Worry not because I\u2019ve got you covered. Read on and follow my advice to achieve success!<\/strong><\/p>\n Ecco i modi pi\u00f9 efficaci per dire alla vostra cotta che vi piace tramite un messaggio:<\/p>\n When you\u2019re wondering how to tell your crush you like them over text, the important thing is not to do it out of the blue.<\/p>\n This is real life, not a romantic movie, and trust me when I tell you that sending someone you barely know (or who doesn\u2019t have any romantic interest in you) a declaration of love via text message out of the blue won\u2019t work.<\/p>\n In realt\u00e0, it will probably just scare them away. They won\u2019t take you seriously, and you\u2019ll blow the whole thing up before it even starts.<\/strong><\/p>\n Of course, it wouldn\u2019t be so awkward if you\u2019re already flirting with this person face to face. Maybe they\u2019ve been sending you body language signals that they\u2019re into you<\/a> anche.<\/p>\n However, even in that case, it\u2019s better to have some kind of introduction to what\u2019s about to happen.<\/p>\n So, how do you tell your crush you like them over text if you can\u2019t just type I love you and hit send? Well, before anything else, you have to start some kind of conversation with them.<\/p>\n Sarebbe meglio se aveste una scusa per iniziare a mandargli un messaggio.<\/strong>. Maybe they\u2019re in your friend group, they\u2019re your coworker, or you two have something in common.<\/p>\n That way, you\u2019ll have a reason to avviare una conversazione<\/a>. The trick is to get them talking and for them to show you that they\u2019re willing to start a convo.<\/p>\n Remember that you\u2019re texting this person for the first time ever. Naturally, you need a way to start the convo right.<\/p>\n Perch\u00e9 ci\u00f2 avvenga, avete bisogno di un fantastico rompighiaccio<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n If your crush is someone you already know, this won\u2019t be so hard. For example, if they\u2019re a coworker, start by asking them something work-related.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if we\u2019re talking about a close friend, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve already texted them before, so you\u2019ll have less trouble breaking the ice.<\/p>\n But what if your crush is someone you don\u2019t know so well? Well, in that case, a simple<\/p>\n Hi. What\u2019s up?<\/em><\/p>\n Sarebbe sufficiente.<\/p>\n In queste situazioni i social media dovrebbero essere il vostro alleato. Se seguiteli su Instagram<\/a> o Snapchat, basta rispondere alla loro storia.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you can\u2019t think of a clever response, just send them an emoji reaction to a selfie they posted. A lot of people use this as an rompighiaccio<\/a> perch\u00e9 funziona.<\/p>\n What do you do when they actually respond? Well, this is the point where you\u2019ll have to improve your texting game.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s a pro tip: if you are too nervous to text them, ask your best friend for some advice. They\u2019ll give you a pep talk to improve your self-esteem.<\/strong><\/p>\n Quando parlate con la vostra cotta, assicuratevi di chiedergli domande aperte<\/a>. Make sure you tell them something about yourself but don\u2019t forget that you\u2019re here to conoscerli<\/a> anche.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t be afraid to engage in conversazioni profonde<\/a> \u2013 this is the best way to build an emotional connection with them.<\/p>\n It would be great if you had some basic info about this person before texting them. That way, you can show them that you have the same interests (even if you don\u2019t, LOL).<\/p>\n For example, if you know what their favorite band is, send them a new song by them and ask them if they like it. Of course, you\u2019ll pretend that you love listening to them as well. Don\u2019t worry, these are just little white lies that won\u2019t harm anyone.<\/p>\n Oltre a capire come dire alla tua cotta che ti piace<\/a> L'obiettivo finale \u00e8 quello di trasformare i messaggi di testo in una cosa regolare. Date loro la buonanotte e messaggi di testo del buongiorno,<\/a> e sempre mantenere la conversazione.