{"id":149188,"date":"2022-04-18T20:32:48","date_gmt":"2022-04-18T20:32:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149188"},"modified":"2022-04-18T20:32:48","modified_gmt":"2022-04-18T20:32:48","slug":"voglio-che-il-mio-ex-torni-cosi-tanto-che-fa-male","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/voglio-che-il-mio-ex-torni-cosi-tanto-che-fa-male\/","title":{"rendered":"Rivoglio il mio ex cos\u00ec tanto che fa male (ecco cosa fare)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I want my ex back so bad it hurts&#8230; Been there, wished the same thing. Of course, our stories probably aren&#8217;t the same, but I&#8217;m here today to give you some advice from my own experience and help you deal with this terrible feeling. But, to help you make a great game<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-modi-efficaci-per-far-si-che-lui-ti-rivoglia-in-poco-tempo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> piano per riconquistare il tuo ex<\/a>dipende da quali sono i vostri veri sentimenti e desideri.<\/p>\n<p><i>Ad essere onesti, il mio <\/i><i>ex fidanzato<\/i><i> and I didn&#8217;t manage to work things out, but it still doesn&#8217;t mean my story didn&#8217;t have a <\/i><i>lieto fine<\/i><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Ho capito che non \u00e8 mai stato<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/con-la-persona-giusta-saprai-quanto-e-facile-lamore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> la persona giusta<\/a> per me, e ho avuto abbastanza tempo per capire finalmente che<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/passi-verso-lamore-incondizionato-per-se-stessi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <b>auto<\/b><b>amore<\/b><\/a><b> dovrebbe essere sempre la mia priorit\u00e0 assoluta<\/b> because it&#8217;s the most important thing. <i>Posso vivere senza tutti, tranne che con me stesso.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know about you, but learning these lessons truly represents the happiest ending for me.<\/p>\n<h2>Rivoglio il mio ex cos\u00ec tanto che fa male: 9 modi per affrontarlo<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/health\/how-to-get-through-hard-times\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">You&#8217;re going through a hard time<\/a>, and I get you&#8230; But, it&#8217;s really time to take a deep breath and start the healing process. Let the following advice guide you through it.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Prendetevi un po' di tempo da soli<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149206 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"una donna delusa siede in un bar e beve un caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-in-a-cafe-and-drinks-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Prima di tutto, \u00e8 necessario prendersi del tempo per se stessi. <b>Non fare nulla, non parlare con nessuno e stare da soli. <\/b>Avete bisogno di un po' di tempo da soli per raccogliere tutte le vostre emozioni e i vostri pensieri e cercare di capirli tutti.<\/p>\n<p>You need to do it to gain a fresh look at certain things. It&#8217;ll help you understand that everything happens for a reason and that some things, despite our wishes and desires, simply aren&#8217;t meant to be.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Accettare e convalidare le proprie emozioni<\/h3>\n<p>You&#8217;re on a real<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relazione-sulle-montagne-russe\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> montagne russe emotive<\/a> now, and you shouldn&#8217;t be trying so hard to end the ride. The truth is, the end of the ride won&#8217;t make your emotions go away.<\/p>\n<p><i>\u00c8 necessario prendersi il tempo necessario per accettare ed elaborare ogni singola emozione.<\/i> You&#8217;ve lost someone you love, and you have every right to feel whatever it is that you&#8217;re feeling right now.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t try to pretend like you&#8217;re a strong person by hiding your emotions because that&#8217;s actually what cowards do. Strong<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/convalidare-sapere-sentire-reale\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> le persone convalidano le proprie emozioni<\/a> e cercare di affrontarli in modo sano.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Poi, concentrarsi sulla guarigione<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149207 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down.jpg\" alt=\"una donna delusa con lunghi capelli neri siede sul divano a testa bassa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-disappointed-woman-with-long-black-hair-sits-on-the-couch-with-her-head-down-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll never heal if you keep obsessing over your ex. <i>You need to listen to your heart because it&#8217;s begging for you to let go of them and start gluing its broken pieces back together.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Piangete quanto volete, ma deve arrivare il momento di mettere fine a quelle lacrime. <b>\u00c8 necessario raccogliere le forze per<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-modi-per-rompere-il-grimaldello\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <b>tirati su<\/b><\/a> and walk towards a path forward, or otherwise, you&#8217;ll lose yourself and be stuck in the past forever.