{"id":149512,"date":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","date_gmt":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149512"},"modified":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","modified_gmt":"2022-04-20T12:51:29","slug":"segni-che-un-detenuto-vi-ama-davvero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-un-detenuto-vi-ama-davvero\/","title":{"rendered":"8 segni che un detenuto ti ama davvero (e come farlo durare)"},"content":{"rendered":"

If your partner or someone you\u2019re dating is currently an inmate, I bet you can\u2019t help but wonder, Come pu\u00f2<\/i> un uomo\/donna condannato\/a<\/i><\/a> amarmi?<\/i><\/p>\n

Ho solo una cosa da dire: L'assenza fa crescere il cuore.<\/b> Quindi, se vi amavano veramente prima di andare in prigione, continueranno ad amarvi nonostante le circostanze.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s how I see it.<\/p>\n

A <\/b>rapporto con il carcere<\/b> \u00e8 una forma di un<\/b> relazione a distanza<\/b><\/a>. When you look at it that way, it\u2019s easier for you to endure the distance.<\/b><\/p>\n

Essere amici di penna in prigione \u00e8 anche una forma legittima di relazione epistolare<\/a> (qualcosa che ogni coppia regolare dovrebbe praticare di tanto in tanto).<\/p>\n

So, yes, being in a \u201c<\/b>rapporto con il carcere<\/b>\u201d will test your love and patience, but you have nothing to worry about if your feelings are mutual.<\/b><\/p>\n

But, how will you know? Below you\u2019ll find the surefire signs an inmate really loves you and how you can make your relationship last!<\/p>\n

8 segni che un detenuto vi ama veramente<\/h2>\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s really hard to decipher whether your partner in prison has strong feelings for you because you don\u2019t see each other often.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ci sono alcuni elementi, sottili e non, che possono farvi capire se sono veramente <\/b>ti amo<\/b> (o meno).<\/b><\/p>\n

Se la maggior parte dei segnali che seguono vi sembrano compatibili, allora non avete nulla di cui preoccuparvi:<\/p>\n

1. Vi scrivono lettere sentimentali<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Sappiamo tutti che i detenuti hanno molto tempo per pensare, ripensare e ripensare. Quindi, s\u00ec, potete essere certi che penseranno anche ai loro sentimenti per voi e alla vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

Se davvero <\/b>ti amo<\/b>, chances are they\u2019ll express their feelings via <\/b>scrittura di lettere<\/b>. If they write you sentimental letters, know that they\u2019ve been<\/b> pensando a te<\/b><\/a> TANTISSIMO<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

They have a strong urge to convey their deepest feelings in love letters, and they can\u2019t wait for you to read them and write them back. Be sure they\u2019ll reread it multiple times once they get your letter.<\/p>\n

Secondo me, un <\/b>relazione romantica<\/b> non \u00e8 nulla senza<\/b> lettere d'amore emotive<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

To the non-inmate couples reading this: I\u2019m not saying that you should exchange love letters throughout the entire year but occasionally would be a good thing.<\/p>\n

2. I vostri pacchetti di assistenza significano molto per loro<\/h3>\n

Sapete qual \u00e8 la cosa che rende ogni detenuto tremendamente felice? I pacchi regalo! Ricevere pacchi di cura \u00e8 una forma di collegamento con il mondo esterno e con la propria vita prima del carcere.<\/p>\n

Quindi, fate attenzione a come reagiscono quando gli portate i loro oggetti preferiti, il cibo, ecc. <\/b>Now you\u2019re probably wondering: Ma cosa c'entra questo con il fatto che mi amano? <\/i>Credetemi, \u00e8 cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Se vi dicono che i vostri pacchi regalo rallegrano la loro giornata e non dimenticano mai di esprimervi la loro gratitudine, allora sapete quanto significa per loro. They don\u2019t only care about receiving it, but they appreciate the effort and love that you put into it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Questo pu\u00f2 essere visto anche come ricevere regali<\/i>, che \u00e8 una delle I cinque linguaggi dell'amore<\/a>. If this is your partner\u2019s love language, then it can\u2019t get better than that!<\/p>\n

3. La scintilla nei loro occhi \u00e8 costante ogni volta che li si visita<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve seen it in movies multiple times.<\/p>\n

Un detenuto attende con impazienza il suo <\/i>amata<\/i> to come to visit them… and as soon as they see them, their eyes become brighter and sometimes fill with happy tears.<\/i><\/p>\n

Questa scintilla \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che dovete cercare ogni volta che visitate i vostri colleghi. <\/b>detenuto in carcere<\/b>. Perch\u00e9 gli occhi non mentono mai.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they\u2019re genuinely happy to see you every time you visit them, know they really mean it. The spark in their eyes tells you their love for you is stronger than ever, and you have nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n

4. Parlate di cose importanti della vita<\/b><\/h3>\n

Anche gli argomenti delle vostre conversazioni sono importanti. Vi limitate a parlare della vita quotidiana o le vostre conversazioni sono pi\u00f9 approfondite?<\/p>\n

