{"id":14235,"date":"2018-02-09T13:44:32","date_gmt":"2018-02-09T13:44:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14235"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:42:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:42:52","slug":"il-micro-imbroglio-puo-essere-pericoloso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-micro-imbroglio-puo-essere-pericoloso\/","title":{"rendered":"Cos'\u00e8 il micro-cheating (e perch\u00e9 pu\u00f2 essere pericoloso)"},"content":{"rendered":"

The thing with micro-cheating is that it\u2019s very hard to detect. It is a form of tradimento emotivo<\/a> and it\u2019s getting more and more common among people who like to leave their options open, even if they are already in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s first get to the real meaning of this trendy expression. According to psychologist Melanie Schilling, \u201cMicro-cheating is a series of seemingly small actions that indicate a person is emotionally or physically focused on someone outside their relationship.”<\/p>\n

Some people look at it as a form of betrayal and some as innocent flirting that is blown out of proportion. Why, flirting can be a part of nature for some people, it\u2019s something fun they do without giving it any higher meaning.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte chi vorrebbe avere una relazione con una persona che:<\/p>\n

1. Dedica molto tempo alla scansione e all'indagine degli account dei social media di una determinata persona.
\n2. Invia a qualcun altro messaggi commoventi pieni di emoji d'amore.
\n3. Nega di avere una fidanzata\/un fidanzato
\n4. Il telefono di quella persona ha un nome in codice.
\n5. Rimane in contatto con il suo ex o lo vede alle sue spalle.
\n6. Confides in someone outside of your relationship about the things that should stay private or reserved for your partner\u2019s ears only<\/p>\n

While some people will discard the things listed above and try to justify their behavior, like justify that they haven\u2019t kissed them, they haven\u2019t had sex with them or anything like that, it still doesn\u2019t feel right. Mantenere i segreti<\/a> like that from your partner can\u2019t be a good thing and it will most probably backfire. Nothing positive can happen when a person who is in a relationship has an obsession with somebody else. It can be really hurtful.
\nInnocent flirting, if it can be considered innocent, would consist of smiling here and there, making interesting conversation or liking each other\u2019s posts. That is considered normal.<\/p>\n

But anything beyond that can be a serious threat to your relationship. A person who engages in micro-cheating can form a strong emotional bond with somebody and that can be as hurtful to their partner as actual physical cheating. Being faithful to your partner means being entirely devoted, both body and mind. It doesn\u2019t mean catching feelings for somebody else.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why if you are overdoing anything, if you are hiding things from your partner, or feeling guilty about not sharing some things with him, you should completely stop what you are doing, for the sake of your relationship.<\/p>\n

Pensate a cosa vi ha spinto a farlo e se c'\u00e8 qualcosa che vi sta facendo infelice nella sua relazione<\/a>. Are they any issues you need to discuss with your partner? Because the solution to your problems is never somebody outside of your relationship. It\u2019s always about just two people. You can\u2019t escape your problems, especially in this way, and you wouldn\u2019t want to hurt your partner\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

Se sospettate che il vostro partner sia coinvolto in qualcosa di simile, deve essere successo qualcosa che ha piantato il seme del dubbio nella vostra mente. Il suo comportamento potrebbe essere cambiato, potreste aver visto qualche messaggio o qualche nome sconosciuto sul suo telefono che vi ha fatto venire il dubbio che ci fosse qualcosa di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

L'importante \u00e8 non reagire in modo eccessivo. Prendete le cose con calma. Tanto per cominciare, il vostro partner potrebbe farlo solo a livello inconscio. Potrebbe non fare assolutamente nulla, ma a volte la gelosia prende il sopravvento.
\nParlategli quando siete tranquilli e calmi e chiedetegli perch\u00e9 lo sta facendo. Chiedetegli cosa penserebbe se le cose stessero al contrario e se scoprisse che vi state avvicinando o vi state appassionando a qualcuno che non sia lui. Ditegli che il suo comportamento vi fa male e che apprezzereste molto se smettesse di fare quello che sta facendo. Non c'\u00e8 niente di cos\u00ec potente come una conversazione aperta e onesta. Potrebbe persino risolvere la situazione.<\/p>\n

Micro-cheating can be really devastating to your relationship if things go any further. Keeping secrets from your partner is never a good thing. Relationships are built on trust and respect and if they are non-existent, your relationship won\u2019t be able to survive. So honesty really is the best policy.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The thing with micro-cheating is that it\u2019s very hard to detect. It is a form of emotional cheating and it\u2019s getting more and more common among people who like to leave their options open, even if they are already in a relationship. Let\u2019s first get to the real meaning of this trendy expression. According to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":14239,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14235","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/darkness-490553-2.jpg",800,549,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14235","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14235"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14235\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14239"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14235"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14235"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14235"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}