<\/a><\/p>\n Here\u2019s another pro tip: never end the conversation. Never text them:<\/strong><\/p>\n Arrivederci, devo andare.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n Invece, sparite. Poi, dopo un po', rispondete al messaggio dicendo:<\/strong><\/p>\n Ehi, scusate, sono dovuto andare via. Dove eravamo rimasti?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n o qualcosa del genere.<\/p>\n In questo modo, la conversazione non si ferma mai. E s\u00ec, questo vale per messaggi di buonanotte<\/a> as well \u2013 if you\u2019re anxious about initiating the conversation all over again the next day.<\/p>\n Now that you\u2019re both comfortable enough around each other, it\u2019s time to start actually provarci con loro<\/a>. Il modo migliore per farlo \u00e8 complimentarsi con loro<\/a>.<\/p>\n Of course, your entire conversation won\u2019t be all about praising and complimentarsi con loro<\/a>. Ma fare loro un complimento occasionale di tanto in tanto pu\u00f2 bastare.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t be too poetic when doing this. Once again, this is real life, not a romcom.<\/p>\n The last thing you want is to end up trapped in the friend zone. That is exactly why you\u2019ll have to start exchanging testi flirtanti<\/a> con loro il prima possibile.<\/p>\n Si pu\u00f2 iniziare chiedendo ad alcuni domande giocose<\/a>. It\u2019s okay to use innuendos, but please, make sure you don\u2019t cross the line.<\/strong><\/p>\n Prendeteli in giro, ma non siate mai volgari. Non \u00e8 il momento di messaggi di testo sporchi<\/a> \u2013 you\u2019re just getting to know each other.<\/p>\n Prima di capire come dire alla tua cotta che ti piace via messaggio, sarebbe bello poter conoscere meglio i loro sentimenti.<\/strong><\/p>\n Prima di tutto, informatevi sulla loro vita sentimentale.<\/strong><\/p>\n Are they already in a relationship? If they aren\u2019t single, there is not much point in declaring your love for them, but you can do it anyways \u2013 without any expectations.<\/p>\n Qual \u00e8 il loro tipo di uomo o di donna? Sono emotivamente disponibili?<\/p>\n I\u2019m sure you have some good friends who can help you find out all of this information.<\/p>\n Ma c'\u00e8 qualcosa di pi\u00f9 degno di essere indagato: how do they feel about you? Sadly, there is probably no one who can give you this information \u2013 you have to figure it out by yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n Leggete tra le righe e siate onesti con voi stessi. Come rispondono ai vostri messaggi? Ricambiano il flirt? Si sono aperti con voi?<\/p>\n Lo stesso vale per gli incontri faccia a faccia che avvengono nel frattempo.<\/p>\n Qual \u00e8 il loro linguaggio del corpo<\/a> che ti sta dicendo? C'\u00e8 contatto visivo? Sorridono quando vi vedono?<\/p>\n Every dating coach will tell you the same thing: don\u2019t put any pressure on your crush.<\/p>\n Affrontare alcuni argomenti profondi<\/a> is one thing (if you feel that they\u2019re comfortable with it), but rushing things and taking your entire texting conversation too seriously is something else.<\/p>\n Instead, it\u2019s better to keep things light. Pretend like texting them is not such a big deal and never show them that it\u2019s the center of your day!<\/strong><\/p>\n Dovreste utilizzare le emoji<\/a> when texting your crush or not? Well, it\u2019s all about balance.<\/p>\n You should definitely use them to keep things light, especially when you\u2019re joking or when you two are flirting<\/strong>. However, please, don\u2019t allow for your entire conversation to essere emoji<\/a> solo.<\/p>\n What about memes? Well, there is nothing wrong with sending your crush a funny meme that reminds you of them. Once again, this shouldn\u2019t be the basis of your entire conversation.<\/p>\n On the other hand, every dating coach will tell you to avoid abbreviations. I mean, what\u2019s the point? What will you do with all of that spare time you saved because you didn\u2019t write the entire word?<\/p>\n Abbreviations make you look immature. It looks like you\u2019re not interested enough to put effort into forming a decent sentence<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Before sending THE text message, please double-check everything with a close friend. