1. La nostalgia li ha colpiti<\/h3>\n
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Uno dei primi motivi per cui il vostro buon amico<\/a> contacted you all of a sudden could be nostalgia. Maybe you got a friend request on social media or a text message from them \u2013 it doesn\u2019t really matter.<\/p>\n The bottom line is that you two share some beautiful memories together. Even though you don\u2019t know it, they think of these times frequently.<\/p>\n They sincerely hope that you haven\u2019t forgotten about them either. They hope that you remember all the fun you two had.<\/b><\/p>\n This is especially true if we\u2019re talking about a high school or childhood friend. Years have passed since you two spent time together.<\/p>\n Nevertheless, you were close friends once. And you\u2019re probably the only thing connecting this person to the good old days. So, they just want to talk about the past and reminisce.<\/p>\n Have you ever been in a situation when an ex who broke your heart and hurt you in the worst possible way tries to crawl back into your life ages after the break-up? I mean, of course, you have, it\u2019s what always happens.<\/p>\n Why? Well, it\u2019s because they realize what they\u2019ve lost only after you\u2019re gone. And that\u2019s exactly what happened to that best friend who did you harm.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve spent years looking for you. They were convinced that finding a friend like you would be a piece of cake.<\/p>\n A lot of people will welcome them with open arms \u2013 they will give them the love, comfort, and devotion you offered.<\/p>\n Ma non \u00e8 successo nulla di tutto ci\u00f2. Hanno passato un'intera eternit\u00e0 a cercarvi solo per rendersi conto che non vi si trovava da nessuna parte.<\/b><\/p>\n E ora vogliono tornare ai vecchi tempi. Il vostro ex amico vuole continuare esattamente da dove vi siete lasciati, come se non fosse successo nulla, perch\u00e9 vi vede come il suo anima gemella amica<\/a>.<\/p>\n Beh, se fossi in voi, mi limiterei ad augurare loro <\/b>Buona fortuna<\/b> with that. Why didn\u2019t they appreciate you while you were around?<\/b><\/p>\n On the other hand, there are people who know that they\u2019ve made a mistake and feel guilty about it. So, when an vecchio amico<\/a> ti contatta all'improvviso, potrebbe essere perch\u00e9 vuole scusarsi.<\/p>\n There is no desire for reconnecting here. Maybe they just want to meet up to tell you that they\u2019re sorry or to grazie per tutto<\/a>.<\/p>\n Why does it matter now? Well, they\u2019ve obviously grown as a person. They\u2019re probably replaying their entire life back and forth in their head, and they\u2019ve realized they treated you wrong.<\/p>\n In sostanza, vogliono togliersi questo peso dallo stomaco. Hanno bisogno del vostro perdono per andare avanti e liberarsi la coscienza.<\/b><\/p>\n O forse qualcun altro li ha messi in difficolt\u00e0. Forse hanno camminato nelle vostre scarpe e hanno capito il vostro punto di vista.<\/p>\n In that case, if you are able to forgive them, don\u2019t torture them anymore. Tell them that you accept their apology and move on with your life.<\/p>\n When an old friend contacts you out of the blue, they\u2019ve probably changed a lot. They’re not the same person they were the first time your friendship ended.<\/p>\n I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard the phrase \u201cright person, wrong time.\u201d Even though most people connect this line with romantic love, it can be applied to friendship as well.<\/p>\n Il tuo <\/b>ex amico<\/b> \u00e8 consapevole di <\/b>le vostre qualit\u00e0<\/b><\/a>. They know that you\u2019re someone they want to spend time with.<\/b><\/p>\n But when you first used to hang out, you were too immature to realize the true meaning of friendship. Luckily, now, you\u2019ve both grown, and that has changed.<\/p>\n It means that it\u2019s time for a second chance. Besides, you two didn\u2019t end your friendship on bad terms. You didn\u2019t have a major fallout \u2013 you just lost touch.<\/p>\n There were no insults, no backstabbing, or anything like that. You drifted apart because you didn\u2019t appreciate each other, and that\u2019s all.<\/p>\n Or maybe they\u2019ve remained exactly the same person they were in the past. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not claiming that they haven\u2019t made any progress whatsoever.<\/p>\n But at the end of the day, they\u2019re not the person they were last month or even last year. Deep down, they\u2019re still the person they were when you two <\/b>erano <\/b>migliori amici<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n This means that you\u2019re the only one who knows the essence of their being. They\u2019ve tried spending time with new friends, but each one of them was missing something.