{"id":146480,"date":"2022-03-03T07:52:55","date_gmt":"2022-03-03T07:52:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=146480"},"modified":"2022-12-07T11:11:41","modified_gmt":"2022-12-07T11:11:41","slug":"segni-che-un-uomo-sposato-vi-sta-usando-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-un-uomo-sposato-vi-sta-usando-2\/","title":{"rendered":"17 segni inconfutabili che un uomo sposato vi sta usando"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you’re the altra donna<\/a>Continuate a cercare i segni che un uomo sposato \u00e8 innamorato di voi. Romanticizzate la vostra relazione, la vedete come amore vero<\/b><\/a>, and secretly hope that he’ll end up with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But, while you’re busy fantasizing, somehow, you skip the signs a married man is using you!<\/strong> Have you ever considered the idea that this guy couldn’t care less about you, and that you serve him as a distraction from his unhappy marriage?<\/p>\n

I don’t mean to be harsh, but sadly, this is a common scenario with donne single e uomini sposati<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Segni che un uomo sposato vi sta usando<\/h2>\n

If your married man loves you, he’ll never behave like this:<\/p>\n

1. Vuole che siate completamente fedeli.<\/h3>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Okay, let’s get things sorted out. This man is married \u2013 that’s a known fact by now. I won’t go into details of his marriage now because we can never know what happens behind closed doors.<\/p>\n

However, one thing is for sure: he’s already in a committed relationship. The truth is that he’s not faithful to his wife, but in some weird way, he’s not faithful to you either \u2013 as long as he remains next to his significant other.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, he demands fidelity from you. I’m not just talking about sleeping with other guys.<\/p>\n

He expects you to act like you’re in a serious relationship. You’re not allowed to go out on dates or to have dating apps, and he even gets jealous when you mention your migliori amici maschi<\/a> o colleghi.<\/p>\n

This man acts as if he owns you, while you must share him with his wife. How absurd is this? And, you know what’s even worse: the fact that you accept these terms and conditions.<\/p>\n

privandovi della felicit\u00e0<\/h4>\n

Ti vuole solo per s\u00e9. Oh, how romantic that would be if we could disregard one tiny piece of information: the fact that he can’t offer you his fidelity!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Basically, this man is depriving you of happiness. He is literally stealing years of your life, and as if that wasn’t enough, he steals away every possibility of you meeting someone new and saving yourself.<\/p>\n

2. But, he doesn’t leave his wife.<\/h3>\n

At the same time, he doesn’t do anything about his divorce. If this fact alone isn’t one of the most obvious signs a married man is using you \u2013 I don’t know what is. I know he keeps telling you that his divorce will be finalized any time soon.<\/p>\n

But, come on… do you really believe him? It’s not that you’re just letting him lie to you; menti a te stesso<\/b><\/a> anche.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ha fatto qualcosa di particolare per la sua separazione? Ha mai accennato alla moglie che loro due dovrebbero separarsi?<\/p>\n

Ha iniziato a ricostruire la sua vita? Forse deve trovare una nuova sistemazione o riorganizzare le sue finanze in modo da poter pagare gli alimenti in futuro.<\/p>\n

La risposta a tutte queste domande \u00e8 la stessa: he didn’t move an inch for you while you moved mountains for his sake. And, that tells you everything: he won\u2019t leave his wife<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Non \u00e8 presente per voi.<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

How many holidays did this guy spend by your side? Can you call him when you have an emergency, even if it’s in the middle of the night?<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 presentarsi spontaneamente alla vostra porta quando sentite la sua mancanza? Pu\u00f2 essere il vostro accompagnatore ai matrimoni e ad altri eventi familiari?<\/p>\n

I already know the answers to all of these questions \u2013 I just asked them to remind you of reality.<\/p>\n

If you sum your entire relationship up, you’ll have to admit that this man is never there for you. You’re pretty much solo in questa relazione<\/b><\/a> since you can’t count on him for anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He’s not there to hold your hand when you need him to. He’s not there to comfort you when you start crying in the middle of the night.<\/p>\n

This man isn’t your friend \u2013 he’s just your lover. He’s not the rock you need, and certainly not the one you can rely on. It’s one of the biggest Segni che un uomo sposato vi sta usando<\/a>.<\/p>\n

4. Nessuna conversazione significativa.<\/h3>\n

Let’s continue with the questions. Here’s the tough one: When was the last time you had a conversazione significativa<\/a> with this guy? Of course, I’m referring to the topics that don’t concern him.<\/p>\n

