{"id":149886,"date":"2022-04-25T11:22:33","date_gmt":"2022-04-25T11:22:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=149886"},"modified":"2022-04-25T11:22:33","modified_gmt":"2022-04-25T11:22:33","slug":"e-distante-ma-continua-a-mandare-messaggi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-distante-ma-continua-a-mandare-messaggi\/","title":{"rendered":"Lui \u00e8 distante ma continua a mandare messaggi: 13 motivi e 6 cose da fare"},"content":{"rendered":"

La cosa peggiore che un uomo possa fare in una relazione \u00e8 iniziare a comportarsi in modo distante<\/a> senza un motivo valido. Lo so, pu\u00f2 davvero far impazzire una donna.<\/p>\n

But, there is an even worse scenario… Quando \u00e8 distante ma continua a mandare messaggi ogni giorno.<\/em> You just can\u2019t get to the bottom of his distant behavior while, at the same time, you don\u2019t know how to respond to his text messages and how to behave in general.<\/p>\n

I bet you\u2019re waiting for him to text back right now.<\/strong> Well, while you\u2019re waiting, here is an interesting reading that will definitely help you figure out a way to deal with your man’s distant behavior. Or, at least, it\u2019ll make the waiting feel shorter, LOL.<\/p>\n

13 possibili motivi per cui lui \u00e8 distante ma continua a mandarvi messaggi<\/h2>\n

Let\u2019s start by explaining some possible reasons why he is distant but still texts you very often. Be aware, though, that these reasons aren\u2019t there to justify what he\u2019s doing but to simply help you understand his behavior and true intentions.<\/em><\/p>\n

1. Bassa autostima<\/h3>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Gli uomini con insicurezze e problemi di salute mentale sono inclini a comportamento a caldo e a freddo<\/a>. Da<\/strong> di tanto in tanto, si allontanano senza un motivo apparente, se non il bisogno di spazio personale.<\/p>\n

Grazie al vostro man\u2019s low self-esteem<\/a>potrebbe iniziare a dubitare dei suoi sentimenti. Or, he may start thinking that you\u2019re too good for him and that he doesn\u2019t deserve you, which is definitely one of the reasons he\u2019s become distant<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

2. Problemi personali<\/h3>\n

Ha mai parlato di problemi al lavoro? Forse ha litigato con uno dei suoi colleghi? Forse ha problemi a casa, con i suoi cari?<\/em><\/p>\n

If he has already told you that, then things are pretty clear. Your man isn\u2019t distant because of you, he\u2019s distant because of those personal issues, and unfortunately, he can\u2019t stop them from affecting your relationship.<\/p>\n

3. Lo stress da nuovo lavoro si ripercuote sulla vostra relazione<\/h3>\n

Se ha un nuovo lavoro, allora penso che il suo comportamento possa essere giustificato. Pu\u00f2 essere molto stressante adattarsi a un nuovo lavoro e integrarsi con i nuovi colleghi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If that\u2019s the case with your man, you should show him you understand and lasciategli un po' di spazio<\/a>. It shouldn\u2019t be a huge threat to your relationship, just give him some time to solve those work-related things, and everything between you will be alright again.<\/p>\n

4. He\u2019s afraid of a face-to-face encounter<\/h3>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve met online and have been texting for some time, maybe he knows that it\u2019s time for you to meet in person, and that terrifies him.<\/em><\/p>\n

He probably likes you already and doesn\u2019t want to screw everything up on il primo appuntamento<\/a>. However, if he truly likes you, he\u2019ll have to overcome his fear, fare la prima mossa<\/a> e vi invitano a uscire.<\/p>\n

5. Your first date didn\u2019t go as he planned<\/h3>\n

Vi siete conosciuti su un'app di incontri come Tinder o Match.com e avete messaggiato per qualche tempo? Andava tutto bene, ma avete organizzato il primo appuntamento, dopo il quale tutto \u00e8 cambiato e lui ha improvvisamente iniziato a comportarsi in modo distante?<\/p>\n

Well, there is only one logical explanation for that: he isn\u2019t pleased with how your first date went. Forse eravate una persona super divertente e Interessante messaggero<\/a> but didn\u2019t give him that impression when he met you in person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Or perhaps, he\u2019s afraid that he didn\u2019t fulfill your expectations<\/strong>. Pensa che tutto sia stato fantastico quando vi siete messaggiati e che non sia riuscito a mantenere questo feeling quando lo avete incontrato nella vita reale.<\/p>\n

6. He\u2019s seeing another girl<\/h3>\n

I know it hurts to hear this, but it can definitely be one of the reasons. And unfortunately, it\u2019s one of the most common reasons he is distant but still texts you often.<\/p>\n

