{"id":14529,"date":"2020-07-15T08:33:35","date_gmt":"2020-07-15T08:33:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14529"},"modified":"2022-09-25T08:32:11","modified_gmt":"2022-09-25T08:32:11","slug":"10-segni-che-non-si-sta-impegnando-in-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segni-che-non-si-sta-impegnando-in-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"10 segni che non si sta impegnando per la vostra relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dopo un po' di tempo dalla fine della relazione, ci si chiede se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ho-fatto-un-tentativo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">you&#8217;re the one who keeps the relationship together<\/a> and if you&#8217;re the one who makes all the effort to keep your relationship alive.<\/p>\n<p>It can get exhausting, tiring. This is also called a \u2018&#8217;one-sided relationship&#8217; and no one wants that, for sure.<\/p>\n<p>L'aspetto importante \u00e8 che sentite che qualcosa \u00e8 cambiato e che dovete capire cosa.<\/p>\n<p>For whatever reason, your partner simply stopped acting like he&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-si-fa-a-sapere-se-si-piace-a-qualcuno\/\">interessati a voi<\/a> and he&#8217;s taking you for granted.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/it\/10-segni-che-lui-non-si-sta-impegnando-abbastanza-nella-vostra-relazione\/\">He&#8217;s simply not putting enough effort<\/a> nella relazione se fa queste 10 cose:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">He doesn&#8217;t ask you how you are<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96912\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di una coppia sconvolta e in conflitto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know this might seem a bit shallow, but asking you how your day is going or how you&#8217;re doing is very important.<\/p>\n<p>If he asks you about your well-being, it means that he really wants to know if you&#8217;re doing well or if something&#8217;s bothering you. This takes no effort at all, to simply send a text or ask you if you&#8217;re okay.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn&#8217;t do this, he simply doesn&#8217;t really care about putting effort into the relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re doing all the work<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96913\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-looking-at-man-while-holding-his-hand-in-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna che guarda l&#039;uomo mentre gli tiene la mano in un caff\u00e8 di strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-looking-at-man-while-holding-his-hand-in-street-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-looking-at-man-while-holding-his-hand-in-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-looking-at-man-while-holding-his-hand-in-street-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-looking-at-man-while-holding-his-hand-in-street-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-looking-at-man-while-holding-his-hand-in-street-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non fa mai nulla per sorprenderti o per dimostrarti quanto sei importante per lui.<\/p>\n<p>You are the one who always plans the dates and picks the places where you&#8217;re going.<\/p>\n<p>He simply can&#8217;t be bothered to put some thought into it. That&#8217;s just too much work for him and it makes you feel like he doesn&#8217;t care at all.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Si lamenta costantemente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96914\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-are-watching-movies-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo e una donna guardano un film e parlano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-are-watching-movies-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-are-watching-movies-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-are-watching-movies-and-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-are-watching-movies-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-are-watching-movies-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se andate insieme a un concerto o a un film, per tutta la sera non si sente altro che lui che si lamenta del contenuto, della musica, di tutto e di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>He makes it very clear that he doesn&#8217;t want to be there at all. You can&#8217;t enjoy yourself because you&#8217;re listening to him complaining about the way his drink tastes or how uncomfortable the chair is.<\/p>\n<p>But just think about all those times you went with him to something he wanted to do or see and no matter how bad you found it to be, you&#8217;d sit it through because it meant so much to him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn&#8217;t put any effort into looking good<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96911\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/bearded-man-touching-his-hair.jpg\" alt=\"uomo barbuto che si tocca i capelli\" width=\"800\" height=\"514\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/bearded-man-touching-his-hair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/bearded-man-touching-his-hair-300x193.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/bearded-man-touching-his-hair-768x493.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/bearded-man-touching-his-hair-150x96.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>OK, I get it, you&#8217;ve been in a relationship for quite some time now and you&#8217;re comfortable with showing all the nasty sides of your personality.<\/p>\n<p>But if you&#8217;re going to a special occasion and he can&#8217;t be bothered to dress well or if you&#8217;re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-rendere-speciale-il-vostro-compleanno-per-voi-stessi\/\">festeggiare il proprio compleanno<\/a> and he shows up looking like Quasimodo, you can&#8217;t really say that he&#8217;s willing to put effort into anything that would make you happy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn&#8217;t buy you gifts<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96916\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/person-holding-a-gift-box.jpg\" alt=\"persona che tiene in mano un pacco regalo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/person-holding-a-gift-box.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/person-holding-a-gift-box-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/person-holding-a-gift-box-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/person-holding-a-gift-box-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/person-holding-a-gift-box-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re women, so we like to be spoiled. We don&#8217;t want expensive gifts, cars and houses. