<\/p>\n

Deve sapere dove siete, cosa state facendo, quanto tempo starete via.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t have a minute\u2019s peace without him nagging and demanding your attention.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s extremely paranoid<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He\u2019s always afraid that you will leave him, that you\u2019re looking at other men and cheating on him.<\/p>\n

He needs to know why you\u2019re talking to your friends, why your colleague calls after work, why you\u2019re texting with your friends, if he is not enough, etc.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s always in a panic, in fear that his controlling is not strong enough and you will leave, and he\u2019s in fear of losing his favorite toy.<\/p>\n

Ha il bisogno di controllare ci\u00f2 che indossate<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Quel vestito \u00e8 troppo stretto, quella gonna \u00e8 troppo corta, quelle scarpe sono da sgualdrina.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s trying to fit you into the mold of the perfect woman he has in his mind, regardless of how you feel about it and how hurtful it could be for you.<\/p>\n

Cerca di separarvi dai vostri amici<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Ha bisogno di passare ogni singolo momento della sua giornata con voi e vuole che siate disponibili per lui nel momento in cui vi chiama.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will slowly start turning you against your friends, talking about how he doesn\u2019t like them, how they\u2019re toxic for you and how you don\u2019t need them.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s easier for him to manipulate you once you\u2019re all alone and you lose your support system.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all because he \u2018loves you\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Giustificare la manipolazione e possessivit\u00e0 tossica<\/a> with love is his favorite thing. He tried to cut you off from your friends, because he knows what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want you to talk to other men, because he knows what they\u2019re after. He wants you isolated, because the world is cruel and he can protect you.<\/p>\n

La gelosia non \u00e8 amore. Il comportamento possessivo non \u00e8 amore. Ricordate che. Nessun uomo \u00e8 degno della vostra libert\u00e0.<\/p>\n

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