{"id":151229,"date":"2024-11-04T22:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-11-04T21:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=151229"},"modified":"2024-11-04T10:01:39","modified_gmt":"2024-11-04T09:01:39","slug":"cosa-fa-impazzire-un-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cosa-fa-impazzire-un-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"15 modi per far impazzire i narcisisti e giocarsela con loro"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you\u2019re dealing with someone che ha la NPD<\/a>Si presume che non si possa fare nulla per ferirli emotivamente. Anche quando ci provate, trovano sempre un modo per ritorcersi contro di voi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I\u2019m here to end your misery. Once you learn what drives a narcissist insane, you can give them a taste of their own medicine and reverse the roles once and for all!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Queste 15 tattiche vi aiuteranno a far impazzire il vostro narcisista!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Il trattamento silenzioso<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Il
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If you\u2019re looking for modi per ferire qualcuno che mostra un comportamento narcisistico<\/a>, the best way to do so is by ignoring them. Yes, that\u2019s right, I\u2019m telling you to give them the trattamento silenzioso<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da sempre, avete dato il vostro contributo alla madre narcisista<\/a>padre o del partner esattamente quello che volevano da voi. Avete pianto, implorato di cambiare o discusso con loro fino a perdere tutte le forze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And what did you accomplish with this? That\u2019s right, one big, fat nothing. So, why wouldn’t you change tactics? Why wouldn\u2019t you try ignoring them and behaving like they don\u2019t exist?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, this is what will trigger their narcissistic rage in the blink of an eye. And that\u2019s when you\u2019ll have them right where you want them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Perdita di controllo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Che cosa \u00e8 comune a tutti i soggetti con NPD? Tra le altre cose, uno dei loro obiettivi finali \u00e8 quello di avere il controllo<\/a> sulle loro vittime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I narcisisti, i sociopatici e i psicopatici emotivi<\/a> will get possessive because they\u2019re scared of losing control over you.<\/strong> You have to be aware that you\u2019re dealing with maniaci del controllo<\/a>. Tutto deve essere a modo loro o non deve esserlo affatto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why you must show them that they can\u2019t rule over you. You\u2019re the only one in charge of your own life. How do you do that? Well, you can start by disobeying them about some seemingly little things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, la cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 dimostrare loro che non hanno pi\u00f9 alcuna influenza su di voi. Almeno, non quanto ne avevano prima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Accogliere le critiche<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Accogliere
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Here\u2019s every narcissist\u2019s biggest secret: they have incredibly bassa autostima<\/a>. Chi lo direbbe, vero?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In realt\u00e0 nascondono il loro vero io perch\u00e9 odiano la persona che sono. Le persone con disturbo narcisistico di personalit\u00e0 hanno una percezione molto fragile della propria autostima.<\/strong> That\u2019s why being criticized is one of their biggest fears. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Investono molto tempo ed energia per costruire un volto apparentemente perfetto da mostrare al mondo. Quindi, nel momento in cui li si critica per la pi\u00f9 piccola cosa, si provoca una ferita narcisistica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t even have to do it on purpose. You can jokingly say you don\u2019t like their new shirt or that they could have cleaned the house a bit better. On a conscious level, they know that you’re joking or that you mean well. However, their fragile ego can\u2019t stand admitting and accepting something like this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Non essere al centro dell'attenzione<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Non
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Di cosa ha bisogno un narcisista? Validazione e ammirazione. Cosa fa impazzire un narcisista? Non avere nulla di tutto ci\u00f2!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about your genitori narcisisti<\/a>, romantic partner, or friend \u2013 they\u2019re all the same when it comes to this. A queste persone piace stare sotto i riflettori. Anzi, hanno bisogno di attenzione come una persona normale ha bisogno di aria per respirare.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what happens when someone else becomes your center of attention? A narcissist goes completely crazy. But you know what the funniest thing about this is? They can\u2019t take that you\u2019re your own center of attention either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The moment that happens, a narcissist feels like they\u2019re losing the ground they walk on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Essere chiamati in causa per le loro azioni<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Essere
