{"id":152418,"date":"2022-06-08T16:03:03","date_gmt":"2022-06-08T16:03:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=152418"},"modified":"2022-07-21T13:01:06","modified_gmt":"2022-07-21T13:01:06","slug":"15-segni-che-il-vostro-matrimonio-finira-con-un-divorzio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-segni-che-il-vostro-matrimonio-finira-con-un-divorzio\/","title":{"rendered":"15 segni che il vostro matrimonio finir\u00e0 con un divorzio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>According to statistics, the divorce rate among couples is skyrocketing. I mean, just look around you \u2013 <strong>Tutte le persone che conoscete hanno gi\u00e0 divorziato o hanno intenzione di rivolgersi a un avvocato divorzista prima o poi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ma quali sono i predittori pi\u00f9 comuni di divorzio? E soprattutto, <strong>In che modo il vostro matrimonio \u00e8 diverso?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Well, I hate to be the one to tell you, but if you can relate to most of these 15 signs your marriage will end in divorce, it\u2019s not.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>15 segni che il vostro matrimonio finir\u00e0 con un divorzio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152489\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distanced-divorced-couple-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Considerate questo come una sorta di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lista-di-controllo-per-il-divorzio\/\">\u201cshould I get a divorce?\u201d quiz<\/a>. Se la maggior parte di queste caselle \u00e8 selezionata, il vostro matrimonio \u00e8 destinato a fallire, che vi piaccia o no:<\/p>\n<h3>1. L'amore non pu\u00f2 vivere dove non c'\u00e8 fiducia<\/h3>\n<p>The first warning sign you\u2019re heading to divorce is a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-ragazza-con-problemi-di-fiducia-vi-prega-di-non-fare-queste-12-cose\/\">mancanza di fiducia<\/a> between you and your spouse. Come on, you can\u2019t have a healthy relationship with a friend or coworker if you don\u2019t trust each other \u2013 let alone the person you share a life with.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto di non fidarsi l'uno dell'altro ha due aspetti.<\/p>\n<p>Il primo \u00e8 non avere fiducia in loro.<strong> You can\u2019t rely on them when you need their help.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know if they\u2019ll be there to pick up the pieces and if they won\u2019t back out on you when you\u2019re going through a rough patch.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Basically, you\u2019ve both forgotten about those \u201cthrough thick and thin\u201d vows.<\/strong> Illness, mental health issues, substance abuse problems, poverty, family drama? They\u2019re not who you can rely on in any of these situations.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, you don\u2019t trust that they\u2019re telling the truth. You doubt every single word that comes out of their mouth. You question everything they say or do, and you have to double-check their every move.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, let\u2019s not forget that you don\u2019t trust each other&#8217;s judgment-making skills. Your partner is not the one whose advice you\u2019ll ask for simply because you don\u2019t think they are able to make a good choice.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Violenza domestica<\/h3>\n<p>Uno dei 15 segnali che indicano che il vostro matrimonio finir\u00e0 con un divorzio \u00e8, senza dubbio, il seguente, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomo-7-cose-maltrattamento-domestico\/\">violenza domestica<\/a>. Ma tenete presente che ci sono molte altre <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-tipi-di-violenza-domestica-e-modi-per-combatterla\/\">tipi di abuso<\/a> non solo fisico.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You may think that you two are good to go because you don\u2019t hit each other. However, if there is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/conseguenze-dellabuso-emotivo\/\">abuso emotivo<\/a> coinvolti, anche questo \u00e8 un fattore predittivo di divorzio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ec, questo include anche l'abuso verbale. Se voi e il vostro partner continuate a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-coniuge-dice-cose-offensive\/\">dire cose offensive<\/a> e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/marito-2\/\">essere cattivi<\/a> to each other, it\u2019s a clear sign to start searching for the best divorce lawyer.<\/p>\n<p>And let\u2019s not forget about sexual abuse either. Yes, that happens in marriages as well.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you\u2019re married to someone doesn\u2019t mean they have the right to force you to sleep with them or do anything you don\u2019t want to do in bed. Your body is yours, and your significant other must respect your boundaries.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Mancanza di rispetto<\/h3>\n<p>Il rispetto reciproco \u00e8 uno dei fondamenti di un matrimonio sano. Dovete<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-rispettare-il-proprio-marito\/\"> rispetta tuo marito<\/a> e moglie, e loro dovrebbero fare lo stesso con voi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ma non c'\u00e8 traccia di rispetto quando si tratta del vostro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/17-segni-di-un-matrimonio-infelice-e-come-risolverlo\/\">matrimonio infelice<\/a>Non c'\u00e8? Ebbene, questo \u00e8 uno dei segni del divorzio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cosa significa mancanza di rispetto? Beh, se avete un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segnali-da-non-ignorare\/\">marito irrispettoso<\/a> or wife, they\u2019ll never take your needs into consideration. This goes hand in hand with a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/marito-egoista-un-uomo-assorbito-da-se-stesso\/\">marito egoista<\/a> o moglie.<\/p>\n<p>Your spouse will never treat you as their equal. On the contrary, they\u2019ll always act as the <a href=\"http:\/\/vhttps\/\/herway.net\/dominant-husband-10-ways-to-be-the-alpha-in-your-marriage\">dominante.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In base a ci\u00f2, dovreste seguire il loro esempio ed essere il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/diventare-una-moglie-sottomessa\/\">sottomesso<\/a>, no questions asked. Nevertheless, please, don\u2019t confuse this with bedroom dynamics.