{"id":13989,"date":"2020-07-07T09:32:20","date_gmt":"2020-07-07T09:32:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=13989"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:02:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:02:15","slug":"conseguenze-quasi-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/conseguenze-quasi-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Le conseguenze di una quasi relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei quasi uscito con qualcuno.<\/strong> You were almost the girl who was chosen. You had a boyfriend\u2014at least you almost had him. There was something, but you\u2019re not sure how to call it.<\/p>\n

Non c'erano etichette<\/a>. There were no promises made out loud, just those silent ones you could read from each other\u2019s behavior.<\/p>\n

But in the end, all you can call yourselves is \u2018almost\u2019 together because nothing really happened.<\/p>\n

You thought you\u2019re just taking things slow.<\/strong> Sembrava che nessuno dei due volesse affrettare le cose e che a entrambi piacesse passare del tempo insieme. Almeno cos\u00ec sembrava.<\/p>\n

Ma da qualche parte tra il prendere le cose con calma e l'ammettere effettivamente i propri sentimenti, siete rimasti intrappolati in questa zona grigia che non siete riusciti a superare.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s all you were left with\u2014frozen in time with so many possibilities but none of them happening.<\/p>\n

Speravi che il tuo quasi si trasformasse in qualcosa di concreto.<\/strong> You hoped you will be able to stand in front of your friends and introduce each other as more than friends\u2014as people who are dating.<\/p>\n

\"Le<\/p>\n

You hoped you\u2019ll be able to tell your family that you\u2019re together and you hoped you\u2019ll be able to display your relationship publicly.<\/p>\n

That you\u2019ll be able to change your profile picture, that you\u2019ll save each others numbers with your cute nicknames instead of just names, but it didn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0 non \u00e8 successo nulla.<\/strong> E tutto ci\u00f2 che rimaneva era la speranza che le cose sarebbero cambiate alla fine.<\/p>\n

But regardless of how long you waited, somehow you got stuck and you weren\u2019t moving anywhere. No matter how hard you swam, if you ran or walked, you didn\u2019t move from the same spot.<\/p>\n

All that remained were those \u201cwhat if\u201d questions:<\/strong> What if you said what you felt, what if someone actually made the first move, what if you asked for a label, what if you took the charge, what if you weren\u2019t afraid, what if you were more courageous, what if and what if\u2026 what if it happened, saresti in grado di essere felice?<\/a><\/p>\n

Tutti i vostri sogni prenderebbero vita? Sarebbe tutto ci\u00f2 che avete sempre desiderato?<\/p>\n

Even if it wasn\u2019t a real relationship, it still hurts.<\/strong> It\u2019s still a painful experience and the aftermath of an almost relationship haunts you even more than the aftermath of a failed relationship.<\/p>\n

Because there are so many possibilities that haven\u2019t come to life, there is so much hope that just froze in time, there are so many dreams that will never see the light of the day, there is so much that should\u2019ve been, but didn’t happen.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Even if it wasn\u2019t a real relationship, it still haunts you.<\/strong> Ti strazia ancora il cuore. E la malinconia \u00e8 ancora la tua migliore amica.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 forse non era una vera relazione, ma i sentimenti erano molto reali. E il dolore \u00e8 molto vivo.<\/p>\n

E, alla fine della storia, una volta che si rifiutare l'accordo<\/a> for something that is in the air and non-existent, you can\u2019t help but ask yourself why can\u2019t you be enough.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s wrong with you and how is it possible that you can\u2019t be chosen?<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t escape this feeling that it was something you\u2019ve done, that it had to be some huge mistake you made that prevented you from being chosen and from getting the love you deserve.<\/p>\n

And, even when you know your worth, even when you know you\u2019re more than enough, you can\u2019t escape all those questions that come in waves when you close your eyes.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t shake this feeling that you were meant to be. You can\u2019t accept that it isn\u2019t happening when you had all the signs that it will happen.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

And you can\u2019t shake off this feeling like you\u2019ll always be a backup plan. That you\u2019ll never get your own love story, that you\u2019ll never get the love you deserve.<\/p>\n

That you\u2019ll always be just an almost choice and that you\u2019ll always be stuck in an almost relationship.<\/p>\n

And you end up being disappointed in everything: life, people, future relationships. You end up being broken by something you don\u2019t even know how to name.<\/p>\n

Si finisce per chiedersi se si sar\u00e0 mai amati come una persona merita di essere amata. Se sarete mai scelti o se sarete mai pi\u00f9 di un'opzione o di una possibilit\u00e0 che non ha mai preso vita.<\/p>\n

And you end up wondering if you\u2019ll be the one who wins ever in life.<\/p>\n

Well, let me answer that for you\u2014if you learned something from la tua quasi relazione<\/a>, if you know you deserve more than being just an option, if you walk away from a \u2018relationship\u2019 that isn\u2019t going anywhere, you win.<\/p>\n

Although the aftermath of an almost relationship is nasty, at least you made sure you aren\u2019t stuck in it forever. At least you gave a chance to your future.<\/p>\n

At least you made a spot for someone who\u2019ll be more than willing to give you everything you deserve.<\/p>\n

\"Le<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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