{"id":141354,"date":"2022-01-06T13:30:15","date_gmt":"2022-01-06T13:30:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=141354"},"modified":"2022-03-02T22:47:08","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T22:47:08","slug":"se-il-tuo-ex-ti-blocca-hai-vinto-il-significato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-il-tuo-ex-ti-blocca-hai-vinto-il-significato\/","title":{"rendered":"Se il tuo ex ti blocca, hai vinto: significato e 10 motivi per cui l'ha fatto"},"content":{"rendered":"

You noticed that your ex blocked you, and now you’re freaking out.<\/em><\/p>\n

You’re wondering if you did something wrong or said a mean thing without realizing it. You’re even wondering if he ever loved you at all.<\/p>\n

Un attimo prima si d\u00e0 la colpa a se stessi e un attimo dopo a lui.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Did all the memories mean nothing? Have you become ‘just some woman’ that he can get rid of that easily?<\/em><\/p>\n

Now, I know it’s frustrating, but let’s not jump to conclusions. If you stay with me, I will guide you through all the possible reasons why he might have blocked you.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, vi mostrer\u00f2 come, se il vostro ex vi blocca, avete vinto, il che significa che non avete davvero nulla di cui essere tristi. Continuate a leggere e tutto diventer\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 chiaro.<\/p>\n

Se il tuo ex ti blocca, hai vinto: significato<\/h2>\n

\"ragazze<\/p>\n

You have heard this so many times by now, yet you still don’t understand what it means.<\/p>\n

Come siete voi i vincitori se qualcuno che amavate vi blocca? Come potete lasciar perdere questo fatto?<\/em><\/p>\n

So che vi sentite in colpa perch\u00e9 probabilmente pensate che lui vi detesti. Pensi che non sei mai stata cos\u00ec importante per lui se \u00e8 riuscito a fare questo.<\/p>\n

But, that’s not quite true.<\/p>\n

What he did doesn’t erase his past actions<\/h3>\n

That’s right. Just because he decided to block you doesn’t mean his feelings were never real. It just means they somehow changed.<\/em><\/p>\n

Appreciate the way he loved you before, but don’t blame him for his current actions because honestly, you\u2019re nothing to each other anymore.<\/p>\n

You can’t be mad at him for moving on (because that’s probably what he’s trying to do).<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s better than holding on to something that will never again be alive.<\/p>\n

Probabilmente vuole solo un relazione sana<\/a>, but can’t do it with past memories still hovering over him.<\/p>\n

Ma, a prescindere dalle sue ragioni, non c'\u00e8 nulla per cui tu debba sentirti in colpa.<\/p>\n

Sei tu il vincitore<\/h3>\n

How someone treats you tells you how much they deserve to be in your life. If your ex blocks you, you won meaning that you don’t need someone who doesn’t fight for you.<\/p>\n

And, since you’re wondering about his reasons, I’m sure that is exactly what you expect him to do.<\/p>\n

Ma, dal momento che ha deciso di bloccarvi, questo vi dice quanto poco sia disposto a fare ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 giusto per voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Avete davvero intenzione di perdere tempo a pensare alla persona che vi ha fatto questo? Io credo di no.<\/em><\/p>\n

Quindi, siate felici di sapere finalmente qual \u00e8 la vostra posizione e andate a cercare qualcuno che vi consideri degni di lottare per voi.<\/p>\n

Cosa significa quando il vostro ex vi blocca<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ti blocca o perch\u00e9 ti rivuole indietro<\/a> o perch\u00e9 he\u2019s over you<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

L'unico modo per saperlo con certezza \u00e8 chiederglielo. Inviategli un messaggio di testo e tranquillizzatevi.<\/p>\n

If you’re not ready to do that, then wait it out and things will be much clearer soon.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 viene sempre a galla.<\/strong> Basta avere pazienza, perch\u00e9 ci sono ancora molti motivi che rientrano nelle due categorie sopra citate.<\/p>\n

10 possibili ragioni per cui il tuo ex ti ha bloccato<\/h2>\n

If you’re wondering why your ex would block you in the first place, consider the following reasons:<\/p>\n

1. He can’t look at your life without him.<\/h3>\n

Siete il tipo di donna che pubblica ogni piccolo dettaglio della sua vita? Condividete foto ogni giorno e vi vantate del vostro nuovo fidanzato e di quanto siete felici con lui.<\/em><\/p>\n

