{"id":14731,"date":"2020-07-16T13:40:20","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T13:40:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14731"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:52:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:52:29","slug":"8-segnali-dallarme-per-una-relazione-non-allaltezza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-segnali-dallarme-per-una-relazione-non-allaltezza\/","title":{"rendered":"8 segnali d'allarme che indicano che non \u00e8 in grado di gestire una relazione vera e propria"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando si incontra un ragazzo, si desidera che i due durino per sempre, perch\u00e9 si \u00e8 travolti da ogni parola che esce dalla sua bocca.<\/p>\n<p>Pensate subito di aver trovato l'amore della vostra vita e immaginate gi\u00e0 il vostro abito da sposa, i vostri figli e una casa enorme da qualche parte in riva al mare.<\/p>\n<p>And then all of a sudden, you start realizing that your \u2018perfect\u2019 guy is not that perfect after all. You see that he isn\u2019t ready to commit to you fully and that he is not hubby material.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe at the beginning you won\u2019t doubt your future together because you will think that he might change but after you start seeing some of the red flag signs that he can\u2019t handle a real relationship, you will be ready to dump him.<\/p>\n<p>In case you also think that your man is not like he was before and that he doesn\u2019t want a long-term relationship with you, check these signs to be 100% sure.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Contatta ancora le sue ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106506\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-man-texting.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio che messaggia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-man-texting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-man-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-man-texting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-man-texting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-man-texting-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si tratta di un'enorme <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/9-major-red-flags-show-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">bandiera rossa<\/a> that your man isn\u2019t anywhere near ready to fully commit to you.<\/p>\n<p>If he still has contact with his exes it means that he doesn\u2019t care about you so much and that you are not his priority.<\/p>\n<p>Manca anche di rispetto a voi e a tutto ci\u00f2 che rappresentate e c'\u00e8 solo una minima possibilit\u00e0 che lui cambi.<\/p>\n<p>I ragazzi sono migliori all'inizio della relazione, quindi se vi tratta cos\u00ec adesso, potete solo immaginare come vi tratter\u00e0 in seguito.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t want to spend time with your friends and family<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106507\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-lying-on-the-couch-and-watching-the-television.jpg\" alt=\"uomo sdraiato sul divano a guardare la televisione\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-lying-on-the-couch-and-watching-the-television.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-lying-on-the-couch-and-watching-the-television-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-lying-on-the-couch-and-watching-the-television-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-lying-on-the-couch-and-watching-the-television-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-lying-on-the-couch-and-watching-the-television-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se si rifiuta di venire con voi alle riunioni di famiglia o a bere qualcosa con gli amici, \u00e8 segno che ha un piano per scaricarvi.<\/p>\n<p>Probabilmente sta con te perch\u00e9 gli conviene illuderti per qualche tempo e poi passare a un'altra vittima.<\/p>\n<p>Se vedete un segno come questo, vi suggerisco di scaricarlo per primo, perch\u00e9 un ragazzo come questo non merita il vostro tempo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t talk about your relationship in the future sense<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106509\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seria che parla\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-couple-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-couple-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-couple-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-couple-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/serious-couple-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sembra che sia concentrato solo sul vostro presente e sulle cose che vuole fare con voi adesso.<\/p>\n<p>Quando gli chiedete di fare dei progetti per il futuro, si limita a dire che potete farlo pi\u00f9 tardi o che \u00e8 stanco.<\/p>\n<p>Questa \u00e8 solo la sua tattica per sbarazzarsi di voi e approfittarne il pi\u00f9 a lungo possibile.<\/p>\n<p>So, whatever you do, don\u2019t stay with him any longer because he is not the kind of man who can make you happy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He didn\u2019t have any serious relationships before<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106510\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-man-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"giovane uomo che sorride\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-man-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-man-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-man-smiling-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-man-smiling-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-man-smiling-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando gli si parla del suo passato, menziona solo alcune relazioni brevi, ma non dice mai di averne avuta una seria.<\/p>\n<p>That can be a sign that he can\u2019t handle a real relationship and that he just wants to have a good time.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t have to be a true sign that he isn\u2019t capable of loving you but in most cases it is.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gli si \u00e8 spezzato il cuore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106511\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-man-standing-in-front-of-window.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste in piedi davanti alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-man-standing-in-front-of-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-man-standing-in-front-of-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-man-standing-in-front-of-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-man-standing-in-front-of-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-man-standing-in-front-of-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La cosa peggiore che possa capitare a un ragazzo \u00e8 che gli venga spezzato il cuore.<\/p>\n<p>In seguito, si sentir\u00e0 come un lupo ferito che si allontana da tutti in un luogo tranquillo e aspetta che le sue ferite guariscano.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the same with guys as girls\u2014if they have been hurt, they will be extra careful in every new relationship they get into.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe that\u2019s why your man doesn\u2019t want anything that is serious. He is scared that he will have his heart broken again and he doesn\u2019t want to risk it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-signs-dating-broken-man\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">10 segni che stai uscendo con un uomo distrutto<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi sta inviando segnali contrastanti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106512\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-thinking-2.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata che pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-thinking-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-thinking-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-thinking-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-thinking-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-woman-thinking-2-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your man is acting all hot and cold, it is the first sign that something is not right. It seems like he isn\u2019t sure about what he wants so he can\u2019t show you that.<\/p>\n<p>You will probably be confused because he will treat you like a queen one day and the next he won\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\n<p>Se lo beccate a fare questo, potete essere sicure che non \u00e8 un tipo da relazione, quindi \u00e8 meglio che scappiate da lui il pi\u00f9 possibile.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He always tells you that your relationship won\u2019t work<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106514\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che beve caff\u00e8 e parla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-drinking-coffee-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your man makes you feel uncomfortable in his company, telling you reasons why the two of you are too different to work out, it means that he isn\u2019t so sure about his love for you.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he feels good as long as the two of you don\u2019t rush the relationship but as soon as you start talking about some future plans, he withdraws.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn\u2019t want to open up to you emotionally<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106515\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-serious-man-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda un uomo serio sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-serious-man-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-serious-man-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-serious-man-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-serious-man-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-at-serious-man-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The reason he doesn\u2019t want to open up to you emotionally is that he doesn\u2019t want to invest in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Non \u00e8 abbastanza interessato a voi da mostrarvi i suoi segreti pi\u00f9 oscuri e da mettersi a nudo.<\/p>\n<p>He thinks that you are not worthy of being familiar with some important things from his life and that\u2019s why he will always withdraw when you push him to open up to you.<\/p>\n<p>Se sorprendi il tuo uomo a fare cos\u00ec, puoi essere certa che non \u00e8 un maritino e, credimi, un uomo cos\u00ec non sar\u00e0 mai quello che sognavi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-106504\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/8-Warning-Signs-He-Cant-Handle-A-True-Relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 segnali d&#039;allarme che indicano che non \u00e8 in grado di gestire una relazione vera e propria\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/8-Warning-Signs-He-Cant-Handle-A-True-Relationship-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/8-Warning-Signs-He-Cant-Handle-A-True-Relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/8-Warning-Signs-He-Cant-Handle-A-True-Relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/8-Warning-Signs-He-Cant-Handle-A-True-Relationship-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you meet a guy, you want the two of you to last forever because you are so overwhelmed with every word that comes out of his mouth. 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