{"id":15195,"date":"2020-07-23T13:16:35","date_gmt":"2020-07-23T13:16:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15195"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:42:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:42:44","slug":"7-modi-per-ottenere-una-dolce-vendetta-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-modi-per-ottenere-una-dolce-vendetta-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"7 modi per ottenere una dolce vendetta sul vostro ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando ti feriscono, la prima cosa che succede \u00e8 che ti incazzi. Lo spezzeresti come un ramoscello se potessi.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t comprehend why things had to happen the way they did.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 ha dovuto spezzarti il cuore e calpestarlo, per poi lasciarlo sul ciglio della strada?<\/p>\n<p>Non avete idea di cosa vi abbia colpito e del perch\u00e9 vi sentiate cos\u00ec. In tutta questa rabbia non riuscite a capire che essere scaricati \u00e8 una cosa positiva.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t understand that he gave you another <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/sciencetech\/article-4757816\/Mathematicians-reveal-odds-finding-love.html\" rel=\"noopener\">possibilit\u00e0 di trovare il vero amore<\/a>che liberarsi di lui \u00e8 la cosa migliore che potesse capitarvi.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>So you ache for revenge\u2014oh that sweet, sweet revenge.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking about keying his car or stalking him because that is disturbing really.<\/p>\n<p>Revenge is good, but only when that revenge doesn\u2019t take you down to his level or mess with your head.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s say that I\u2019m talking about healthy revenge, the kind that makes you feel better by doing nothing harmful to him directly.<\/p>\n<p>Scoprite alcuni dei modi in cui potete pareggiare i conti con lui, ma prendendo la strada maestra, lasciando intatti il vostro orgoglio e il vostro ego:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Andare avanti con la propria vita<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105431\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-smiling-to-camera.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che sorride alla telecamera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-smiling-to-camera.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-smiling-to-camera-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-smiling-to-camera-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-smiling-to-camera-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-smiling-to-camera-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dovete dimenticarvi di lui e andare avanti con la vostra vita. Fai passi coraggiosi verso il tuo futuro e assicurati che lui lo sappia.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction to see that you\u2019re hurting because he left you. Don\u2019t give him a reason to think that he was the most important thing in your life, even if he was.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t deserve that because he left you, with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/tempo-di-smettere-di-cercare-la-chiusura-nei-posti-sbagliati\/\">nessuna chiusura<\/a>. Si \u00e8 comportato come un ragazzo e non come un uomo.<\/p>\n<p>La miglior vendetta che puoi ottenere \u00e8 assicurarti di andare avanti e che tu stia facendo bene e lui lo sappia!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il karma fa miracoli<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105432\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-man-looking-through-rainy-window.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste che guarda attraverso una finestra piovosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-man-looking-through-rainy-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-man-looking-through-rainy-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-man-looking-through-rainy-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-man-looking-through-rainy-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/sad-man-looking-through-rainy-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You practically don\u2019t have to do anything. Let go of the mind games and cunning plans because they won\u2019t do you any good.<\/p>\n<p>They will only make you feel satisfied for a moment, but when you cool off, you\u2019ll become bitter and sad once again.<\/p>\n<p>Let karma do her thing. If he deserves to be punished, he will be and you don\u2019t have to do anything about it.<\/p>\n<p>You know what they say: \u2018What goes around, comes back around\u2019. He will get his, just wait and see.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It\u2019s time for a rockin\u2019 figure<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105433\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-training-in-the-gym.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che si allena in palestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-training-in-the-gym.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-training-in-the-gym-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-training-in-the-gym-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-training-in-the-gym-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-training-in-the-gym-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Allenatevi! Fate esercizio ogni volta che ne avete il tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Not only is it good for your health, but it\u2019s the best way to blow off steam and induce that feeling of relaxation like nothing can touch you.<\/p>\n<p>On the plus side, you\u2019ll get your body into perfect shape and you won\u2019t have to do anything from then on.<\/p>\n<p>At the slightest glimpse of you and your stunning figure, he\u2019ll be sorry he ever left you, but by then, it\u2019ll be too late.