{"id":14135,"date":"2020-03-08T11:33:44","date_gmt":"2020-03-08T11:33:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14135"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:33:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:33:40","slug":"se-fa-queste-11-cose-non-siete-piu-prioritari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-fa-queste-11-cose-non-siete-piu-prioritari\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fa queste 11 cose, non sei pi\u00f9 la sua priorit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Durante la \"fase del cucciolo\", \u00e8 facile essere #1 per un uomo. Ma cosa succede quando la fase del cucciolo \u00e8 finita?<\/p>\n

What happens when the amusement ends and when we\u2019re left with our true selves?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s more than logical that you\u2019ll be a priority at the very beginning of a relationship when everything is still fresh and while the two of you are still unknown to each other.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, dopo un po' di tempo, quando vi abituate l'uno all'altra, gli uomini possono iniziare a darvi per scontate e a trascurarvi facilmente.<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re one of the lucky ones who didn\u2019t experience this, but if you feel like your man has changed, we bring you 11 signs to see if he doesn\u2019t treat you like a priority anymore.<\/p>\n

Ci mette ore a rispondere<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

In the beginning, you probably texted a lot and you didn\u2019t have to wait longer than a few minutes for his reply.<\/p>\n

Ma dopo qualche tempo, i vostri messaggi sono diventati pi\u00f9 rari, i messaggi sono diventati pi\u00f9 brevi e anche l'amore che vi esprimevate attraverso i messaggi \u00e8 in qualche modo scomparso.<\/p>\n

Now, it takes him a few hours to reply and it doesn\u2019t even make sense to continue the conversation after so much time.<\/p>\n

Whatever excuse he might offer, never forget that you can\u2019t be so much busy to be unable to find less than 30 seconds to reply.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about the time; it\u2019s about priority, you know.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> 11 Signs You\u2019re Someone\u2019s Priority<\/a><\/p>\n

He Doesn\u2019t Pick Up The Phone When You Call<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

All'inizio chiamava solo per sentire la tua voce. Parlavate per ore prima di addormentarvi, ma ora tutto questo non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Now, he hardly picks up the phone when you call and he doesn\u2019t even call anymore.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, non ha pi\u00f9 l'abitudine di richiamarti quando vede una chiamata persa.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s much easier for him to come up with excuses such as \u201cMy phone was on silent\u201d, \u201cI forgot to call you back\u201d, \u201cI was too busy to pick up the phone when you called\u201d.<\/p>\n

His excuses are all lies, but what they\u2019re telling you is true\u2014you are no longer his priority.<\/p>\n

He Doesn\u2019t Want To Spend Quality Time<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Quando avete iniziato, tutto ci\u00f2 che voleva era passare del tempo da solo con te.<\/p>\n

He used every window of opportunity to steal some minutes of your time and he loved planning \u2018getaways\u2019 just for the two of you.<\/p>\n

Now, he doesn\u2019t even bother to accept the call out\u2014he rather stay in.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that he doesn\u2019t see the point of going out with you and spending time just with you when there are other people you could hang around with.<\/p>\n

Make no mistake: regardless of how long you\u2019ve been together, in order to have a healthy relationship, spending quality time just with you is a must.<\/p>\n

In case he\u2019s constantly avoiding this, be smart to figure out what this means.<\/p>\n

He Doesn\u2019t Care About Your Feelings Anymore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Forse vedervi felici era la sua cosa preferita e faceva di tutto per farvi sorridere.<\/p>\n

He did even the impossible in the beginning and now it seems like he doesn\u2019t care about your feelings anymore.<\/p>\n

When you try openly to tell him how his actions make you feel or that you\u2019re bugged by something he did, he says something just to brush you off or make you stop talking about it.<\/p>\n

Spesso cambia argomento e inizia a parlare di qualcos'altro perch\u00e9 i vostri sentimenti non sono pi\u00f9 la sua priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Sceglie di passare il tempo con gli altri piuttosto che con te<\/h2>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

When you first started, you had your own rituals and days in the week when you knew you\u2019d be spending time together.<\/p>\n

Ora sembra impossibile catturarlo senza altre persone intorno a lui.<\/p>\n

Every time you\u2019re supposed to spend time together, there is always someone showing up \u2018all of a sudden\u2019 to spend time with you, too.<\/p>\n

