{"id":144701,"date":"2022-02-18T14:36:12","date_gmt":"2022-02-18T14:36:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=144701"},"modified":"2022-03-09T08:32:18","modified_gmt":"2022-03-09T08:32:18","slug":"lettera-al-fidanzato-per-esprimere-i-propri-sentimenti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-al-fidanzato-per-esprimere-i-propri-sentimenti\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera aperta al fidanzato per esprimere i propri sentimenti di sofferenza"},"content":{"rendered":"

C'\u00e8 qualcosa di peggio di un cuore spezzato<\/a>? E la cosa triste \u00e8 che non lo si vede mai arrivare.<\/p>\n

Pensate che la persona di fronte a voi vi dar\u00e0 sempre la l'amore che meriti<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n

After all, they’re YOUR person. You don’t doubt them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And then, all of a sudden, they turn into a stranger who mercilessly tears you apart. You barely know what to do. You stand frozen… and all alone.<\/p>\n

But, it’s okay to be lost. It’s okay to have lotte relazionali<\/a>, too. Their actions can never be justified, but I do hope you know that it’s not necessarily the end…<\/em><\/p>\n

Se vi sentite male, sfogatevi. Scrivete una lettera al fidanzato per esprimere i vostri sentimenti.<\/p>\n

If you’re doing it for the sake of your mental health, that’s fine. If you talk because you want to fix your problems, that’s also fine.<\/p>\n

Whatever you feel is valid. But, if you’re not quite sure how to start expressing your feelings, take a look at the open letter below.<\/p>\n

Lettera al fidanzato per esprimere i propri sentimenti di dolore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

La mia amata,<\/p>\n

Where do I even begin? What I feel inside is too overwhelming for words, but I still believe they’re necessary.<\/p>\n

If I don’t tell you how I feel, we’ll never move past this, and we’ll just keep falling apart… silently… surely…<\/p>\n

Mi hai ferito. Tu mi ha fatto a pezzi<\/a>. Non per quello che hai fatto, ma perch\u00e9 sei stato tu a farlo.<\/strong> Non mi sarei mai aspettato che fossi tu a trattarmi cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Sapevi che ero in un brutto momento, eppure mi hai detto cose cos\u00ec terribili, cose che avrebbero potuto spaventarmi per sempre. \u00c8 stata la prima volta che volevo lasciarti.<\/p>\n

Le tue parole continuano a riecheggiare nella mia testa, distruggendomi<\/a> pi\u00f9 e pi\u00f9 volte. Volevo mettere la mia salute mentale al primo posto e allontanarti dalla mia vita.<\/p>\n

Ho pensato: ”How will I ever take care of myself properly when I have someone like this in my life? How will I ever become a better person if he keeps reminding me of everything I did wrong?”<\/em><\/p>\n

I know what I’m guilty of. I’m not afraid to assumersi la responsabilit\u00e0<\/a> for my actions. But, aren’t we all guilty? Does that mean I am less deserving of love?<\/p>\n

That’s all I really wanted \u2013 for you to love me, for you to hug me tightly when my world was falling apart. Instead, you were the one to make it fall apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But that’s not all… From that moment, Mi sono sentito abbandonato<\/a> e sola al mondo. Pensavo che tu fossi l'unica persona che mi capiva, la uno che potesse tirarmi fuori dall'oscurit\u00e0<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I didn’t think you’d ever judge me for having a hard time, nor that you would make me perdere la mia autostima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sai quanto ci ho provato! Sai che combattere la depressione<\/a> hasn’t been easy for me, yet you weren\u2019t there for me<\/a>. You just threw your accusations around when all I wanted was for you to tell me that it’ll be okay.<\/p>\n

You made me a promise. You told me you would always support me no matter what I was going through. Why couldn’t you honor those words?<\/em><\/p>\n

I tried to pretend that I was okay, that you didn’t hurt my feelings. But, when we talked the next morning, I knew that wouldn’t be so easy.<\/p>\n

Ho persino dubitato di te per un momento. Mi sono detto: ”He’s not the love of my life. If he were, he wouldn’t treat me this way.”<\/em><\/p>\n

But, the next moment, it all became clear \u2013 Sapevo di dover dire tutto quello che mi pesava.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I’m not writing you this letter to blame you for what you did. I just want you to know how much mi hai fatto male<\/a> because if I don’t let it out, it’ll ruin our relationship forever.<\/p>\n

And, I don’t want that. I still think of you as la mia anima gemella<\/a>, the one I’m supposed to be with the rest of my life.<\/p>\n

Do you feel that way, too? Don\u2019t you think we deserve a seconda possibilit\u00e0<\/a>? Pensi che la prossima volta sarai pi\u00f9 gentile con me?<\/em><\/p>\n

I know things haven’t been perfect lately, but have you really forgotten all the good times?<\/p>\n

Hai dimenticato gli anni che abbiamo trascorso facendoci ridere a vicenda e tu loving me when I\u2019m at my most unlovable<\/a>?<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve always had grande chimica<\/a>e so che pu\u00f2 sembrare sciocco, ma nel momento in cui ho posato gli occhi su di te, ho capito che ti avrei amato per sempre.<\/p>\n

Ed eccomi qui, anni dopo, e nulla \u00e8 cambiato.<\/p>\n

Yet… Mi manchi<\/a>. It’s only been one fight, but it tore me apart. It’s like we created a space between us, but neither of us has the guts to admit it even exists, let alone cross it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That’s why I made this decision… writing a love letter to boyfriend expressing hurt feelings and heartbreak. After all, I\u2019ve always been a donna che porta il cuore sulla manica<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Credo che possiamo trovare una soluzione. L'ultima cosa che voglio \u00e8 perderti.<\/p>\n

