{"id":15191,"date":"2020-07-23T11:12:59","date_gmt":"2020-07-23T11:12:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15191"},"modified":"2022-01-09T19:16:18","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T19:16:18","slug":"ha-dato-priorita-al-tentativo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ha-dato-priorita-al-tentativo\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 ha rinunciato a cercare di essere la sua priorit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Arriva un momento in cui devi smettere di attraversare gli oceani per persone che non salterebbero nemmeno le pozzanghere per te\".<\/span><\/em><\/p>\r\n

Many asked her how she could let him go so easily. Many asked her why she didn\u2019t fight harder, why si \u00e8 arresa<\/a> quando erano destinati a stare insieme. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Little did they know that she didn\u2019t give up but he didn\u2019t even try anymore. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

They acted as if it was all her fault, as if it was her job to keep him or to make him stay. As if they didn\u2019t know that you can\u2019t keep someone who doesn\u2019t want to stay. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ha messo una distanza tra i due.<\/b> Maybe he didn\u2019t do that willingly, maybe something stole his attention, but maybe he didn\u2019t really care for her anymore. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Forse si era stufato. Forse la dava per scontata. In ogni caso, ha smesso di considerarla una priorit\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Si \u00e8 concentrato sulla sua vita. <\/b>Si \u00e8 concentrato a occuparsi di tutti tranne che di lei. Era cos\u00ec impegnato con la sua vita che si \u00e8 dimenticato della vita che aveva con lei.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"donna<\/p>\r\n

Lui si \u00e8 dimenticato dei suoi bisogni e lei si \u00e8 trasformata in una di quelle <\/span>donne emotivamente trascurate<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Lei non era pi\u00f9 una priorit\u00e0 per lui. <\/b>He didn\u2019t bother to call just to hear her voice. He was always busy. He never had time for dates or to spend some quality time with her.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

He even spent more time with his friends than he did with her. He started leaving her alone too much and he allowed days to pass when they didn\u2019t hear from each other. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ha cercato di parlargli.<\/b> She tried to tell him that things had started going downhill and how he wasn\u2019t the same person he used to be. She tried so hard to open his eyes. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Alla fine della giornata, era <\/span>la sua anima gemella, il suo compagno di vita<\/span><\/a>, la persona con cui vedeva il suo futuro. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Despite what everyone else thought, she didn\u2019t just give up on him. She really tried, but he didn\u2019t see the same things she did. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Per lui era tutto a posto.<\/b> Non c'era bisogno di lavorare su nulla. Ha detto che erano <\/span>buono<\/span><\/i> e di come fosse solo paranoica. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

And then he went off and didn\u2019t reply to her messages for hours and when he finally did, it was just a one-word message. Something was off, but he didn\u2019t care to fix it.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"giovane<\/p>\r\n

Perhaps he thought he\u2019d still have her, even when he stopped putting any effort into their relationship. But he was wrong. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Per tanto tempo ha cercato di infilarsi nei suoi programmi.<\/b> Per tanto tempo \u00e8 stata <\/span>piegarsi all'indietro che lui si accorgesse di lei. Sembrava che stesse morendo solo per avere un po' del suo tempo. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

S<\/span>he really tried. But she didn\u2019t manage to succeed. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Alla fine, quando ha visto che lui aveva smesso di fare di lei la sua priorit\u00e0, ha rinunciato a cercare di esserlo. <\/b>Ha rinunciato a chiamarlo, ha rinunciato a mandargli continuamente messaggi, ha rinunciato a cercare di farsi notare da lui. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

She gave up on making plans because she knew he\u2019d cancel them last minute anyway. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Now it\u2019s time for people to understand that <\/span>obiettivi di relazione<\/span><\/a> sono pi\u00f9 che mettere un hashtag sotto una foto carina su Instagram. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s making time for the person who loves you even when your schedule is crazy. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s responding as soon as you see a message because it\u2019s not like those thirty seconds will harm your work. It\u2019s constantly trying to keep the love burning and not just hoping things will work even when you don\u2019t try.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"donna<\/p>\r\n

Si rese conto che doveva smettere di sforzarsi cos\u00ec tanto per qualcuno che si era arreso molto tempo fa. <\/b><\/p>\r\n

She realized she should stop tearing her self-worth down for a man who didn\u2019t even notice her anymore.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

She realized that she should stop trying too. That way, in case she meant anything to him, he\u2019d notice her pulling away and reach back to her. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

E se la lasciava andare facilmente, significava che gli stava bene perderla. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

If he didn\u2019t reach out to her, if he didn\u2019t hear the wake-up call, it meant she had done right when she chose to stop trying. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Because regardless of how much it hurts, it\u2019s always better to break yourself once by leaving than to allow yourself to be broken every day by letting him take you for granted. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

When you have to fight to be someone\u2019s priority, then that\u2019s a sign that it\u2019s time to invest your efforts into a relationship with someone who you won\u2019t need to beg to make time for you but with someone who\u2019s going to give it to you willingly and on his own. <\/b><\/p>\r\n

Sometimes when others aren\u2019t willing to make you their priority it\u2019s your task to make yourself a priority and take care of yourself. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Dimenticate quello che dicono gli altri o quello che pensano che dovreste fare. Prendetevi sempre cura di voi stessi. <\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n

\"Ecco<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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