{"id":152166,"date":"2022-06-03T10:18:02","date_gmt":"2022-06-03T10:18:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=152166"},"modified":"2022-06-08T08:58:29","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T08:58:29","slug":"segni-di-una-frequentazione-non-ufficiale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-di-una-frequentazione-non-ufficiale\/","title":{"rendered":"Segni di un appuntamento non ufficiale: Andare avanti o non uscire?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Defining your relationship with someone you\u2019ve been seeing can be something you both dread and wish for. What if you\u2019re not on the same page?<\/strong> E se l'altra persona volesse qualcos'altro e quello che avete ora potrebbe andare perduto?<\/p>\n

A lot of signs you are unofficially dating can tell you that you\u2019re beyond hanging out and moving into a new phase of your relationship. When you\u2019re involved in what relationship experts call a situationship, there are a few ways it can go.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A seconda dei sentimenti e delle intenzioni, e se entrambi volete la stessa cosa, it might be time to either define your relationship or make space for a real one if this isn\u2019t it for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Here\u2019s how to find out where you stand and what to do about it.<\/p>\n

Segni di un appuntamento non ufficiale<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Ci sono molti segnali che indicano che vi state frequentando in modo non ufficiale<\/a>e possono dirvi molto sul tipo di rapporto che si pu\u00f2 sviluppare.<\/p>\n

A casual relationship or a situationship may seem like a gray area, but it\u2019s important to note that it doesn\u2019t have to be a bad thing. You don\u2019t always need to have the talk \u2013 you can just enjoy having fun together.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ci sono alcuni segnali che vi indicheranno che la vostra relazione ha sconfinato nel territorio del romanticismo,<\/strong> mentre altri avvertono you that you\u2019re on the threshold of a toxic relationship.<\/strong> There are ways to tell \u2013 you just have to take the leap.<\/p>\n

Pi\u00f9 di un incontro, meno di una coppia.<\/h3>\n

A lot of time, unofficial dating never turns into a serious relationship. This is completely fine if you\u2019re okay with it. Usually, le cose si complicano se cambia l'equilibrio delle emozioni,<\/strong> e mentre una persona \u00e8 felice cos\u00ec com'\u00e8, l'altra sviluppa dei sentimenti e vuole andare avanti.<\/p>\n

Here are some signs that, at the moment, you\u2019re happy being in a dating relationship. It\u2019s casual but not unimportant.<\/strong> Right now, you\u2019re just having fun, and while things might change in the future, at the moment, you\u2019re happy the way it is.<\/p>\n

1. Vi vedete regolarmente.<\/h3>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Even though you probably don’t call it going on dates, you see each other on a regular basis. Sometimes you go out, sometimes you stay in, but you see each other more often than not. Both of you take it as a given that you’ll see each other even when you don’t talk about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Vi mandate messaggi in continuazione.<\/h3>\n

Even when you’re not together, you stay in touch. It’s not only that vi mandate messaggi ogni giorno<\/a> \u2013 it’s that your texting never really stops. You don’t even hesitate to text them when you think of something they would like. There’s always something to talk about.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re sexually compatible, but it\u2019s not just about that.<\/h3>\n

You\u2019ve had chemistry from the start, and this may be what drew you together. Still, there\u2019s something between you that’s more than just amici con benefici.<\/a><\/strong> You hang out without having sex, and things don\u2019t revolve around it. And yet, you\u2019re not quite together either.<\/p>\n

4. Si diventa gelosi.<\/h3>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

You’re not a couple, but you don’t like it when there are hints that other people may be in the picture. Any mention of exes is irritating. This could be a sign that you want to change your relationship, or you’re just the kind of person who gets jealous easily.<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re not seeing other people.<\/h3>\n

In qualche modo avete finito per essere esclusivi<\/a> anche se non ne avete mai parlato. You’re not dating anyone else, there are no flings, and you’ve forgotten you even had dating apps installed.<\/strong> It probably isn\u2019t even on purpose \u2013 it\u2019s just that it never occurs to you at all to look elsewhere.<\/p>\n

6. Avete battute interne.<\/h3>\n

Lots of your jokes are of the \u2018you had to be there\u2019 kind because when you spend as much time with someone as you do, you have lots of experiences and make memories that don\u2019t include other people.<\/strong> Probabilmente avete anche dei soprannomi che usate l'uno con l'altro.<\/p>\n

7. Potete parlare tra di voi.<\/h3>\n

You\u2019re able to talk to each other about more than just what you\u2019ve been up to and what you\u2019re into. You\u2019ve shared things with each other that you don\u2019t talk about easily, and you were there to listen when they shared theirs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