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about the fact that your SO makes all the decisions without ever including you. They don\u2019t respect your opinions and attitudes.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t listen to what you have to say, and most of the time, they treat you like a little kid.<\/p>\n<p>As if that wasn\u2019t enough, they also use every chance they get to insult and humiliate you \u2013 especially in front of others.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Diversi piani futuri<\/h3>\n<p>Your presence might be near perfection, but the sad reality is that it\u2019s time for a divorce attorney if you don\u2019t have the same future plans.<\/p>\n<p>No, I\u2019m not talking about the fact that you want to go to New York and they want to visit the Caribbean this summer, so you can\u2019t reach a compromise.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s picture it this way: you want to move to a bigger city, but your spouse\u2019s lifelong dream is to live in the countryside. You want to chase your career while your SO wants you to be a stay-at-home parent.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And don\u2019t get me started about children. In fact, this is probably the biggest deal-breaker.<\/strong> This is something you two should have discussed before tying the knot, but if you haven\u2019t, and it turns out that you have different worldviews, you\u2019ve got yourself a problem.<\/p>\n<p>There is no compromise here. It\u2019s not like one person will agree to have kids against their will, or the other sentences themselves to a childless life, despite wanting children. In that case, both spouses, including the children, will end up miserable.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why divorce is the only solution to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-matrimonio-e-finito\/\">smettere di lavorare.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>5. Visioni del mondo incompatibili<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152490\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/distant-couple-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If two married people don\u2019t share important world views and have different opinions on significant matters that impact both of them and their lives together, that is a recipe for an unhappy marriage right there.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m not saying that you and your spouse must have the same taste in music to make your marriage work. Despite being a team, you two are still two individuals, and it\u2019s normal that you won\u2019t agree on everything, nor should you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, let\u2019s say that one person is strictly religious and the other wants nothing to do with spirituality and wants to enjoy their earthly life without any limitations?<\/p>\n<p>E se uno vuole vivere con la famiglia allargata mentre l'altro si stufa di loro mentre \u00e8 in vacanza, per non parlare di altro?<\/p>\n<p>The examples are endless, but I\u2019m sure you see where I\u2019m going. At the end of the day, two married people should at least have similar worldviews and shared moral values for their marriage to work.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Mancanza di intimit\u00e0 fisica<\/h3>\n<p>Look, I\u2019m not saying that good sex is what a successful marriage is all about. However, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehivelaw.com\/blog\/divorce-statistics-us-divorce-rate-in-america\/\" rel=\"noopener\">tasso di divorzio<\/a> among married couples who don\u2019t sleep together is immensely high. After all, your bedroom activities are what differentiates you from two roommates or best friends who just live together.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s one thing if this is just a phase. Nevertheless,<strong> se il vostro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-matrimonio-senza-sesso-mi-sta-uccidendo\/\">il matrimonio diventa senza sesso<\/a>, it\u2019s definitely time for a marriage counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ma <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/effetti-della-mancanza-di-intimita-fisica-in-un-rapporto-di-coppia\/\">mancanza di intimit\u00e0 fisica<\/a> doesn\u2019t only mean that you two aren\u2019t having sex. It also includes a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mancanza-di-affetto\/\">mancanza di affetto<\/a>, such as not sleeping together (in a literate sense of the word), no kissing, no cuddling, no holding hands, no hugging&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>There is, without a doubt, something hidden behind these behavior patterns, and if you don\u2019t work on it in time, it will definitely become one of the 15 signs your marriage will end in divorce.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Couples therapy doesn\u2019t work<\/h3>\n<p>When they go through a crisis they clearly can\u2019t resolve by themselves, responsible married couples go to marriage counseling. And that is the right thing to do. Actually, visiting a marriage counselor is probably the best thing you can do to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-salvare-un-matrimonio\/\">salvare il vostro matrimonio<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ma cosa succede quando la terapia di coppia vi apre gli occhi e vi mostra che la vostra <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/vale-la-pena-salvare-il-mio-matrimonio\/\">marriage isn\u2019t worth saving<\/a>nonostante tutti i vostri sforzi? In questo caso, non c'\u00e8 altra scelta se non quella di smettere di lavorare.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I mean, you\u2019ve tried it all, including <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-positivi-durante-la-separazione\/\">separazione.<\/a> You\u2019ve followed all the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/consigli-sul-matrimonio\/\">consigli sul matrimonio<\/a> Il vostro terapeuta familiare vi ha dato tutto, ma non ha funzionato nulla. A questo punto, la terapia \u00e8 diventata una tortura.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s like you\u2019re giving CPR to someone who\u2019salready dead \u2013 nothing beneficial is going on, nor will it!<\/p>\n<h3>8. Infedelt\u00e0 non perdonata<\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019re probably wondering why I didn\u2019t write just infidelity without the unforgiven part? The answer lies in the fact that some married couples manage to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/infidelity-in-marriage-2300651\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">superare l'infedelt\u00e0<\/a> e salvare il loro matrimonio nonostante ci\u00f2 avvenga.