{"id":15206,"date":"2020-08-23T14:09:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T14:09:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15206"},"modified":"2022-02-26T16:46:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T16:46:05","slug":"5-motivi-per-non-dare-unaltra-possibilita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-non-dare-unaltra-possibilita\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui non dovrebbe dargli un'altra possibilit\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando il vostro ex vi propone di provare a riallacciare il rapporto che avevate, se non lo avete ancora dimenticato del tutto, l'idea pu\u00f2 sembrare allettante.<\/p>\n<p>E sebbene pensi che tutti meritino un'altra possibilit\u00e0 e speri che questa volta le cose tra voi due siano diverse, ci sono anche alcune cose che ti fanno riflettere su questa decisione.<\/p>\n<p>If you are in a similar situation with your ex-boyfriend, here are 5 reasons why you shouldn\u2019t give him another chance and why you should leave the past where it belongs.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Nessuno di voi due \u00e8 cambiato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109587 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"una coppia seria e innamorata seduta sul divano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando decidiamo di dare un'altra possibilit\u00e0 a una relazione, ci aspettiamo e desideriamo che il nostro partner sia un uomo diverso, reinventato. Ma la dura realt\u00e0 \u00e8 che <a href=\"http:\/\/madamenoire.com\/478466\/never-going-to-change\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rimarr\u00e0 lo stesso<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He is the man he used to be, with all of his flaws, no matter what he may be trying to tell you. And the same goes for you\u2014neither of you has changed. You still have the same personality traits, including the negative ones. And both of you still have the same deal-breakers and things that bother you about each other.<\/p>\n<p>All'inizio pu\u00f2 sembrare che la rottura abbia dato una lezione a entrambi e che vi abbia reso persone migliori, ma prima o poi entrambi mostrerete la vostra vera natura.<\/p>\n<p>Certo, si possono cambiare alcune abitudini per il bene della relazione, ma essenzialmente ognuno di noi rimane la persona che \u00e8 veramente. Questa \u00e8 una delle prime cose che dovreste tenere a mente se pensate di dare una seconda possibilit\u00e0 al vostro ex partner.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi siete lasciati per un motivo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109588 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-black-woman-and-a-man-talking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"una donna nera seria e un uomo che parlano fuori\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-black-woman-and-a-man-talking-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-black-woman-and-a-man-talking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-black-woman-and-a-man-talking-outside-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-black-woman-and-a-man-talking-outside-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-black-woman-and-a-man-talking-outside-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-black-woman-and-a-man-talking-outside-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-black-woman-and-a-man-talking-outside-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-serious-black-woman-and-a-man-talking-outside-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando ci si lascia con qualcuno, dopo un po' si iniziano a dimenticare tutte le cose negative che ci sono state tra voi due e prevalgono i bei ricordi.<\/p>\n<p>Potreste sentire la mancanza del vostro ex fidanzato e questo disturba la vostra visione della relazione, impedendovi di essere realistici. Quindi, se pensate di dargli un'altra possibilit\u00e0, pensate alle cose che vi hanno portato alla rottura.<\/p>\n<p>You two didn\u2019t break up without a valid reason and that reason still exists. It is one thing if it wasn\u2019t the right timing for a real relationship for one of you, and you want to see how things would work out time-wise now but, if you had trust or jealousy issues or your ex was emotionally unavailable and unready for a committed relationship, those issues won\u2019t magically fade away just because you two miss each other.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hai paura<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109590 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"una ragazza triste si siede sul letto e pensa\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-girl-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se avete avuto una relazione a lungo termine con qualcuno, \u00e8 naturale che sentiate come se una parte di voi mancasse da quando vi siete lasciati.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se probabilmente sapete che quest'uomo non \u00e8 adatto a voi, \u00e8 un volto familiare e pensate che preferireste stare con lui piuttosto che cercare qualcun altro.<\/p>\n<p>You are scared you won\u2019t be able to function properly on your own or you are afraid of putting yourself back on the dating market.<\/p>\n<p>If any of these are a reason why you want to give your ex another chance, it\u2019s wrong. It is natural for you to feel this way in the beginning because you are used to having him around and you cannot picture yourself alone, let alone with someone new. These emotions are normal and they will go away\u2014you just need some time to adapt.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gli state dando una seconda possibilit\u00e0 di farvi del male...<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109591 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-in-front-of-the-bed-where-the-man-is-lying.jpg\" alt=\"una bruna triste \u00e8 seduta di fronte al letto dove giace l&#039;uomo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-in-front-of-the-bed-where-the-man-is-lying.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-in-front-of-the-bed-where-the-man-is-lying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-in-front-of-the-bed-where-the-man-is-lying-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-in-front-of-the-bed-where-the-man-is-lying-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-in-front-of-the-bed-where-the-man-is-lying-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-in-front-of-the-bed-where-the-man-is-lying-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-in-front-of-the-bed-where-the-man-is-lying-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-sad-brunette-is-sitting-in-front-of-the-bed-where-the-man-is-lying-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro ex ragazzo vi ha ferito l'ultima volta che siete stati insieme, dandogli una seconda possibilit\u00e0 di avere una relazione con voi, gli date anche la possibilit\u00e0 di ferirvi di nuovo.<\/p>\n<p>Dandogli un posto nella vostra vita, implicate che le sue azioni erano accettabili e che pu\u00f2 continuare a comportarsi nello stesso modo perch\u00e9 voi sarete sempre l\u00ec per lui. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/every-time-think-going-back-read\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">riportarlo indietro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro ex fidanzato si \u00e8 comportato in modo manipolativo o se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-modi-in-cui-il-trasloco-ha-tradito\/\">ti ha tradito<\/a> o ha abusato di voi in qualche modo, tornando insieme a lui gli state inviando il messaggio che siete pi\u00f9 che d'accordo con i suoi modelli di comportamento e che vi state rendendo consapevolmente una vittima.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It&#8217;s time to move on<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109592 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-smiling-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-sofa-in-the-apartment.jpg\" alt=\"una bruna sorridente \u00e8 seduta sul divano dell&#039;appartamento\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-smiling-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-sofa-in-the-apartment.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-smiling-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-sofa-in-the-apartment-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-smiling-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-sofa-in-the-apartment-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-smiling-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-sofa-in-the-apartment-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-smiling-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-sofa-in-the-apartment-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-smiling-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-sofa-in-the-apartment-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-smiling-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-sofa-in-the-apartment-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/a-smiling-brunette-is-sitting-on-the-sofa-in-the-apartment-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando siete in dubbio se dare un'altra possibilit\u00e0 al vostro ex ragazzo, chiedetevi se volete davvero tornare al passato o se \u00e8 il caso di concentrarsi sul presente e guardare al futuro.<\/p>\n<p>When a relationship didn\u2019t work out the first time, it is quite unlikely for it to have a different outcome this time. You know you did everything you could to save the relationship, so what is the point of giving it another shot, when it is probable that things will end the same way So, I say it\u2019s about time for you to let go of the past and to finally move on with your life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-109593 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Shouldnt-Give-Him-Another-Chance-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui non dovrebbe dargli un&#039;altra possibilit\u00e0\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Shouldnt-Give-Him-Another-Chance-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Shouldnt-Give-Him-Another-Chance-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Shouldnt-Give-Him-Another-Chance-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Shouldnt-Give-Him-Another-Chance-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/5-Reasons-Why-You-Shouldnt-Give-Him-Another-Chance-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When your ex comes up with the suggestion to try and revive the relationship the two of you had, if you are still not completely over him, that idea may sound tempting. And although you think that everyone deserves another chance and you hope everything between you two will be different this time, there are&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15206","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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