{"id":147821,"date":"2022-03-22T11:30:46","date_gmt":"2022-03-22T11:30:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=147821"},"modified":"2022-06-25T09:30:45","modified_gmt":"2022-06-25T09:30:45","slug":"disinnamorarsi-dopo-linfedelta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/disinnamorarsi-dopo-linfedelta\/","title":{"rendered":"Disinnamorarsi dopo l'infedelt\u00e0: 12 modi semplici per farlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s the last thing you\u2019d ever admit, but the truth is that prova ancora dei sentimenti per il suo <\/b>partner traditore<\/b><\/a>. You know what they did, and you don\u2019t plan on forgiving them, but you\u2019re having a hard time letting go of your love for them.<\/p>\n

Well, you\u2019re not alone. Innamoramento<\/a> Dopo l'infedelt\u00e0 \u00e8 un processo difficile che molte persone devono affrontare, anche se la maggior parte di esse lo tiene nascosto.<\/p>\n

Dovrei saperlo perch\u00e9 sono stato un coniuge tradito. E credo che il fatto di provare ancora dei sentimenti per il mio coniuge traditore, dopo tutto quello che mi aveva fatto, abbia causato uno strazio ancora maggiore dell'infedelt\u00e0 stessa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Come ho superato il mio marito traditore? Come ho fatto a distaccarmi emotivamente<\/a> dal mio matrimonio fallito? Continuate a leggere per scoprirlo.<\/p>\n

Guida all'innamoramento dopo l'infedelt\u00e0<\/h2>\n

Quindi, tutti i Segni di infedelt\u00e0 del partner<\/a> ci sono. Sapete di dover abbandonare questa relazione, ma qualcosa sembra trattenervi.<\/p>\n

La dura realt\u00e0 \u00e8 che provate ancora dei sentimenti per il vostro partner infedele. Ecco come potete liberarvene in poco tempo:<\/p>\n

1. L'autocolpevolizzazione \u00e8 un gioco pericoloso<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if your partner had a physical or relazione emotiva<\/a> \u2013 your first impulse will probably be to blame yourself. This happens every time a La persona amata vi tradisce<\/a>: you subconsciously think it\u2019s your fault because it\u2019s easier to blame yourself than see their true colors.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you something: this has to stop right away! You can\u2019t be guilty of being cheated on! Even if you didn\u2019t treat them right, they always had the choice to walk away before fooling around behind your back.<\/p>\n

Remember: they signed up for monogamy \u2013 you didn\u2019t force them into it. Your cheating spouse has to take all the responsibility for this situation.<\/p>\n

2. Tagliarle completamente<\/h3>\n

Here\u2019s the hard part: you have to Tagliare i ponti con l'imbroglione<\/a>. And I really mean it \u2013 you have to stop all communication ASAP.<\/p>\n

Nessuna telefonata, nessuna sbronza text messages saying \u201c I love you, \u201d<\/a> no asking if they\u2019re doing okay, and no asking them for favors. I know you\u2019re used to having this person in your life, but if you keep them around, your processo di guarigione<\/b><\/a> non arriver\u00e0 mai alla sua sana fine.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not saying it\u2019s impossible to stay friends with an ex after a break-up. However, you haven\u2019t reached that stage just yet! For now, it\u2019s better to stay away from them.<\/p>\n

Co-genitorialit\u00e0<\/h4>\n

But what if you have to co-parent with your ex-wife or husband? You can\u2019t cut them off completely in that case.<\/p>\n

However, you can reduce your communication to the bare minimum. Don\u2019t engage in any conversations that don\u2019t concern your children.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t forget social media<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Please keep in mind that falling out of love after infidelity or any break-up whatsoever won\u2019t be possible if you keep track of what your ex is up to on social media.<\/p>\n

