{"id":143827,"date":"2022-02-02T21:28:27","date_gmt":"2022-02-02T21:28:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=143827"},"modified":"2022-09-21T12:38:50","modified_gmt":"2022-09-21T12:38:50","slug":"segni-che-finge-di-amarti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-finge-di-amarti\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti ama (o no)? 21 Segni evidenti che lui presume di amarti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know you feel confused. One part of you wants to know the truth, and the other would be happy living a lie as long as you&#8217;re still with him.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma, per quanto faccia male, meriti di sapere cosa prova veramente per te.<\/b> Being with a guy who doesn&#8217;t care about you is nothing but a waste of your precious time.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been where you are.<b> Mi ci sono voluti anni per <\/b><b>rottura<\/b><b> con lui.<\/b> I learned my lesson the hard way&#8230; but I still learned it.<\/p>\n<p><b>Anche se la domanda da porsi \u00e8:<\/b> \u00c8 davvero necessario <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-rompere-con-qualcuno-che-si-ama\/\">lasciarlo<\/a>? E se il tuo istinto fosse sbagliato? Quali sono i segni che lui finge di amarti?<\/p>\n<p>Stay with me, and let&#8217;s find out together!<\/p>\n<h2>21 chiari segni che lui fa finta di amarti<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mi-ama-22-modi-per-sapere-che-ha-occhi-solo-per-te-2\/\">Il suo amore \u00e8 reale?<\/a>? Questi 21 segni vi daranno la risposta:<\/p>\n<h3>1. You just don&#8217;t feel the love at all<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143829 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table.jpg\" alt=\"una donna immaginaria con i capelli crespi seduta a un tavolo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-imaginary-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sitting-at-a-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re probably confused right now. You&#8217;re wondering if your insecurities are lying to you or if <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/34-segni-non-ama-piu\/\">he really doesn&#8217;t have feelings for you<\/a>. Which is it? Well, I&#8217;m here to help!<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s do it this way.<\/p>\n<p><b>Voglio che vi prendiate un momento per pensare a tutte le persone che vi amano.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>A quante persone avete pensato? Come vi fanno sentire? Come vi trattano? Cosa vi rende cos\u00ec sicuri del loro amore?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If you&#8217;re capable of sensing their love but not that of your boyfriend, then the problem is definitely him.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>SEMPRE <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fidarsi-del-proprio-istinto-su-una-persona\/\">fidatevi del vostro istinto<\/a>!<\/p>\n<h3>2. Sembra che non si riesca mai a uscire da questa situazione.<\/h3>\n<p>A man who loves you is eager to show you off to the world. He wants to scream your name and tell everyone that you&#8217;re his woman.<\/p>\n<p><b>If he&#8217;s not yet ready to do that, it might be one of the signs he pretends to <\/b><b>ti amo<\/b><b>. He enjoys the benefits of your relationship but doesn&#8217;t care enough to make it official.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-fa-questi-7-giochi-di-relazione-immaturi-sta-sprecando-il-vostro-tempo\/\">He&#8217;s just wasting your time<\/a> because he doesn&#8217;t have anyone else to turn to. Please, don&#8217;t let him treat you like that anymore.<\/p>\n<p>You should be with someone who&#8217;s proud to call you his own. Don&#8217;t ever settle for less.<\/p>\n<h3>3. He doesn&#8217;t share much with you<\/h3>\n<p><i>Does everyone know what&#8217;s going on in his life but you? Do you find out important stuff from a random person on the street?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If so, that&#8217;s a MAJOR <\/b><b>bandiera rossa<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-luomo-ama-follemente\/\"><b>Se un uomo \u00e8 innamorato di te<\/b><\/a><b>, you&#8217;ll be his go-to person for EVERYTHING. <\/b>He&#8217;ll do it not because he has to but because he genuinely wants to. His love for you urges him to share every little thing that happens during the day.<\/p>\n<p><b>If your man lacks these traits, that&#8217;s one of the <\/b><b>segni sicuri<\/b><b> fa finta di <\/b><b>ti amo<\/b><b>.<\/b> Don&#8217;t put up with it any longer!<\/p>\n<h3>4. You&#8217;re the only one making an effort<\/h3>\n<p>He never initiates conversation. You&#8217;re probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/smettere-di-trovare-scuse-uomo-tratta-come-merda\/\">trovare scuse per lui<\/a>, but deep down, you know he just doesn&#8217;t care enough.<\/p>\n<p><b>Trovate sempre un modo per sorprenderlo e renderlo felice, ma lui non apprezza n\u00e9 ricambia.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When you go out, you feel like a circus clown that&#8217;s meant to make him laugh. <b>He puts so much pressure on you and blames you when you don&#8217;t live up to his expectations, even though he doesn&#8217;t lift a finger.