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/15-cose-apparentemente-piccole-che-significano-donne-di-tutto-il-mondo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Vogliamo che il nostro partner si ricordi delle piccole cose<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>If he remembers your birthday but doesn&#8217;t buy you a gift, it just shows that he wasn&#8217;t prepared to invest even the tiniest amount of money into making you happy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;s selfish during sex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96917\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/romantic-couple-kissing-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"coppia romantica che si bacia sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/romantic-couple-kissing-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/romantic-couple-kissing-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/romantic-couple-kissing-on-bed-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/romantic-couple-kissing-on-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/romantic-couple-kissing-on-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The only time he&#8217;d go down on you and make you feel good during sex is if you told him to do so.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s selfish and the moment he&#8217;s done, the game&#8217;s over and he starts being very rude about your needs, acting like he&#8217;s exhausted.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He texts back, but doesn&#8217;t text first<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96918\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-typing-on-her-phone-sitting-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna che scrive al telefono seduta all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-typing-on-her-phone-sitting-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-typing-on-her-phone-sitting-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-typing-on-her-phone-sitting-outside-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-typing-on-her-phone-sitting-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-typing-on-her-phone-sitting-outside-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You start noticing that you&#8217;re always the one who starts the conversations. It&#8217;s so much more different than it was before, and he doesn&#8217;t send you weird videos and memes anymore.<\/p>\n<p>You are always the one who wants to know if you&#8217;re still going to the party, because if you didn&#8217;t ask, he&#8217;d pretend that he forgot and not go at all.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He \u2018forgets\u2019<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96919\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna seduti sul molo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si dimentica di dirvi cose importanti che accadono nella sua vita o che voi ritenete molto importanti per la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Dear, he simply can&#8217;t be bothered to tell you what&#8217;s going on in his life.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn&#8217;t show interest in your future<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96910\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo sembra confuso\" width=\"800\" height=\"553\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused-300x207.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused-768x531.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-looks-confused-150x104.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il vostro futuro come partner e il futuro del vostro <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vixendaily.com\/love\/enormous-signs-hes-not-serious-about-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relationship doesn&#8217;t seem to be important to him<\/a>. He doesn&#8217;t show interest in taking it to another level.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you feel so insecure and like you&#8217;re going nowhere, because he&#8217;s acting like there is no tomorrow for you two.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Non si scusa mai<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96921\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-couple-sitting-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"coppia preoccupata seduta al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-couple-sitting-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-couple-sitting-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-couple-sitting-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-couple-sitting-at-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-couple-sitting-at-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even when you confront him about something that he&#8217;s done wrong, he won&#8217;t take you seriously and he doesn&#8217;t apologize. The words, &#8221;I&#8217;m sorry,&#8221; don&#8217;t exist in his vocabulary.<\/p>\n<p>You might cry in front of him, but his hugs don&#8217;t feel like he actually knows what he&#8217;s done wrong. He doesn&#8217;t know that he&#8217;s losing you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-96923 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10-Signs-Hes-Not-Putting-Effort-Into-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 segni che non si sta impegnando per la vostra relazione\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10-Signs-Hes-Not-Putting-Effort-Into-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10-Signs-Hes-Not-Putting-Effort-Into-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10-Signs-Hes-Not-Putting-Effort-Into-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10-Signs-Hes-Not-Putting-Effort-Into-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10-Signs-Hes-Not-Putting-Effort-Into-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10-Signs-Hes-Not-Putting-Effort-Into-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10-Signs-Hes-Not-Putting-Effort-Into-Your-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some time into the relationship, you find yourself wondering if you&#8217;re the one who keeps the relationship together and if you&#8217;re the one who makes all the effort to keep your relationship alive. It can get exhausting, tiring. This is also called a \u2018&#8217;one-sided relationship&#8217; and no one wants that, for sure. The important bit&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":96922,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14529","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10-Signs-Hes-Not-Putting-Effort-Into-Your-Relationship.jpg",800,547,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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