{"id":14688,"date":"2020-05-16T10:56:26","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T10:56:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14688"},"modified":"2022-03-10T17:48:44","modified_gmt":"2022-03-10T17:48:44","slug":"8-segni-evidenti-che-non-cambieranno-mai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-segni-evidenti-che-non-cambieranno-mai\/","title":{"rendered":"8 segni evidenti che non cambier\u00e0 mai"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se vi siete scontrati con un muro nella relazione, non sapendo se valga la pena rimanere e lottare o allontanarsi, allora conoscete il dolore della lotta.<\/p>\n<p>A volte, per quanto ci sforziamo o per quanto amiamo il nostro partner, \u00e8 troppo doloroso per noi.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re struggling with working on their behavior, either because they just don\u2019t know how to change or they don\u2019t want to.<\/p>\n<p>Per aiutarvi <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/experimentations\/201708\/how-do-we-decide-whether-or-not-break\" rel=\"noopener\">decidere se restare o andarsene,<\/a> abbiamo stilato un elenco dei segnali pi\u00f9 comuni che indicano che non cambier\u00e0. Mai.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Si trasforma in modalit\u00e0 Hulk invece che in modalit\u00e0 migliorata.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91912\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato che parla con la sua fidanzata sconvolta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Per migliorare il nostro comportamento, per iniziare a lavorarci sopra, dobbiamo prima accettare che qualcosa non va. Dobbiamo vedere i nostri errori e i nostri difetti per poterli correggere.<\/p>\n<p>But if he gets angry every time you mention that he hurt you or that he did something he promised he wouldn\u2019t, then he can\u2019t see the problem.<\/p>\n<p>Pensa ancora di essere perfetto, indipendentemente dal fatto che vi abbia offerto delle scuse qualche tempo prima o che vi abbia promesso di cambiare.<\/p>\n<h2>2. He doesn\u2019t know the meaning of the word <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-compromessi-non-fanno-mai-una-relazione\/\">\u2018compromise\u2019<\/a><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91921\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/angry-couple-arguing-at-home-1.jpg\" alt=\"coppia arrabbiata che litiga in casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/angry-couple-arguing-at-home-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/angry-couple-arguing-at-home-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/angry-couple-arguing-at-home-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s either his way or no way. He has done nothing wrong, so there is no need for him to change or do anything.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all in your head, so you are the one who should deal with it.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s never willing to step into your shoes and see things from your perspective.<\/p>\n<p>He sticks to his own opinion, regardless of how wrong it is. To him, it\u2019s the most perfect one.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Pensa che vogliate solo farlo arrabbiare<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91914\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo pazzo che punta il dito contro una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/mad-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non importa quanto attentamente vi avviciniate a lui, non importa quanto vi sentite feriti, lui sente solo l'assillo dell'assillo dell'assillo.<\/p>\n<p>He is so self-involved that he can\u2019t see the pain in your eyes, he just hears what he wants to hear. And that would be you nagging and trying to piss him off.<\/p>\n<p>Vi accuser\u00e0 persino di avergli voluto rovinare la giornata, in modo da indurvi a scusarvi e a lasciar perdere per un po'.<\/p>\n<h2>4. He laughs it off and he doesn\u2019t care how it affects you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91915\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia infelice che litiga sul divano di casa in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Unhappy-couple-arguing-on-the-couch-at-home-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you tell him that you\u2019re broken, he rolls his eyes, saying how you\u2019re being overdramatic.<\/p>\n<p>Quando lo supplichi di impegnarsi nella relazione, ti fa sentire pazza solo perch\u00e9 hai osato dire una cosa del genere.<\/p>\n<p>After all, he is the only one who\u2019s trying and working on it, you\u2019re just too selfish to see it.<\/p>\n<p>E quando dite che c'\u00e8 un problema, lui ci scherza su e cambia argomento. Questo \u00e8 un segno che \u00e8 davvero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-persone-si-preoccupano-solo-di-se-stesse\/\">si preoccupa solo di se stesso.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>5. Scompare di tanto in tanto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91916\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna seria che indossa una camicia bianca e parla al telefono all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/serious-woman-wearing-white-shirt-and-talking-on-her-phone-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every time you try to talk to him, he turns into a ghost. He is nowhere to be found, his cell phone is off or he\u2019s straight-up avoiding you with loads of work he has to do (and you know he\u2019s somewhere getting drunk).<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetalko.com\/15-signs-hes-not-ready-for-a-relationship\/\" rel=\"noopener\">segno che non \u00e8 pronto<\/a> di ascoltarvi, di sentire i suoi errori. E molto probabilmente non lo far\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n<p>Dopo aver terminato il ghosting, torner\u00e0 e far\u00e0 finta che non sia successo nulla. Come se tutto andasse bene.<\/p>\n<h2>6. He\u2019s a liar\u2014and a bad one<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91917\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Donna confusa che guarda un uomo in un caff\u00e8 di strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Potete capire ogni volta che mente e ha una lunga storia di bugie con voi, quindi perch\u00e9 sperate che questa volta sia diverso? Fa promesse, ma non le mantiene mai.<\/p>\n<p>All he has is words, but they mean nothing if actions don\u2019t follow them. It\u2019s up to you to decide whether you want to listen to his lies or your heart.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Regardless of the consequences, he just doesn\u2019t care<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91920\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Smiling-man-works-behind-a-laptop-next-to-a-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Un uomo sorridente lavora dietro un computer portatile accanto a una donna triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Smiling-man-works-behind-a-laptop-next-to-a-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Smiling-man-works-behind-a-laptop-next-to-a-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Smiling-man-works-behind-a-laptop-next-to-a-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whether there weren\u2019t any the first time he messed things up or if there are huge ones, like you leaving, he just doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing really bothers him\u2014after all, it\u2019s your problem too. So, you should work on it.<\/p>\n<h2>8. That\u2019s just who he is<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-91919\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-getting-bored-while-her-husband-typing-phone.jpg\" alt=\"donna che si annoia mentre il marito digita il telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-getting-bored-while-her-husband-typing-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-getting-bored-while-her-husband-typing-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-getting-bored-while-her-husband-typing-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How can you be so selfish and ask him to change? That\u2019s who he is, that\u2019s part of him. If he loses that, he won\u2019t be himself anymore. Bullshit.<\/p>\n<p>He just doesn\u2019t feel like putting any effort into your relationship and into making you happy. That kind of man is not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/10-types-men-not-worthy-time\/\">degno di un solo secondo del vostro tempo.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-91911 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/8-Obvious-Signs-He-Is-Never-Going-To-Change-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 segni evidenti che non cambier\u00e0 mai\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/8-Obvious-Signs-He-Is-Never-Going-To-Change-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/8-Obvious-Signs-He-Is-Never-Going-To-Change-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/8-Obvious-Signs-He-Is-Never-Going-To-Change-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/8-Obvious-Signs-He-Is-Never-Going-To-Change-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/8-Obvious-Signs-He-Is-Never-Going-To-Change-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/8-Obvious-Signs-He-Is-Never-Going-To-Change-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019ve hit a wall in the relationship, not knowing whether it\u2019s worth staying and fighting or walking away, then you know the pain of struggle. Sometimes, no matter how hard we try or how much we love our partner, they are just too painful for us. They\u2019re struggling with working on their behavior, either&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":91910,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14688","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/8-Obvious-Signs-He-Is-Never-Going-To-Change.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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