{"id":141290,"date":"2022-01-05T18:13:33","date_gmt":"2022-01-05T18:13:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=141290"},"modified":"2023-01-10T16:14:57","modified_gmt":"2023-01-10T16:14:57","slug":"perche-sono-attratta-dagli-uomini-piu-anziani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-sono-attratta-dagli-uomini-piu-anziani\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 sono attratta dagli uomini pi\u00f9 anziani? 20 ragioni sorprendenti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perch\u00e9 sono attratto da <\/i>uomini anziani<\/i>? Che incantesimo mi hanno fatto per farmi riconoscere a malapena una persona della mia et\u00e0?<\/i><\/p>\n

If these questions bother you as much as they do me, then you’ve come to the right place.<\/p>\n

Vi dir\u00f2 perch\u00e9 siete in relazioni con divario di et\u00e0<\/a>, la differenza tra uomini pi\u00f9 grandi e pi\u00f9 giovani e tutto ci\u00f2 che influenza la scelta del partner.<\/p>\n

Stay with me, and let’s explore the minds of both older men and us!<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 sono attratta dagli uomini pi\u00f9 anziani? 20 ragioni<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Se volete sapere perch\u00e9 le relazioni a distanza di et\u00e0 vi sembrano attraenti, date un'occhiata ai 20 motivi seguenti:<\/p>\n

1. Sembrano pi\u00f9 virili<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Not that there’s anything wrong with feminine men (God forbid), but there’s just something about the manliness you can see in older men.<\/p>\n

It isn’t about looks but rather their energy. The way they move screams confidence and experience.<\/p>\n

Queste volpi argentate hanno la capacit\u00e0 di spiazzarvi in pochi secondi.<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che definisce un <\/b>uomo vero<\/b><\/a> is there: strength, decisiveness, wisdom, intelligence, fearlessness… You can sense all that without even speaking to them.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s really true what they say… <\/i>Uomini anziani<\/i> sono come il vino <\/i>\u2013<\/i> migliorano con l'et\u00e0.<\/i><\/p>\n

2. Sono pi\u00f9 maturi<\/h3>\n

Younger partners call women out for being drama queens, but in reality, they’re no different.<\/p>\n

They create problems where there aren’t any. They are often so possessive that they expect you to be there 24\/7. Not even consulenza di coppia<\/a> could save these types of relationships\u2026<\/p>\n

Un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano non farebbe mai una cosa del genere.<\/p>\n

He’s self-sufficient and values his time, so he understands if you need some solitude. He understands the importance of <\/b>confini nelle relazioni<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

When there is an actual problem, he doesn\u2019t fight or give you the trattamento silenzioso<\/a>. Non lo vedrete mai reagire in modo eccessivo, ma piuttosto cercare attivamente soluzioni ai vostri problemi.<\/p>\n

You shouldn’t be asking yourself ”Why am I attracted to <\/i>uomini anziani<\/i>?” but rather ”Why wouldn’t I be?”<\/i><\/p>\n

3. Sanno cosa vogliono<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You’re probably attracted to <\/i>ragazzi pi\u00f9 grandi<\/i> because they always have a clear goal in mind. There’s no room for doubts or <\/i>insicurezze<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Even when they are at a crossroads, they handle it like mature men. They’re not confused for long like their younger counterparts tend to be.<\/p>\n

If they like you, they won’t sit in silence and hope for the best. They’ll reach out straight away and charm you with their decisiveness.<\/b><\/p>\n

They won’t hide behind social media and dating sites but will prefer to talk to you in person.<\/p>\n

Even if you’re a big challenge and give them a hard time, they won’t easily back out.<\/p>\n

Credono troppo in se stessi per arrendersi.<\/p>\n

4. They\u2019ve already built a life for themselves<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Younger men usually don’t have anything figured out. It’s like they’re totally excluded from real life and all they do is play video games and party with their friends.<\/p>\n

How can they be capable of being a good partner then? It’s no wonder women find older men attractive.<\/p>\n

Most of them have a career and a home of their own. Of course, this doesn’t mean that we are materialistic. It’s not about wealth at all.<\/p>\n

It’s just a <\/b>grande eccitazione<\/b><\/a> to see a man who’s accomplished all of his goals, a man who overcame every obstacle to get what he wants.<\/b><\/p>\n

Una persona capace e forte \u00e8 destinata a catturare la vostra attenzione!<\/p>\n

