{"id":14257,"date":"2019-08-09T14:22:22","date_gmt":"2019-08-09T14:22:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14257"},"modified":"2022-02-10T13:04:39","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T13:04:39","slug":"8-consigli-per-smettere-di-attrarre-i-ragazzi-sbagliati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-consigli-per-smettere-di-attrarre-i-ragazzi-sbagliati\/","title":{"rendered":"8 consigli su come smettere di attrarre i ragazzi sbagliati"},"content":{"rendered":"

It doesn\u2019t matter how many times we get broken, somehow we still keep attracting men who aren’t really good for us. Of course, every relationship teaches us a valuable lesson for our life\u2014but why does it hurt this bad?<\/p>\n

Questi ragazzi ci segnano per il resto della nostra vita e siamo tutti stufi di loro! Ecco quindi alcuni consigli e trucchi su come smettete di attirare gli uomini sbagliati<\/a>:<\/p>\n

1. Know what you’re looking for<\/span><\/h2>\n

Most of the time, we settle for guys who don’t really fit the profile of the man we’ve been dreaming of, but we still want to be with him, thinking that he might change for the better.<\/p>\n

No. Smettila.<\/p>\n

Sapere cosa si vuole<\/a> and what you deserve in a relationship. If he’s doesn’t want to introduce you to his friends or is super-crazy jealous, those are red flags that are telling you to run for the hills, because those things stay for life.<\/p>\n

2. Essere sicuri di s\u00e9 e conoscere il proprio valore<\/span><\/h2>\n

Again, we settle for regular men who look cute, but are toxic as hell, because we don’t know what we deserve.<\/p>\n

It’s very important to know that you are an awesome individual who can do anything that she dreams of! So don’t forget that!<\/p>\n

You want a man, you don’t need one. It’s just more fun when he does something for you, even when you can do it yourself.<\/p>\n

Don’t be desperate by running into a man’s arms. Know that there is nothing in this world that is even close to being as beautiful and unique as you are.<\/p>\n

3. Don’t be afraid of commitment<\/span><\/h2>\n

Potrebbe sembrare strano, ma l'altro giorno stavo uscendo con una delle mie amiche e lei mi ha detto che sceglie sempre i ragazzi sbagliati<\/a> perch\u00e9 ha paura di sposarsi e impegnarsi.<\/p>\n

Ho ripensato alle mie precedenti relazioni ed era esattamente quello che stavo facendo senza nemmeno rendermene conto. Potreste essere paura di impegnarsi<\/a> as well, it’s just that you didn’t realize it until now.<\/p>\n

4. You can’t find a right guy in the wrong place<\/span><\/h2>\n

If you’ve fallen in love with a man who you met in a club, drunk and surrounded by other women, then there is no chance in hell he’s the right one.<\/p>\n

You can’t want a guy who was drunk when you met him, when you don’t like drinking at all. So, if you want a lasting and loving relationship with a man who is well-read, you will find him in a library, not a disco.<\/p>\n

5. Realize that you don’t need approval<\/span><\/h2>\n

I don’t know if this is the case in your past relationships, but many struggle with the need for approval in relationships. Girls will start a relationship with anyone who gives them attention and approval just because it feels good; don’t be one of them.<\/p>\n

This is, of course, not the fault of the woman, but the fault of important male figures in her past who didn’t give her the recognition she needed.<\/p>\n

6. Sapere che si pu\u00f2 rompere uno schema<\/span><\/h2>\n

Even if all your previous boyfriends were bad boys who just needed you for their own pleasure, that doesn’t mean that it’ll be this way for the rest of your life. You can break that pattern now and start anew.<\/p>\n

Even if you got familiar with the feeling of being in a toxic relationship and you got used to the pain, you don’t have to live in it forever. You will be happy and you will feel much more satisfied in a new kind of relationship with someone who appreciates you.<\/p>\n

7. Essere consapevoli dei fattori di rottura dell'accordo<\/span><\/h2>\n

So, he came home smelling like another woman. Don\u2019t just hide in the corner and cry, no.<\/p>\n

You face that D-bag and tell him what’s up.<\/p>\n

If he doesn’t give you enough attention that you deserve, then there is no need for me to tell you that you need to move on. He’s not worthy of your efforts and energy. Know your limits when it comes to relationships and don’t cross them.<\/p>\n

8. Fare una pausa<\/span><\/h2>\n

Prendetevi una pausa<\/a> dal mondo degli appuntamenti per conoscere meglio voi stessi e le vostre esigenze. Sappiate che l\u00e0 fuori c'\u00e8 qualcuno che \u00e8 stato fatto apposta per voi e che nessuno pu\u00f2 portarvelo via.<\/p>\n

Just give yourself time to think and don’t push yourself. Being pushy with yourself can lead to a whole lot of unhealthy decisions.<\/p>\n

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