{"id":14543,"date":"2018-02-15T08:21:21","date_gmt":"2018-02-15T08:21:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14543"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:38:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:38:50","slug":"7-cose-di-cui-e-geloso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-di-cui-e-geloso\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fa queste 7 cose \u00e8 un coglione geloso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Jealousy doesn\u2019t have to destroy your relationship, as long as it is controlled through sharing feelings and communicating with one another. But the real problem presents itself when you are faced with a kind of jealousy that cannot be controlled.<\/p>\n

Those people are ready to tear up the ground on which they stand because they are so blinded by their jealousy that they can\u2019t see things clearly. No one and nothing is able to snap them out of it.<\/p>\n

Persone che sono follemente geloso<\/a> are convinced that their partner is cheating on them emotionally or sexually. And not just that, they believe their partner is doing that on purpose, just to make them look like a fool and to toy with them, to humiliate them. That\u2019s why they cannot suspend their excessive reactions which eventually lead to a serious problem in the relationship.<\/p>\n

Jealousy comes from insecurity. These jealous assholes are so insecure that they project their insecurity on you by blaming you for things you didn\u2019t do and even if you convince them you did nothing wrong, they will continue to blame you by falsely accusing you that you are thinking about doing whatever it is they are accusing you of.<\/p>\n

So, either way, you have no way out. You\u2019re always going to be stuck with his jealousy because he just can\u2019t help it. But, you can be warned, so read these signs that he is a dangerously jealous asshole and stay away from him.<\/p>\n

1. \u00c8 possessivo<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

This is a very dangerous sign because he thinks he owns you and that he can do to you whatever he wants. You have no right to say what you want to say and even if you do, he doesn\u2019t listen to you and he can even become aggressive. This kind of comportamento<\/a> is what leads to abusive behavior, so if you don\u2019t want this to happen to you, you better get the hell away from him. Things aren\u2019t going to get better, believe me.<\/p>\n

2. Vuole isolarvi<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

He is jealous and that\u2019s why he wants to keep you all to himself, by isolating you from the rest of the world. He will probably get into your head and brainwash you into thinking that you don\u2019t need your friends or family. He wants a safe, friend-free environment in which he can control you. He wants to make sure that none of those people will turn you against him by opening your eyes and telling you the truth. If you see your guy presenting this kind of behavior, he is a jealous asshole on the border of being un pericoloso manipolatore.<\/a><\/p>\n

3. He\u2019s trying to intimidate you<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

When something doesn\u2019t suit him, he becomes violent and he starts threatening you by smashing things, threatening to kick you out, packing your things, cornering you and basically making you feel smaller than you are, making you feel like you are not worthy of anything. He doesn\u2019t have to lay his hand on you, but it can still be abusive. That\u2019s how far his insane jealousy goes.<\/p>\n

4. \u00c8 emotivamente dipendente<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

He wants to keep you all to himself. He believes in that so hard, that if he is left without you, he wouldn\u2019t survive a day. That\u2019s how much he is dependent on you. He is afraid that you are going to leave him and his fear turns into dangerous jealousy. He lacks self-confidence, he is extremely insecure and he is trying to find the answers to his own questions by sticking to you like glue and suffocating you, thus turning into a jealous jerk.<\/p>\n

5. Vuole controllarvi<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

He wants to monitor every move you make when you are not with him. He will call you on your phone constantly and if you don\u2019t answer it, he will be pissed off because in his mind, you are already with another man doing what you shouldn\u2019t. In that moment he is ready to beat the crap out of you because jealousy blinds him and turns him into a controlling monster. You mustn\u2019t allow this to happen because once he has gained control over you, you\u2019re doomed because he\u2019ll be doing that to you for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

6. Perde la testa quando si nomina qualcuno<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

This is one of the classic signs of jealousy and when it presents itself only in small amounts it\u2019s not that bad, but when it consumes your partner and becomes his main obsession, then you have a serious problem. Every time you mention someone he doesn\u2019t know, a colleague from work or your friend he never met, he explodes with rage. You can clearly see the signs of stress in his body language. You have to know that whenever you mention someone he doesn\u2019t know, he is imagining you cheating on him with that unknown third party and a lot of other things will be going around his head. The point is, he doesn\u2019t trust you.<\/p>\n

7. Gioca a scaricabarile<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

He will expect you to make him happy while he will be making you miserable by blaming you for everything, the things you did and didn\u2019t do. He is the kind of man who blames others for all his problems but who expects everyone to behave nicely to him and if they don\u2019t, he becomes dangerously jealous. If you do something better than him, he will envy you and try to sabotage you next time.
\nDo you really want a guy by your side who is going to sabotage instead of support you, or who is going to manipulate you into being with him when you can have someone a million times better than him? I don\u2019t think so. If you read these signs that he is a jealous asshole, leave him because you really deserve better than that and also, it\u2019s just dangerous to stay with him.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Jealousy doesn\u2019t have to destroy your relationship, as long as it is controlled through sharing feelings and communicating with one another. But the real problem presents itself when you are faced with a kind of jealousy that cannot be controlled. Those people are ready to tear up the ground on which they stand because they…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":14546,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14543","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/ozan-safak-558478-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14543","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14543"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14543\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14546"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14543"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14543"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14543"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}