8. You’re comfortable with each other.<\/h3>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

It might take a while for people to become comfortable around each other, but you\u2019re already there. Vi sentite abbastanza rilassati l'uno con l'altro da poter essere chi siete.<\/strong>. You might not have reached the point of intimacy yet, but you don\u2019t feel like you have to hold back around them.\u017e<\/p>\n

9. Ci sono dei sentimenti.<\/h3>\n

Maybe it\u2019s not love, but there\u2019s probably some level of caring for each other that you feel. If someone asked you how you felt, defining it might be hard. You like them, that\u2019s for sure, but you don\u2019t really know what you want to do with those feelings at the moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n

10. Si evita di etichettare le cose<\/a>.<\/h3>\n

What are you? You don\u2019t know, and you might or might not care. At this point, things might work for the both of you as they are, but it\u2019s unlikely that your relationship will stay the way it is. O si spegner\u00e0 o diventer\u00e0 una cosa seria<\/strong>. Only the two of you can decide which way it\u2019s going.<\/p>\n

Dovreste renderlo ufficiale?<\/h3>\n

\"Giovane<\/p>\n

A volte una relazione occasionale \u00e8 gi\u00e0 una relazione romantica. Se sentite di averne bisogno, questo potrebbe essere il momento per definire la relazione e definirsi ufficialmente una coppia<\/strong>. Farlo potrebbe darvi una spinta per avvicinarvi ancora di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Here are the signs that you\u2019re already unofficially official:<\/p>\n

1. Entrambi volete stare insieme.<\/h4>\n

This is really the most important thing when you think about relationships \u2013 pu\u00f2 avere successo solo se entrambe le persone lo vogliono.<\/strong> Only then will you put in the work and give it your all. If you\u2019re both on the same page, then making it official is just a formality.<\/p>\n

2. Volete che l'altro faccia parte della vostra vita.<\/h4>\n

Because you want to be part of each other\u2019s lives, fate spazio e tempo l'uno per l'altro<\/a><\/strong>. It goes from small things, like keeping toothbrushes in each other\u2019s bathrooms, to more significant ones, like a standing invitation to each other\u2019s family gatherings.<\/p>\n

3. Sembra gi\u00e0 ufficiale.<\/h4>\n

The only difference between a \u2018real relationship\u2019 and what you have is that you\u2019ve never really sat down and talked about it. La ragione pi\u00f9 probabile \u00e8 che non ne abbiate mai visto la necessit\u00e0 e abbiate seguito la corrente.<\/strong> Se i vostri sentimenti cambiano, potrebbe essere il momento di parlare.<\/p>\n

4. People sort of assume you\u2019re together.<\/h4>\n

Un buon segno che you\u2019re giving off couple vibes<\/a> is if people already think you are one. It doesn\u2019t even have to mean that you\u2019re doing couple-y things where others can see, just that something about the two of you tells others that you\u2019re together.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019ve talked about the future.<\/h4>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

While you\u2019ve never talked about having an official relationship, you\u2019ve already talked about doing things together in the future. Including each other in your future plans \u2013 such as having made vacation plans for the summer together or even more long-term plans \u2013 means that vi vedete gi\u00e0 come partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Being vulnerable with each other isn’t scary.<\/h4>\n

Sharing your softer sides with each other doesn\u2019t make you feel like you\u2019re at risk of getting hurt. Instead, avete fiducia che l'altra persona vi accetti e vi faccia sentire amati e compresi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

7. Stare insieme \u00e8 una priorit\u00e0<\/a>.<\/h4>\n

You always have time for each other. When you don\u2019t, you make time. Trascorrere del tempo insieme \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 importante per entrambi.<\/strong>e preferite sacrificare altre cose piuttosto che trascurare di vedervi.<\/p>\n

8. You care about each other’s opinions.<\/h4>\n

Quando c'\u00e8 qualcosa che sta accadendo nella vostra vita, volete condividerlo con l'altra persona e scoprire cosa ne pensa. Quando dovete prendere una decisione importante, volete sentire il suo parere. Taking into account each other\u2019s opinions and thoughts is one of the signs that you see each other as partners.<\/strong><\/p>\n

9. Vi affidate l'uno all'altro.<\/h4>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the first person they come to when something good, bad, funny, or important happens and vice versa. Quando si ha bisogno di qualcosa, \u00e8 a loro che ci si affida per ottenerla.<\/strong> Sapete di potervi rivolgere l'uno all'altro per qualsiasi cosa senza essere giudicati.<\/p>\n

10. You know each other\u2019s friends and families.<\/h4>\n

You have not only met each other\u2019s family and friends, but you\u2019re also close to some of them by now. Non tenervi lontani dai vostri cari \u00e8 un altro passo per includervi l'un l'altro nella vostra vita.<\/strong> They all probably assume you\u2019re official.<\/p>\n

