{"id":14738,"date":"2020-07-16T13:37:46","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T13:37:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=14738"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:55:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:55:22","slug":"questo-e-cio-che-e-diventato-dopo-che-lhai-rotta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questo-e-cio-che-e-diventato-dopo-che-lhai-rotta\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come si \u00e8 trasformata dopo che tu l'hai rotta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lei ti amava e tu l'hai distrutta. Invece di rendere la vita bella per entrambi semplicemente dandole il tuo amore, hai scelto di fare il contrario.<\/p>\n<p>E questo fa schifo. Sapete perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 ha preso la parte pi\u00f9 corta del bastone.<\/p>\n<p>She did nothing to deserve the things you did to her. But unfortunately, she wasn\u2019t one of those who dodged the bullet.<\/p>\n<p>L'hai colpita proprio al centro del cuore. Non un millimetro pi\u00f9 in alto o pi\u00f9 in basso. E si \u00e8 frantumata in un milione di pezzi.<\/p>\n<p>The list of things you did to her is so long that one can\u2019t help but wonder if you feed off of other people\u2019s misery.<\/p>\n<p>Vi fa piacere vedere qualcuno a terra? Vi sentite bene con voi stessi quando fate cadere una persona nel punto pi\u00f9 basso della sua vita?<\/p>\n<p>Non ti sei mai preoccupato di ci\u00f2 che sarebbe rimasto di lei una volta che avessi finito con lei. Non ti sei mai fermato un secondo a pensare a come le tue azioni di merda si sarebbero ripercosse su di lei, questa ragazza che non voleva altro che esserci per te e amarti.<\/p>\n<p>C'\u00e8 qualcosa di peggio che vedere una brava ragazza <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ragazze-che-cadono-ragazzi-cattivi-3-giochi-mentali-dei-narcisisti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">innamorarsi dell'uomo sbagliato<\/a> e poi trasformarsi in un'altra persona quando viene spezzata da quello stesso ragazzo che avrebbe dovuto amarla?<\/p>\n<p>Dopo un colpo di fulmine, tutti cambiamo. Ma dopo essere stati spezzati, cambiamo completamente.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 le lezioni che si imparano dopo la rottura rimangono scolpite nella mente per sempre. E non si pu\u00f2 mai lasciar perdere.<\/p>\n<h2>L'hai trasformata in una persona che non si fida pi\u00f9 di nessuno...<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93812\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"Ragazza triste e pensierosa seduta da sola sul davanzale a guardare la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Sad-thoughtful-girl-sit-alone-on-sill-looking-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because she trusted you and look where that got her. If she had just been a little smarter, if she hadn\u2019t gone all in from the beginning, if she hadn\u2019t assumed you were one of the good guys, she wouldn\u2019t be this broken now.<\/p>\n<p>But she is. And that\u2019s why she doesn\u2019t trust anyone anymore. She\u2019s always one foot out the door.<\/p>\n<h2>Da quando l'hai spezzata, non porta pi\u00f9 il suo cuore sulla manica.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93813\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-through-window-1-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.crosswalk.com\/family\/singles\/he-said-she-said\/what-does-it-mean-to-guard-your-heart.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lei custodisce il suo cuore<\/a> now, with all the resources she has. She\u2019s built walls so high that nothing can tear them down.<\/p>\n<p>It will be a long time before she thinks about welcoming anyone in. That\u2019s if she ever decides to do that.<\/p>\n<h2>Ora sa che pu\u00f2 contare solo su se stessa.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93815\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul parquet vicino alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-parquet-floor-by-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She counted on you and you pulled the rug from under her feet. You showed her that she shouldn\u2019t trust anyone.<\/p>\n<p>But worst of all, she saw that even though she was there for someone with all her being, it didn\u2019t mean that someone would be there for her too. You showed her that the only person who won\u2019t let her down is herself.<\/p>\n<h2>Ha cancellato l'amore dalla sua lista dei desideri<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93817\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress.jpg\" alt=\"donna in abito bianco senza maniche\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-in-white-sleeveless-dress-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo era il suo ultimo desiderio, sapete. Ma non vuole pi\u00f9 l'amore. Perch\u00e9 le hai dimostrato che l'amore fa male.<\/p>\n<p>You showed her the dark side of falling for someone. And now she sees love through the prism of you. And it\u2019s not nice.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why she said goodbye to love. She no longer wants to love or to be loved.<\/p>\n<p>Quel capitolo della sua vita \u00e8 chiuso, e potrebbe anche essere chiuso per sempre.<\/p>\n<h2>Ha imparato a ridere anche quando aveva voglia di urlare. Ha imparato a sorridere anche quando tutto in lei si stava rompendo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93819\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che si rilassa a casa con una tazza di caff\u00e8\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-woman-relaxing-at-home-with-cup-of-coffee-1-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She was never good at faking her feelings. But you know, life teaches you even the things you don\u2019t really want to know.<\/p>\n<p>Ora <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/10-cose-che-le-persone-che-imbottigliano-le-emozioni-capiranno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">imbottiglia i suoi sentimenti<\/a>. She doesn\u2019t show anyone how she feels. When she feels like screaming, she just laughs.<\/p>\n<p>When she feels like breaking, she just smiles. Because if she lets herself go, she\u2019s afraid that she\u2019ll break into a million pieces and that she\u2019ll never be able to pull herself back together.<\/p>\n<h2>She hates the sentence \u201cI\u2019m fine\u201d, but after you, that\u2019s all she ever says about her feelings<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93822\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto ravvicinato di donna che guarda indietro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/close-up-portrait-of-woman-looking-back-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t let anyone know how she feels. She says she\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n<p>But in that fine, there are millions of emotions, thousands of tears and one huge heartbreak. She\u2019s everything but fine even though she\u2019ll never admit that.<\/p>\n<p>Era la persona pi\u00f9 bella da frequentare. Era la persona pi\u00f9 felice di questo mondo.<\/p>\n<p>Credeva che ci fosse del buono nelle persone e che l'amore potesse salvare il mondo. Ma lei le ha dimostrato il contrario.<\/p>\n<p>You showed her that her love isn\u2019t strong enough to defeat someone as bad as you are. And you turned her into one of those people she begged God for her to never become.<\/p>\n<p>L'hai trasformata in un cadavere vivente. Cammina, parla, respira e mangia, ma non ha anima. Non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 amore in lei.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s cold. There are no warm emotions in her bloodstream. There is no happiness or honest smiles. She lost all that to you.<\/p>\n<p>You pulled her into your darkness and you let her go, only when you saw that there wasn\u2019t a single trace of light left in her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93807\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ecco come si \u00e8 trasformata dopo che tu l&#039;hai rotta\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She loved you and you broke her. Instead of making life beautiful for both of you by simply giving her your love, you chose to go the other way around. And that sucks. Do you know why? Because she pulled the shorter end of the stick. She did nothing to deserve the things you did&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":93808,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14738","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/This-Is-What-She-Turned-Into-After-You-Broke-Her.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":24,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. 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