Mi ci \u00e8 voluto un anno intero con il mio attuale fidanzato per imparare a fidarmi di nuovo.<\/strong><\/p>\nWe argued\u2014not over the big things but rather the small, seemingly insignificant things that you wouldn\u2019t think people would argue you over. What those tiny little fights taught both of us was how much we had been hurt in our previous relationships. Feeling secure, as simple and as natural as that, seemed like a foreign concept to us for a while. We couldn\u2019t trust that if the other person was mad, it didn\u2019t mean that one of us was going to stand up and leave. I look back on those early years and how mangled we both must have been to have never known true security in a relationship before we met and fell in love with each other. It was tragic.<\/p>\n
So it took time for us to heal despite being on this new journey together. The heart is a vulnerable part of us and when it gets broken, it doesn\u2019t just feel it\u2014it encompasses every bitter part of that hollowness. Sente ogni crepa, ogni bugia, ogni idea sbagliata, ogni azione sporca e ogni momento in cui quella fiducia, quell'amore, sono stati ingannati. <\/strong><\/p>\nSuperare questa situazione non \u00e8 una cosa che si fa dall'oggi al domani. Ma lo supererete.<\/p>\n
You need to put the time in to be sad. It\u2019s necessary. You need to have countless nights where you cry yourself to sleep. You need to make foolish decisions.<\/p>\n
Dovete scoprire a fatica che l'amore per cui avete lottato tanto non era quello giusto per voi.<\/strong> You need to find out he\u2019s dating someone new and you need to go through all the pain that comes with that. You need to face the guilt, the hunger for someone new and you need to chase that new found sadness until you\u2019re tired of it defining you.<\/p>\nIl cuore spezzato guarisce sempre.<\/strong><\/p>\nBelieve me, it will not happen when you want it to. The happiness will begin, not when you want it to, but when you\u2019re ready to enjoy it. Real love is out there and I assure you that it\u2019s worth waiting for. You\u2019ll get through this difficult time and you\u2019ll wake up one morning, with your cup of coffee growing cold and the love of your life in the bedroom down the hall.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s at that moment you\u2019ll feel happy that you endured the misery of what that old love, that old heartbreak once caused you. Perch\u00e9 in quel momento nulla avr\u00e0 pi\u00f9 importanza: non il vostro passato, e nemmeno il vostro presente, ma il vostro futuro.<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"There came a point in my life when my ex became old news. The misery he caused my heart eventually faded, but it took years to do so. I can thank the help of boys who posed as men; the 40-somethings that used me for one-night stands, the cashiers who texted me at midnight with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":15098,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15095","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/mike-fox-467499.jpg",800,573,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15095","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15095"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15095\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15098"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15095"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15095"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15095"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}