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How great would it be if we could all do whatever the hell we wanted without anyone pointing out our mistakes? Well, that’s exactly what every narc expects of their victim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bisogna essere consapevoli di una cosa: queste persone lottano con una mancanza di empatia.<\/strong> Se, ad esempio, si \u00e8 interrompere una relazione narcisistica<\/a>, your ex will never feel guilty for breaking your heart. Not only that \u2013 they\u2019ll also be surprised if you gather the courage to call them out on their actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And if you really refuse to give them a second chance and explain that your behavior is just a reaction to their actions, they\u2019ll be stunned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re talking about someone who thinks they\u2019re smarter than the rest of the world. So, they\u2019ll go crazy once you tell them straight that you know exactly what they\u2019re doing and that you don\u2019t plan on putting up with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Other people\u2019s happiness<\/h2>\n\n\n
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We\u2019ve already established that a lack of empathy is one of the most common tratti narcisistici<\/a>. This doesn\u2019t only mean that they can\u2019t sympathize with someone else\u2019s pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This lack of empathy also means that they don\u2019t have the ability to be happy for other people. They just can\u2019t stand someone else\u2019s happiness and will do everything in their power to destroy it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In fin dei conti, ogni narcisista \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 solo geloso. Nel profondo, sanno di non poter provare una felicit\u00e0 vera e pura e odiano tutti coloro che ne sono capaci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Basically, if you want to drive a narcissist crazy, it\u2019s enough to show them that you\u2019re genuinely happy. Once they realize that all of the giochi mentali<\/a>, gaslighting e abuso emotivo<\/a> they put you through didn\u2019t kill your spirit, they will be devastated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Specchio di un narcisista<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Come Chiudere un narcisista<\/a>? It\u2019s enough to treat them the same way they treat everyone else. Just give them a taste of their own medicine. Invertite le carte in tavola e fateli camminare per un miglio nei vostri panni.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This kind of behavior is called mirroring a narcissist. Don\u2019t worry, you won\u2019t become just like them for real. You\u2019re a normal person, and you\u2019re only pretending to be like this to play with a narc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I\u2019m warning you: narcissistic mirroring is anything but easy. It includes numerous manipulation tactics, such as bombardamento d'amore<\/a> (seguito da fantasma<\/a>), gaslighting, trattamento del silenzio e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: I would never advise doing any of these things to some other random person. However, sometimes, this is the only way to ferire emotivamente un narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Rompere il loro incantesimo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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What drives a narcissist insane? Well, the fact that their victim managed to break their spell. It\u2019s the realization that you got to the bottom of their intentions. It\u2019s that you got them all figured out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Basically, they get upset the moment you realize that you\u2019re a victim of abuso narcisistico<\/a>. Capire questo \u00e8 il primo passo verso sfuggendo loro,<\/a> e lo sanno molto bene.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t want you to take off your rose-tinted glasses. They\u2019ll do everything in their power to prevent you from seeing properly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when you finally get rid of their magic, they don\u2019t know what to do. You\u2019re no longer enchanted, and they don\u2019t have as much influence over you as they used to have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. The victim\u2019s independence<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Ricordate che abbiamo parlato di un narcisista che perde il controllo? Dovete sapere che queste persone si aspettano che i loro partner, amici e familiari siano emotivamente dipendenti da loro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, cosa succede quando la loro vittima smette di essere emotivamente dipendente<\/a> on them? Well, that\u2019s another thing a narc can\u2019t stand. Il vostro mondo ha smesso di girare intorno a loro, il che distrugge immediatamente il loro senso di autostima.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m not only talking about emotional independence. I\u2019m talking about any kind of independence, including financial, social, and so on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They will go insane if they see that you\u2019re capable of making your own decisions without their involvement. It looks like you don\u2019t need them anymore, which means practically nothing is holding you back from leaving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Chiunque sia migliore di loro<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Chi soffre di disturbo narcisistico di personalit\u00e0 ha seri problemi di autostima. Cercano di nasconderlo, ma si paragonano costantemente a tutti coloro che li circondano, compresi gli amici, i familiari, i partner romantici, i colleghi e persino le persone che passano di l\u00ec per caso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In their twisted sense of reality, they have to be better than everyone else. On the contrary, they\u2019re completely worthless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To them, people\u2019s entire existence on this planet is nothing but a big competition. <\/strong>Allora, cosa fa impazzire un narcisista? L'orribile consapevolezza che qualcuno \u00e8 migliore di lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s enough for you to praise their coworker and tell them that they have a good sense of humor or to tell them that you like their best friend\u2019s new car. Normal people wouldn\u2019t even notice these remarks. But a narc will think about them for days!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Trattamento ordinario<\/h2>\n\n\n