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Why not try to put in as much effort as he does? I bet he won&#8217;t like being treated the way he treats you!<\/p>\n<h3>5. Il suo comportamento cambia di fronte ad altre persone<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143830 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"amici seduti sul molo a parlare\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/friends-sit-on-the-pier-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ah, the &#8221;nice guys.&#8221; They will charm you and make you feel special only to get your attention, but they don&#8217;t mean any of it. What they feel for you isn&#8217;t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amore-vero-baci-parole-dolci\/\">amore vero<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not even <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/differenze-tra-amore-e-infatuazione\/\">infatuazione<\/a>. They probably just like their ability to have you wrapped around their little finger by whispering sweet words into your ear&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>Of course, this is not your fault. It&#8217;s not easy to see through someone&#8217;s lies. But, you can start by noticing how he treats you in <\/b><b>davanti agli altri<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>One day, he&#8217;s all cute and loving, and the next day, he&#8217;s cold as ice. He suddenly turns into a misogynist full of sexist jokes about women, and he dismisses your every word because he&#8217;s got to be &#8216;the man.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><b>Tenete presente questo importante elemento di <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/consigli-di-coppia-per-le-donne-12-cose-fondamentali-che-dovete-sapere\/\"><b>consigli di relazione per le donne<\/b><\/a><b>:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If he &#8221;loves&#8221; you only behind closed doors but not in front of others, that&#8217;s one of the obvious signs he pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Nessuno sa della vostra relazione<\/h3>\n<p>A little privacy can definitely be exciting, but this guy isn&#8217;t just keeping your relationship private \u2013 He is HIDING the fact that he&#8217;s in a relationship with you from EVERYONE!<\/p>\n<p><b>Perch\u00e9 diavolo?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Who knows! Maybe his family members don&#8217;t approve of you, or his friends don&#8217;t like you. Or maybe he wants other women to think he&#8217;s single so he can still flirt with them.<\/p>\n<p><b>It&#8217;s especially awful if he doesn&#8217;t even tell you why he&#8217;s doing it. He doesn&#8217;t think you deserve to hear the truth. But, oh, you so do!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Chiedetegli apertamente qual \u00e8 il suo accordo. Se si rifiuta di dirvelo, allontanatevi. Se vi dice la verit\u00e0, ma vedete che non ha ancora progetti per il futuro, allontanatevi ancora.<\/p>\n<p>Un uomo che ti ama veramente non ti farebbe mai passare una cosa del genere!<\/p>\n<h3>7. Non ci sono sciocche battute interne<\/h3>\n<p>It&#8217;s so evident when two people enjoy each other&#8217;s company. You can just <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/potenti-segni-di-chimica\/\">percepire la chimica dell'aria<\/a>. A volte basta una parola per farli scoppiare a ridere.<\/p>\n<p><b>Hanno un linguaggio proprio che nessun altro intorno a loro capisce.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So, if you&#8217;re looking for signs he pretends to love you, think about how you both feel in each other&#8217;s presence.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u00c8 piacevole o dovete sempre dare spettacolo per poi tornare a casa esausti?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>If you feel happier and more peaceful in his absence, that&#8217;s a <\/b><b>segno rivelatore<\/b><b> che qualcosa \u00e8 MOLTO sbagliato.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>8. Non ti chiama mai<\/h3>\n<p>Se questo ragazzo non si prende mai la briga di prendere il telefono e chiamarti, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-non-vuole-una-relazione-con-te\/\">he just doesn&#8217;t care about you<\/a> affatto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pu\u00f2 trovare tutte le scuse che vuole, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 sempre la stessa: Se qualcuno vuole trovare del tempo per te, lo far\u00e0.<\/b> Nessuno \u00e8 cos\u00ec occupato.<\/p>\n<p>Questo vale soprattutto se la persona in questione ha una relazione seria con voi.<\/p>\n<p>Certo, ha la sua vita di cui occuparsi, ma un vero fidanzato metterebbe sempre la sua donna in cima alla lista delle priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><b>But, if he NEVER makes time for you, that&#8217;s not a sign of a loving and <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/principali-regole-di-relazione\/\"><b>relazione sana<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t believe his lies anymore. Look at his actions instead. If he is busy literally all the time, that&#8217;s just one of the signs he pretends to love you&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3>9. You don&#8217;t feel all that happy<\/h3>\n<p><i>Vi sentite in qualche modo infelici ogni volta che vi parla? Avete perso il legame che avevate inizialmente con lui?