If you still follow their accounts (yes, that includes fake profiles as well) or ask your BFF about the things they posted, you haven\u2019t cut them off!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Per quanto possa sembrare difficile, \u00e8 necessario bloccarli<\/a> everywhere! What if they\u2019re still with their affair partner? Do you really want to see how their new relationship is progressing?<\/p>\n

Volete cadere nella tentazione di contattarli? Volete lasciare loro lo spazio sufficiente per contattarvi quando ne hanno voglia?<\/p>\n

I think both you and I know the answers to these questions. Please, do what\u2019s right and spare yourself an unnecessary headache.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t suppress your emotions<\/h3>\n

Healing is a process. And at first, it hurts like hell. But that\u2019s perfectly normal. After all, you\u2019ve been through a lot.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve experienced severe trauma \u2013 don\u2019t let anyone tell you any different! Don\u2019t forget that you\u2019re a human being, and it\u2019s natural that you\u2019ll feel different negative emotions regarding everything that happened.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So if you feel like crying, that\u2019s exactly what you should do. If you\u2019re angry (at first), don\u2019t pretend like everything is fine. It\u2019s not, and that\u2019s okay! But whatever you do, don\u2019t reprimere le emozioni<\/a>!<\/p>\n

Just make sure you give yourself a deadline to get it together. It\u2019s okay to grieve for a certain period of time, but allowing this to become your lifestyle might take a serious toll on your mental health and easily turn into depression.<\/p>\n

5. Concedetevi del tempo<\/h3>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

Questo ci porta al prossimo punto: falling out of love after infidelity doesn\u2019t happen overnight. Remember: it\u2019s a process.<\/strong> E ogni processo richiede tempo.<\/p>\n

First of all, don\u2019t let others rush you. Don\u2019t be embarrassed that you\u2019re still overwhelmed by everything you\u2019ve experienced.<\/p>\n

Un periodo di tempo in cui dovreste superarlo<\/a> doesn\u2019t exist. We\u2019re all different, and we all heal at a different pace.<\/p>\n

Il miglior consiglio che abbia mai ricevuto \u00e8 di dare tempo al tempo<\/a>. Trust me, time will do its magic sooner or later \u2013 you just have to be patient about it.<\/p>\n

Of course, this is not an invitation to keep on grieving your ex for the rest of your life. But don\u2019t expect magic results overnight either.<\/p>\n

6. Dimenticare l'odio e la vendetta<\/h3>\n

You want to get even \u2013 that\u2019s pretty understandable. Ma in cerca di vendetta<\/b><\/a> is one of the first red flags that you\u2019re not falling out of love after infidelity \u2013 you\u2019re actually still emotionally involved in this relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trust me \u2013 pareggiare i conti<\/a> won\u2019t make you feel better. I\u2019m not saying you must perdonare il coniuge infedele<\/a> right away, but hating them won\u2019t bring you any good either \u2013 it will only turn you into a more negative person.<\/p>\n

And don\u2019t even get me started on your ex\u2019s affair partner. This might be a hard pill to swallow, but they\u2019re not to blame either.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know if they even knew you existed. Even if they did, it was your partner\u2019s responsibility not to break your trust.<\/p>\n

Of course, in that case, the affair partner isn\u2019t the best person in the world either, but that\u2019s not your problem. You won\u2019t become best friends or something like that, but you shouldn\u2019t hate them either.<\/p>\n

7. Il sovrappensiero \u00e8 il vostro pi\u00f9 grande nemico<\/h3>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Why do people cheat? Was this my unfaithful spouse\u2019s first time going behind my back? Should we have gone to couples therapy?<\/em><\/p>\n

Cosa avrei dovuto fare per far funzionare la mia relazione? Era possibile per noi due ricostruire la fiducia? Meritavano una seconda possibilit\u00e0?<\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to put all of these questions aside! I hate to break it to you, but you likely won\u2019t ottenere la chiusura<\/a> che desiderate disperatamente. In fin dei conti, che senso avrebbe?<\/p>\n