You have no chance to talk about your personal life. He’s always too busy to hear you out, and he has no time to talk about your feelings.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is that he’s probably there per una sola cosa<\/b><\/a>: il piacere fisico che gli date. Allo stesso tempo, gli date la convalida che desidera disperatamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He never gives you advice, he is not involved in the things that are bothering you, and he’s never interested in what you have to say. Even when he listens to you, he doesn’t pay attention to what you’re saying.<\/p>\n

Aren’t all of these clear signs vuole solo andare a letto con te<\/a> perch\u00e9 questo \u00e8 sicuramente il modo in cui una relazione sana e amorevole dovrebbe apparire!<\/p>\n

5. Evita di parlare di divorzio.<\/h3>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore di tutta questa situazione \u00e8 che il vostro amante non vuole pi\u00f9 parlare di divorzio. Ma, allo stesso tempo, he is obviously not brave enough to tell you straight in the face that he doesn’t plan on changing anything in his love life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Whenever you bring this topic up, he’s too tired to discuss it right now. He has a lot of things on his mind, and he’s too stressed out to tackle it at this moment.<\/p>\n

And, let’s not forget my all-time favorite: finisce per accusarla di aver rovinato i vostri rari momenti di felicit\u00e0 insieme.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Did you really have to start with that now when we’re having such a great time?<\/em><\/p>\n

Sounds familiar, right? As a result, you’re scared to even mention his divorce because you know it will start a fight.<\/p>\n

And, just like that \u2013 he has you right where he wants you!<\/p>\n

6. Vi accusa di averlo sedotto.<\/h3>\n

Have you ever wondered how married men get away with their extramarital affairs? Well, it’s actually pretty simple: they convince their wives that it wasn’t their fault.<\/p>\n

This is exactly the way your lover behaves. Even though you’re a single woman and he’s the cheater, he acts like you’re the one who lo ha sedotto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Isn’t that convenient? It’s like you forced him to be with you, which is certainly not the case.<\/p>\n

In pratica, prende due piccioni con una fava. Innanzitutto, si annulla la responsabilit\u00e0 e ha la coscienza pulita per continuare a comportarsi nello stesso modo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In secondo luogo, d\u00e0 tutta la colpa a voi.<\/strong> If you believe him, you end up destroying your mental health because you can’t help but feel guilty for breaking some innocent woman’s heart.<\/p>\n

Well, hear me out on this one. Even though you carry your part of the responsibility for this situation, he’s the one with the wedding ring here… the one breaking his vows, and the one to blame for this mess!<\/p>\n

7. Il suo matrimonio viene sempre al primo posto.<\/h3>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Sorry to break it to you, but the first place in this man’s life is already taken, and his wife has it. At least, that’s how he acts, which, of course, doesn’t add up to his words.<\/p>\n

Il punto cruciale \u00e8 che lui ti tratta come una seconda scelta<\/b><\/a>, and that’s one of the good signs a married man is using you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

His family is his priority. He’ll always run to help out his wife rather than respond to your text message.<\/p>\n

Whether you like it or not, he spends most of his free time with her. Let’s talk about New Year parties, Christmases, and Valentine’s Day.<\/p>\n

I know he says he doesn’t care about her and that prova un forte sentimento per lei<\/a>, but if that were true, you wouldn’t sempre al secondo posto<\/a>Lo faresti anche tu?<\/p>\n

8. Bugie e inganni.<\/h3>\n

If you’re being honest, you’ll admit that this toxic relationship is based on false promesse<\/a>, bugie e inganni.<\/p>\n

He doesn’t love his wife, he doesn’t sleep with her, and he’ll leave her anytime now.<\/em> Quando gli uomini tradiscono, queste sono le solite bugie che dicono alle loro amanti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But, let’s talk about little things as well. How many times have you fallen asleep in your prettiest dress, with full makeup on, and with your phone in your hand?<\/p>\n

That’s right, I’m talking about all those nights he promised you he’d come to see you, but never showed up.<\/p>\n

9. He doesn’t care about your well-being.<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Here’s another harsh truth, and one of the good signs a married man is using you. Let’s face it: he rarely takes your well-being into consideration. He doesn’t think about your needs, and he most certainly doesn’t care about you<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Che impatto avr\u00e0 questa situazione sulla vostra vita? Come influenzer\u00e0 il vostro futuro? Le sta spezzando il cuore? Riuscirete mai a riprendervi da tutto questo casino?<\/em><\/p>\n