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-essere-onesti-con-se-stessi\/\"><b>Siate onesti con voi stessi<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b> You actually already have the answer to your question; you&#8217;re just afraid to face the facts.<\/p>\n<p>But, sadly, it\u2019s necessary&#8230; unless you want to be stuck in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-di-un-matrimonio-senza-amore\/\">relazione senza amore <\/a>per sempre.<\/p>\n<p><b>You need to trust your feelings. When you&#8217;re unhappy, you just know it. You don&#8217;t need to listen to anyone&#8217;s advice or his lies.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ora, voglio che facciate un respiro profondo e riflettiate su queste domande:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Pensi di meritare di essere cos\u00ec infelice?<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Aren&#8217;t you sad that you&#8217;re missing out on happiness with someone else?<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Are you really going to waste your life being with a guy who doesn&#8217;t appreciate you?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>10. He doesn&#8217;t take your feelings into consideration<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143831 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo e una donna si siedono sul divano e litigano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-on-the-couch-and-quarrel-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your man has a 24\/7 job of insulting you and making you feel unworthy, his love for you isn&#8217;t as real as you might&#8217;ve thought.<\/p>\n<p><b>He probably justifies himself by saying that he&#8217;s just &#8216;brutally honest,&#8217; but that&#8217;s nothing more than an excuse to be cruel to you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He doesn&#8217;t even apologize if he takes it too far because your feelings aren&#8217;t his concern.<\/p>\n<p><b>D'altra parte, se si feriscono i suoi sentimenti, \u00e8 tutta un'altra storia.<\/b> He&#8217;ll pin you with awful labels and be more than happy to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-segni-di-distruzione-del-ruolo-di-vittima\/\">fare la vittima<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, you&#8217;re just copying his own behavior, but he clearly doesn&#8217;t see you as equals.<\/p>\n<p>Vuoi davvero un uomo come questo nella tua vita?<\/p>\n<h3>11. You&#8217;re there to fulfill HIS wishes<\/h3>\n<p>What YOU want doesn&#8217;t matter. There is no YOU at all. To him, you&#8217;re simply someone who exists to please him.<\/p>\n<p><b>He doesn&#8217;t see relationships as a bond between two people who are equal to each other. <\/b>No. Even if he claims that he&#8217;ll be there for you, his actions prove otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>When he&#8217;s bored, he&#8217;ll ask you out. If you reject him, you&#8217;ll be the bad guy. But when he rejects you, that&#8217;s totally fine, and you&#8217;re the crazy one for overreacting.<\/p>\n<p><b>A lui interessa solo che tu accresca il suo ego e che ti faccia sentire degno.<\/b> Smettete di dargli questa soddisfazione. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/care-donne-meritate-di-essere-scelte\/\">Meritate di essere amati<\/a> per chi siete veramente.<\/p>\n<h3>12. Lo si sorprende a flirtare con altre donne<\/h3>\n<p>L'audacia! Questo tipo di uomo seduce spudoratamente e apertamente altre donne e poi vi accusa di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/gli-uomini-fanno-di-tutto-per-far-ingelosire-le-donne\/\">essere gelosi<\/a>! Voglio dire, che cosa?<\/p>\n<p>He thinks it&#8217;s okay to disrespect you like that. <b>He feels like his need to talk to someone else needs to be satisfied because, after all, you don&#8217;t have the right to restrict his freedom.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>But, that&#8217;s the thing. Your jealousy isn&#8217;t a way of taking away his freedom but rather of demanding <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-rispettare-una-donna-in-una-relazione\/\">il rispetto che ogni donna merita in una relazione.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Remember \u2013 if he doesn&#8217;t see how wrong this is, it is one of the signs he pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<h3>13. Parli solo di cose superficiali<\/h3>\n<p><i>\u00c8 interessato solo a <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/tipi-di-intimita\/\"><i>intimit\u00e0 fisica<\/i><\/a><i>? Ha mai <\/i><i>aprire<\/i><i> a voi?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>When a man isn&#8217;t serious about you, he will stick to lighter topics. He will laugh with you but won&#8217;t ever dig deeper because he doesn&#8217;t care about connecting with you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se condividete qualcosa di importante su di voi, cambier\u00e0 volentieri argomento. Se gli chiedete di raccontarvi la sua storia, trasformer\u00e0 tutto in una barzelletta.