{"id":14053,"date":"2020-04-07T13:14:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T13:14:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14053"},"modified":"2022-01-24T15:57:52","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T15:57:52","slug":"congratulazioni-ragazza-perduta-in-realta-voleva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/congratulazioni-ragazza-perduta-in-realta-voleva\/","title":{"rendered":"Congratulazioni, hai perso una ragazza che voleva davvero essere tua"},"content":{"rendered":"

Come hai fatto a perdere una ragazza che voleva davvero essere tua?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Come si pu\u00f2 allontanare qualcuno<\/a> who\u2019d do anything to be with you? She needed just one reason to stay.<\/p>\n

Aveva bisogno solo di una piccola prova che c'\u00e8 un futuro felice per lei e che le farete trovare un posto nella vostra vita, ma questo era, ovviamente, troppo da chiedere.<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che ha sempre voluto sei tu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t care about your flaws or your past. She didn\u2019t care about what others told her.<\/p>\n

She wanted you to be good so she believed you have good sides just waiting to come to the surface. She didn\u2019t care for anything in this world other than you.<\/p>\n

Voleva amarti. Voleva stare accanto a te. Voleva vedere il tuo messaggio quando si svegliava e voleva andare a dormire pensando a te. Voleva che tu fossi felice.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

She wanted to have a future with you, to hold your hand in front of everyone and proudly say \u201cThis is the guy I love and the guy who loves me.\u201d She didn\u2019t want much. She just wanted to freely love you and to be loved by you.<\/p>\n

Bastava trattarla bene.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Non c'era bisogno di darle delle stelle, anche se lei li ha meritati<\/a>. Non c'era bisogno di regali costosi o di qualcosa di troppo impegnativo.<\/p>\n

Dovevi solo trattarla bene. Dovevi solo dimostrarle che \u00e8 importante per te, dimostrarle che tieni a lei, dirle quanto \u00e8 importante per te e che vuoi le stesse cose che vuole lei per voi due.<\/p>\n

Bastava un piccolo sforzo per farla rimanere nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n

But that was too much to ask, wasn\u2019t it?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even \u2018basic\u2019 things, even the smallest effort, even the things she deserved to get were too much for you to give to her?<\/p>\n

You weren\u2019t ready to do anything for her, regardless what she did for you.<\/p>\n

You just weren\u2019t on the same boat as she was. You didn’t care as much as she did. But you should have.<\/p>\n

Ti sei rifiutato di scegliere lei.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When she saw no one else she could be with, you chose to keep your options open and hold her at arm’s length\u2014too scared to lose her but too afraid to commit as well.<\/p>\n

Voi eravate nella sua vita occasionalmente e lei vi ha avuto nella sua vita solo qualche volta.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Non eravate disposti a lasciar perdere tutte le altre opportunit\u00e0. Volevate avere le opzioni aperte. Pensavate di meritare molto di pi\u00f9 di quello che lei aveva da offrire e di essere troppo egoisti e famelici.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, era cos\u00ec altruista quando si trattava di dare il suo amore a voi.<\/p>\n

Tu didn\u2019t make her your priority<\/a> n\u00e9 ha dato valore ai suoi sforzi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tutto quello che ha fatto, lo ha fatto per voi due. Ha provato e riprovato. Continuava a trovare la speranza in posti dove nessuno pensava di cercarla.<\/p>\n

She stuck by your side even when any other normal person would\u2019ve walked away a long time ago.<\/p>\n

But you never saw any of it. Or at least you didn\u2019t bother seeing it. You never acknowledged any of her efforts nor did you bother thanking her for fighting so hard for you. Instead, you took it all for granted.<\/p>\n

You thought she\u2019ll stay by your side even if you don\u2019t give her anything. That she\u2019ll fight for you just because. Well, you thought wrong.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Lei si \u00e8 stancato<\/a> of fighting for someone who didn\u2019t care if he lost her or not.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ammettetelo, eravate indifferenti. O almeno credevate di esserlo. Vi siete detti che non provate nulla per quella ragazza e che ce ne sono di migliori di lei. Lei era l\u00ec per rafforzare il vostro ego e per essere il vostro piano di riserva.<\/p>\n

You thought that\u2019s all she’ll ever be to anyone. But you thought wrong once again.<\/p>\n

L'hai persa quando le hai fatto implorare il tuo tempo. L'hai persa quando le hai mostrato you couldn\u2019t care less for her feelings<\/a>. L'hai persa quando ti sei rifiutato di fare uno sforzo per lottare per lei.<\/p>\n

Le ci \u00e8 voluto un po' per capire che stava combattendo per qualcuno a cui andava bene perdere lei.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0 ha pianificato di rimanere<\/a>, ma tu l'hai allontanata.<\/strong><\/p>\n

L'hai allontanata con il tuo comportamento di merda, non apprezzandola, dandola per scontata, facendola sentire sola anche quando stava con te.<\/p>\n

Congratulazioni, hai perso una ragazza che ti \u00e8 capitata una volta nella vita<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

You lost a girl who wanted to be yours. You lost a good girl\u2014one who just needed your love and appreciation and nothing more. You lost a girl who could\u2019ve made you happy if you just let her.<\/p>\n

You lost a girl any other man would die to have. You lost a girl you\u2019ll be looking for in every other girl that comes along from now on.<\/p>\n

Nessuna delle altre ragazze sar\u00e0 buona con te come lo \u00e8 stata lei. Nessuna delle altre ragazze ti amer\u00e0 come ha fatto lei.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t treat you with respect, won\u2019t look at you with admiration as she did.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t make sacrifices as big as she did, nor will they stay when you show them your bad sides. No one will be as silly as she was.<\/p>\n

But you know what? You did this one good thing for her. You let her go and open a space for someone who\u2019ll appreciate her and love her the way she deserves to be loved. Who would\u2019ve thought\u2014in the end you did something right.<\/p>\n

\"Congratulazioni,<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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