Last month, my friend was in the same situation. Once she confronted her man, he told her that he was confused and didn\u2019t know which one to choose.<\/p>\n

Of course, she immediately dumped his lame ass, and you should do the same IF you find out he\u2019s seeing someone else.<\/em><\/p>\n

7. He\u2019s trying to put you in the friend zone<\/h3>\n

Trust me, it wouldn\u2019t be the first time a man tries to do this. He isn\u2019t interested in dating you<\/a>ma gli piaci davvero e pensa che potresti essere buoni amici<\/a>. That\u2019s why he is distant but still texts you every day.<\/p>\n

He probably won\u2019t send you testi flirtanti<\/a> o romantico messaggi di buonanotte<\/a>, but he\u2019ll reach out often just to check in with you.<\/em><\/p>\n

He thinks that by being honest, he might hurt your feelings; that\u2019s why he chooses to zona amica<\/a> you like this and make it \u2018easier\u2019 for the both of you.<\/p>\n

8. He\u2019s testing you<\/h3>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been in a relationship for a long time, he\u2019s probably thinking about making your relationship more serious. However, some men like to test their better halves before deciding to take that step.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t confront him or get angry at him initially. Abbiate pazienza<\/a> e mostratevi comprensivi, e lasciate che si apra con voi quando si sentir\u00e0 pronto a farlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

9. He\u2019s spending time with his loved ones<\/h3>\n

Maybe he had a family crisis, and now, he\u2019s only focused on spending time with his loved ones.<\/p>\n

And if he admits that he\u2019s having family issues in your text conversation, then you need to show understanding.<\/em> Let him know you\u2019re there for him and that it\u2019s okay for him to take some time out to solve his issues.<\/p>\n

10. He\u2019s afraid of commitment<\/h3>\n

Se si parla di una relazione impegnata<\/a> e di portare la vostra relazione al livello successivo, forse si \u00e8 solo spaventato. Probabilmente tiene molto a te, ma comunque isn\u2019t ready to commit<\/a>.<\/strong> He doesn\u2019t want to give you false hope and then, at the last minute, give up and leave you.<\/p>\n

If this is the case, you shouldn\u2019t feel bad because of it. He wants you to go easy, but that doesn\u2019t mean he doesn\u2019t want you in his future.<\/p>\n

11. He\u2019s thinking of you, but he\u2019s still angry because of something you did wrong<\/h3>\n

Avete litigato per qualcosa prima che iniziasse a comportarsi in modo distante? Se \u00e8 cos\u00ec, ecco la risposta al perch\u00e9 \u00e8 distante ma continua a mandarti messaggi molto spesso.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s still angry at you because of your disagreement, but he misses you and can\u2019t go against his feelings.<\/em> He needs to check in with you because no matter how angry he is, he\u2019ll always care for you.<\/p>\n

12. Se eravate in una relazione a distanza, forse si \u00e8 semplicemente stancato.<\/h3>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Relazioni a distanza<\/a> can sometimes become too much for a partner, and maybe that\u2019s exactly what is happening with your man.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t get it out of him, his close friends probably already know the truth, so you should try ask them. If they start acting nervous and try to change the subject of the convo, it\u2019s a good sign they\u2019re hiding something. That is, they\u2019re trying to cover for their friend.<\/p>\n

Se questo \u00e8 il motivo del suo comportamento distante, dovreste essere voi ad andarvene. Se un ostacolo come la distanza si frappone tra voi e vi separa, lo far\u00e0 anche tutto il resto.<\/p>\n

13. Vuole rompere con voi<\/h3>\n

Se foste in una relazione a lungo termine<\/a>, maybe he got bored, and his feelings towards you have just disappeared. However, because of the time you spent together, he doesn\u2019t know how to admit it to you.<\/p>\n

Il fatto \u00e8 che, he\u2019s thinking about a breakup<\/a>, but he doesn\u2019t want to hurt your feelings.<\/strong> Unfortunately, he isn\u2019t aware that the more he prolongs it, the more it\u2019ll hurt you in the end.<\/p>\n

Come reagire quando un ragazzo \u00e8 distante ma continua a mandarti messaggi?<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Volevo anche fornirvi i migliori consigli per aiutarvi a gestire il vostro uomo distante che continua a mandarvi messaggi. Quindi, per favore, andate avanti, aiutatevi! ?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Give it a couple of days<\/h3>\n

Dovreste cercare di non avere contatti con lui per un paio di giorni. Solo ignore his texts and don\u2019t text back<\/a> Non importa cosa ti manda per sms.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Play video games, hang out with your best friends…just do something that will keep your thoughts occupied.<\/em> Also, post some pics on social media just to make it clear that you\u2019re ignoring him.<\/p>\n

