{"id":14274,"date":"2020-04-12T09:16:10","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T09:16:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14274"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:03:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:03:55","slug":"11-cose-che-le-donne-hanno-ferito-molte-volte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/11-cose-che-le-donne-hanno-ferito-molte-volte\/","title":{"rendered":"11 cose che le donne fanno perch\u00e9 sono state ferite troppe volte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siamo creature fragili che possono trasformarsi in mostri quando le persone non sanno come apprezzarci.<\/p>\n

Essere spezzati e feriti cambia drasticamente la vita di una donna, che pu\u00f2 iniziare a comportarsi in modo diverso con le persone che le sono care.<\/p>\n

It’s not a bad thing to change, but the change that occurs after being hurt by someone we love can have consequences for the rest of our life.<\/p>\n

La donna spezzata<\/a> pu\u00f2 essere identificata dal suo comportamento, in quelle piccole attivit\u00e0 quotidiane che rendono sempre pi\u00f9 visibili i suoi pezzi rotti.<\/p>\n

1. Ride del romanticismo<\/h2>\n

\"giovane
\nIf a guy approaches her with some cheesy, clich\u00e9d line, she will most probably laugh dramatically at him and make a huge scene about it.<\/p>\n

Roses are disgusting, chocolate is probably poisoned and hugs and kisses aren’t welcome.<\/p>\n

2. She doesn’t take love seriously<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Se le chiedete della sua vita sentimentale, probabilmente vi far\u00e0 una o due battute.<\/p>\n

She’ll tell you that she wants to die alone with 72 cats. Even if it sounds weird and you laugh at it, it’s still kind of cringey.<\/p>\n

3. She won’t trust anyone<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Her feelings have been mistreated and she can’t let anyone close enough to see her true self again.<\/p>\n

She simply can’t and won’t trust anyone ever again. It’s what experience taught her.<\/p>\n

4. Sopporta le persone tossiche<\/h2>\n

\"gruppo<\/p>\n

Cosa? She’s been hurt before<\/a>. Non c'\u00e8 nulla che possa sorprenderla in questi giorni.<\/p>\n

So what if she texts her ex when she’s drunk in a club? There is nothing he can do that surprises her, and she probably just wants to have some fun.<\/p>\n

5. Flirta. Molto<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 stato un tempo (molto tempo fa) in cui si sarebbe innamorata di un uomo e sarebbe stata sua fino alla fine.<\/p>\n

But now that she’s broken? No, darling. She’s seen how ‘keeping your options open’ is much better and isn’t emotionally tiring, which is why she goes around harmlessly flirting.<\/p>\n

6. She ends up hurting people, even when that’s not her intention<\/h2>\n

\"Due<\/p>\n

You see, broken girls know how hard it is to be hurt and go through all that pain over and over again, so she doesn’t want to hurt anyone.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t want someone to go through the same things she went through.<\/p>\n

Ma a causa della sua inavvicinabilit\u00e0, finisce per ferire le persone involontariamente. Se qualcuno cerca di avvicinarsi a lei, scappa via, lasciando la persona confusa e distrutta.<\/p>\n

7. Ha imparato che la tristezza fa parte della vita.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Invece di concentrarsi sul presente, si sofferma sul passato e accetta la depressione e la tristezza piuttosto che andare avanti con la sua vita.<\/p>\n

This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, because tutti noi abbiamo bisogno di trovare una soluzione<\/a> vivendo le nostre emozioni fino alla fine, non importa quanto tempo ci voglia per sentirsi di nuovo meglio.<\/p>\n

But, if it goes on endlessly, then it’s not fine, she\u2019s not doing great.<\/p>\n

8. Pensa che tutti vogliano usarla<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When she meets a new guy and he’s really nice to her, she probably believes that he only wants her for sex.<\/p>\n

Nothing more. Just sex. Or that he’s going to break her heart right away. That’s why she doesn’t even start a relationship.<\/p>\n

9. Si innamora di uomini inavvicinabili<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

They simply feel familiar. She got used to people hurting her and nice guys scare her, so that\u2019s why she keeps falling for emotionally unapproachable men.<\/p>\n

It’s just what feels familiar and she knows how to deal with them.<\/p>\n

10. Ripete la storia nella sua mente<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Continua a ripetere tutto nella sua mente e cerca costantemente di capire cosa sia andato storto.<\/p>\n

She can’t find a way to be herself anymore, because her mind won’t allow her that.<\/p>\n

It’s too occupied with thinking about those awful things he did to her and how he made her feel.<\/p>\n

11. Crede nel cambiamento<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

A prescindere dal dolore e dalla sofferenza che ha vissuto a causa dell'amore, crede ancora che l'amore sia l\u00e0 fuori, in attesa.<\/p>\n

Crede che un giorno trover\u00e0 qualcuno che la amer\u00e0 per quello che \u00e8 e la apprezzer\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Esiste un modo per cambiare il suo modo di fare<\/a> di pensare e di migliorare; lei crede fermamente in questo.<\/p>\n

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