For God’s sake, I’ve never loved anyone the way Ti amo<\/a>. And, I know you love me, too. We can solve any problem that comes between us because it’s not stronger than our bond.<\/p>\n

I’ve never been very good at letting go. I’m someone who remembers every single bad thing anyone has ever done to me. But, this is you…<\/em><\/p>\n

You’re the one person I would forgive anything, the one person I could look at only with loving eyes. You’re my one true love.<\/p>\n

But, I know I have hurt you, too. In a moment of rage, I’ve said things I’m not proud of. Maybe you started the fight, but that’s still no excuse. We are both to blame.<\/p>\n

Pensi di poter perdonare anche me? Pensi che possiamo lasciarci tutto alle spalle?<\/strong><\/p>\n

After all, we are only human beings. We can’t be flawless. Making mistakes is what we do. Otherwise, how can we learn?<\/p>\n

I believe that these trials and tribulations are necessary. I believe they’ll make our connection even stronger. I just believe… in us.<\/p>\n

I can’t lose my best friend in the whole world. Who would I share my silly thoughts with then? Who else would understand my weird sense of humor?<\/em><\/p>\n

Please… can we go back to how we used to be? It’s only been a few days, but it feels like an eternity.<\/p>\n

I kept trying to tell you how I felt. I would sit down, start typing a message, and then thoughts would creep in… ”Oh, come on, he hurt you. He should be the one to apologize,”<\/em> o ”Oh my God, you sound so desperate!”<\/em><\/p>\n

But, here I am! Why? Because I don’t see this as desperation. I see it as fighting for the uomo che amo<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I don’t care that you haven’t said anything yet. I get it. I know it’s hard for you to be emotivamente vulnerabile<\/a>. It’s been hard for me, too.<\/p>\n

But, I had a moment of clarity last night \u2013 qualcuno deve fare il primo passo.<\/strong> I don’t mind that being me because this isn’t about that at all. This is about keeping our relationship alive.<\/p>\n

This may be a letter to boyfriend expressing hurt feelings, but I also want to say that I’m sorry.<\/p>\n

In verit\u00e0, nemmeno mille scuse potrebbero esprimere quanto mi sento male.<\/p>\n

It wasn’t my intention to make you feel unworthy. And I know your intentions weren’t bad either.<\/p>\n

We may have said things we didn’t mean, but let’s not ruin the beautiful thing we have over a bad day.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We’ll just make sure to treat each other with love and respect in the future. But, we can’t do that unless we talk about the past.<\/p>\n

Hell, why don’t we recreate that evening, erase it from our memories entirely?<\/p>\n

I’ll talk about my troubles, and you won’t try to encourage me.<\/em><\/p>\n

You’ll just take me by the hand and carefully listen to what I have to say. No judgment. No words at all, for that matter.<\/em><\/p>\n

Just a soft, empathetic look and a gentle smile that says, ”I’m always here for you.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Do you think we can do that? Do you feel the same way I do? As hurt as I am, you\u2019re a man I don\u2019t want to let go of<\/a>. Credo che il nostro amore sia cos\u00ec forte da resistere a qualsiasi tempesta.<\/p>\n

People say that love isn’t enough, but they’re wrong.<\/p>\n

It’s love that\u2019s kept us together all these years. It’s love that made me write questa lettera aperta<\/a>. It’s a million little things that always make me find my way back to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We may have lost our way, but we won’t be lost forever. Hai ancora il mio cuore<\/a>, even though it’s been bruised.<\/p>\n

Besides, bruises heal. We can heal it… with our love.<\/em><\/p>\n

Allora, mio caro, che ne dici? Siamo ancora io e te? Vogliamo perdonarci a vicenda? Ci ameremo ancora pi\u00f9 ardentemente nel nuovo anno che verr\u00e0?<\/p>\n

Se la risposta \u00e8 s\u00ec, sapete dove trovarmi.<\/p>\n

Cordiali saluti,<\/p>\n

La tua bambina<\/p>\n

Come scrivere una lettera al fidanzato per esprimere i propri sentimenti di dolore<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve reached your punto di rottura<\/a> e volete scrivere la vostra lettera al fidanzato, provate prima a rispondere alle prossime domande:<\/p>\n

\u2022 In what way did your boyfriend hurt you?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 How did you want him to treat you?<\/p>\n

\u2022 How does it all make you feel?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Do you think your relationship is worth saving?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 If yes, what can you do to fix your problems.<\/p>\n

Dato che intendete scrivere una lettera al fidanzato per esprimere i vostri sentimenti, forse \u00e8 meglio rispondere a queste domande su carta.<\/p>\n

Pensate a ciascuno di essi con attenzione. E poi, lasciate che le vostre emozioni facciano il resto.<\/p>\n

Credetemi, scriverete la lettera migliore quando vi lascerete travolgere da ci\u00f2 che sentite.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pensieri finali<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Spero che questa lettera al fidanzato in cui si esprimono sentimenti feriti vi aiuti a crearne una vostra.<\/p>\n

Nobody should bottle up their grief. You deserve to be heard, and it’s always best to talk directly to the person who hurt you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I believe you can fix things. But, even if it all goes wrong, you will know you have tried, and you won’t look back with regret wishing you did more.<\/p>\n

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