Would it make you feel better? Trust me \u2013 it wouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not here to judge the people who decided to make their relationship work after infidelity. But you\u2019re not one of those people.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve made your decision and decided to leave your cheating husband or wife in the past. So, what\u2019s the point of overanalyzing everything that has happened?<\/strong><\/p>\n

As long as you continue doing so, you\u2019re staying in the relationship. I know that you\u2019ve removed yourself from it physically, but you haven\u2019t done so mentally.<\/p>\n

8. Accettare che era destino<\/h3>\n

You have no other choice but to accept that it was meant to be. No, I\u2019m not telling you that your relationship was meant to be because clearly, it wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, le cose dovevano andare esattamente come sono andate. Trust me \u2013 everything happens for a reason, and Dio ha sempre un piano<\/b><\/a> per voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Doveva proprio accadere questa infedelt\u00e0 perch\u00e9 lei si allontanasse finalmente dalla sua relazione tossica? Era necessario per incontrare l'amore della vostra vita? Dopo tutto, dovete chiudere una porta<\/a> per aprirne un altro.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stata una lezione che avete dovuto imparare? Questa esperienza \u00e8 stata necessaria per farvi capire quanto siete forti?<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know the answers now, I get it. But trust me, you\u2019ll find them soon enough.<\/p>\n

And when that happens, you\u2019ll see that this was actually a blessing in disguise. I promise you that in the future, you\u2019ll look back on this and see it as the best thing that could have ever happened to you.<\/p>\n

Fino ad allora, abbiate fede e accettate che le cose siano andate cos\u00ec!<\/p>\n

9. Get back out there…when you\u2019re ready<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Nuova relazione: s\u00ec o no? Prima di rispondere a questa domanda, dobbiamo fare una precisazione. C'\u00e8 una differenza tra il buttarsi in una nuova relazione e il rimettersi in gioco.<\/p>\n

Innanzitutto, you shouldn\u2019t do anything you\u2019re not ready for<\/strong>. Dimenticate il periodo di tempo trascorso, dimenticate le norme sociali e, soprattutto, dimenticatevi di far ingelosire il tuo ex <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Dovreste seguire il vostro istinto e fare un passo alla volta.<\/p>\n

This means that nobody expects you to start a new serious relationship tomorrow. And whoever does, well, screw them. You\u2019re still handling your trauma, and the last thing you need right now is to be pushed into something you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean you should be stuck in your four walls waiting for a miracle to happen. Get tornare nella piscina degli appuntamenti <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Flirtate con la nuova collega carina che \u00e8 appena arrivata. Rispondete a quel DM che avete appena ricevuto. Sorridete quando ricevete un complimento.<\/p>\n

Love will find its way back to you \u2013 just don\u2019t force it.<\/p>\n

Relazioni di rimbalzo<\/h4>\n

Ma per favore, state lontani dalle relazioni di ripiego. You\u2019ll end up hurting yourself and breaking someone else\u2019s heart.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t cheat on this new person with your ex, you still have feelings for them, and, in a way, that\u2019s an emotional affair. Please, be better than this and don\u2019t fall into this toxic pattern of behavior!<\/p>\n

10. L'auto-miglioramento \u00e8 fondamentale<\/h3>\n

I can\u2019t stress this enough, but falling out of love after infidelity is utterly impossible if you don\u2019t work on yourself. I\u2019m not saying you should change the essence of your personality, but reinventing some parts of yourself might be beneficial.<\/p>\n

Il miglioramento di s\u00e9 \u00e8 la chiave per sentirsi meglio. Una volta riacquistata l'autostima, tutto comincer\u00e0 ad andare in salita.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it to make your ex realize what they\u2019ve lost<\/b><\/a>. Fatelo per migliorare la vostra vita!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Invece di essere ossessionati dalla loro infedelt\u00e0, tenetevi occupati. Uscite il pi\u00f9 possibile, trovate un nuovo hobby, andate in palestra, uscite con altre persone e fate tutto ci\u00f2 che vi rende felici.<\/p>\n

