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<\/p>\nOgni <\/i>coppia sposata<\/i> has their trials and tribulations. That’s a normal part of marriage. But, when you come to the point when you feel lonely all the time, that becomes a problem.<\/i><\/p>\n
You probably feel like you can’t fix it, like you’re going to be stuck in this phase forever. And, you will… unless you do something about it.<\/b><\/p>\n
And, what’s better than writing a lonely wife’s letter to husband?<\/p>\n
I know it sounds like hard work, especially since it involves being completely vulnerable, but if you read on, you’ll see how it’s done.<\/p>\n
Dopo di ci\u00f2, sarete senza dubbio ispirati a creare la lettera perfetta per voi.<\/p>\n
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Caro marito,<\/p>\n
Siamo sposati da tanti anni e ci conosciamo cos\u00ec bene. Allora, perch\u00e9 ti senti ancora un'estranea per me?<\/p>\n
I look at your face and don\u2019t see <\/i>l'uomo che amo<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n Ti tocco e mi sembra pi\u00f9 un obbligo coniugale che un piacere.<\/i><\/p>\n Besides, ithas been a while since we’ve last been together. You don’t seem to want me anymore… not my body or my soul. I am non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 una priorit\u00e0 per voi<\/a>.<\/p>\n What has changed? Is it because I’m no longer a <\/b>giovane donna<\/b> da cui si pu\u00f2 essere attratti? \u00c8 questo? O si tratta di qualcosa di pi\u00f9 profondo?<\/b><\/p>\n I feel like it is because we don’t even talk…<\/p>\n Vi ricordate quando passavamo ore a fare dibattiti intellettuali? Condividevamo incredibile chimica<\/a>.<\/p>\n You would always tell me I’m so much smarter than you. You always were the type of person who couldn’t see their own worth.<\/p>\n You couldn’t see the glow in your eyes when you saw the happiness in someone else. You couldn’t see how you looked when you talked passionately about the things you loved.<\/b><\/p>\n Dicevi che ero pi\u00f9 intelligente, ma eri tu quello che sapeva amare.<\/p>\n I was never quite capable… of esprimere i miei sentimenti<\/a> correttamente. Questo l'ha allontanata?<\/p>\n Mi dispiace se ti ho fatto sentire <\/i>non amato<\/i>. That was the last thing in the world I wanted to do. I am just not sure how to tell you… I guess I am trying that now.<\/i><\/p>\n I do love you, you know? Please stop pushing me away… Don’t run away from me anymore. Heal my cuore spezzato<\/a>.<\/p>\n Mi hai detto che eravamo <\/b>anime gemelle<\/b>, remember? Well, aren’t <\/b>anime gemelle<\/b> che dovrebbero stare insieme per sempre?<\/b><\/p>\n I may be married to you, but I still feel so lonely… I feel like I ho perso me stesso a causa dell'amore<\/a>.<\/p>\n The partnership we created long ago has disappeared… vanished into thin air. Come and be my darling again! Be my best friend!<\/p>\n I don’t want us to be strangers…<\/p>\n Do you know what it’s like to come home after a long day and hear you say nothing more than ”Hey, what’s up?” You don’t even look up. You keep staring at your <\/i>social media<\/i>.<\/i><\/p>\n It hurts… more than you will ever know. It hurts wanting to tell you all about my day, but something in me stops me… The distance between us is too great.<\/p>\n But, you aren’t doing anything about it! You make me think like I\u2019m <\/b>difficile da amare<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n It’s not just that we don’t communicate\u2026 but you don’t even smile at me. You never tell me jokes like you used to. We don’t even fight, for God’s sake!<\/p>\n Come posso sapere cosa ho fatto di sbagliato se rimaniamo bloccati in un posto, incapaci di essere chi siamo veramente?<\/p>\n Please, tell me… Are you still the same person I married? Because I am… I just keep her hidden because I’m afraid you don’t want her anymore\u2026 I\u2019ve been deluso troppe volte<\/a>.<\/p>\n Sono <\/b>coppie sposate<\/b> usually like this? Is this inevitable? Why hasn’t anyone told me it was going to be this way?