11. Andate avanti appuntamenti romantici<\/a>.<\/h4>\n

You don’t just hang out; you go on actual dates that have been carefully planned. You’re happiest when you’re together, and you want that time to be as special as possible.<\/strong> You have a good time when you’re together casually, but you also make an effort to spend romantic time together.<\/p>\n

12. Vi vedete come un'unit\u00e0.<\/h4>\n

Trascorrere molto tempo insieme e legare strettamente vi fa iniziare a vedervi come un'unit\u00e0. Both of you use \u201cwe\u201d to talk about what you\u2019ve been doing because you\u2019re always doing things together.<\/strong> Ma anche la sensazione di essere insieme \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che lo rende speciale.<\/p>\n

13. You’re not interested in anyone else.<\/h4>\n

Even though you\u2019re not officially in a committed relationship, in your hearts, you are. Nessuno dei due ha interesse a frequentare altre persone e il solo pensiero vi mette a disagio.<\/strong> Other people don\u2019t really exist for you, and you don\u2019t mind at all.<\/p>\n

14. You’re always talking about them to other people.<\/h4>\n

Whatever you\u2019re talking about, you can always find a way to turn the topic of conversation to them. Your friends and family members think it\u2019s cute and just a little bit annoying.<\/strong> But you can\u2019t help yourself \u2013 they\u2019re such an important part of your life that you can\u2019t think of anything that doesn\u2019t involve them.<\/p>\n

15. Si sente un connessione emotiva<\/a> durante il sesso.<\/h4>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When you have sex, it feels intimate and significant. You\u2019re comfortable and uninhibited with each other, and you\u2019re able to communicate freely. La vostra vita sessuale \u00e8 divertente e sana, ma c'\u00e8 qualcosa che va oltre il semplice trascorrere del tempo piacevole insieme.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando andare avanti<\/h3>\n

People get into relationships out of convenience or boredom and spend time with someone they don\u2019t really like enough to see themselves having a serious relationship with. Stare insieme pu\u00f2 avvicinarvi, ma pu\u00f2 anche rendervi antipatici.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s an acquaintance you start having sex with and hanging out with, so it\u2019s not even a clear FWB situation but something not here nor there.<\/p>\n

Things can change, though, and you\u2019re in for heartbreak if one person starts developing feelings for the other.<\/strong> Then it\u2019s nothing but bad news because the other person might still not really care.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s how to tell that it\u2019s better to get out before someone gets hurt:<\/p>\n

1. You don’t make plans.<\/h4>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

When your relationship is one of convenience, you don\u2019t really try. You\u2019ll meet up only if the mood strikes and you have nothing better to do.<\/strong> If you\u2019ve made plans and something more interesting came up, it would be annoying, so you usually see each other on a whim.<\/p>\n

2. You don\u2019t talk about the future.<\/h4>\n

Soprattutto i piani futuri non vengono mai fuori<\/a>. You don\u2019t think about them in that sense at all \u2013 picturing yourself with them down the road makes you feel bad because that would mean no one better came along. Preferite mantenere aperti i vostri progetti futuri.<\/strong><\/p>\n

3. You don’t go on romantic dates.<\/h4>\n

Non avete alcun interesse ad essere romantici l'uno con l'altro. Hanging out is fine, even when it\u2019s just the two of you, but doing lovey-dovey stuff with them makes you break out in hives<\/strong>. You\u2019d rather not share romantic dinners or cuddle with this person if you have a choice.<\/p>\n

4. If someone else came along, you’d stop seeing them easily.<\/h4>\n

Un'altra persona potrebbe facilmente portarvi via uno dei due. If someone you liked better came along, you\u2019d have no problem never seeing them again.<\/strong> It\u2019s not that you\u2019re sitting around and waiting for a better option, but if one came along, it would be easy to leave your current situation.<\/p>\n

5. You don’t really mention them to others.<\/h4>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

Forse vi sentite come se gli altri vi giudicassero se sapessero che state uscendo con loro. Forse non \u00e8 cos\u00ec, ma you don\u2019t want to risk it because you yourself don\u2019t like the fact that you\u2019re together, so you don\u2019t even want to be reminded of it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. You’re not crazy about being seen with them in public.<\/h4>\n

Maybe you\u2019re a little ashamed of your current relationship, or maybe you simply don\u2019t want to make any effort when it comes to them, but you don\u2019t want other people to see you together. If someone you know spotted you together, it would lead to questions and explanations, and you really don\u2019t want that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

7. Uscite in luoghi appartati.<\/h4>\n

Beyond just not being seen together, you\u2019re not too keen on going to places where there are a lot of people because you\u2019d feel uncomfortable about your behavior. You don\u2019t really like yourself when you\u2019re together, and you\u2019d rather keep it to yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