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One of the first red flags to pay attention to when figuring out if someone is a narcissist is this person\u2019s sense of self-importance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s the irony of their personalities: they actually lotta con grandi insicurezze<\/a>, but at the same time, they think that they\u2019re more important than the rest of the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Queste persone si aspettano un trattamento da VIP ovunque vadano. Vogliono sentirsi come dei reali, sempre sotto i riflettori. <\/strong>But what if that doesn\u2019t happen? What if you invite them to a party? You don\u2019t ignore them, nor do you welcome them as a special guest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, that would crush them more than anything! It means that they\u2019ve lost the ability to get any reaction from you. And that was the only superpower they had. If that doesn\u2019t destroy them, nothing will!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Imbarazzo pubblico<\/h2>\n\n\n
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If you know a thing or two about narcissism, you know that people with NPD are usually the most prominent members of society. It doesn\u2019t matter what kind of abuso narcisistico<\/a> you\u2019re going through \u2013 your abuser will always do their best to hide it from the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After all, why do you think gaslighting is so important to them? They\u2019re terrified that you\u2019ll speak out about their actions. They want to prevent it so badly that they\u2019re ready to persuade you that you\u2019re imagining things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what drives a narcissist insane? Destroying their public image! They can\u2019t stand being embarrassed in front of other people.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Criticizing and humiliating them when you\u2019re with company will do the trick. But you know what will destroy them completely? Showing the world their true colors! Lifting the mask they show everyone and revealing who they really are will crush them more than anything!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Non ottenere la propria strada<\/h2>\n\n\n
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It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about little things or huge decisions. A narcissist has to have everything go their way. Have you forgotten? After all, we\u2019re talking about the most intelligent and capable people in the whole wide world!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tutti, soprattutto le loro vittime, devono ascoltarli e seguire le loro indicazioni. Questa \u00e8 un'altra cosa che li fa sentire superiori e li aiuta a mantenere una fiducia in se stessi che vacilla. Pertanto, la cosa che li fa impazzire \u00e8 che le cose non vadano come vogliono.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, you\u2019re in a relazione narcisistica<\/a>. Il vostro partner romantico aveva pianificato di insultarvi, ma poi ha iniziato a che ti illumina a gas<\/a>. They were sure that things would go smoothly, as always. They would manage to convince you that you\u2019re overreacting and imagining things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But this time, you reacted differently. You stick to your story, and you don\u2019t allow them to brainwash you with their manipulation tactics. Not getting the outcome they were expecting leaves them confused. However, you have to be careful about this one because it also triggers narcissistic rage!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Essere chiamati in causa per le loro insicurezze<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"Essere
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La differenza tra una persona normale e una affetta da narcisismo sta nel modo in cui percepisce queste insicurezze. Le persone normali sanno che nessuno \u00e8 perfetto. Sanno che le insicurezze sono perfettamente normali; fanno del loro meglio per superarle e a volte ci scherzano sopra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, every narc pretends to be flawless. They deceive the world into thinking that they love their true selves even though that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you look closely, you\u2019ll get to the bottom of le loro insicurezze<\/a>. You\u2019ll find out what they hate about themselves the most. And once you find that out, it\u2019s time to tackle these insecurities. But make sure to pretend that you\u2019re doing it by accident.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll get an even better effect if you do it in public.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Non avere contatti<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Finally, if you\u2019re wondering what drives a narcissist insane, the answer is: non avere contatti<\/a>! Questo include il non parlare con loro, bloccare il loro numero<\/a>, ignoring their text messages, not visiting places you know you might run into them, not mentioning their name to your mutual friends…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Significa tagliarli fuori completamente e vivere la propria vita come se non ne avessero mai fatto parte. <\/strong>Ma c'\u00e8 qualcosa che dovete tenere a mente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando di solito non contattare<\/a> with someone, you\u2019re doing it to get them back. You want them to feel your absence so they can appreciate your presence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, this shouldn\u2019t be your primary goal when dealing with a narc. Trust me \u2013 you don\u2019t want this person back, and you don\u2019t want them ossessionato da te<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re going no contact for two reasons. First of all, you\u2019re doing it to drive your narc crazy. But at the same time, you should be doing it to help yourself heal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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