Il mio consiglio \u00e8 di scegliere la regola dei 3 giorni<\/a>.<\/em> Questo \u00e8 probabilmente il modo migliore per scoprire se lui prova davvero dei sentimenti romantici per te o se he\u2019s only playing you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Then, invite him to talk face to face<\/h3>\n

The third day will probably be the most difficult for you. However, the next day, you should send him a text message. And I don\u2019t mean you should send him a sweet testo del buongiorno<\/a>ma invece di andare al sodo e invitarlo a parlare.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t text back, then you\u2019ll know that he didn\u2019t want to be with you in the first place.<\/strong> Stava solo giocando con te e forse voleva usarti per soddisfare alcuni dei suoi bisogni.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Or, at least, give him a phone call<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re, for some reason, afraid to meet face to face, you can simply call him. Confront him through a phone call and let him know his behavior is really bothering you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t let him manipulate you through mixed messages<\/h3>\n

\"Ragazza<\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t try to work things out through texting<\/strong>. He\u2019ll probably offer some lame excuses or try to make you think that nothing is wrong and that you\u2019re imagining it all.<\/p>\n

E la cosa peggiore \u00e8 quando \u00e8 distante ma dice che non c'\u00e8 niente che non vada.<\/em> It\u2019s like he\u2019s trying to make you look crazy. And he actually is because it\u2019s his form of manipulation to scaricare la colpa su di voi<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If none of it works out, ghost him<\/h3>\n

Se continua a negare che c'\u00e8 qualcosa che non va, dovreste lasciarlo andare.<\/strong> But this time, for real. I\u2019m not saying you should go no contact for a couple of days again; I really mean that you should ignorarlo<\/a> like he doesn\u2019t even exist.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019ll be hard for you, but it\u2019s really the only way to make him understand that his behavior is hurting you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If he still doesn\u2019t make up his mind, wish him good luck<\/h3>\n

If he comes back, you\u2019ll know that he cares for you. And if he doesn\u2019t, well, then you\u2019ll know that it\u2019s time to move on<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t wait for him to make up his mind forever. If he isn\u2019t sure about his feelings, then he doesn\u2019t deserve you. You just need to accept that he isn\u2019t the right guy for you, wish him Buona fortuna<\/a>e voltargli le spalle per sempre.<\/p>\n

Would A Guy Text You If He Wasn’t Interested Every Day?<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Oh, he would, trust me. Maybe he isn\u2019t interested in dating you, but he definitely has other intentions.<\/p>\n

Ti mander\u00e0 messaggi ogni giorno solo perch\u00e9 vuole tenerti con s\u00e9.<\/strong> He\u2019s probably seeing other women, too, but vuole tenerti in secondo piano<\/a> nel caso in cui alcune di queste avventure finiscano.<\/p>\n

Egli ti mandano segnali contrastanti<\/a> perch\u00e9 vuole confonderti e manipolarti per farti credere che gli piaci davvero.<\/em>. Tuttavia, devi chiederti se meriti davvero di avere quel tipo di uomo al tuo fianco.<\/p>\n

Why Does He Keep Contacting Me If He Doesn’t Want A Relationship?<\/h2>\n

Ad essere sinceri, ci sono alcuni motivi possibili. Potrebbe essere insicuro dei suoi sentimenti verso di voi o, al contrario, potrebbe dubitare dei vostri sentimenti.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, potrebbe tenervi in disparte.<\/strong> Maybe he\u2019s already in a relationship or sta frequentando un'altra persona<\/a> and isn\u2019t sure what to do or who to choose.<\/p>\n

Or, there is another option as well; maybe he doesn\u2019t want a relationship because he wants to keep enjoying the single life but wants something else from you. In other words, maybe he\u2019s only texting you because vuole andare a letto con te<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In the end, whatever his reasons are, you shouldn\u2019t allow him to keep using you. If he doesn\u2019t know what he wants, you should.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to be someone\u2019s second choice when there are so many men who would kill to make you their one and only!<\/em><\/p>\n

Per concludere<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

I hope this helped you get into your man\u2019s mind and figure out why he is distant but still texts you almost every day.<\/p>\n

Per consolarvi, potrebbe trattarsi solo di una fase e potreste superarla come se nulla fosse. Purtroppo, per\u00f2, pu\u00f2 anche essere un enorme segnale di pericolo che he\u2019s about to break up with you<\/a> per il bene.<\/em><\/p>\n

Whatever his reason is, and no matter what happens, you just need to remember that it\u2019s not your fault.<\/strong> Even if he leaves you, keep in mind that it\u2019s his loss, not yours.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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