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re incapable of doing it by yourself, but a second opinion can\u2019t hurt.<\/p>\n Chiedete al vostro amico di essere onesto, anche se questo significa dirvi la dura verit\u00e0.<\/p>\n Are you being too pathetic? Is the text too cheesy? Is it even time to send a risky text like that? Should you be more direct? Or maybe you\u2019re being overly direct?<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re blinded by infatuation, and there is no way you can find the answers to all of these questions by yourself.<\/p>\n By now, you\u2019ve learned a thing or two about your crush\u2019s routine. That\u2019s why it\u2019ll be easier for you to pick the perfect timing to send this text.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t do it while they\u2019re at work or in lectures. Don\u2019t send it if you know they\u2019re out with friends either.<\/p>\n You want to pick a time when you know they\u2019re alone and preferably not busy. Also, make sure it\u2019s not too late when you send them the text.<\/strong><\/p>\n What if they\u2019re already asleep, and you stay awake all night, waiting for their response? Of course, everyone\u2019s schedule is different, so I can\u2019t give you the precise time to send the text \u2013 you have to pick it yourself.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t mean to kill your mood, but I have to warn you not to expect too much. First of all, people can odore di disperazione<\/a>.<\/p>\n Credetemi, voi forse non lo sentirete, ma la vostra cotta s\u00ec. E per loro sar\u00e0 una grande sconfitta.<\/p>\n When you send your text, the only thing you should feel is relief. You\u2019ve done the \u201cdirty work,\u201d you\u2019ve gotten everything off your chest, and things are now out of your control.<\/strong><\/p>\n As scary as this might sound, at the same time, it\u2019s also liberating.<\/p>\n After all, what\u2019s the worst thing that can happen? They tell you that they don\u2019t feel the same way?<\/p>\n Worry not because you\u2019ll have a backup plan for that scenario as well.<\/p>\n However, there is a difference between being ready to handle failure and seeing it as the only possible option. When you\u2019re wondering how to tell your crush you like them over text, make sure not to let your insecurities take over.<\/p>\n Avere bassa autostima<\/a> is a major turn-off, the same way desperation is. You\u2019re worthy of this person\u2019s feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n Just because you\u2019re into them doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re better than you in any way. Instead of acting nervous and insecure, show them that you see your worth, even if they don\u2019t.<\/p>\n I can\u2019t stress this enough: don\u2019t get trapped in the friendzone! That\u2019s why you simply must be clear about your intentions.<\/p>\n No, you won\u2019t tell them Ti amo<\/em>. You won\u2019t write them a poesia d'amore<\/a> o qualcosa del genere.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, \u00e8 necessario chiarire che si vuole qualcosa di pi\u00f9 dell'amicizia.<\/p>\n Se necessario, siate diretti e puntuali inviando un messaggio di questo tipo:<\/p>\n Tu mi piaci, provi lo stesso per me?<\/em><\/p>\n o<\/p>\n I\u2019ve been thinking a lot about you lately. Do you want to go out on a date?<\/em><\/p>\n Quando vi ho detto di non scrivere loro una poesia d'amore, intendevo anche di non inviare loro paragrafi lunghi come un saggio in cui dichiara il tuo amore eterno<\/a> per loro. Un messaggio del genere sarebbe imbarazzante e non farebbe altro che allontanare la vostra cotta.<\/p>\n Non c'\u00e8 bisogno di entrare nei dettagli dei vostri sentimenti. Don\u2019t act like a tragic hero from a romantic novel, and keep things as short and concise as possible.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ma se they don\u2019t respond<\/a> after a certain time? Well, nothing! It\u2019s not like you have much choice left.<\/p>\n No, you won\u2019t double or triple text them.