{"id":14279,"date":"2020-06-12T10:41:35","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T10:41:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14279"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:52:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:52:12","slug":"6-cose-da-sapere-per-scegliere-luomo-giusto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-da-sapere-per-scegliere-luomo-giusto\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cose da sapere prima di scegliere l'uomo giusto"},"content":{"rendered":"

Oggi \u00e8 difficile mantenere una relazione di qualit\u00e0. Si vedono matrimoni e relazioni che vanno in pezzi ogni giorno.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 difficile navigare in Internet senza vedere una coppia di celebrit\u00e0 che abbandona la propria relazione.<\/p>\n

And I bet it has happened to you a number of times. You thought you\u2019d finally met a guy who will make love easy, who is going to be there for you for the rest of your lives, but your bubble burst soon and you broke up.<\/p>\n

Poi hai perso la speranza, decided you\u2019re going to stay single<\/a>Ma poi un altro \u00e8 entrato nella vostra vita e la stessa cosa \u00e8 accaduta di nuovo.<\/p>\n

Stavi girando in tondo e l'unica cosa che hai ottenuto \u00e8 che sei stato scaricato.<\/p>\n

So, that makes you wonder. Wouldn\u2019t be great if there was some kind of manual to a long-lasting and a happy relationship, directions that would exactly show you is he worth the bother or not?<\/p>\n

Yeah\u2026but you know that there is no such thing.<\/p>\n

Instead, give it all you\u2019ve got, have faith that every next guy might be the one because in the end, you actually never know.<\/p>\n

But I know this is easier said than done and that\u2019s why I bring you a few things you definitely need to know in order to choose the right guy.<\/p>\n

Devi sapere che ha un passato<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You have to understand that he has baggage from the past. You aren\u2019t the first girl he met and you can\u2019t exactly know what emotional state he is in.<\/p>\n

Maybe he has been hurt, maybe he doesn\u2019t trust women that much or maybe he is just emotivamente insicuro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Credo che il modo migliore per vedere il suo comportamento futuro sia dare un'occhiata al suo passato. Le persone possono cambiare, ma non cos\u00ec tanto.<\/p>\n

La loro interiorit\u00e0, i loro sentimenti pi\u00f9 profondi, le loro percezioni e i loro principi rimarranno pi\u00f9 o meno gli stessi.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t like what you see, if you don\u2019t like his past behavior, it\u2019s better to move on. Don\u2019t fool yourself into thinking that you can change him.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t want to do that himself, you can\u2019t either.<\/p>\n

Chemistry isn\u2019t the key<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

So che quando si incontra qualcuno e la chimica \u00e8 fuori dal mondo, ci si sente attratti da quella persona all'istante.<\/p>\n

What you have to have in mind is that chemistry isn\u2019t the key to a successful relationship. Chemistry can only help at the beginning.<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 avvicinare due persone, ma con il passare del tempo la chimica si affievolisce.<\/p>\n

If you are left with nothing at that stage of the relationship, it will probably fall apart and you\u2019ll have to start from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Non giustificate mai le cose negative che accadono nella vostra relazione solo perch\u00e9 la chimica \u00e8 magnetica.<\/p>\n

Devi essere in grado di essere te stessa con lui.<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

I know this sounds cheesy, but it\u2019s also very true. You don\u2019t want to spend the rest of your life pretending you are something that you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Alla fine vi consumer\u00e0 lentamente e vi distrugger\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Quando incontrate il ragazzo che pensate possa essere quello giusto, siate voi stesse fin dall'inizio e se gli piace, bene.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t, screw him\u2014you don\u2019t need that kind of man in your life.<\/p>\n

Being yourself around the person you love and not being judged for it is the best feeling in the world. You\u2019ll be so happy because you will be both in love and true to yourself.<\/p>\n

Dovete essere sicuri che abbia le qualit\u00e0 di cui avete bisogno.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Assicuratevi che sia compatibile con voi per quanto riguarda le cose importanti per voi, come la religione, la famiglia, le finanze, ecc.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t focus just on the first thing you see\u2014like for example the fact he has a sense of humor and he makes you laugh. Don\u2019t let that blind you.<\/p>\n

Sure, you\u2019re fine with him at the beginning because he has that characteristic you love so much, but what if that certain thing is making you miss other things, big things, which he lacks?<\/p>\n

If this happens to you, you are going to have huge problems later in a relationship when he doesn\u2019t have the qualities you want.<\/p>\n

Devi mettere te stesso al primo posto<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This is not selfish. It\u2019s perfectly logical\u2014especially if you have been hurt before.<\/p>\n

Dovete pensare ai vostri obiettivi e alle vostre aspirazioni e, una volta che sapete quali sono, dovete scoprire se lui ha il coraggio di sostenere i vostri sogni.<\/p>\n

Ha le carte in regola per aiutarvi quando avete bisogno del suo aiuto?<\/p>\n

Non sottomettetevi mai a una sola persona, perch\u00e9 potreste ritrovarvi alla fine della vostra vita senza aver concluso nulla perch\u00e9 siete stati il suo sostegno emotivo.<\/p>\n

Find a balance, but don\u2019t ignore things you want to do. If he really is the right one for you, he will support you in whatever you do and he\u2019s going to make you a better person than you already are\u2014and you are going to do the same for him.<\/p>\n

Devono esserci fiducia e rispetto<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

The most important thing of them all. All of these things don\u2019t make any sense if there is no mutual respect and trust.<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 piacervi quanto volete, ma se gli nascondete le cose o lui le nasconde a voi, c'\u00e8 qualcosa che non va. Dovete rispettare il suo spazio personale e lui deve rispettare il vostro.<\/p>\n

Men value respect above everything else. For them, respect is the equivalent of how love, trust and appreciation are in women\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n

A man needs to feel needed and respected for what he does. If he is not, he will probably think that you don\u2019t care enough about him and he slowly disinnamorarsi<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Lo stesso vale per voi quando si tratta di fiducia e apprezzamento. Dovete averla, altrimenti vi sentirete indesiderati e ignorati.<\/p>\n

Date un'occhiata alle cose che dovete sapere prima di scegliere l'uomo giusto e risparmiatevi il dolore di scegliere quello sbagliato.<\/p>\n

Il cuore \u00e8 quello che sceglie, ma cercate di coinvolgere anche la parte razionale di voi stessi nel processo decisionale.<\/p>\n

Try to find the balance between the two and you\u2019re going to be just fine.<\/p>\n

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