If so, then you can’t blame him for blocking you. Whether he has feelings for you or not, things can still affect him because it\u2019s hard to risollevarsi dopo una rottura<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Or, perhaps he doesn’t even have you on social media anymore, but a mutual friend told him about your new relationship.<\/p>\n

Probabilmente lo ha ferito molto e ha iniziato a ricordare la sua vita con te e quanto fosse bella.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now that he sees you\u2019re felice senza di lui<\/a>, it hurts, even more so if he doesn’t have anything interesting going on in his own life.<\/p>\n

2. He’s angry about something you did.<\/h3>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

La rabbia indica che prova ancora qualcosa per te<\/a>. But, obviously, blocking isn’t the healthiest way to deal with your emotions.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, lo fa perch\u00e9 prova rancore nei suoi confronti.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you ignored him when he said hello the last time you saw him, or he’s still angry that you managed to fall for someone else while being in a relazione a distanza<\/a> con lui.<\/em><\/p>\n

He is annoyed at whatever is separating you. It\u2019s an fase inevitabile di una rottura<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Whatever it is, it is so big in his eyes that he decided to block you. But, in reality, every problem is too big for him because he loves you, yet can’t have you anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Either way, if your ex blocks you, you won meaning that you don’t deserve someone so immature that they focus only on the bad times.<\/p>\n

RELATIVO: Fasi del distacco - Dentro la mente di colui che inizia una rottura<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Ha trovato un nuovo amore.<\/h3>\n

This can mean many things. Maybe he still has feelings for you, but another girl got his attention, and he doesn’t want his past to come and ruin his nuova relazione<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It’s also possible that he has completely moved on, but just doesn’t want to have an ex-girlfriend on social media.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ho una migliore amica che ha cancellato tutti i suoi ex fidanzati perch\u00e9 pensava che fosse una errore di rottura<\/a> di averli sulle piattaforme di social media mentre si \u00e8 impegnati con qualcun altro.<\/p>\n

Forse il vostro uomo la pensa allo stesso modo e vuole trattare l'altra persona con rispetto.<\/p>\n

4. La sua nuova ragazza gli ha chiesto di.<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Yes, this is possible, too. Some women want to make sure their boyfriend can’t contact his ex-girlfriend, so they tell him to block her to ensure it.<\/p>\n

Maybe he would never do that by his own will, but he wants to respect her wishes because he can’t lose her, even if he hurts you in the process.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can’t really blame him if \u00e8 andato avanti con un'altra persona<\/a>... puoi farlo? Dopo tutto, la vostra relazione \u00e8 finita.<\/p>\n

5. Ti vuole ancora.<\/h3>\n

This one’s obvious. Him blocking you often means that he’s not all that indifferent when it comes to you…<\/p>\n

He can’t stand looking at his inbox and seeing that the last message to you was sent so long ago. He can’t stand looking at your pic knowing that he’ll never again touch your face.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, he chooses to block you. That’s the only way he can andare avanti<\/a> \u2013 se non vedr\u00e0 mai pi\u00f9 nulla che abbia a che fare con voi.<\/em><\/p>\n

6. Sa che lo volete.<\/h3>\n

S\u00ec, so che sembra confuso, ma ascoltatemi.<\/p>\n

Even if it’s hard to accept it, you have to consider the possibility that he no longer cares about you romantically.<\/p>\n

But, that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care about your feelings.<\/em><\/p>\n

Maybe he has found a new girlfriend and wants to show her off to the world, but he’s too empathetic and knows you’re going to see it all.<\/p>\n

Si sente in colpa per che ha dato il via alla rottura<\/a>e vi vede ancora come un buon amico.<\/p>\n

Knowing how you feel about him, he decides he doesn’t want to hurt you, so he blocks you because he knows it’s the best way he can protect you \u2013 by staying away.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And, no, don’t confuse this with him still wanting you back. Sometimes, men can truly care about you without wanting to be romantically involved.<\/p>\n

E, chi lo sa? Forse you actually don\u2019t want him back<\/a> either. Maybe you\u2019re just used to being with him.<\/p>\n

7. He’s putting his past behind him.<\/h3>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He either moved on or is trying to move on. But, one thing is for certain \u2013 he doesn’t want to have anything with you ever again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Creating a whole new life is at the top of his priority list now, and you’re not included.<\/p>\n