La vostra salute mentale \u00e8 rovinata? Come guarirete la vostra anima distrutta? Trascorrerete il resto della vostra vita nella posizione del altra donna<\/i><\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n

Siete gelosi del fatto che dovete dividerlo con sua moglie? Che cosa prova per la sua relazione?<\/em><\/p>\n

Do you think he worries over any of these questions? I promise you he doesn’t.<\/p>\n

After all, this is quite obvious. This is not the man who brings you hot soup when you’re sick nor does he hold your hand when you need his emotional support.<\/p>\n

He’s selfish<\/a>e si preoccupa solo di se stesso!<\/p>\n

10. You’re not his only extramarital affair.<\/h3>\n

Quando gli uomini tradiscono, raramente si fermano a una sola donna. In fondo, sapete che il vostro amante ha numerose altre relazioni con altre ragazze single o addirittura con donne sposate.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E tutti quei messaggi e quelle telefonate che continua a ricevere? E il fatto che nasconda il telefono o scompaia misteriosamente dalla vostra vita?<\/p>\n

Of course, he can always tell you that he’s spending his free time with his wife, but trust me, this kind of behavior is a warning sign that he’s cheating on you<\/a> con una terza donna.<\/p>\n

I don’t mean to be harsh, but it’s something you could have seen coming. He’s clearly a imbroglione seriale<\/a>, and what’s even worse, he doesn’t see anything wrong about it!<\/p>\n

11. You’re just convenient.<\/h3>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Every married man wants the same: a woman who won’t ask him too many questions and who’ll always be available when he feels like seeing her. Well, I hate to break it to you, but this is exactly how your lover sees you.<\/p>\n

Se ti tratta come you’re convenient<\/a>, it’s because he doesn’t love you<\/a>. Instead, he’s with you because you give him everything he needs.<\/p>\n

You’re a distraction from his boring married life. He doesn’t have to make future plans with you because, let’s face it, voi due non avete futuro<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’re in no position to ask him anything, and he doesn’t have to be committed to your relationship. Besides, he gets to sleep with you, which is a huge bonus.<\/p>\n

And, let’s not forget one of the most important things: you give him the validation he needs. He is still the man he used to be. His seducing skills are in perfect order.<\/p>\n

Fate schizzare alle stelle la sua autostima. Si vede come un uomo macho che ha due donne che litigano per lui!<\/p>\n

12. Vi nasconde al resto del mondo.<\/h3>\n

This guy never let you in his life. I’m not saying that he should arrange a meeting between you and his family. However, if he really plans on getting a divorce, or if he was really working on it, he wouldn’t hide you from everyone in his life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And, that’s exactly what your married man is doing. Even if someone he knows catches you together, his body language instantly changes and he becomes emotionally distant and cold.<\/p>\n

He’s doing this because he doesn’t see your relationship as anything more than a casual fling. He’ll probably forget about you soon, and he doesn’t need anyone reminding him of your existence.<\/p>\n

Besides, it’s easier to get rid of you when the time comes if you’re not involved in his life.<\/p>\n

13. Un maniaco del controllo.<\/h3>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When a married man falls in love with a single woman, he knows he doesn’t deserve her. The same goes with your toxic relationship: your lover is very well aware that you could replace him for someone better (and, most importantly, single) in the blink of an eye.<\/p>\n

Quindi, si trasforma in un maniaco del controllo<\/a> nel tentativo di evitare che ci\u00f2 accada. Ha scatti di gelosia, controlla ogni tua mossa e inizia persino a perseguitarti.<\/p>\n

Fruga nel vostro telefono, vuole che cancelliate tutti i vostri profili sui social media e cerca di dirvi cosa fare della vostra vita.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se si tratta di qualcosa di simile, \u00e8 bene considerarlo come una bandiera rossa di una manipolatore di controllo<\/a>. It’s likely that he won’t leave you alone even if you try to walk away.<\/p>\n

Just have one thing in mind: he’s not behaving like this because ti ama<\/a> \u2013 this man feels like he owns you!<\/p>\n

14. Ti manipola per farti restare.<\/h3>\n

When a married man cares about you, he doesn’t want you to leave him \u2013 obviously. However, manipulating you into staying is a new level of toxicity.<\/p>\n

Ogni volta che cerchi di allontanarti, lui trova un modo per riconquistarti.<\/strong> All'improvviso si ammala e i medici gli dicono che potrebbe trattarsi di qualcosa di grave.<\/p>\n