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Smettere di usare i social media per spiarli<\/h3>\n<p><b>If you&#8217;re using <\/b><b>social media<\/b><b> only to find out the latest news about your ex, then it&#8217;s really time for a<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-tempo-di-disintossicarsi-dai-social-media\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <b>social media<\/b><b> disintossicazione<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>What good may that news bring to you? It&#8217;ll just slow down your<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fasi-della-rottura\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> processo di guarigione<\/a> e vi tiene bloccati nel passato. Quindi, disconnettetevi da quella vita virtuale e lavorate per connettervi con voi stessi, le vostre emozioni e i vostri pensieri.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Continuare a ricordare a se stessi le cose che hanno portato alla rottura.<b><\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Admit it, your relationship wasn&#8217;t perfect, nor did your partner treat you well. There is a reason why you two broke up, and you should focus on that particular reason(s).<\/p>\n<p><i>Volete davvero essere trattati di nuovo allo stesso modo? Il suo ex la rendeva davvero felice? Eravate <\/i><i>sentimento<\/i><i> amati veramente per tutta la durata della relazione?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>If your answers to these questions are negative, you should really reconsider why you even want to get back together with your ex. Keep those negative memories in your head because they&#8217;ll pressure you into finally<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-dimenticare-un-ex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Lasciare andare il proprio ex e andare avanti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Stabilire un buon sistema di supporto<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149208 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"due amici siedono sul divano e parlano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/two-friends-sit-on-the-couch-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re going through a hard time, and it&#8217;s completely normal that you need someone to be there for you.<i> That&#8217;s why your <\/i><i>amici<\/i><i> sono l\u00ec, per offrire una mano quando si cade.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Bisogno di qualcuno che sia una spalla su cui piangere o che vi incoraggi ad andare avanti<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-fatto-che-abbia-bisogno-di-essere-amata-non-la-rende-bisognosa-di-affetto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> doesn&#8217;t make you a needy person<\/a>. Questo fa di voi solo un essere umano. Inoltre, avere un buon sistema di supporto vi aiuter\u00e0 a superare tutto questo molto pi\u00f9 velocemente e meno dolorosamente.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Riscoprire la magia di essere single<\/h3>\n<p>Maybe you&#8217;re<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/rimanere-single-finche-non-si-ha-paura-di-esserlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> paura di tornare single<\/a>ma, in realt\u00e0, dovreste esserne felici perch\u00e9<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/being-single\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> La vita da single \u00e8 cos\u00ec magica e beata.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><i>You&#8217;re free to do everything you couldn&#8217;t while you were in a relationship. <\/i>Potete uscire con i vostri amici quanto volete. Potete viaggiare e visitare tutti i luoghi che avete sempre desiderato.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pour a glass of your favorite champagne (or wine, if you&#8217;re a wine-lover like myself ?) and drink a toast to<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-motivi-per-cui-essere-single-e-un-dono\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <b>essere single<\/b><\/a><b> di nuovo, alla vostra nuova libert\u00e0 e al vostro nuovo e sorprendente inizio.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>8. Darsi la possibilit\u00e0 di conoscere una persona nuova<b><\/b><\/h3>\n<p>And by this, I don&#8217;t mean that you should immediately engage in a<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quanto-durano-le-relazioni-di-ripiego\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> relazione di rimbalzo<\/a>. You can try, but it won&#8217;t end well, trust me. You&#8217;ll only hurt yourself more and probably another innocent person.<\/p>\n<p>When you meet someone you like, don&#8217;t be afraid to give them a chance. <b>Don&#8217;t overthink it and wonder, \u201cWhat if it also turns out to be a mistake?\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Well, what if it doesn&#8217;t? What if that new person turns out to be<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-segni-che-una-persona-ama-la-vera-anima-gemella\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> la tua vera anima gemella<\/a>? <i>I guess you&#8217;ll never know if you don&#8217;t try to give someone else a chance to win your heart.