<\/p>\n They were all interested in this new version of themselves while you\u2019re the only one who accepted them truly for who they are.<\/p>\n Are they interested in reconnecting? Without a doubt, yes. You have to be aware that this person doesn\u2019t only see you as their friend. To them, you\u2019re a family member!<\/p>\n They haven\u2019t called you in ages, and truth be told, you haven\u2019t even crossed their mind all of this time. But recently, they saw a mutual friend or coworker who mentioned you.<\/p>\n Oppure hanno ascoltato la vostra canzone preferita. Forse hanno incontrato qualcuno che ti somigliava.<\/p>\n Whatever happened, the bottom line is that your entire friendship went through their mind. They\u2019ve had a major flashback, and they remembered you.<\/b><\/p>\n But the point is that they kept thinking of you for days after something or someone reminded them of you. And that\u2019s when they knew they had to reach out to you, no matter what! Of course, that\u2019s exactly what they did.<\/p>\n At the end of the day, they don\u2019t know what they want from you. \u00c8 un'occasione per riallacciare i rapporti?<\/b><\/p>\n Vuoi solo <\/b>incontrarsi<\/b> il <\/b>il giorno successivo<\/b> per parlare dei vecchi tempi? Costruirete un <\/b>amicizia a distanza<\/b><\/a>? Who knows \u2013 all options are on the table.<\/b><\/p>\n Quando interrompere una relazione a lungo termine<\/a>, it\u2019s natural that you want to know why it happened. When did things start going downhill?<\/p>\n \u00c8 stato qualcosa che avete fatto voi? Avreste potuto fare qualcosa per evitare la fine della vostra relazione? \u00c8 successo qualcosa di particolare che ha <\/i>l'ultima volta<\/i> vi siete visti che li ha spinti a tagliarti fuori dalla loro vita?<\/i><\/p>\n No, these questions don\u2019t only apply to romantic relationships. The same goes with friendships as well. After all, it\u2019s also a type of relationship, and there is nothing wrong with wanting closure.<\/p>\n Beh, quando <\/b>un vecchio amico si mette in contatto<\/b> voi <\/b>all'improvviso<\/b>, that\u2019s exactly what they\u2019re looking for. Maybe they don\u2019t plan on coming back into your life.<\/b><\/p>\n Al contrario, vogliono solo chiudere quel capitolo della loro vita per poter ricominciare.<\/p>\n Obviously, everything that happened between you two left a big influence on their life. And if they ask you for closure, give it to them \u2013 that would be the only fair thing to do.<\/p>\n When an old friend contacts you out of the blue, you immediately assume that there is something huge or secretive hidden behind it. But the truth is that things don\u2019t have to be so complicated.<\/p>\n Maybe they\u2019re not here to ask for a kidney or gossip about your <\/b>amici comuni<\/b>. Forse il tuo <\/b>ex amico<\/b> vuole solo chiacchierare.<\/b><\/p>\n Of course, this is possible only if you two didn\u2019t have a huge <\/b>ricaduta<\/b> and just lost touch over time. You didn\u2019t have a big fight, and nobody hurt anyone.<\/b><\/p>\n So, why wouldn’t they want to see what you\u2019ve been up to? I won\u2019t say that they necessarily miss you, but you\u2019ve definitely crossed their mind, and they just wanted to see if there is anything new going on in your life.<\/p>\n Or they were just bored and had nothing better to do. Either way, you don\u2019t have to look too deep into it.<\/p>\n When an old friend contacts you out of the blue, they might be asking for help. I don\u2019t know if we\u2019re parlare di una brutta rottura<\/a>Un'emergenza familiare, un problema di salute mentale o qualcosa di completamente diverso.<\/p>\n Il punto fondamentale \u00e8 che vi vedono come la loro ultima possibilit\u00e0 di salvezza.<\/p>\n Look, they won\u2019t tell you they need a hand straight away. Instead, they\u2019ll just ask you to meet up, and if you\u2019re willing to see them, they might open up.<\/p>\n Why did they think of you, you must ask? After all, you can\u2019t remember when the last time you talked was, and you\u2019re sure that they\u2019ve found new friends in the meantime.<\/p>\n Well, I guess that you\u2019re still the only one they trust, no matter what. The only one who will stare al loro fianco in tutto e per tutto<\/a>, understand them, and won\u2019t leave them when they need someone the most.<\/p>\n It\u2019s apparent that you two have an unbreakable bond. They see you as their anima gemella platonica<\/a> e partner nel crimine<\/a>.<\/p>\n They can have alot of close friends, but you\u2019re their l'unica e sola migliore amica<\/a>!