{"id":15227,"date":"2020-10-23T14:24:29","date_gmt":"2020-10-23T14:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15227"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:07:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:07:46","slug":"verita-che-ha-finalmente-finito-di-mancare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/verita-che-ha-finalmente-finito-di-mancare\/","title":{"rendered":"La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che finalmente ha smesso di sentire la tua mancanza"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pensava che non avrebbe mai vinto questa battaglia. Era estenuante e dur\u00f2 per sempre.<\/p>\n

You know, some happy moments pass in a heartbeat but when you\u2019re hurting it seems like it\u2019s taking an eternity.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how she felt. Her minutes became hours of unbearable pain. Her heart felt like it had been stabbed with an ice pick and frozen forever.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Pensava che non avrebbe mai pi\u00f9 provato amore. Pensava che la nuvola scura sopra la sua testa non se ne sarebbe mai andata.<\/p>\n

Pensava di essere bloccata in un solco dal quale non c'era via d'uscita.<\/p>\n

Il suo viaggio \u00e8 stato lungo e doloroso, ma alla fine ce l'ha fatta. E ce l'ha fatta anche quando alla fine si \u00e8 arresa.<\/p>\n

Ha rinunciato a cercare di tornare indietro nel tempo.<\/i><\/b> Si \u00e8 resa conto che il passato dovrebbe rimanere al suo posto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ha deciso di abbandonare i suoi demoni e di andare avanti con la sua vita. Ha deciso che tu non significavi nulla per lei. Non pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Ha rinunciato ad odiarti<\/i><\/b>.<\/b> She knows it\u2019s your fault for putting her through the hell she lived in. She realized it was your fault she lost her beautiful self in a toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

She realized you manipulated her because you didn\u2019t know any better. And in the beginning, she hated you for that.<\/p>\n

Ha odiato ogni singola fibra del tuo essere. Ma quando finalmente ti ha lasciato andare, si \u00e8 liberata da te.<\/p>\n

Ha rinunciato a provare risentimento per se stessa.<\/i><\/b> Anche se your story didn\u2019t have a happy ending<\/a>, it doesn\u2019t mean that it was unhappy from the start.<\/p>\n

No, ha trascorso molti momenti piacevoli con te e purtroppo se li \u00e8 tenuti stretti quando vi siete lasciati. Quindi, le sei mancato. Ti voleva indietro perch\u00e9 pensava che tu potessi cambiare, che potessi tornare a essere la stessa persona che eri quando ti ha conosciuto.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Ma nel profondo sapeva che non sarebbe successo, cos\u00ec si \u00e8 risentita a lungo per aver voluto stare con te nonostante sapesse che era un male per lei.<\/p>\n

Alla fine si \u00e8 svegliata dal suo sogno e ha smesso di odiarsi e di sentire la tua mancanza. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But it wasn\u2019t easy all the time. Heartbreaks are like that. You think that you\u2019ll be okay in a day or two.<\/p>\n

You think you can conquer it all. More importantly, you decide that you will get over it and you convince yourself that you\u2019re fine, but you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going to be fine for a long time.<\/p>\n

It all starts with anger after he leaves you. Then you move on to the \u2018fuck you\u2019 phase.<\/p>\n

Ma questa fase non \u00e8 coerente. Un momento you don\u2019t care<\/a> e lui \u00e8 l'ultimo dei tuoi pensieri, ma un attimo dopo ti ritrovi a guardare le foto di voi due, a piangere a dirotto, con le lacrime pesanti come l'acciaio che ti scorrono sulle guance.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about surviving. It\u2019s about keeping yourself sane. It\u2019s about healing and forgetting because in the end, you heal, you forgive and you move on with your life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that when your heart gets broken, you feel like it\u2019s going to stay like that forever. You feel like your life isn\u2019t worth living.<\/p>\n

But then when it all passes, things don\u2019t seem as blue as they did back then.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Vedete, questa ragazza ha capito di dover dare un'altra possibilit\u00e0 alla sua vita. Ha capito che il tempo guarisce ogni ferita.<\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 resa conto che un giorno tutto sar\u00e0 scomparso. She won\u2019t miss him<\/a> and she won\u2019t hate him.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what happened. She was smart enough to give herself a chance to heal. She was smart enough to let time work in her benefit.<\/p>\n

She realized that she can\u2019t run away from pain. The sooner she feels it, the sooner it will pass.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You have to feel pain and you have to learn the lesson, otherwise you\u2019ll be stuck in time, a very painful time. You\u2019ll be stuck inside your four walls, choking on your own tears and it will feel like an eternity.<\/p>\n

Dovete soffrire e il vostro cuore deve sanguinare mentre le ferite sono ancora fresche. Pensateci.<\/p>\n

Quando ci si taglia, si sanguina e fa male. Ma con il passare del tempo, fa meno male e la ferita guarisce.<\/a> It has to. It\u2019s a law of nature.<\/p>\n

And although all of this may sound a bit cheesy, it\u2019s true. After some time, you don\u2019t look at the photos of the two of you together, and your tears don\u2019t feel heavy as steel.<\/p>\n

The thought of him doesn\u2019t make you sick anymore. It\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

Si smette di sentire la sua mancanza.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>\n

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