just because he isn\u2019t hitting you, doesn\u2019t mean it isn\u2019t abusive behavior.<\/strong><\/p>\nIf he isn\u2019t listening when you try to speak to him about something which is hurting you or making you uncomfortable, it\u2019s abuse.<\/p>\n
If he is getting angry and calling you crazy when you tell him that seeing his flirtatious comments on other girls\u2019 social media photos is upsetting you, it\u2019s abuse.<\/p>\n
If he is telling you that the behavior you have seen between him and other females is \u201cAll in your head\u201d, that you, \u201cImagined it\u201d, that you are, \u201cSo insecure and jealous,\u201d you can\u2019t trust him, it\u2019s abuse.<\/p>\n
Se ogni discussione che avete avuto finisce per essere colpa vostra, se vi chiedete se siete davvero pazzi, se in effetti avete problemi profondi e avete bisogno di una terapia, se tornate sempre a credere di aver causato la discussione e di essere il motivo per cui la vostra relazione sta andando a rotoli, state subendo un abuso emotivo.<\/p>\n
Perch\u00e9 non tutti i lividi sono fisici, ma fanno ugualmente male.<\/strong><\/p>\nSo please listen when I tell you that it\u2019s absolutely okay to be upset if he is disrespecting you and your relationship.<\/p>\n
\u00c8 giustificato affrontarlo se si ritiene che si comporti in modo inappropriato con altre donne.<\/p>\n
You are entitled to speak up when you feel as if you aren\u2019t getting the same amount out of your relationship as you put in. You are allowed to be upset if he likes other girls\u2019 half-naked photos.<\/p>\n
You are allowed to ask him about that girl who keeps texting him. You are allowed to talk about the things that make you feel insecure or jealous or out of your depth. It doesn\u2019t make you crazy or irrational or overly-emotional. It doesn\u2019t mean you have \u2018serious issues\u2019 or an inability to trust.<\/p>\n
It just means you are human, you have feelings, you have experiences, which means that sometimes you feel anxious, sometimes you worry you might lose someone, sometimes you feel like you aren\u2019t good enough.<\/p>\n
But that doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s true. It doesn\u2019t mean you should be silenced. <\/strong><\/p>\nPerch\u00e9 se qualcuno vi ama, ama tutti voi.<\/p>\n
Amano le parti di voi che hanno paura, le parti di voi che si interrogano, si preoccupano e si sentono ansiose.<\/p>\n
Vi ascoltano quando avete bisogno di parlarne, quando avete bisogno di chiarimenti, rassicurazioni e amore.<\/p>\n
Vi danno la possibilit\u00e0 di parlare, di sentirvi liberi, di sentirvi ascoltati. Si assicurano sempre che il loro comportamento non oltrepassi mai il limite, agiscono sempre in modo da farvi sentire amati, sicuri, desiderati.<\/p>\n
Sono sempre pronti ad ascoltare, a capire, a sostenere. Si impegnano sempre esattamente come voi.<\/p>\n
Poich\u00e9 le relazioni sono una strada a doppio senso, si tratta di dare e ricevere, di ascoltare e parlare.<\/p>\n
And any relationship that involves one person shutting another down when they raise a topic which is a little sensitive isn\u2019t a loving one.<\/p>\n
A relationship where one person constantly feels unheard, neglected and small isn\u2019t a respectful one.<\/p>\n
A relationship where one person is always afraid of opening their mouth, of asking for more, asking for better, asking for what they deserve, isn\u2019t really a relationship at all.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s emotional abuse.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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