Parlare delle cose importanti della vita = avere conversazioni significative.<\/b><\/p>\n

If your inmate partner is only interested in small talk, then this means they\u2019re not really interested in connecting with you on a deeper level.<\/p>\n

Conversazioni profonde e stimolanti<\/b><\/a> sono il carburante di ogni relazione (soprattutto di quelle a distanza come la vostra).<\/b> Queste conversazioni lasciano una sensazione di appagamento per ore e giorni prima di parlare di nuovo.<\/p>\n

If this is something you already practice, then it\u2019s one of the clear signs an inmate really loves you.<\/p>\n

5. They don\u2019t call you only when they need something<\/h3>\n

Questo \u00e8 un modo geniale e uno dei pi\u00f9 semplici per sapere se un detenuto ti ama davvero<\/a> o meno.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you all agree that if someone calls you only when they need something from you, they aren\u2019t being genuine.<\/b> (It\u2019s happened to me multiple times in friendships and romantic relationships.)<\/p>\n

So, if your love interest doesn\u2019t only call you when they need you to bring them something or do something for them, you can be sure they truly care about you.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t see you only as their middleman between prison and the <\/b>mondo esterno<\/b>.<\/b> They see you as the love of their life, and they want to know how you are feeling, what you\u2019re doing, and so on.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re interested in your well-being and not only about you telling them what\u2019s going on in the world. That\u2019s how you know their feelings for you shouldn\u2019t be questioned.<\/p>\n

6. They tell you that they\u2019re ready to change<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 probabilmente uno dei segni pi\u00f9 difficili e pi\u00f9 autentici che un detenuto vi ama davvero. La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che tutti commettiamo degli errori durante il viaggio chiamato vita e nessuno dovrebbe essere giudicato per questo. Lo stesso vale per la persona amata in carcere.<\/p>\n

Ora che hanno tutto il tempo di riflettere sulle loro azioni passate<\/b> (in particolare su ci\u00f2 che li ha portati l\u00ec in primo luogo), hanno la possibilit\u00e0 di un'auto-riflessione di qualit\u00e0.<\/b><\/p>\n

Se vi dicono che they\u2019re ready to change<\/a> e non ripeteranno mai lo stesso errore per finire di nuovo in prigione, credetegli. If a man\/woman is ready to change, they won\u2019t only do it for themselves but also their <\/b>persone care<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they\u2019re ready to change for the better, it\u2019s because they truly love you, and they don\u2019t want your relationship or you to suffer.<\/p>\n

7. Parlano del futuro<\/h3>\n

Ah, the sweet taste of new beginnings! I can only imagine how hard it is to stay optimistic when you\u2019re in prison, but I guess it\u2019s possible to even find a silver lining there.<\/p>\n

Love is a miracle. When you\u2019re in love, you have no problem being positive regardless of where you are.<\/b> Also, you have no problem talking about the bright future that awaits you once you\u2019re out of prison.<\/p>\n

If they talk about the future and already make plans even before they\u2019re out of there, know that they\u2019re truly ready to change. From now on, they have solemnly sworn to themselves that they\u2019ll do their best to make it up to you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vogliono che siate felici. Vogliono creare un futuro felice<\/a> for both of you by making plans in advance and reassuring you that they\u2019ll manage to bring them to life.<\/p>\n

8. They aren\u2019t pen pals with other men\/women<\/h3>\n

I\u2019m not sure if you\u2019re familiar with this, but there are sites where you can become pen pals with prisoners. One such site is called Write A Prisoner. You can email them or send them a letter (a physical letter).<\/p>\n

Tenete presente che alcuni detenuti si trovano su questi siti per altri scopi, come opportunit\u00e0 educative, ricerca di mentori e simili.<\/b><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to say is that if your inmate partner has an online profile on such sites only to be pen pals with other women\/men, then this is a red flag. It\u2019s like having a dating profile in the real world, which can also lead to potential visits.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they aren\u2019t into this sort of thing, you know the only person they think about is YOU. They\u2019re not interested in meeting other people because they\u2019re solely focused on you. Why? Because they love you.<\/p>\n

How To Make Your \u201cPrison Relationship\u201d Last<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Making your prison relationship last requires patience, effort, and creativity. As a matter of fact, it\u2019s like maintaining any other relationship, but the only difference is the circumstances. Here are the things you should pay special attention to in order to make it last:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Exchange as many letters as you can<\/h3>\n

Know that every letter you write them will be their keepsake. When they\u2019re feeling down, they\u2019ll reread your letters, which will make them feel instantly better.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, questo vi aiuter\u00e0 a mantenere la connessione. <\/b>Scrivere una lettera \u00e8 un ottimo modo per esprimere i propri sentimenti pi\u00f9 profondi<\/a> e desideri, quindi scambiatevi il maggior numero di lettere possibile.<\/p>\n

It will make your relationship stronger and your partner\u2019s days brighter.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Visit often<\/h3>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019re already using this option to the fullest potential (visiting them whenever you can) according to prison visits policy.<\/p>\n