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>9. Cercare di chiudere una volta per tutte<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149209 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con i capelli crespi siede a un tavolo e parla al telefono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-on-the-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>If you&#8217;ve been separated for a <\/i><i>lungo tempo<\/i><i> and still miss them and want to get them back, it&#8217;s probably because you don\u2019t have <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/messaggi-di-rottura\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i>chiusura<\/i><\/a><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You probably didn&#8217;t tell them everything you wanted to, and you didn&#8217;t leave things between you like you wanted to&#8230; Well, now is the right time, hell, it&#8217;s high time you do just that.<\/p>\n<p><b>Call your ex and tell them everything you\u2019ve kept in your heart for so long. Grieve in a way you need to. Let all of your emotions out.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Solo una volta chiusa la questione sarete pronti ad andare avanti e a lasciarvela alle spalle.<\/i><\/p>\n<h2>Rivoglio il mio ex cos\u00ec tanto da far male: 9 consigli per riconquistarlo<\/h2>\n<p>Whether it&#8217;s a gay relationship or straight relationship, here are<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-riconquistare-la-tua-ex-ragazza-17-modi-comprovati-per-farlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> I modi migliori per riconquistare il vostro ex<\/a> rapidamente e in modo permanente.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Lavorate prima di tutto su voi stessi<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149210 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"una donna in cappotto grigio cammina nel parco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-in-a-gray-coat-walks-the-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Prima di lavorare per ricostruire la vostra relazione, dovete essere pronti a lavorare su voi stessi. <i>Le vostre emozioni e <\/i><i>salute mentale<\/i><i> \u00e8 stato probabilmente ferito dopo la <\/i><i>rottura<\/i><i>quindi dovreste concentrarvi prima di tutto sul miglioramento di questi ultimi.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>You can&#8217;t save or<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-risolvere-una-relazione-interrotta\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <b>risolvere una relazione danneggiata<\/b><\/a><b> if you&#8217;re a wreck yourself.<\/b> Inoltre, il vostro partner probabilmente vorr\u00e0 vedere dei cambiamenti prima di decidere di tornare con voi e darvi un'altra possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Infrangere la regola del divieto di contatto<b><\/b><\/h3>\n<p><b>Se volete ottenere il vostro <\/b><b>ex indietro<\/b><b> rapidamente, il primo passo \u00e8, ovviamente, rompere il silenzio tra voi. <\/b>E l'unico modo per concludere<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/regola-del-divieto-di-contatto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> il divieto di contatto<\/a> \u00e8 normalmente il periodo in cui ci si rivolge a loro.<\/p>\n<p>Basta inviare un messaggio di testo e chiedere loro come stanno. <i>Provate a prendere un <\/i><i>amichevole<\/i><i> approach, and don&#8217;t immediately start talking about your <\/i><i>sentimenti<\/i><i>, il <\/i><i>rottura,<\/i><i> o qualsiasi altra cosa legata alla vostra relazione.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>If you get positive feedback, you should invite them out for a casual coffee date. Once again, if they accept your invitation, don&#8217;t immediately start talking about your relationship or your intentions about getting back together.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Ma anche rispettare i loro confini<b><\/b><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149211 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con lunghi capelli neri seduta su un pontile\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-black-hair-sitting-on-a-pier-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>On the other hand, if your ex says that they still aren&#8217;t ready to meet with you, you need to respect that. <\/i>Don&#8217;t be pushy because you&#8217;ll end up driving them further away.<\/p>\n<p>Also, if they emphasize that they aren&#8217;t ready to reconcile or that they would like to be friends for now, you should be understanding and respect their wishes. Respecting their boundaries will show them that you genuinely care for them and that you really want to get back together.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Essere onesti sui propri sentimenti<b><\/b><\/h3>\n<p><i>You probably still feel a whole range of emotions, and it&#8217;s completely normal. <\/i>Alcuni di essi sono negativi e probabilmente pensate che tirarli fuori possa essere una cosa negativa.<\/p>\n<p>Al contrario, dovreste far sapere al vostro partner come vi sentite, perch\u00e9 probabilmente anche lui si sente come voi. <b>Plus, it&#8217;s a great start when it comes to<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ricostruire-la-fiducia-in-una-relazione\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <b>ricostruire la fiducia<\/b><\/a><b> tra di voi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Se pensate che<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segnali-che-indicano-che-state-reprimendo-le-vostre-emozioni-e-perche-sono-pericolose\/\"> reprimere le emozioni<\/a> is a good way for a fresh start with your ex, trust me, it&#8217;s not. Sooner or later, you&#8217;ll have to face your emotions, which will be the real danger for your relationship.