Since you (probably) haven’t accomplished your goals due to your age, you are inspired by his abilities. You want to be a part of his life because you think he might help you find your own purpose.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, una persona come questa \u00e8 una scelta molto migliore per un <\/i>relazione seria<\/i><\/a>Non \u00e8 vero?<\/i><\/p>\n

5. Apprezzano di pi\u00f9 la vita<\/h3>\n

When you’re younger, your main goal is to have fun. And you think that by having fun, you appreciate life more. But that’s not exactly the case.<\/p>\n

Uomini anziani<\/b> hanno avuto la loro parte di divertimento, quindi sanno che apprezzare la vita significa abbracciare le sue numerose opportunit\u00e0.<\/b><\/p>\n

They won’t hesitate to accept a job offer or form a relationship with you. This is because they aren\u2019t looking for temporary excitement.<\/p>\n

They’re aware that life is passing them by, and they want to be truly HAPPY. They don’t waste their time with the ‘what ifs.’<\/p>\n

E credetemi, chi si rende conto del valore della vita sapr\u00e0 amarvi come meritate.<\/i><\/p>\n

6. Sono pi\u00f9 pronti a impegnarsi<\/h3>\n

So che gli uomini di tutte le et\u00e0 lottano con <\/i>problemi di impegno<\/i><\/a>, but let’s be honest <\/i>\u2013<\/i> uomini anziani<\/i> sono pi\u00f9 pronti per un <\/i>relazione impegnata<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 che ha causato problemi di impegno \u00e8 ancora fresco nella mente degli uomini pi\u00f9 giovani, quindi li colpisce pi\u00f9 facilmente.<\/p>\n

Se hanno il cuore spezzato, ci mettono una vita a fidarsi di nuovo di qualcuno. E quando ci provano, si finisce solo per rimanere bloccati con un uomo emotivamente non disponibile<\/a>.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, gli uomini pi\u00f9 anziani hanno avuto pi\u00f9 tempo per schiarirsi le idee e scoprire chi sono veramente.<\/p>\n

Poich\u00e9 sono in grado di gestire meglio se stessi, sono pi\u00f9 preparati ad essere <\/b>emotivamente legato a voi<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Anche se hanno lottato con il cuore spezzato (e tutti lo facciamo), alla fine iniziano a vederlo come una cosa del passato.<\/p>\n

This is because the years are passing by quickly, and they don’t want to die alone without a legacy. So, it’s not only that they don’t fear commitment, but they are desperate for it.<\/b><\/p>\n

7. Sono pi\u00f9 premurosi<\/h3>\n

Have you ever seen a 40-year-old man who doesn’t know how to take care of a woman?<\/p>\n

Esattamente.<\/p>\n

So, why do you still keep asking yourself ”Why am I attracted to older men?”<\/p>\n

Non solo vi viziano, ma sanno anche trovare sempre le parole giuste da dire. Sono dei veri gentiluomini che vi trattano con gentilezza e rispetto.<\/p>\n

Dalle loro bocche non uscir\u00e0 mai nulla di crudele o inappropriato.<\/p>\n

Vi vedono come un essere prezioso che devono proteggere, quindi fanno del loro meglio per esaudire i vostri desideri.<\/b><\/p>\n

If all of this sounds like a Hollywood romance movie, that’s probably because you’ve had too many relazioni immature<\/a> with younger men…<\/p>\n

8. Hanno una maggiore esperienza di vita<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

That’s the first thing you think of when you look at an <\/i>uomo anziano<\/i>, isn’t it? You are attracted to how much they know about life, how much they have been through.<\/i><\/p>\n

Magari sei una giovane donna esperta, ma le guardi ancora e sei tentata da tutto ci\u00f2 che potrebbero insegnarti.<\/p>\n

Se vi sentite perse o senza speranza nella vita, probabilmente sarete attratte da uomini pi\u00f9 anziani.<\/p>\n

You want a lover, but you also want a mentor, a guide. You want someone who will save you from the misery of life you don’t yet know how to deal with.<\/b><\/p>\n

9. Offrono un senso di sicurezza<\/strong><\/h3>\n

There are many strong and smart young men nowadays, but security isn’t about that…<\/p>\n

Don’t you always feel safer when you’re with someone who knows more than you? That’s why you’re into <\/i>uomini anziani<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Il fatto di sapere quanto siano esperti crea un senso di sicurezza. Si pensa che abbiano affrontato ogni tipo di situazione e che probabilmente abbiano una soluzione saggia per ogni cosa.<\/p>\n

In reality, you just want a hero. And you don’t see heroic potential in men your age.<\/b><\/p>\n