But it doesn\u2019t hurt to remind you to visit them often because letters are not enough to<\/b> mantenere viva la scintilla in una relazione<\/b><\/a>. When you\u2019re not able to visit them, you can always make a <\/b>telefonata<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

There\u2019s also another type of visit known as a conjugal visit, which is a great thing for couples. During a conjugal visit, an inmate is allowed to spend a few hours or days in private with a visitor. I bet you know what this means. ?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Make every conversation meaningful<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re dating someone in jail, it\u2019s important to make every convo meaningful because this is the basis of your bond.<\/p>\n

Potrebbero non condividere ogni <\/b>cosa negativa<\/b> che \u00e8 successo loro in carcere, ma potete incoraggiarli a cercare di liberarsi.<\/b> Let them know that you\u2019re there to listen to them whenever they\u2019re ready to share things with you.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, parlate dei vostri progetti per il futuro come se tutto fosse normale.<\/b> Don\u2019t let the distance of prison interfere with your dreams or positivity. You\u2019re stronger than that.<\/p>\n

Fate in modo che ogni conversazione valga il loro tempo e il vostro, perch\u00e9 il tempo \u00e8 la moneta pi\u00f9 preziosa.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Be creative when expressing your love and affection<\/b><\/h3>\n

Yup, it\u2019s important to be creative when it comes to gesti romantici<\/a>, anche quando il vostro partner \u00e8 in prigione.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t just repeat \u201c<\/b>I <\/i><\/b>ti amo<\/i><\/b><\/a>\u201d several times a day, but show your affection to your <\/b>amata<\/b> in modi diversi e creativi.<\/b> Potete scrivergli una storia d'amore, cantargli la vostra canzone preferita... canzone d'amore<\/a>oppure potete preparare un biscotto a forma di cuore.<\/p>\n

Ci sono molti modi per esprimere il proprio amore reciproco, e questo vale per entrambi. Il suo partner in carcere pu\u00f2 anche trovare un modo per esprimere il proprio affetto attraverso la scrittura di lettere o simili.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Tickle their imagination<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Just because your partner is in prison doesn\u2019t mean you should stop seducing one another. Your attrazione sessuale<\/a> can still be at its peak, and all you need to do is tickle each other\u2019s imagination.<\/p>\n

Ecco alcune idee:<\/b><\/p>\n

Dress up when you\u2019re about to visit them (especially during <\/i>visite coniugali<\/i>).<\/i><\/p>\n

Parlate loro con una voce seducente via <\/i><\/b>telefonate<\/i><\/b>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Rendere pi\u00f9 vivace la scrittura delle lettere.<\/i><\/p>\n

Sussurrate loro all'orecchio qualche<\/i><\/b> linguaggio sporco<\/i><\/b><\/a> phrases (if you\u2019re able to).<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tell them that you\u2019re thinking about them A LOT.<\/i><\/p>\n

The more you\u2019re thirsty for one another, the more you\u2019ll feel connected. That\u2019s how attraction works regardless of whether you\u2019re in prison or not. As long as you\u2019re attracted to one another, you won\u2019t have a problem finding a way to express it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t let anyone interfere with your relationship<\/h3>\n

I\u2019ve learned this the hard way: Una relazione sana<\/a> is a relationship where a couple decides for themselves and doesn\u2019t let others interfere.<\/p>\n

Con questo intendo <\/b>membri della famiglia<\/b> and neighbors who won\u2019t stop gossiping and giving you unsolicited<\/b> consigli sulle relazioni<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If they judge your partner for being in prison and disapprove of your relationship, don\u2019t listen to them (unless you think they\u2019re right).<\/p>\n

Al <\/b>fine giornata<\/b>Quello che conta sono i vostri sentimenti e non quello che dicono gli altri. Stabilite dei limiti fin dal <\/b>prima volta<\/b> iniziano a interferire nella vostra vita sentimentale.<\/b> Questo vi aiuter\u00e0 a proteggervi.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s my rule of thumb: My amore vita<\/a> is nobody\u2019s business. If they want to give me advice, I\u2019ll listen to them, but in the end, I\u2019ll do what I think is right and not what others tell me to do. Avere una relazione privata<\/a> \u00e8 sicuramente la strada da percorrere. Punto.<\/p>\n

Coltivare la pazienza<\/h2>\n

\"un'immaginaria<\/p>\n

After going through these signs that an inmate really loves you, I\u2019m sure now you\u2019re convinced that everything is going as smoothly as it should. As always, fidatevi del vostro istinto<\/a> perch\u00e9 il mio non mi ha mai deluso.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s my humble confession that might bring you comfort as you\u2019re waiting:<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been pen pals for 2 and a half years with a guy I really like, so yes, you can do it, too! I\u2019m about to see him in the next few days, and I\u2019m SO excited about it. I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll also be excited about welcoming your bae back into the outside world soon.<\/p>\n

When that happens, you\u2019ll realize how powerful love truly is. \u201cNo matter how long it takes, true love is always worth the wait.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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