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t say anything at all<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105434\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-with-closed-eyes-breathing-deeply.jpg\" alt=\"donna con gli occhi chiusi che respira profondamente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-with-closed-eyes-breathing-deeply.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-with-closed-eyes-breathing-deeply-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-with-closed-eyes-breathing-deeply-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-with-closed-eyes-breathing-deeply-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-with-closed-eyes-breathing-deeply-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know that you want to scream at him and that you\u2019re frustrated, but believe me, sometimes it\u2019s just best to say nothing and take the high road.<\/p>\n<p>Semplicemente, ignoratelo. Se vi ha tradito, probabilmente sta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/guida-definitiva-allindividuazione-del-narcisista-dopo-la-sua-morte\/\">un narcisista<\/a> e non c'\u00e8 niente che i narcisisti odino di pi\u00f9 dell'essere ignorati.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll hit the bullseye if you give him the silent treatment.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Invece di vendicarti, riporta in vita il tuo vecchio io<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105435\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-standing-in-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi nel campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-standing-in-the-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-standing-in-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-standing-in-the-field-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-standing-in-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Invece di vendicarvi, concentrate le vostre energie sulla guarigione e sul miglioramento.<\/p>\n<p>Because if you focus on him and ways to get revenge, you won\u2019t have enough energy left to get yourself back on your own two feet.<\/p>\n<p>Dimenticatevi di lui e concentratevi su voi stesse, sul miglioramento, sulla guarigione del vostro cuore spezzato e sul recupero della vostra autostima.<\/p>\n<p>It is in our nature to want to get even and not everyone can resist it, but believe me, it\u2019s so much more satisfying and better for you to put yourself before him and move on.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fate quello che volevate fare insieme<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105436\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-travelling-alone.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che viaggia da sola\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-travelling-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-travelling-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-travelling-alone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-travelling-alone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-woman-travelling-alone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your life doesn\u2019t have to stop once you are not together. Do the things that you were planning on doing with him, but do them all alone.<\/p>\n<p>Se volevate fare un viaggio ma vi siete lasciati, fatelo da soli.<\/p>\n<p>Credetemi, un po' di solitudine e un posto lontano dalle persone che vi conoscono \u00e8 qualcosa che vi far\u00e0 bene.<\/p>\n<p>You need to clear your mind and accept what has happened. You\u2019re not going to manage that by sobbing at home and planning vengeance on him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Scrivete cosa vi \u00e8 successo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105437\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-writing-in-notebook.jpg\" alt=\"donna che scrive su un quaderno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-writing-in-notebook.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-writing-in-notebook-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-writing-in-notebook-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-writing-in-notebook-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/woman-writing-in-notebook-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to be a writer to be able to write. Just take a piece of paper and get your emotions, your anger, frustration, and sadness out\u2026 write it all down.<\/p>\n<p>Let those emotions out and write them down. They don\u2019t have to be connected and your story doesn\u2019t have to make any sense. The only purpose of this is to let it all out.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll feel better, you\u2019ll see and who knows, maybe you will discover a long-hidden writing talent and you\u2019ll thank the idiot who hurt you, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-ways-dodge-emotional-manipulator\/\">manipolato<\/a> e ti ha lasciato solo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105439\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Ways-To-Get-Sweet-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 modi per ottenere una dolce vendetta sul vostro ex\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Ways-To-Get-Sweet-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Ways-To-Get-Sweet-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Ways-To-Get-Sweet-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Ways-To-Get-Sweet-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Ways-To-Get-Sweet-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you get hurt, the first thing that happens is you get pissed. You would break him like a twig if you could. You can\u2019t comprehend why things had to happen the way they did. Why did he have to break your heart and stomp on it, then leave it by the side of the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":105438,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15195","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/7-Ways-To-Get-Sweet-Revenge-On-Your-Ex.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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