{"id":14461,"date":"2020-02-14T08:25:49","date_gmt":"2020-02-14T08:25:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14461"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:48:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:48:48","slug":"9-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-lasciano-lamore-degli-uomini","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-lasciano-lamore-degli-uomini\/","title":{"rendered":"9 motivi per cui le donne lasciano gli uomini che amano"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Women are strong and amazing and will always fight to their last breath just to save a relationship. But not even the strongest of us can put up with being treated like we don\u2019t matter by someone we love the most.<\/p>\n<p>Nessuno pu\u00f2 sopravvivere alla sensazione di solitudine accanto a qualcuno che dovrebbe farci sentire bene. Ecco i motivi per cui le donne lasciano gli uomini che amano.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">1. She feels like she can\u2019t be herself<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Se si sente come se avesse <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/dont-change-loved\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">per cambiare<\/a> per essere accettata, non c'\u00e8 modo di essere felice in una relazione del genere. Se un uomo la butta costantemente gi\u00f9 per il modo in cui agisce, ride o si sente, come pu\u00f2 essere se stessa?<\/p>\n<p>Love is not about changing yourself to make someone else happy. It\u2019s about being accepted the way you are and working through the issues\u2014together.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">2. There\u2019s no appreciation<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Se i suoi sforzi non vengono apprezzati, smetter\u00e0 di farlo. Nessuna donna merita di essere data per scontata e non fatevi illusioni: se ne andr\u00e0, non importa quanto vi ami.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 fare del suo meglio per rendere felice l'altra persona, per poi essere trascurata, le sta prosciugando le forze. Quando le esaurisce, semplicemente se ne va.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">3. La relazione si sente come un peso emotivo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Se ogni cosa che fa richiede una pianificazione preventiva e la preoccupazione di come l'altra persona potrebbe reagire, la relazione diventa presto un peso.<\/p>\n<p>If a man is constantly nagging about her doing things wrong, belittling her and making her apologize, whether she\u2019s done something wrong or not, she will soon be exhausted under the weight of dealing with an emotional leech.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">4. She\u2019s tired of being compared to other women<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-14465 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/christopher-campbell-50312.jpg\" alt=\"Ritratto in b\/n di una donna con gli occhi chiusi\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/christopher-campbell-50312.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/christopher-campbell-50312-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/christopher-campbell-50312-768x510.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/christopher-campbell-50312-100x65.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How can she be sure if her man loves her if she\u2019s constantly being compared to other women? How can she be sure of her self-worth is she\u2019s constantly hearing how other women are smarter, better looking or funnier?<\/p>\n<p>Se una persona che dovrebbe essere il vostro pi\u00f9 grande sostegno \u00e8 quella che vi butta gi\u00f9, allora non vale la pena di stare con lei. Quella persona non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 degna del vostro amore.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">5. Non c'\u00e8 rispetto<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>L'amore senza rispetto non significa nulla. Pu\u00f2 cantare le pi\u00f9 belle canzoni, dire le parole pi\u00f9 dolci, ma se non c'\u00e8 rispetto, non significano nulla. Una donna che non viene rispettata nella sua relazione non \u00e8 una donna felice. E sicuramente se ne andr\u00e0, perch\u00e9 essere trattati senza rispetto \u00e8 il peggior modo possibile di essere trattati.<\/p>\n<p>She is so much more than just a partner, girlfriend or wife. She is amazing, fierce, strong, gentle and the most caring person all in one. And if that doesn\u2019t deserve respect, I don\u2019t know what does.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">6. La vita sessuale \u00e8 carente<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/margaret-paul-phd\/relationship-improve-sex-life_b_3127091.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Una vita sessuale non appagante<\/a> is a problem we read the most about. It\u2019s like everything revolves around sex. But a lack of sex itself is not a problem. Sex without emotions or sex without caring or love means nothing.<\/p>\n<p>If she is the only who puts any effort into the relationship but he rolls over the moment he\u2019s finished, it means he doesn\u2019t care about her enough to satisfy her. And let\u2019s be honest, if we wanted sex without crossing the finish line, we would be still banging college dudes.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">7. Gli obiettivi a lungo termine sono incompatibili<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-14466 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/john-robert-marasigan-238147.jpg\" alt=\"Persone che camminano\" width=\"800\" height=\"552\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/john-robert-marasigan-238147.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/john-robert-marasigan-238147-300x207.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/john-robert-marasigan-238147-768x530.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This one is actually the number one reason for the breakdown of long-term relationships. It\u2019s all fun and games while we\u2019re young and still not thinking about settling down. But what happens when one person is ready to build a career and the other one is ready for a child?<\/p>\n<p>What happens if one person wants to move away, while the other one is bound to the place they\u2019re currently living in? She will end things if she\u2019s the one who\u2019s expected to make a sacrifice, because love is about compromise. Expecting her to give up on her dreams just to make yours happen is seriously selfish.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">8. Non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 alcuno sforzo nella relazione<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Se lei \u00e8 l'unica che si impegna, si stancher\u00e0 presto di questa merda. E quando smetter\u00e0 di impegnarsi nella relazione, consideratela morta per sempre.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">9. She feels like she\u2019s the only one who cares<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Se inizia a sentirsi come se fosse in un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lamore-unilaterale-non-merita\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relazione unilaterale<\/a>Come potete aspettarvi che rimanga a combattere? Come potete aspettarvi che lavori per qualcosa che non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 sicura che esista?<\/p>\n<p>She has no reason to believe that there\u2019s something worth staying for, because you haven\u2019t given her any.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Women are strong and amazing and will always fight to their last breath just to save a relationship. But not even the strongest of us can put up with being treated like we don\u2019t matter by someone we love the most. 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