<\/b><\/p>\n Then again, they probably did\u2026 I just didn’t listen.<\/p>\n I loved you too much… To be honest, I still do. That’s why I’m writing you all this\u2026 because I want to fix this. What better way is there than a lonely wife’s letter to husband?<\/p>\n S\u00ec, mi sento davvero sola. Le parole non riescono a descrivere come mi sento ogni volta che esci con i tuoi amici invece di passare del tempo con me. Tu mi hai abbandonato quando avevo pi\u00f9 bisogno di te<\/a>.<\/p>\n But, the worst of all is when you’re there with me, but I don’t feel your presence. In your mind, you’re always elsewhere… far, far away from me.<\/b><\/p>\n Oh, won’t you come back?! Won’t you love me again like the first time?!<\/p>\n Mio caro maritino, non hai idea di quanto io abbia bisogno del tuo amore. Non hai idea di quanto Mi manchi<\/a>.<\/p>\n The truth is… I’ve been missing you for years, I just wasn’t aware. That’s silly, huh? How is that even possible? Well, I don’t know…<\/p>\n So solo che un giorno, l'anno scorso, mi sono svegliata e sono stata colpita da un fulmine! SONO SOLA! NON HO NESSUNO!<\/p>\n The children are grown up, leading their own lives… I can’t expect them to devote more time to me. They’re young. They ought to have fun and experience things.. But you…<\/p>\n You swore an oath to me. You promised me forever, and now I’m crying because I have to remind you of it.<\/b><\/p>\n Why couldn’t you remember it yourself? How could you forget me while being right there beside me?<\/p>\n PER FAVORE, RICORDATE!<\/b><\/p>\n I don’t have superpowers. I am a human being capable of bearing only a certain amount of pain. I\u2019m stanchi di essere sempre forti<\/a>.<\/p>\n In fact, most of the time, my strength is a facade. You probably have no clue as to how I feel. But, I\u2019m al mio punto di rottura<\/a>! I’m burning! I’m aching! I can’t bear the loneliness anymore!<\/p>\n Non posso pi\u00f9 essere il <\/i>moglie solitaria<\/i> seeking her husband’s long lost warmth.<\/i><\/p>\n I think there is more love between partners in a long distance relationship. That’s because distance doesn’t mean anything.<\/p>\n Se due persone si amano, nulla pu\u00f2 tenerle lontane.<\/p>\n But, if they don’t… they could die by each other’s side and still be as distant as ever! Please, don’t let that be us. I will write you lettere d'amore emotive<\/a> ogni giorno se potessi evitare che ci\u00f2 accada!<\/p>\n Sei l'amore della mia vita, tesoro. E lo sarai finch\u00e9 avr\u00f2 fiato.<\/p>\n Voglio trascorrere il <\/b>il resto della mia vita<\/b> with you, but don’t let it be without love! Don’t let us just be <\/b>coinquilini<\/b> che non sanno nulla l'uno dell'altro.<\/b><\/p>\n Please… talk to me. Tell me what’s wrong. I feel so <\/b>non amato<\/b>. Do you feel the same way? Where did we go wrong? I don’t understand\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n So solo che far\u00f2 tutto il necessario per sistemare le cose.<\/p>\n Dedicher\u00f2 molto tempo ad amarti come meriti. Ma mi aspetto lo stesso. Voglio che le cose siano come all'inizio.<\/p>\n Vi ricordate quando abbiamo parlato dei linguaggi dell'amore?<\/p>\n Anche se non sei mai stato un fan delle coccole, non appena hai scoperto che il tocco \u00e8 il mio <\/i>linguaggio dell'amore<\/i><\/a>Mi hai preso in braccio e ti sei preso cura di me come se fossi un bambino.<\/i><\/p>\n From that moment on, you never complained about it because making me happy made you happy. Oh, please tell me that you remember! I don’t want to be the only one who does!<\/p>\n I miss the way you used to hug me. I miss our cuddling during cold winter nights. I miss the way you’d touch my face when you woke up before me. I would always pretend to be asleep because I knew it would make you uncomfortable.<\/b><\/p>\n Mi dispiace di non aver mai potuto adottare <\/i>il tuo linguaggio d'amore<\/i>… I am sorry I could never <\/i>dirti a parole quanto sei importante per me<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n I have a feeling that’s the very thing that ruined us. But, I suppose we are both to blame. Nobody was doing anything to stop it, right?