La vita da single \u00e8 un successo<\/a> and get the best out of it. Do everything you\u2019ve missed out on.<\/p>\n

L'obiettivo \u00e8 migliorare la vostra salute fisica e mentale!<\/p>\n

11. Anche l'amore per se stessi<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ricordate questo: la disfatta d'amore dopo l'infedelt\u00e0 comprende innamorarsi di nuovo di se stessi<\/b><\/a>. It means realizing that you don\u2019t need this person\u2019s validation to feel good about yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It means rebuilding your destroyed self-esteem and understanding your worth! It\u2019s about putting yourself in first place!<\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 arrivare al punto di amare se stessi pi\u00f9 di quanto si ami il proprio ex traditore. Ma ascoltatemi bene: cosa c'\u00e8 da non amare in voi?<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure there are things you don\u2019t like about your personality. And that\u2019s perfectly fine. But the power to change lies only in your hands.<\/p>\n

Rispettate voi stessi e non accontentatevi mai di meno di quanto meritate. Alzate i vostri standard e ricordate il vostro valore!<\/p>\n

12. Aiuto professionale<\/h3>\n

I hope your family, best friends, or even close coworkers are there for you. But sometimes, their help just doesn\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n

E non c'\u00e8 nulla di vergognoso in questo. Dopo tutto, that\u2019s why experts exist \u2013 to help you overcome your trauma.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you feel like you\u2019re having a hard time getting over everything you\u2019ve experienced, please don\u2019t hesitate to look for professional help. An expert will guide you through your recovery process and help you get your mental health back on track!<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 30 Codici dei messaggi di testo del coniuge traditore rivelati<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Si pu\u00f2 ancora amare qualcuno se lo si tradisce?<\/h2>\n

Sorprendentemente, molti imbroglioni sostengono che amano<\/b><\/a> la persona che hanno tradito<\/strong>. The truth is that infidelity isn\u2019t always the same as the absolute absence of emotions. On the contrary, it can be just a moment of weakness or come after relationship or marital problems.<\/p>\n

However, this fact doesn\u2019t justify infidelity under any circumstances!<\/p>\n

Il dolore dell'infedelt\u00e0 non passa mai?<\/h2>\n

Even though it doesn\u2019t seem like it in the beginning, il dolore dell'infedelt\u00e0 passa sicuramente dopo qualche tempo.<\/strong> Secondo gli esperti di relazioni di coppia, di solito ci vuole circa un anno e mezzo perch\u00e9 il tuo cuore per guarire <\/a> dopo essere stato tradito.<\/p>\n

Per quanto tempo le coppie restano insieme dopo l'infedelt\u00e0?<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

It all depends \u2013 se si rivolgono a un consulente matrimoniale e sono disposti ad apportare alcuni cambiamenti nella loro relazione, le coppie possono rimanere insieme per il resto della loro vita.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But if they try to bury what happened under the carpet and ignore it, it\u2019s not likely they\u2019ll stay together for a long period of time. In this case, the prognosis is a couple of months.<\/p>\n

Essere traditi vi cambia?<\/h2>\n

S\u00ec, \u00e8 proprio cos\u00ec! La maggior parte delle persone finisce per lottare con le insicurezze e persino con le perdere per sempre la fiducia nell'amore<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, infidelity doesn\u2019t have to change you in a bad way. It can help you see that you\u2019re self-sufficient and strong enough to take whatever life throws at you.<\/p>\n

All in all, it\u2019s a tough lesson, but it\u2019s also very valuable.<\/p>\n

Per concludere:<\/h2>\n

You know what the most important thing about falling out of love after infidelity is? It\u2019s judging yourself for still having feelings for your cheater.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t fall into this trap. Capite che non c'\u00e8 nulla di sbagliato in voi e seguite questa guida passo passo verso il successo!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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