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When he touches you, he only does it to satisfy his lust. There is no emotional element to ANYTHING he does. It&#8217;s very easy to sense this if you pay attention.<\/p>\n<p>P.S. It&#8217;s also possible that he has <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-motivi-per-cui-molti-uomini-soffrono-di-problemi-di-impegno\/\">problemi di impegno<\/a>. In that case, give him some time&#8230; but not too much time. After all, you want a boyfriend, not a project!<\/p>\n<h3>14. He doesn&#8217;t give you his full attention<\/h3>\n<p>Tutti gli indizi sono nascosti in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-suo-linguaggio-del-corpo-dice-di-lui\/\">il suo linguaggio del corpo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><i>Controlla le altre donne mentre <\/i><i>trascorrere il tempo<\/i><i> with you? Does he stare at his phone a lot while you&#8217;re talking to him?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Questi sono tutti <\/b><b>segni sottili<\/b><b> fa finta di <\/b><b>ti amo<\/b><b>. He can&#8217;t fully focus on you because he just doesn&#8217;t care about what you have to say.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Un uomo innamorato pazzo di voi non vi toglier\u00e0 mai gli occhi di dosso!<\/p>\n<p>Tutte le sue attenzioni saranno rivolte a voi perch\u00e9 ci tiene e vuole che lo sappiate.<\/p>\n<h3>15. He&#8217;s a master manipulator<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143832 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table.jpg\" alt=\"una donna stupita parla guardando un uomo mentre parlano a tavola\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/an-astonished-woman-talks-watching-a-man-as-they-talk-at-the-table-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s not always easy to notice signs of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/gaslighting-8-esempi-di-abuso-mentale-brutale\/\">gaslighting<\/a>, but you just know that something isn&#8217;t quite right&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><b>He always plays the victim while you&#8217;re the one to blame. And then you start feeling guilty even though you&#8217;re aware you did nothing wrong.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If that feeling sounds familiar, then he is most likely gaslighting you. It&#8217;s not your fault.<\/p>\n<p><b>Uomini con bassa <\/b><b>autostima<\/b><b> seek power by hurting someone else because that&#8217;s the only way they can feel good about themselves.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t believe a word he says. Talk to someone you trust who will help you see what&#8217;s what.<\/p>\n<p>Quando un ragazzo si preoccupa veramente di voi, lo far\u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/assumersi-la-responsabilita-delle-proprie-azioni\/\">assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle proprie azioni<\/a>. Non scaricher\u00e0 mai la colpa su di voi. Quindi, ricordate che meritate molto di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<h3>16. He&#8217;s never there in your time of need<\/h3>\n<p>If you find yourself going through hard times alone while he&#8217;s out there having fun, that&#8217;s also one of the signs he pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<p><b>If he truly cared about you, he wouldn&#8217;t leave your side until he was sure you were okay. He would do his best to make your pain more bearable.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t settle for a guy who puts everything else before you. Do you really want someone you can&#8217;t rely on, someone who can watch you cry without even flinching?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time to accept that he&#8217;s just not worth it because only then can you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-togliersi-dalla-testa-qualcuno\/\">andare avanti<\/a> a qualcosa di meglio.<\/p>\n<h3>17. I bei tempi sono storia<\/h3>\n<p>Do you know that feeling when you just leave your guy after a date, and you&#8217;re all smiley?<\/p>\n<p>Yeah. If that doesn&#8217;t happen to you anymore, that&#8217;s your intuition telling you that he only pretends to love you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fase-di-luna-di-miele\/\"><b>La fase della luna di miele<\/b><\/a><b> ended a long time ago. You barely see each other, and when you do, he just doesn&#8217;t try to make you feel special like he once did.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Riunirsi \u00e8 pi\u00f9 un obbligo che qualcosa che si fa per amore.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s even worse when you&#8217;re in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relazione-a-distanza-ultimo-test-amore\/\">relazione a distanza<\/a>eppure non avete pi\u00f9 nulla di cui parlare. Questo \u00e8 stato il mio caso, almeno.<\/p>\n<p><b>The words that come out of our mouths were there only to fill in the awkward silence. And then it suddenly hit me \u2013 This isn&#8217;t going to work!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Trust me, when he loves you, you can&#8217;t ever get tired of each other.<\/p>\n<h3>18. Le bugie non finiscono mai<\/h3>\n<p>I once read that &#8221;to love is to stop lying.