Ma si pu\u00f2 davvero essere arrabbiati con lui per questo?<\/em> I know it looks like an immature move, but nothing is immature until you look at someone’s reasons.<\/p>\n

If he’s doing it for his own well-being, then it’s actually the most mature move he could have made.<\/p>\n

8. It’s all a game to get you back.<\/h3>\n

Forse \u00e8 ancora innamorato di te, ma stare lontano non \u00e8 certo il suo piano.<\/em><\/p>\n

He doesn’t block you because it’s hard for him to deal with his feelings, but rather because he knows how it will affect you.<\/p>\n

Potrebbe non essere un classico guy\u2019s behavior after a breakup<\/a>, ma succede comunque.<\/p>\n

Anche il mio ex ragazzo lo ha fatto per questo motivo. Mi ha bloccato solo su Instagram e Snapchat.<\/p>\n

Voleva provocare una reazione cos\u00ec intensa che alla fine avrei mandagli un messaggio<\/a> per chiedermi perch\u00e9 l'avesse fatto. Voleva che avessi dei ripensamenti sul fatto di rompere con lui.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Per questo motivo, anche il vostro uomo probabilmente si assicurer\u00e0 che abbiate un modo per contattarlo.<\/p>\n

Maybe he won’t change his phone number, so that you can send him a text message or send a message via WhatsApp or Viber.<\/p>\n

9. He’s just trying to hurt you.<\/h3>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If he blocks you because he’s trying to hurt you, then he still loves you, and doesn’t know how else to deal with it.<\/p>\n

His level of immaturity is over the roof, so he doesn’t know how to communicate with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead, he opts for blocking because that’s the only way he can show his love.<\/p>\n

In the end, he’ll probably unblock you and try to talk it out, but his immature nature will ruin it again.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, il suo comportamento a caldo e a freddo<\/a> is childish. Let’s be honest \u2013 you don’t need this kind of man in your life.<\/p>\n

10. He’s fighting his insecurities.<\/h3>\n

Whether he’s still in love with you or not, the way you ended your relationship might have left him with a lot of insecurities.<\/p>\n

If you were the one to break up with him, then maybe he’s struggling with problemi di autostima<\/a>e crede che nessuno possa mai amarlo.<\/p>\n

Per combattere questi problemi, decide di andare alla fonte<\/strong> \u2013 you. So, he blocks you.<\/p>\n

I know it’s got to hurt, but this is his way of aumentare l'amore per se stessi<\/a>, so you can’t really be angry with him for trying to take care of himself.<\/em><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 si blocca e si sblocca?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It’s either because he’s confused about his feelings… or he knows exactly what he’s doing.<\/em><\/p>\n

Cosa intendo con questo?<\/p>\n

Beh, se alla fine ti sblocca<\/a>, that means he’s still thinking about you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He blocked you because he was struggling with his feelings. He wanted to distance himself from you, but couldn’t do it for long, so he decided to undo his actions.<\/p>\n

This isn’t confusion. He knows exactly what he wants, and that is YOU.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But, he still doesn’t know what to do about it, so one day, he blocks you, and the next day, he comes back to where he started. And, if it’s not his first time doing it, then his struggle is even bigger.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, he’s blocking and then unblocking you as a deliberate act of getting you back. No, it’s not very mature, but he believes it to be effective.<\/p>\n

I mean, you are here wondering why he did it, aren’t you? It seems to be working.<\/em><\/p>\n

But, don’t let him get away with it. Tell him you want to meet up and then confront him. Explain how there are healthier ways to deal with your emotions.<\/p>\n

Or, better yet \u2013 rinunciare a lui<\/a> interamente.<\/p>\n

Cosa fare se il vostro ex vi blocca<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I know you’re overwhelmed right now, thinking, ”What do you do if your ex blocked you? How do you deal with it?”<\/p>\n

Well, don’t worry because I’ve got you covered. This is what you should do:<\/p>\n

1. Realize he isn’t a part of your life anymore.<\/h3>\n

S\u00ec, potrebbe avervi bloccato, ma perch\u00e9 questo dovrebbe preoccuparvi? It’s okay to wonder for a minute, but to devote any more time than that is unnecessary.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He has been gone for a couple of months or years now, and you were still able to continue living your life. Him blocking you doesn’t change much.<\/p>\n