8. There’s no evidence of you being together.<\/h4>\n

You don\u2019t take pictures together, you don\u2019t share anything involving each other on social media, and you don\u2019t keep anything to remind you of them<\/strong>. At the moment, you\u2019re not eager to share your status, and you know that when you split up, you won\u2019t want to be reminded of this relationship.<\/p>\n

9. You’re only ‘together’ because it\u2019s convenient.<\/h4>\n

The main reason there\u2019s anything between you is because it\u2019s convenient. You\u2019re having fun hanging out and hooking up, but that\u2019s all there is.<\/strong> Pi\u00f9 si resta con loro, per\u00f2, pi\u00f9 ci si tiene lontani da una relazione con un futuro.<\/p>\n

10. Nessuno dei due vuole qualcosa di serio<\/a> l'uno con l'altro.<\/h4>\n

If neither of you really wants to be together, it\u2019s a clear sign that your relationship should probably end. It\u2019s not that you dislike each other, and it\u2019s not just a physical relationship, but something about them simply makes you not want to actually be together.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Come definire la vostra relazione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

The first thing before you decide to go into defining your relationship is to make sure that it really bothers you that there\u2019s no label. Don\u2019t feel pressured to define it if you\u2019re happy with it the way it is.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Quando si apre l'argomento, it\u2019s very important that you\u2019re able to express what you feel to the other person without worrying about what will happen to your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You might both agree that you\u2019re fine with things as they are or that one of you needs more time before talking about the status of your relationship. A healthy relationship is based on open communication, and you have to be able to tell each other your concerns for a long-term relationship to be possible.<\/p>\n

1. Assicuratevi di essere davvero interessati.<\/h3>\n

Per prima cosa dovreste iniziare a pensare ai vostri sentimenti. Sei interessato a questa persona<\/a>o a questo punto la vostra relazione \u00e8 un'abitudine?<\/strong> Che cosa prova per loro e si vede con loro in futuro?<\/p>\n

2. Pensate alla vostra relazione.<\/h3>\n

What\u2019s your relationship like? We talked about different versions of an unofficial relationship \u2013 which one does yours resemble? Ti piace come ti fa sentire?<\/strong> Vi piace passare del tempo insieme? Volete che le cose cambino o rimangano uguali?<\/p>\n

3. Scoprire cosa vuole l'altra persona.<\/h3>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Anche prima di iniziare la conversazione, you can tell how the other person feels from their behavior, but you shouldn\u2019t jump to conclusions.<\/strong> It\u2019s good to wait until you have an inkling that they might be on the same page, but you\u2019ll never know for sure until you actually talk to them.<\/p>\n

4. Siate onesti.<\/h3>\n

Don\u2019t try to downplay your feelings in fear that they\u2019re not reciprocated or that you\u2019ll get hurt. Siate aperti e fate sapere all'altra persona se avete bisogno di cambiare il vostro stato di relazione.<\/strong> Maybe they\u2019ve been waiting for you to make the first move this whole time. Maybe they\u2019re not ready.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve done the earlier steps and carefully examined your feelings, your relationship, and thought about what how they act tells you about their feelings, there\u2019s a chance that you\u2019re at the point where the both of you want the same thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. Farlo con disinvoltura.<\/h3>\n

Don\u2019t try to force anything, though. Make sure you\u2019re not coming on too strong<\/a> and demanding things if the other person isn\u2019t ready.<\/strong> If it\u2019s too soon, and you still need to spend more time together to be sure, give the both of you time and revisit the conversation later.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a chance that both of you will decide that it\u2019s time to end things. It might be for the best if it just wasn\u2019t working, but you shouldn\u2019t grieve for something that wasn\u2019t right for either of you<\/strong>. Instead, look forward to the first date with someone new you\u2019re about to meet.<\/p>\n

Se avete capito che entrambi volete una relazione romantica ufficiale, congratulazioni! Take things easy at this point, and treat it as a new relationship even though you\u2019ve been together for some time.<\/strong> The reason for this is that things have changed, even though it seems they haven\u2019t that much, and it might take some time to get used to it.<\/p>\n

Farlo funzionare<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve moved past hanging out and you\u2019re actually spending significant time together, you might recognize yourself in some of these signs you are unofficially dating.<\/p>\n

Some of them mean that a casual relationship is fine at the moment. Some tell you to have the talk and make your romance official, while it\u2019s also possible that you shouldn\u2019t really continue this relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Any relationship coach will tell you that it\u2019s the feelings of both people involved that make all the difference, and this applies in this case as well. When the willingness to invest yourself in the relationship is on the same level, you\u2019re able to make things work.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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