<\/p>\n That’s why I’m writing you this open letter<\/a>… because I want things to be different.<\/p>\n I don’t want to wake up one day only to hear you say that you want a divorce. That’s my biggest fear, actually… being totally separate from you.<\/p>\n I know that things are hard now, but it’ll be okay as soon as we acknowledge the hardships!<\/b><\/p>\n Il problema principale \u00e8 sempre il silenzio. In questo modo non si risolve mai nulla.<\/p>\n Ma, qualche tempo fa, il silenzio era addirittura piacevole. Parlavamo per ore e poi stavamo seduti l'uno accanto all'altro senza dire una parola.<\/p>\n Mi guardavi e il tuo sguardo mi trafiggeva l'anima. Mi conoscevi cos\u00ec bene. Tu eri il <\/i>l'uomo che mi ha salvato<\/i><\/a>!<\/i><\/p>\n Come si pu\u00f2 <\/i>non si preoccupa della donna che una volta amava cos\u00ec tanto<\/i><\/a>? Oh, se solo potessi tornare indietro nel tempo, cos\u00ec che tu possa amarmi di nuovo!<\/i><\/p>\n Could a lonely wife’s letter to husband really make that happen again?<\/p>\n After all, I have always lacked words, but I\u2019ve been troppo forte per troppo tempo<\/a>. Ora, sto versando la mia anima perch\u00e9 la consumiate interamente.<\/p>\n I’m not afraid to be <\/b>emotivamente vulnerabile<\/b><\/a> anymore because being afraid now means losing you. And, I just couldn’t bear that.<\/b><\/p>\n I can’t tell you to your face how I feel. It’s just too hard. This was the only way. But, as long as they are my words, it doesn’t matter, does it?<\/p>\n I am choosing to be honest. I am choosing to fight for you. You might think that it’s over, but I’m not willing to accept that.<\/i><\/p>\n I mean… I don’t even know how you feel. It’s strange, isn’t it? I am here just assuming things. I guess I thought I could read the mind of the man whom I have loved for so long. But, I can’t, and Mi sento deluso<\/a>\u2026<\/p>\n Nobody can read anyone’s mind. That’s what words are for. But, oh the irony! This time, it’s me who’s expressing my emotions, and not you! Won’t you be surprised?<\/b><\/p>\n Forse abbastanza sorpreso da farmi tornare?<\/b><\/p>\n So di parlare come una casalinga<\/a>, but I’m far from that. These aren’t the cries of a desperate woman.<\/p>\n These are the cries of a woman who is ready to be loved the way she deserves… of a woman who is ready to dimostrarti che ti amo<\/a> the way you always should’ve been loved!<\/p>\n I don’t want you just because you’re my husband. I don’t want you out of loneliness. I want you because you’re the <\/i>l'amore della mia vita<\/i> and I don’t know what to do without you!<\/i><\/p>\n S\u00ec, sono un donna forte e indipendente<\/a>Ma sono anche un essere umano e tutti gli esseri umani desiderano l'amore. Che mondo sarebbe se non ci fosse l'amore?<\/p>\n I know your feelings haven’t disappeared. I refuse to believe otherwise. Your love for me is far too great to die out. As is mine.<\/p>\n My darling, I want us to be proper partners to each other. And, by that, I don’t mean sharing the same bed or household chores.<\/p>\n Waking up in the same bed with you isn’t enough because it feels like waking up with a stranger.<\/b><\/p>\n Ognuno di noi si alza e si prepara per la giornata senza dire una parola. Se solo sapessi quanto mi mancano le tue parole! Il tuo dolce sorriso!<\/p>\n My friends keep telling me that it’s so obvious things are over. But, they don’t know…<\/p>\n They haven’t lived our life. They don’t know what a loving husband you have been or that I am the donna che ama incondizionatamente<\/a>.<\/p>\n Nothing was able to tear us apart, not even a cruel mother-in-law (if you’ll forgive me for saying it this way), not even sickness, not even a year-long lockdown!<\/p>\n The only thing that ever stood in our way was our inability to just… say the words.<\/p>\n Ti amo<\/b><\/a>! <\/b>Ti amo<\/b>! <\/b>Ti amo<\/b>! 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