<\/p>\n I get it that you\u2019re facing a serious dilemma. On the one hand, you feel like they\u2019re using you.<\/p>\n Tutti gli altri li hanno abbandonati, cos\u00ec ora hanno pensato a voi. Dove sono stati per tutto questo tempo?<\/p>\n But if you look at things from a different perspective, you should actually be honored. They could have asked for anyone\u2019s help, but they chose you! If that doesn\u2019t make you feel special, I don\u2019t know what does.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve given your former friend the benefit of the doubt until now. But this is the moment when we have to tackle what you don\u2019t want to hear as well.<\/p>\n Yes, it\u2019s possible that they need a favor and nothing else. Maybe they want you to lend them money, take care of their kids, drive them somewhere, give your recommendation on something…<\/b><\/p>\n Gli esempi sono infiniti, ma quando un vecchio amico vi contatta all'improvviso, questo \u00e8 uno dei motivi pi\u00f9 comuni.<\/p>\n If you are in this kind of situation, don’t feel responsible to help them.<\/b><\/p>\n Were they ever around to give you a hand? Did they ever ask you how you\u2019ve been?<\/p>\n They have no shame and no dignity, and they don\u2019t deserve a response from you, let alone anything more.<\/p>\n Voglio dire, cosa sei? Un'agenzia di beneficenza? Un pronto soccorso?<\/p>\n La dura verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che questa persona ha rovinato la vostra salute mentale. Questa \u00e8 sempre stata un'amicizia unilaterale e non \u00e8 mai stata la vostra amico vero<\/a>.<\/p>\n Il tuo <\/b>amico tossico<\/b><\/a> ti hanno bullizzato e hanno distrutto la tua autostima. Essi <\/b>non ti ha mai rispettato<\/b><\/a> o <\/b>vi hanno trattato come il loro migliore amico<\/b><\/a>. Hai subito un abuso emotivo da parte loro e tutto ci\u00f2 che ti hanno fatto ha lasciato tracce nel tuo cuore e nella tua anima.<\/b><\/p>\n La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ci hai messo troppo tempo a superare tutto questo, figuriamoci a trovare nuovi amici.<\/p>\n E proprio quando stavate per concludere il vostro percorso di guarigione, sono riapparsi nella vostra vita.<\/p>\n Si pentono di tutto? Sono qui perch\u00e9 vogliono scusarsi? Mi dispiace dirvelo, ma no.<\/b><\/p>\n You\u2019re dealing with an abuser who thinks of you as a suitable victim \u2013 nothing more!<\/b><\/p>\n When an old friend contacts you out of the blue, they might be involved in MLM (multi-level marketing) or a pyramid scheme. I know you\u2019ve seen alot of memes and jokes regarding this topic, but trust me \u2013 we\u2019ll all get a similar phone call one of these days.<\/p>\n I have to admit, this is a tough situation. On the one hand, you don\u2019t want to waste your time listening to their nonsense.<\/b><\/p>\n But at the same time, we\u2019re talking about someone you\u2019ve been so close to. You can\u2019t just hang up on them.<\/b><\/p>\n The best thing to do is to be as polite as possible. But don\u2019t forget to be firm at the same time because trust me, they will use your vulnerabilities against you.<\/p>\n Just tell them that you\u2019re busy and that you\u2019ll call them the next day. Let\u2019s face it \u2013 you won\u2019t, but do you have any other option at this point?<\/p>\n Se avete qualcosa da dire, non c'\u00e8 nulla di male a contattarli. <\/b>un vecchio amico<\/b>. Tuttavia, \u00e8 necessario trovare il modo migliore per farlo.<\/b><\/p>\n If you haven\u2019t talked to each other in a long time, maybe it\u2019s better to send them a text message or friend request before calling them out of the blue.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s a list of phrases to say when you hear from a long-<\/b>amico perduto<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n 1. \u201cHey, what\u2019s up?\u201d<\/p>\n 2. \u201cI\u2019ve been just thinking about you.\u201d<\/p>\n 3. \u201cLong time no see.\u201d<\/p>\n2. They\u2019ve realized you\u2019re nowhere to be found<\/h3>\n
3. Vogliono scusarsi<\/h3>\n
4. They\u2019ve changed<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Oppure sono rimasti invariati<\/h3>\n
6. Qualcosa vi ha ricordato di loro<\/h3>\n
7. Vogliono una chiusura<\/h3>\n
8. Vogliono chiacchierare<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n9. They\u2019re in a bad place in life<\/h3>\n
Cosa fare?<\/h4>\n
10. Hanno bisogno di un favore<\/h3>\n
11. You\u2019re a suitable victim<\/h3>\n
12. Uno schema piramidale<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n\u00c8 strano contattare i vecchi amici?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCosa dire quando un amico perduto si mette in contatto con voi?<\/h2>\n
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