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Parlare della vostra rottura<b><\/b><\/h3>\n<p>La vostra rottura \u00e8 stata probabilmente seguita da <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-segni-che-la-regola-del-divieto-di-contatto-sta-funzionando\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">un divieto di contatto<\/a> period, and you didn&#8217;t even have time to talk about the actual reasons for ending your relationship. Now is the right time for that.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c8 necessario riconoscere e dare un nome ai propri problemi per affrontarli.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>However, try to have healthy communication and don&#8217;t raise unnecessary conflicts that will only make things worse. <i>Se si finisce in una rissa, <\/i><i>insulti<\/i><i> e<\/i> <i>il rimpallo di responsabilit\u00e0 sono off-limits.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>6. Accettare i propri errori e scusarsi per essi.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149212 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"una donna dai capelli neri si siede a un tavolo e parla con un uomo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-black-haired-woman-sits-at-a-table-and-talks-to-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se volete riconquistare il vostro ex, dovete dimenticarvi di scaricare le colpe e di sottolineare di chi \u00e8 stata la colpa o chi ha commesso pi\u00f9 errori.<\/p>\n<p><b>Il fatto \u00e8 che <\/b><b>rottura<\/b><b>non sono mai completamente unilaterali. <\/b><i>Entrambi avete probabilmente commesso la vostra parte di errori.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Now, you should acknowledge yours, apologize for them, and let your partner know that you aren&#8217;t planning on repeating them ever again.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Dimostrare che si vuole far funzionare di nuovo la relazione.<\/h3>\n<p>You can&#8217;t just talk about your feelings and wishes to get back together. <i>I&#8217;m sure your partner will need more than simple words.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You need to show them through your actions that you&#8217;re ready to put effort into rebuilding your relationship. <b>You need to show them that you&#8217;re ready to work on yourself and your relationship at the same time.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Actually, you don&#8217;t have to say anything to them. You should make sure that your actions speak for you.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>8. Smettere di pensare troppo alle cose<\/h3>\n<p>If you&#8217;ve decided that you want to get back together with your ex, you need to be determined about it. <b>Questo significa niente pensieri eccessivi e niente \"e se\".<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You need to show your ex that you aren&#8217;t worried about the outcome because you&#8217;re sure about your feelings for them. <i>Lasciare che<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ansia-da-relazione\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <i>ansia da relazione<\/i><\/a><i> behind and show them that this time, you&#8217;re 100% sure you&#8217;ll make it.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>9. Suggerire di seguire prima una terapia di coppia<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149213 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con i capelli legati in una coda di cavallo parla con un uomo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-her-hair-tied-in-a-ponytail-talks-to-a-man-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro ex ragazzo\/ex ragazza pensa che la vostra relazione meriti davvero una seconda possibilit\u00e0, dovreste cercare un aiuto esterno. <b>Un esperto di relazioni vi aiuter\u00e0 a superare i vostri problemi e a ricostruire la vostra relazione stabilendo nuove e sane basi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Anche se la maggior parte delle coppie lo evita,<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/consulenza-di-coppia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> terapia di coppia<\/a> pu\u00f2 davvero aiutarvi a capirvi meglio e a legare a un livello pi\u00f9 profondo.<\/p>\n<h2>Perch\u00e9 desidero cos\u00ec tanto il mio ex? 6 possibili motivi<b><\/b><\/h2>\n<p>You&#8217;re aware that your relationship was toxic, you went through a<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/citazioni-sulla-rottura-che-vi-ispireranno\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> rottura dolorosa,<\/a> and your heart was broken into a million pieces&#8230; But, even after all of that, you still want them back, even though you are not quite sure why.<\/p>\n<p>This list of possible reasons you want to get together with your ex may help you find the real reason and determine whether it&#8217;s really the right one&#8230; Whether you should really let your ex back into your life.