{"id":14582,"date":"2020-02-15T09:16:50","date_gmt":"2020-02-15T09:16:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14582"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:41:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:41:52","slug":"promettere-che-non-lo-fara-piu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/promettere-che-non-lo-fara-piu\/","title":{"rendered":"Prometto che non ci sar\u00f2 pi\u00f9 per te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Giurai che non sarei mai stata una di quelle patetiche ragazze che piangevano per un ragazzo. Giurai a me stessa che non mi sarei mai permessa di innamorarmi cos\u00ec tanto di qualcuno da dimenticare me stessa.<\/p>\r\n

I promised I wouldn\u2019t ever give someone a second chance because I believed that if someone let you down once, he was more than capable of doing it again.<\/p>\r\n

And here I am\u2026<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m a girl who gave you too many second chances. I am a girl who fell for you so hard that she forgot about herself, I only saw you and nothing more than you.<\/p>\r\n

I turned out to be one of those girls I swore I\u2019d never be, you know, those who give themselves to someone and then end up getting broken by that same person.<\/p>\r\n

When I look at myself in the mirror, it\u2019s like I don\u2019t recognize myself. This person staring back at me looks like me. But I don\u2019t recognize her.<\/p>\r\n

I don\u2019t recognize the lines around her eyes, I don\u2019t recognize the look in her eyes and it seems like she\u2019s missing something, perhaps a smile? I used to smile a lot. I don\u2019t anymore.<\/p>\r\n

I don\u2019t recognize this girl because she gave you everything. God, she didn\u2019t only give you everything, she gave you more than twice what you deserved. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n

This girl staring at me in the mirror bent over backwards for you. But the truth is, she shouldn\u2019t have.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

You didn\u2019t deserve any of it. You didn\u2019t deserve my love, my trust or my efforts.<\/p>\r\n

You didn\u2019t deserve them because you never cared to give anything to me in return. But you got it all anyways.<\/p>\r\n

Avete presente quando si dice che tutto ha una data di scadenza? Beh, anche la mia cecit\u00e0. Anche questo amore che era solo unilaterale<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

Non ci sono pi\u00f9 possibilit\u00e0 per voi.<\/strong> You\u2019ve had a fair amount of those and you threw them all away.<\/p>\r\n

Hai continuato a deludermi e io ho continuato a darti gli strumenti per farlo di nuovo.<\/p>\r\n

I should\u2019ve believed my instincts and walked away the first time you played me, but instead of listening to my head, I listened to my heart.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m done being your last resort.<\/strong> <\/a>I\u2019m done having you come to me when you have nowhere else to go, when nobody else is willing to offer you their shoulder to cry on.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m done allowing you to use me. I\u2019m done always being there for you even though I knew you weren\u2019t willing to be there for me when I needed you.<\/p>\r\n

I will no longer neglect myself just so you\u2019d be happy.<\/p>\r\n

Instead of taking care of myself, I took it as my life\u2019s mission to take care of you. Instead on focusing on making myself happy, I focused on making you happy.<\/p>\r\n

Con i miei continui sforzi per migliorare la tua vita, ho dimenticato la mia vita.<\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t get to mess with my life anymore.<\/strong> Whenever I chose to move on, whenever I made a decision that it was over, you\u2019d swoop in and make me drop everything I was doing.<\/p>\r\n

Sei venuto con tutte quelle stupide promesse, su come questa volta le cose fossero diverse e su come avessi bisogno di me. E, ingenua com'ero, avrei finito per lasciare tutto per te.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m no longer hoping that things will change. I have no more expectations of you. Because I\u2019m finally ready to see you for who you are, not for who I\u2019d like you to be.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re not half the man I thought you were. And that\u2019s okay. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n

You can continue being just half of a man to someone else now. Because I\u2019m done settling for less.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

I started losing myself to you. And honestly, I\u2019d love to lose myself to love and to a man who deserves me.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s just that there is no love in you for me and you are not a man who deserves me. It just took me a while to open my eyes and see you\u2019re not good for me.<\/p>\r\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che mi merito di pi\u00f9. Merito pi\u00f9 di quanto mi hai dato<\/a> or than you\u2019ll ever be ready to give to any other girl in your life. I deserve someone who won\u2019t ever stop trying.<\/p>\r\n

I deserve someone who\u2019ll love me for who I am and I deserve someone who won\u2019t leave me alone in the battles of our relationship.<\/p>\r\n

I deserve someone who won\u2019t make me cry myself to sleep, someone who\u2019ll worry about letting me down and someone who sees me as worthy.<\/p>\r\n

Maybe you won\u2019t notice me gone. But you will notice you\u2019re missing something.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

You\u2019ll miss having someone to talk to, you\u2019ll miss someone who never gave up on you, someone who believed in you, someone whom you could always count on.<\/p>\r\n

Someone who made you feel good even when you weren\u2019t good. But I promise I won\u2019t be there for you anymore.<\/p>\r\n

You know how they say the hardest battles are those between what our heart wants and what our mind knows we deserve? I\u2019ve chosen my side in this war.<\/p>\r\n

I promise I won\u2019t be there for you anymore. And although it still hurts like hell, this is one promise I actually have every intention of keeping.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

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