&#8221; How very true that is!<\/p>\n<p>Quando si tiene a qualcuno, si vuole <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-modi-per-creare-un-legame-emotivo-piu-profondo-con-il-vostro-uomo\/\">creare un legame profondo con loro<\/a>, and you know you can&#8217;t do that if you&#8217;re not telling the truth.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quindi, uno dei <\/b><b>segni evidenti<\/b><b> fa finta di <\/b><b>ti amo<\/b><b> is when he keeps lying to you. Even his \u201c<\/b><b>Ti amo<\/b><b>&#8216;s\u201d feel fake.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He has become so used to lying that you don&#8217;t even know who he really is.<\/p>\n<p>Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn&#8217;t value you enough to be honest with you?<\/p>\n<h3>19. He doesn&#8217;t care about your life at all<\/h3>\n<p><i>Vi interrompe quando iniziate a parlare per raccontare la sua storia? O peggio ancora, \u00e8 troppo distratto dal suo <\/i><i>social media<\/i> <i>applicazioni<\/i><i> di prestare attenzione a voi nel <\/i><i>primo posto<\/i><i>?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>Un uomo che fa solo finta di <\/b><b>ti amo<\/b><b> non si interesser\u00e0 mai a ci\u00f2 che avete da dire. <\/b>He won&#8217;t bother asking how your day went or what childhood events affected you the most.<\/p>\n<p><b>He won&#8217;t ask because, to him, you&#8217;re just&#8230; there.<\/b> He may label you as his girlfriend, but he doesn&#8217;t treat you as a loved one.<\/p>\n<p>So, yes, if you notice that he&#8217;s the one doing all the talking, that&#8217;s a big red flag.<\/p>\n<h3>20. He doesn&#8217;t respect you yet demands your respect<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-143833 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo e una donna si siedono a tavola e parlano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-at-a-table-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uno dei segni che lui finge di amarti \u00e8 quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-cose-da-fare-se-vi-manca-di-rispetto-nella-vostra-relazione-di-coppia\/\">he doesn&#8217;t respect you<\/a> eppure esige il TUO rispetto.<\/p>\n<p><b>Whenever you&#8217;re open about something that bothers you, he&#8217;s quick to judge you. You&#8217;re always the dramatic one who makes a fuss about nothing at all.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He probably manages to convince you that you ARE wrong, but deep down, you know he just doesn&#8217;t respect you enough to listen to your wants and needs.<\/p>\n<p>In a nutshell, he disrespects you, but when you call him out on it, he acts like you&#8217;re the one who disrespected him.<\/p>\n<h3>21. Si prova solo delusione<\/h3>\n<p>When you feel someone&#8217;s love, it fills you with energy and strength. Every time you think about them, it makes you so happy you might burst.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma quando pensi al modo in cui il tuo uomo ti ama, il tuo umore cala improvvisamente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sembra che la vostra vita sentimentale sia diventata una delusione dopo l'altra. Riesci a malapena a ricordare l'ultima volta che sei stato veramente felice.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you know that true love isn&#8217;t supposed to hurt. If you feel nothing but <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-promemoria-per-una-ragazza-che-non-ha-visto-arrivare-il-suo-cuore-spezzato\/\">crepacuore<\/a>, then it&#8217;s not love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-sta-fingendo-di-amarvi\/\">13 segni che lei fa finta di amarti: I pezzi mancanti<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Mi ama, non mi ama<\/h2>\n<p>Have you noticed any one of these signs he pretends to love you in your own relationship? I sure hope not, but if you have, don&#8217;t forget that you deserve much better.<\/p>\n<p><b>I know it&#8217;s hard to leave someone you love, but it&#8217;s even harder being with them despite knowing that they don&#8217;t reciprocate your feelings.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t turn your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/68-citazioni-su-come-amare-qualcuno-che-non-ti-ama-a-sua-volta\/\">amore non corrisposto<\/a> into something poetic because that&#8217;s self-destructive. Keep the love in your heart, but don&#8217;t stay where you aren&#8217;t appreciated.<\/p>\n<p>Nel momento in cui finalmente arriverete a un luogo in cui SONO amati, vi accorgerete di aver fatto la scelta giusta.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you feel confused. One part of you wants to know the truth, and the other would be happy living a lie as long as you&#8217;re still with him. But, as much as it hurts, you deserve to know how he truly feels about you. Being with a guy who doesn&#8217;t care about you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":143836,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-143827","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Does-He-Love-You-Or-Not-21-Clear-Signs-He-PRETENDS-To-Love-You.-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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