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Li amate ancora<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149214 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench.jpg\" alt=\"una donna dai capelli castani seduta su una panchina del parco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-on-a-park-bench-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, the heart really wants what it wants, and you just can&#8217;t go against it, no matter how hard you try. <i>Nonostante tutto quello che \u00e8 successo tra voi due, la sfortunata verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-amo-ancora-il-mio-ex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <i>ancora <\/i><i>amore<\/i><i> il tuo ex<\/i><\/a><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t focus on your healing and moving on because they&#8217;re the only thing you can think about. You search for them in everything you try to do, and all you hope and pray for is to get a phone call or text message from them.<\/p>\n<p><b>Their absence has left such a huge void in your life, and no matter how hard you try, you simply can&#8217;t fill that void.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t shut down your heart or turn off your emotions, and neither should you. If you love someone with your entire being, you should fight for them. Of course, if that person is truly deserving of your love.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Pensate che la vostra relazione meriti davvero una seconda possibilit\u00e0<\/h3>\n<p>The truth is, there is a reason behind every breakup. You don&#8217;t just leave a person without having a reason.<\/p>\n<p><i>However, if you&#8217;re aware of those problems and issues that led to your <\/i><i>rottura<\/i><i> e che ce n'erano molti altri <\/i><i>cose belle<\/i><i> in your relationship, then it&#8217;s absolutely normal for you to want to reconcile with your ex.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Maybe breaking up was indeed a mistake, and maybe you can find a way to deal and solve those issues you had. If you&#8217;re ready to put some effort into making things work between you again, then you should really give your relationship (and your love) another chance.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Ci si \u00e8 abituati<\/h3>\n<h3><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149215 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat.jpg\" alt=\"una donna immaginaria siede in un campo di grano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/an-imaginary-woman-sits-in-a-field-of-wheat-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/h3>\n<p>Forse volete riavere il vostro ex perch\u00e9 vi eravate affezionati a lui. <b>Deep down, you&#8217;re aware that you don&#8217;t <\/b><b>amore<\/b><b> them like you used to, but you feel lonely without them, and that&#8217;s why you still aren&#8217;t ready to let go of them forever.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 il principale<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/differenze-tra-vero-amore-e-attaccamento\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> differenza tra vero amore e attaccamento<\/a>. <i>Quando <\/i><i>amore<\/i><i> someone, you&#8217;re afraid of losing them because of what you feel for them, not because you&#8217;re afraid of loneliness.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You simply got used to them, the attention and care you had in your relationship, and now, you&#8217;re afraid to lose it all. However, you need to know<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/che-cose-lattaccamento-emotivo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> che l'attaccamento \u00e8 profondamente malsano<\/a>E anche se tornate insieme, la vostra relazione non durer\u00e0 mai a causa di queste basi tossiche.<\/p>\n<h3>4. You&#8217;re afraid of loneliness<\/h3>\n<p>If you were only devoted to your partner, if you didn&#8217;t have a life outside your relationship, the good chances are that you are just afraid of being alone and that it is the reason you want to reconcile with your ex.<\/p>\n<p>However, don&#8217;t think that getting back together is going to help you with that fear. <b>Se il <\/b><b>amore<\/b><b> is gone, you&#8217;ll still feel lonely in your relationship, and that kind of loneliness is the worst, believe me.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Molti casi di studio hanno dimostrato che un'enorme percentuale di persone torna da un ex partner spinta dalla solitudine e dall'egoismo, non dall'amore. Ma il fatto \u00e8 che questo tipo di relazioni raramente hanno un lieto fine.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Pensate ancora che sia la persona giusta per voi<\/h3>\n<p>It&#8217;s so hard to let go of someone you were or still are sure is your<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/anima-gemella-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> anima gemella<\/a>. <i>Se, anche dopo tutto quello che avete passato, qualcosa nel vostro petto vi dice che erano i <\/i><i>persona giusta<\/i><i> per voi, allora il vostro desiderio di tornare insieme al vostro ex \u00e8 del tutto giustificato.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re actually afraid of letting them go because you don&#8217;t want to lose your only chance at<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-segni-innegabili-di-una-vera-relazione-damore\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> amore vero<\/a>. Well, let me tell you one thing: you aren&#8217;t even aware of how wrong you are.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-due-persone-sono-destinate-a-stare-insieme-troveranno-la-strada-per-tornare-indietro\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Se due persone sono destinate a stare insieme<\/b><b>,<\/b><\/a><b> nulla potr\u00e0 mai separarli.