Lui non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 nulla per voi, quindi il fatto che lo abbiate o meno sui social media non ha alcuna importanza. Perch\u00e9 non scaricarlo per sempre<\/a>?<\/p>\n

2. Don’t stalk him anymore.<\/h3>\n

I know. You’re too curious about why he blocked you, so you’re probably tempted to find other ways to stalk him. But, don’t you know?<\/p>\n

La curiosit\u00e0 ha ucciso il gatto!<\/p>\n

By prying further into his business, you’ll only do yourself harm. All the memories will come rushing back, and you’ll end up where you were before \u2013 pining over him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you really want someone who blocked you to have power over you? Don\u2019t you want to dite addio al vostro amore tossico<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n

3. Trovare il lato positivo.<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If your ex blocks you, you won meaning he’s now completely erased from your life.<\/em><\/p>\n

It’s easier for both of you not only to respect the regola del divieto di contatto<\/a>ma anche di non avere nemmeno la possibilit\u00e0 di mandarsi un messaggio.<\/p>\n

That’s why he didn’t just unfriend you. Se non c'\u00e8 modo di raggiungerlo, non c'\u00e8 nulla da sperare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Also, not being able to see each other’s photos will help keep the memories away.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to cry anymore over how handsome he is, but you can seek other opportunities and look at guys who are actually available for you to date.<\/p>\n

4. Inseguite i ragazzi che vi inseguono.<\/h3>\n

Maybe a part of you still wants your ex back, and that’s why you’re so overwhelmed by his decision to block you. In that case, I only have one thing to say:<\/p>\n

Lui ti ha lasciato andare e tu dovresti fare lo stesso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Avvicinatevi a quel cameriere carino che stavate guardando ieri sera o mandate un messaggio a quel ragazzo a cui piacete chiaramente, ma che ha paura di fare la prima mossa.<\/p>\n

If your ex blocks you, you won meaning he doesn’t deserve your attention.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead of still thinking about him, focus your attention on guys who actually want you. You’ll be happier for it.<\/p>\n

5. Concentrarsi su se stessi.<\/h3>\n

That’s right. You and your well-being come FIRST.<\/p>\n

You don’t always have to follow your heart. Following your head from time to time might save you a lot of trouble.<\/p>\n

There’s no point in holding on to someone from your past when they’ve clearly let you go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Concentratevi invece sulla creazione di un una vita pi\u00f9 felice e pi\u00f9 facile<\/a> per voi stessi. Prendetevi cura della vostra salute mentale e fate la vostra routine di cura della pelle ogni giorno. Date a voi stesse tutto l'amore che vi aspettavate da lui.<\/p>\n

Quando si impara a amare di pi\u00f9 se stessi<\/a>, you won’t be bothered by someone else denying you that love.<\/p>\n

Bloccare il proprio ex \u00e8 normale?<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The answer is yes… if you’re doing it for the right reasons.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you’re genuinely concerned about your mental health and can’t stop loving your ex<\/a>Bloccarli \u00e8 un atto di autocura.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anything you do that serves as an act of self-care is understandable and excusable. Besides, since your relationship ended, you don’t owe your ex anything.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, se li avete bloccati perch\u00e9 volete recuperarli<\/a>, and this is your twisted way of showing them how much you care, then no, I’m afraid it’s not normal.<\/p>\n

Dovreste riconsiderare i vostri modi e cercare di imparare a comunicare correttamente, perch\u00e9 se continuate a gestire le cose in questo modo, non finir\u00e0 mai bene. Ci pu\u00f2 scommettere.<\/em><\/p>\n

Conclusione<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Do you get the bigger picture now? You may be hurt by the fact that he blocked you, but in the end, it’s you who comes out victorious.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, se il vostro ex vi blocca, avete vinto, il che significa che il ragazzo indegno \u00e8 uscito dalla vostra vita.<\/em><\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 anche essere un ex partner, ma \u00e8 chiaro che voi provare ancora qualcosa per lui<\/a>. Quello che ha fatto dovrebbe far sparire questi sentimenti.<\/p>\n

As any relationship coach would advise their coaching client \u2013 someone who doesn’t come to your door saying ”Hey, I still want you!” but chooses to block you instead shouldn’t have a place in your life.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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