<\/p>\n You won\u2019t ask them if they\u2019ve received your initial text \u2013 I\u2019m sure they have; after all, it\u2019s delivered or even read.<\/strong><\/p>\n You won\u2019t ask them if they are ready to give you an answer \u2013 they\u2019re not; if they were, you would have gotten one.<\/strong><\/p>\n Give them time to process things and make up their mind. They\u2019ll ti rispondo con un messaggio<\/a> prima o poi.<\/p>\n And if they don\u2019t? Well, nessuna risposta \u00e8 una risposta<\/a> anche.<\/p>\n Quindi, \u00e8 successa la cosa pi\u00f9 bella di sempre. Hanno detto che gli piacevi anche tu. Cosa fare? Come comportarsi?<\/p>\n First and foremost, you\u2019re going to chiedere loro un appuntamento<\/a>. You won\u2019t keep on exchanging texts forever, will you?<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s time to see each other face to face and talk about your potential romantic relationship. After all, this was what you wanted all along.<\/p>\n But don\u2019t send them a text:<\/p>\n Ehi, ti piacerebbe uscire con me?<\/em><\/p>\n Suggerite invece uno specifico idea per la data<\/a>.<\/p>\n This doesn\u2019t have to be anything fancy \u2013 meeting at a local coffee shop will do the trick. However, you should be the one to set the time and date.<\/p>\n If they can\u2019t make it at that specific time, suggest a rain check. Don\u2019t worry, I\u2019m sure they want to go out with you.<\/p>\n Whatever you do, don\u2019t suggest Netflix and chill or something like that. If you do, they\u2019ll assume you have just one thing in mind, and they won\u2019t take you seriously.<\/p>\n There is nothing wrong with telling them that you\u2019re happy with their response. After all, you\u2019ve been wondering how to tell your crush you like them over text for a while now.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, try not to make a big deal out of it. Remember \u2013 you told them you\u2019re into them, not that they\u2019re the love of your life and that you can\u2019t live without them!<\/strong><\/p>\n I know that your crush\u2019s simple yes is a huge confidence boost, but please don\u2019t let them see how much it means to you because an overly thrilled reply might make you appear desperate, and you don\u2019t want that.<\/p>\n Lo scenario peggiore si \u00e8 avverato. Essi don\u2019t like you back<\/a>e ti vedono solo come un buon amico.<\/p>\n Tough luck, but that\u2019s part of life. And this is exactly how you should take it.<\/p>\n First of all, be aware that it\u2019s their right not to like you. It\u2019s probably nothing personal \u2013 maybe they\u2019re in love with someone else, or you\u2019re just not their type.<\/p>\n After all, I bet you like them for no particular reason. Well, it\u2019s possible that they don\u2019t have a specific reason for non essere interessato a te<\/a> \u2013 they just aren\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n The bottom line is that you shouldn\u2019t ask for an additional explanation. Don\u2019t send texts like:<\/p>\n Why don\u2019t you like me?<\/em><\/p>\n Potrei piacerti in futuro?<\/em><\/p>\n C'\u00e8 qualcosa che posso fare per farti piacere<\/a>?<\/em><\/p>\n Don\u2019t lose your dignity, no matter what!<\/p>\n No, you won\u2019t tell them that you\u2019ve sent the text to the wrong person just to make things less awkward. Trust me, something like this will actually make things even more awkward!<\/p>\n But you know what would be even worse? Insulting your crush or trying to put them down just because they don\u2019t like you back.<\/strong><\/p>\n Invece, chiudere la conversazione nel modo pi\u00f9 educato possibile<\/a>. Inviate loro un messaggio come questo:<\/p>\n I\u2019m sorry that you feel that way but thank you for your honesty. No hard feelings!<\/p>\n o<\/p>\n I can\u2019t say I\u2019m not disappointed, but hey, life goes on. It would be easier for me if we didn\u2019t stay in touch \u2013 I hope you understand.<\/em><\/p>\n Finally, please, don’t see it as the end of the world. I know it feels like that now, but trust me, it really isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n Invece di vederla come un'enorme sconfitta, prendetela come una lezione. Siate orgogliosi di voi stessi per essere stati abbastanza coraggiosi da uscire dalla vostra zona di comfort e correre questo rischio.