{"id":14459,"date":"2020-05-14T08:52:08","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T08:52:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14459"},"modified":"2022-01-30T21:32:06","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T21:32:06","slug":"7-motivi-per-non-inseguire-mai-un-ragazzo-anche-se-lo-desidera-ardentemente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-motivi-per-non-inseguire-mai-un-ragazzo-anche-se-lo-desidera-ardentemente\/","title":{"rendered":"7 motivi per cui non dovreste mai inseguire un ragazzo (anche se lo desiderate ardentemente)"},"content":{"rendered":"

The usual conclusion to come to when a guy doesn\u2019t chase you is that non \u00e8 interessato a te<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And believe me, in most cases, this is more than true. I know that you\u2019ve probably had enough of rejection and disappointment and you don\u2019t even want to chase someone because a part of you thinks that you are going to get turned down.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you just give up and you know what, you\u2019re right! I\u2019m not a feminist and I\u2019m not saying that you have to lie down and do absolutely nothing.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just saying that you should save any dignity you\u2019ve got left and wait for the right man to come to you.<\/p>\n

Aspettate chi \u00e8 degno di voi. Aspettate che vi piaccia davvero per quello che siete, che si preoccupi di voi.<\/p>\n

Se \u00e8 veramente interessato e ci tiene, trover\u00e0 il modo di ottenere il vostro attenzione<\/a> and one day you\u2019re going to be happy that you did nothing to initiate the chase.<\/p>\n

Continuate a leggere per sapere perch\u00e9 dovreste non inseguire mai un ragazzo<\/a> ma lasciate che vi insegua<\/a> invece:<\/p>\n

1. Occupa molto tempo<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

So first of all, if he likes you then he has to be sure he does. He can\u2019t like you one moment and the next be indecisive. So chasing him is out of the question.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let anyone play hard to get because you deserve someone who can\u2019t wait to be in your presence, someone who will want to spend his free time with you.<\/p>\n

2. Danneggia l'autostima<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you chase a man who isn\u2019t interested in you, it can really hurt your self-esteem.<\/p>\n

I know that it doesn\u2019t seem like a big deal, but if you really like a guy, getting rejected and hurt is a big deal.<\/p>\n

Chasing someone who doesn\u2019t care makes you feel like you are worthless and you don\u2019t deserve his attention. Well, that\u2019s just not true. You deserve better than that.<\/p>\n

3. He doesn\u2019t want to be caught<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

OK, so if you have to chase a man, that usually means that he doesn\u2019t want to get caught because he probably has commitment issues and you don\u2019t want to get in the middle of that. That kind of relationship will only hurt you and nothing less.<\/p>\n

He will give you attention at the beginning, but as your relationship becomes more serious, he will get more distant because he doesn\u2019t want to be tied down. And yet again, you don\u2019t need a man who needs to be chased.<\/p>\n

4. Non \u00e8 lui che<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Se dovete inseguirlo, non \u00e8 quello giusto per voi. Dovrebbe essere il contrario.<\/p>\n

Love shouldn\u2019t be that complicated. Love should be simple, between two people who met and instantly fell in love.<\/p>\n

There shouldn\u2019t be any toying with emotions or playing games with one another, it should just be simple.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se vi accorgete di inseguire qualcuno, dovete chiedervi se davvero tiene abbastanza a voi quando vi fa correre dietro a lui,<\/p>\n

5. Ci si dimentica dei propri amici<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

L'inseguimento occupa molto del vostro tempo e iniziate a essere ossessionati da quel ragazzo. Ti consuma e pu\u00f2 occupare tutto il tuo tempo.<\/p>\n

So, it\u2019s not unusual that in that process you forget about your friends\u2014you start to ignore them because all your attention is revolved around why you can\u2019t catch him and what\u2019s going on inside his head.<\/p>\n

Well, no one is more important than your friends and family and you should never neglect them, especially not for someone who probably doesn\u2019t care that much about you.<\/p>\n

6. Forse vuole solo sesso<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

So, there is a possibility of getting the man you chased but only because he wanted you to chase him\u2014and why? Probably solo per fare sesso<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Because, let\u2019s face it, men who don\u2019t want to be chased are not the men who want to commit to others, so it\u2019s only logical that when they decide to be caught, they do it only to get one thing. When it becomes boring, they leave.<\/p>\n

7. You\u2019re doomed to a one-sided love<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Come ho gi\u00e0 detto, anche se lo prendete, non sarete felici.<\/p>\n

It will probably be a relationship in which you are going to try to solve all the problems and always be the one to blame when something doesn\u2019t work out.<\/p>\n

Tu sarai quella che ama e lui sar\u00e0 quello che ci sta perch\u00e9 non ha niente di meglio da fare.<\/p>\n

Do you really want to chase men and risk your heart getting broken? I don\u2019t think you do.<\/p>\n

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