<\/b> If they&#8217;re each other&#8217;s soulmates, they will always find a way back to one another because you can&#8217;t lose someone God has destined for you.<\/p>\n<h3>6. You&#8217;re jealous because they&#8217;ve moved one<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149216 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall.jpg\" alt=\"una donna con lunghi capelli castani appoggiata al muro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-leaning-against-the-wall-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Purtroppo questa \u00e8 diventata una regola non scritta. <i>Non appena qualcuno vede che il proprio ex va avanti con la sua vita, all'improvviso vuole riconquistarlo.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Well, that&#8217;s wrong, and it can be hurtful for both sides. <b>Se<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-il-vostro-ex-ha-voltato-pagina-troppo-in-fretta-ecco-cosa-dovete-sapere\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <b>il tuo <\/b><b>L'ex inizia a frequentare<\/b><\/a><b> e voi desiderate improvvisamente riconciliarvi, dovete tenere per voi la vostra gelosia e augurargli buona fortuna.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>Come fare in modo che il vostro ex si senta in colpa e vi rivoglia indietro?<\/h2>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t want to fight to get your ex back but want to make them fight for you, all you need to do is look happy. <b>You need to look and behave as if you&#8217;re<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/vivere-la-vita-al-massimo-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <b>vivere al meglio la propria vita<\/b><\/a><b>, senza <\/b><b>sentimento<\/b><b> qualsiasi tipo di rimpianto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Dovete lavorare su voi stessi e concentrarvi per diventare la versione migliore di voi stessi. <i>Once they see that you&#8217;re ready to move on, stronger and more beautiful than ever, it will definitely make them realize what they&#8217;ve lost.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>In other words, you need to make them realize that losing you was a huge mistake, one they&#8217;ll never be able to forgive themselves for. So, instead of focusing on how to make them regret losing you, you need to focus on building yourself up in every possible way.<\/p>\n<h2>Dovrei provare a riconquistare il mio ex?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-149217 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una donna dai capelli castani seduta alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/a-brown-haired-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>The truth is, you&#8217;re the only one who can give the right answer to this <\/i><i>domanda<\/i><i>. Only you know what&#8217;s happening in your heart and mind.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>The most important thing you need to ask yourself is whether that person even deserves you. If you really think they&#8217;re the right person for you, then you have your answer.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, dovreste concedervi un paio di giorni per riflettere e considerare alcuni aspetti prima di prendere una decisione definitiva. <b>Prima di tutto, dovreste considerare la vostra onesta <\/b><b>sentimenti<\/b><b> e tutto quello che \u00e8 successo tra voi due.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Se amate ancora profondamente il vostro ex, dovreste lottare per riconquistarlo. D'altra parte, se entrambi avete commesso degli errori madornali e vi siete feriti gravemente a vicenda,<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-fasi-del-ritorno-con-un-ex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> tornare insieme<\/a> probably isn&#8217;t a good idea.<\/p>\n<p>If there were a lot of mistakes on both sides, you probably became toxic for each other. It&#8217;ll be hard to make things work between you again, and you&#8217;ll both have to be prepared to work hard for it.<\/p>\n<h2>Per concludere<\/h2>\n<p>I get you, I really do&#8230; I was once in the same &#8216;I want my ex back so bad it hurts&#8217; position, and that&#8217;s why I know how painful and overwhelming it is. You want someone you lost and don&#8217;t even know whether there is any chance of getting them back.<\/p>\n<p><b>However, you need to understand that your world doesn&#8217;t revolve around your ex.<\/b> Devi concentrarti su te stesso e sulla tua guarigione, e se siete destinati a stare insieme, le vostre strade si incroceranno di nuovo.<\/p>\n<p><i>And if you aren\u2019t, if you aren&#8217;t <\/i><i>l'un l'altro<\/i><i>&#8216;s soulmates, then you need to make the <\/i><i>decisione giusta e<\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-non-sono-pronti-ad-amarti-devi-lasciarli-andare\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <i>lasciarli andare<\/i><\/a><i>. <\/i>By doing so, you&#8217;ll make room for the right person to enter your life.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I want my ex back so bad it hurts&#8230; Been there, wished the same thing. Of course, our stories probably aren&#8217;t the same, but I&#8217;m here today to give you some advice from my own experience and help you deal with this terrible feeling. 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