<\/strong><\/p>\n Don\u2019t repress your emotions \u2013 it\u2019s perfectly okay to be disappointed. However, don\u2019t let this one negative experience prevent you from trying something similar in the future.<\/p>\n I\u2019ll be honest with you \u2013 it\u2019s always better to have this conversation in person. Nevertheless, if you\u2019re too nervous to tell them how you feel face to face, there is nothing wrong with doing it via text.<\/strong><\/p>\n Se si vuole fare colpo sulla tua cotta<\/a> with your texting skills, compliment them, and don\u2019t forget to ask them open-ended questions so you can Mantenere la conversazione<\/a>. Ecco alcuni esempi:<\/p>\n Eri cos\u00ec carina oggi.<\/em><\/p>\n Ti ho sognato la notte scorsa.<\/em><\/p>\n I have a confession to make: I can\u2019t stop thinking about you.<\/em><\/p>\n Com'\u00e8 andata la giornata?<\/em><\/p>\n Cosa ne pensa di [inserire il nome di un film o citare un evento attuale]?<\/em><\/p>\n Non esiste una risposta giusta alla domanda su come dire alla vostra cotta che vi piace via messaggio senza essere respinti. Actually, there a magical way to make them give you a positive response doesn\u2019t exist.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tuttavia, l'importante \u00e8 fare del proprio meglio.<\/strong> Buona fortuna!<\/p>\n You\u2019re into someone you don\u2019t see as often as you\u2019d like. Or are you too nervous to tell them how you feel in person? Well, what are social media and texting for? You see, there is always a solution to your problems. I know what you must be wondering now. You\u2019re figuring out how to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":148953,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-148945","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/How-To-Tell-Your-Crush-You-Like-Them-Over-Text-25-Simple-Ways-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/148945","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=148945"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/148945\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/148953"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=148945"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=148945"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=148945"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Come dire alla tua cotta che ti piace via messaggio in 19 modi<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Don\u2019t do it out of the blue<\/h3>\n
2. Impegnarsi in una conversazione<\/h3>\n
3. Fate attenzione ai vostri argomenti di conversazione<\/h3>\n
4. Migliorare il gioco degli sms<\/h3>\n
5. Trasformare le conversazioni in una cosa regolare<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n6. Don\u2019t forget to compliment them<\/h3>\n
8. Siate civettuoli<\/h3>\n
9. Indagare su come si sente la vostra cotta<\/h3>\n
10. Mantenere la leggerezza<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n11. Uso di emoji e meme<\/h3>\n
12. Ma evitate le abbreviazioni<\/h3>\n
13. Ricontrollare il testo con il migliore amico<\/h3>\n
14. Il tempismo \u00e8 tutto<\/h3>\n
15. Don\u2019t expect too much<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n16. But don\u2019t let your insecurities get to you<\/h3>\n
17. Essere chiari sulle proprie intenzioni<\/h3>\n
18. Nessun testo di tipo saggistico<\/h3>\n
19. Non inviare messaggi doppi o tripli<\/h3>\n
Se rispondono positivamente<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Chiedere loro di uscire al primo appuntamento<\/h3>\n
2. Tell them that you\u2019re happy<\/h3>\n
3. But don\u2019t make a big deal out of it<\/h3>\n
If They Don\u2019t Feel The Same Way<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Don\u2019t be too pushy<\/h3>\n
2. Chiudere la conversazione in modo educato<\/h3>\n
3. It\u2019s not the end of the world<\/h3>\n
Dovresti dire alla tua cotta che ti piace via SMS?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCosa dovrei dire alla mia cotta via SMS?<\/h2>\n
Per concludere:<\/h2>\n
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