10. Gli uomini pi\u00f9 giovani continuano a deluderla<\/h3>\n

When I think to myself: ”Why am I attracted to older men?” the first answer that comes to mind is:<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 <\/i>uomini pi\u00f9 giovani<\/i> sono troppo deludenti!<\/i><\/p>\n

I mean, no offense here, but let’s be honest… They never know how to handle their problems like adults, and it only ends up ruining your relationship.<\/p>\n

Gli uomini pi\u00f9 anziani non lo permetterebbero mai. Portano con s\u00e9 il loro bagaglio, ma le loro relazioni rimangono intatte.<\/b> Ci\u00f2 \u00e8 dovuto alla loro livelli di maturit\u00e0 pi\u00f9 elevati<\/a> e l'intelligenza emotiva.<\/p>\n

11. Sono pi\u00f9 sicuri di s\u00e9<\/h3>\n

Quante storie d'amore sono fallite a causa di giovani uomini insicuri?<\/p>\n

So many of them don’t have the courage to approach you, and if they do approach you, it only turns into a very relazione complicata<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Older men rarely have these problems! They\u2019ve probably had many relationships in the past that made them confident enough to flirtare come un professionista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You don’t ever have to worry that it’s not going to work. If they like you, that’s already finished business. Nothing will stop them from getting your attention.<\/b><\/p>\n

And let’s be honest… Who doesn’t like to be chased?<\/p>\n

12. Sembrano pi\u00f9 attraenti<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

What? This is a valid reason! Some women just like you better when you’re older. Some prefer 30-year-olds, whereas others are attracted to men twice their age!<\/p>\n

Why wouldn’t they be? There’s nothing NOT to like. Just think about Dr. House or Aaron Hotchner from Criminal Minds<\/i>. Il Signore sa che lo faccio ogni giorno.<\/p>\n

We get to see scenes where they’re younger, yet I can’t help but be more attracted to them when they get older. Does that happen to you, too?<\/p>\n

Don’t think that there’s anything wrong with you, though. You have the right to like whoever you want.<\/i><\/p>\n

Besides, isn’t this encouraging? We often fear old age because we think our beauty will disappear, but look! There’s always someone who will find you attractive.<\/b><\/p>\n

13. Hai problemi con il pap\u00e0<\/h3>\n

It’s always some kind of trauma, isn’t it? Well, sadly, yes. Your fascination with older men might just stem from problemi di pap\u00e0<\/a>. Che cosa significa?<\/p>\n

It means that your father didn’t offer you the love and protection that you deserved as a child.<\/p>\n

Dal momento che siete stati abbandonati emotivamente, ora cercate un <\/b>figura paterna<\/b> that will make up for what you didn’t have in childhood.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sounds complicated, doesn’t it? But it’s valid.<\/p>\n

You’re not unstable for having <\/i>problemi di pap\u00e0<\/i>. It’s okay to want someone to protect you, especially if nobody ever did.<\/i><\/p>\n

So, don’t think that this is wrong. You are not weird or messed up. Don’t let anyone convince you that you are.<\/p>\n

14. Rispettano di pi\u00f9 le donne<\/h3>\n

When you’re in a relationship with someone your age, they rarely know how to appreciate you. And since they don’t appreciate you, they have nessun rispetto per te<\/a> o.<\/p>\n

They’re just too young to understand what partnership means.<\/i><\/p>\n

That’s what’s so appealing about older guys. They’re aware that you’re two individuals but you still function as a TEAM.<\/p>\n

And a team values the opinion of everyone. They will always listen to your advice carefully. You don’t ever have to worry about not being taken seriously.<\/b><\/p>\n

Older guys will never see you as ‘just a girlfriend’ but rather as a human being and a partner who’s equally as important as them.<\/p>\n

15. Hanno esperienza sessuale<\/h3>\n

Well… we are sexual beings, too, aren’t we? Having an older partner who knows what he’s doing is bound to make sex much more exciting!<\/p>\n

After all, you’re young and (probably) don’t have much sexual experience. So, it’s not unusual that you want someone who does.<\/p>\n

At least one of us has to know what they’re doing, right?<\/b><\/p>\n

Voi volete esperienza e loro vogliono qualcuno che non ne ha.<\/p>\n

Yes, as men age, they are more into younger women, in the age range of around 20\u201330, because they want to prove to themselves that they\u2019ve still ‘got it.’<\/p>\n