Quando gli proponete di fare qualcosa con voi, come andare a fare shopping, al cinema o al parco, sceglie di passare quel tempo con qualcun altro.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s choosing to spend time with others instead of spending it with you\u2014you two have a problem.<\/p>\n

He Doesn\u2019t Listen When You Talk<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Once, maybe a long time ago, you were often flooded by the questions, \u201cHow was work?\u201d, \u201cHow was your day?\u201d, \u201cHow are you feeling?\u201d etc., but now he doesn\u2019t even listen when you talk.<\/p>\n

Passate la maggior parte del tempo in silenzio o scorrendo i social media insieme.<\/p>\n

Quando si cerca di iniziare un argomento, sembra piuttosto disinteressato ad affrontarlo.<\/p>\n

Quando provate a raccontargli com'\u00e8 andata la giornata o a raccontargli qualcosa di divertente che vi \u00e8 successo, sembra annoiato o il discorso finisce senza che lui mostri alcun interesse.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, he even nods to something you tell him or ask him and later on, he doesn\u2019t do it, telling you he forgot when in reality, he wasn\u2019t paying any attention to it.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t listen when you talk, that\u2019s the ultimate sign he doesn\u2019t see you as his priority anymore.<\/p>\n

Trova sempre delle scuse<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Before, he was doing everything in his power to get you to like him. Now, it looks like he\u2019s doing everything so you\u2019d fall out of love.<\/p>\n

Instead of giving you what you deserve, treating you with respect and being there for you, he just keeps making excuses as to why something can\u2019t be done.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier to make an excuse than it is to make an actual effort<\/a>. And when all you get are excuses, it\u2019s a red flag that something is going downhill in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Se ne va nel bel mezzo di una discussione<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Leaving an argument is okay only if you want to give yourself some time to chill so you\u2019d be able to asses the problem cold-headedly.<\/p>\n

But if he\u2019s constantly running away from you in the middle of an argument, that won\u2019t solve the problem, but it will create even bigger ones.<\/p>\n

In case he has this habit of leaving in the middle of an argument, it means he doesn\u2019t really care anymore if the problems get solved or not.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care if you two are on good terms or not.<\/p>\n

Leaving you in the middle of an argument and leaving things unsolved would never be done by the person to whom you\u2019re a priority.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s Cutting You Off When It Comes To Hanging Out With His Friends And Family<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You used to hang around a lot with them, but now he doesn\u2019t take you to any family dinners, he doesn\u2019t invite you out with his friends and he plans things with them but doesn\u2019t include you.<\/p>\n

This means he\u2019s slowly brushing you off from the people he cares the most and from the people that are his priority.<\/p>\n

In case you\u2019re not invited to these gatherings, it means you\u2019re no longer a priority.<\/p>\n

Ti abbandona quando hai pi\u00f9 bisogno di lui\"donna<\/h2>\n

Una volta era l'uomo che correva a salvarti a qualunque costo.<\/p>\n

A prescindere dalla situazione disordinata in cui ci si trovava, si sapeva di poter contare su di lui. Ma ora le cose sono diverse.<\/p>\n

If he leaves you alone at the times when you need someone to be there for you, if he doesn\u2019t show up when he promises and if he doesn\u2019t care about your needs anymore, unfortunately, things are not great.<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t Treat You With Love<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Sapete di essere amati o almeno sapevate di esserlo. Ma ora le cose sono cambiate. Non vi sentite pi\u00f9 cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t see yourself in his eyes anymore. And each thing he does seems to be done so he\u2019d push you away<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, he did everything to win you over, but now you don\u2019t see a trace of that man anymore.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t text you often, he doesn\u2019t call to hear your voice, he doesn\u2019t want to know how your day was, he brushes you off often and you can\u2019t remember the last time he made you feel special.<\/p>\n

Perhaps now things seem a bit hopeless, but it doesn\u2019t have to be this way. You have two choices. You can either do something about it or you can walk away.<\/p>\n

Potete cercare di ricostruire il vostro rapporto e trovare un modo per riportare tutti quei momenti felici e belli o potete scegliere di allontanarvi da qualcuno che vi ha tolto dalla sua lista di priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Qualunque sia la vostra scelta, ricordate che la decisione spetta solo a voi.<\/p>\n

Assicuratevi di prendere la strada che fa voi<\/strong> felice.<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>\n

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