Or, he shows up, begging you not to leave him. He promises that he’ll change, and that everything will fall in perfect order.<\/p>\n

If that doesn’t work, he plays with your consciousness. He goes even as far as telling you that he’ll do something to himself if you break up with him \u2013 a true example of ricatto emotivo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Quest'uomo sa chiaramente come innescarti. Lui gioca con la testa<\/a> e si finisce per fare esattamente quello che vuole lui.<\/p>\n

15. Tutto avviene secondo le sue regole.<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

A volte, you feel as if you are just a passive bystander in this relationship. Or, maybe you’re a puppet without your own free will.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In ogni caso, il punto \u00e8 che tutto, e intendo letteralmente tutto, avviene secondo le sue regole.<\/p>\n

There is a scheduled time during which you can text him, you only visit the hidden, dark places where no one can see you. You meet when it’s convenient for him.<\/p>\n

Basically, you do whatever he wants because you’re terrorizzata di perderlo<\/a>. You have no saying regarding your relationship, and he definitely doesn’t treat you as his equal.<\/p>\n

16. You’re his dumping site.<\/h3>\n

\u00c8 insoddisfatto della sua vita matrimoniale? Ha problemi con i figli? Sta attraversando una crisi finanziaria? O forse la sua salute mentale \u00e8 distrutta?<\/p>\n

In questo caso, dovrebbe lavorare per risolvere i suoi problemi. Oppure, dovrebbe trovarsi uno strizzacervelli.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, invece di farlo, vi usa come luogo di scarico. Vi racconta tutti i suoi problemi, riversa tutto il suo bagaglio e si libera di tutto il peso che ha sulle spalle.<\/p>\n

In the meantime, you’re always there to hear him out. After all, where would you go? You’re full of understanding, and you never fail to give him a solution to all of his troubles.<\/p>\n

It wouldn’t surprise me if he had the nerve to ask you for relationship advice regarding his marriage \u2013 if we’re being honest, that’s the only thing that’s left for you to solve on his behalf.<\/p>\n

E cosa succede dopo averlo consolato? Beh, torna alla sua vita idilliaca, sollevato dallo stress.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If this isn’t one of the sure signs a married man is using you, I don’t know what is.<\/p>\n

17. Il vostro istinto vi dice.<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Finally, there are some things that are difficult to explain. You can see it in his body language, his tone of voice, or when you two have eye contact \u2013 this man doesn’t love you and he never did.<\/p>\n

All'inizio pensavate di esservi immaginate tutti questi segnali che un uomo sposato vi sta usando, ma quando ci pensate bene, il tuo sensazione istintiva<\/b><\/a> aveva ragione fin dall'inizio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 25 segni che un uomo ti sta usando per soldi che non dovresti ignorare<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Come si fa a sapere se un uomo sposato \u00e8 infelice nel suo matrimonio?<\/h2>\n

Un uomo che \u00e8 sposato infelicemente use every excuse possible to run away from his wife, and he’ll avoid spending time with her at all costs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 l'uomo che consiglia sempre a tutti gli scapoli che lo circondano di non legarsi mai al matrimonio perch\u00e9 li aspetta l'inferno. Anche, si lamenta sempre della moglie.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, there are men who deliberately act this way to deceive you. They’ll lie that they’re infelici nel loro matrimonio<\/a> per giustificare le loro attivit\u00e0 extraconiugali.<\/p>\n

Come si fa a far sentire la propria mancanza a un uomo sposato?<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Se volete far sentire la vostra mancanza a un uomo sposato, devi smettere di essere cos\u00ec disponibile<\/b><\/a><\/strong>. He’s used to having you around whenever he feels like it, and it’s about time he sees that you’re a real person \u2013 not his puppet who comes on demand.<\/p>\n

Non contattatelo e fatelo preoccupare perdere te<\/a> for good. Once he feels your absence, he’ll realize he can’t live without you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Per concludere:<\/h2>\n

Look… I’m not here to judge. But, if you’ve seen all the signs a married man is using you, what are you still doing by his side?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know it’s easy for me to tell you to lasciarlo<\/a>. La parte pi\u00f9 difficile \u00e8 quella di andare avanti<\/a>. Tuttavia, sapete che non \u00e8 l'uomo con cui potete fare progetti futuri.<\/p>\n

Mi dispiace dirtelo, ma la situazione tra voi due non cambier\u00e0 mai. Non hai altra scelta che andartene finch\u00e9 sei in tempo!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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