Quando fanno sesso con un 20-<\/b>donna di un anno<\/b>, they get their validation, and you get great sex! It’s a win-win situation!<\/b><\/p>\n

16. Sanno comunicare<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Do you often ask yourself: ”Why am I attracted to older men?” Yeah, me too… Or at least I did until I figured out the answer.<\/p>\n

It’s because I never have to worry that they’ll misunderstand me!<\/b><\/p>\n

Anche quando lo fanno, ne parliamo da adulti e capiamo dove sta il problema.<\/p>\n

So che non saranno mai mettersi sulla difensiva<\/a> o di puntare il dito. Capiscono che non si pu\u00f2 risolvere nulla senza comunicare.<\/p>\n

Il loro obiettivo \u00e8 quello di risolvere il problema insieme, non di essere l'uno contro l'altro, il che \u00e8 un segno di un'incapacit\u00e0 di risolvere il problema. relazione sana<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Besides, you can\u2019t form a una connessione emotiva pi\u00f9 profonda<\/a> if you don\u2019t hear each other out.<\/p>\n

17. Sono finanziariamente sicuri<\/h3>\n

More often than not, older people have steady jobs and a secure future, so it’s understandable if you’re attracted to them.<\/p>\n

But that doesn’t mean you want them for their money. You just want someone who’ll be able to take care of you.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 particolarmente comprensibile se il vostro obiettivo \u00e8 quello di essere una casalinga.<\/a><\/p>\n

And even if you’re employed, too, it’s okay if you don’t want to be the only provider. It’s okay to want a capable man who’s ready to help you out.<\/b><\/p>\n

18. Vuoi un padre zuccherino<\/h3>\n

S\u00ec, forse troverete il <\/i>divario di et\u00e0<\/i> attractive just because there’s something in it for you!<\/i><\/p>\n

A sugar daddy doesn’t mind paying for whatever your heart desires, and you’re happy because you’re able to live the life of your dreams.<\/b><\/p>\n

Essere un bambino di zucchero<\/a> benefits both you and your ‘benefactor.’ That’s why you shouldn’t feel guilty for doing it. If both sides are happy, then there’s nothing wrong with that.<\/p>\n

19. Uscire con loro \u00e8 un atto di ribellione<\/h3>\n

Siate onesti. Chi mai sosterrebbe il vostro relazione con un uomo anziano<\/a>? Rarely anyone would…<\/p>\n

And that’s exactly what strengthens your desire!<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s a turn on to look at someone nobody would approve of, especially if you’re in your early to late 20s…<\/p>\n

Il vostro spirito ribelle \u00e8 ancora molto vivo e dirige i vostri desideri. Volete tutto ci\u00f2 che la societ\u00e0 rifiuta.<\/p>\n

Il <\/b>differenza di et\u00e0<\/b> non significa nulla per voi perch\u00e9 per loro significa tutto.<\/b><\/p>\n

This isn’t wrong, but still make sure that you actually like the person, and not just what they represent!<\/i><\/p>\n

20. Sono pi\u00f9 comodi<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Anche quando i ragazzi della nostra <\/i>la propria et\u00e0<\/i> manage to approach us, they’re still struggling to relax. They try to look all macho but don’t know that we have a sixth sense that tells us a different story.<\/i><\/p>\n

Older men, on the other hand, don’t have those problemi di autostima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

They approach you with confidence and talk to you in a relaxed manner because they’re not intimidated by women.<\/p>\n

Their beauty and intellect aren\u2019t something to be afraid of, but something they need to conquer. And they usually do… because they believe they can.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: Come farsi desiderare da un uomo anziano in 27 passi infallibili<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Pensieri finali<\/h2>\n

I hope that the question ”Why am I attracted to older men?” no longer keeps you up at night. See, it’s not just the influence of Lana Del Rey’s music!<\/p>\n

Appuntamento per le donne<\/b> uomini anziani<\/b> perch\u00e9 hanno di pi\u00f9 da offrire.<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s the same with <\/b>ragazzi pi\u00f9 giovani<\/b>. Sono per lo pi\u00f9 infatuati di <\/b>donne anziane<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

A <\/i>molte persone<\/i> vogliono un partner esperto che garantisca un senso di sicurezza e protezione. A <\/i>molte persone<\/i> vogliono qualcuno che mostri loro come vivere correttamente.<\/i><\/p>\n

It’s no wonder we are attracted to people who are different from us. We want something that we don’t have because it’s new and exciting.<\/b><\/p>\n

And don’t EVER think there’s anything wrong with that!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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