<\/p>\n<p>Ma se sapete che vostra moglie o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-segni-di-tradimento-2\/\">Il marito ti tradisce<\/a> and you two just continue living as if nothing is happening, it\u2019s one of the 15 signs your marriage will end in divorce.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I am not only talking about physical infidelity here. It\u2019s the same if one of you is having an emotional affair. This is a major sign that something serious is missing in your marriage and that one of you isn\u2019t ready to be loyal and faithful.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Infidelity is one of the most significant forms of betrayal. Some couples pretend that they\u2019ve survived it, but they\u2019ve actually just swept everything under the carpet.<\/p>\n<p>Prima o poi, i vecchi demoni tornano a perseguitarli. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/risentimento-nel-matrimonio\/\">Risentimento<\/a>, compaiono rancore, rabbia e desiderio di vendetta.<\/p>\n<p>When that happens, the marriage actually ended a while ago \u2013 the couple just hasn\u2019t contacted their divorce attorney and thrown a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/idee-per-feste-di-divorzio\/\">parte divorzista.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>9. Siete pi\u00f9 felici da soli che insieme<\/h3>\n<p>Nobody can argue against spending time alone or with other people when you get married. It\u2019s not like you and your spouse became conjoined twins the moment you said \u201cI do.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>However, quality time is crucial for a happy marriage. I\u2019m not referring to you two sitting next to each other, watching TV, or scrolling through your phones.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m talking about having meaningful conversations and doing things that make you both happy. I\u2019m talking about actually being present in each other\u2019s lives.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sadly, both you and your spouse are way happier alone than when you\u2019re together. You literally run away from one another and look for excuses not to be in the same room.<\/p>\n<p>This is a clear sign that you two can\u2019t stand each other, and it\u2019s possible that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/odio-mio-marito-2\/\">li odiate<\/a> e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mio-marito-mi-odia-cosa-devo-fare\/\">viceversa<\/a>. C'\u00e8 davvero qualcosa di cui parlare in questo matrimonio?<\/p>\n<h3>10. You\u2019re already living like two single people<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152491\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-in-a-fight-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La dura verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che voi e il vostro coniuge siete praticamente sposati solo sulla carta, cio\u00e8 in teoria. In pratica, vivete come due single.<\/p>\n<p>Both of you are unfaithful or at least have emotional affairs. You spend most of your time apart, and in many cases, you have no idea where your SO is or what they\u2019ve been up to.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t spend holidays together, you don\u2019t visit each other\u2019s families, and you don\u2019t sleep together. <strong>If you have kids, you do your best to co-parent them, and that\u2019s about it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t consult each other before making important life decisions, nor are you included in one another\u2019s future plans. <strong>You\u2019re not a team or a union \u2013 you are just two individuals who happen to live together.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>11. No jealousy at all&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p>Your partner is not jealous of you and vice versa. Shouldn\u2019t that be a good thing? Well, excessive jealousy is not healthy \u2013 everyone knows that, but it\u2019s impossible not to be jealous at all, either. At least, it\u2019s not possible if there are any feelings left.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking about the fact that your SO trusts you. <strong>It\u2019s one thing that you know they wouldn\u2019t cheat on you even if their life depended on it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s not like that with the two of you. It\u2019s just that you don\u2019t care if they have an affair.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t care if your wife or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-tuo-marito-guarda-unaltra-donna\/\">il marito guarda qualcun altro<\/a>, and you wouldn\u2019t care if they actually cheated on you either.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, deep down, you\u2019re praying that they\u2019d find someone else so they could give you a break or so you could use it as an excuse to finally make the decision to get a divorce.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, your SO isn\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/16-modi-efficaci-per-far-perdere-le-preoccupazioni\/\">paura di perderti<\/a> either. They couldn\u2019t care less if you\u2019re flirting, texting, or even sleeping with someone else.<\/p>\n<p>Have you two become only friends, or are things like this because you can\u2019t stand each other anymore? I don\u2019t know, but I know one thing: this is one of the major signs that divorce is near.<\/p>\n<h3>12. &#8230; or too much jealousy<\/h3>\n<p>D'altra parte, una quantit\u00e0 eccessiva di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segni-di-gelosia-del-fidanzato-pericolosamente-possessivo\/\">gelosia e possessivit\u00e0<\/a> aren\u2019t healthy either. Your partner is not your parent, and you\u2019re not a little child who needs to ask for their permission to go out with friends or do something fun without them.<\/p>\n<p>Both you and your spouse must have a life outside of your relationship if you want your marriage to work. Not allowing each other to have friends, stalking each other\u2019s social media profiles, and not respecting boundaries won\u2019t get you anywhere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Clinginess and neediness are not acceptable in a marriage. You might think that things are going great for now, but if you\u2019re too focused on one another, your union is not sustainable.<\/strong> Prima o poi, uno di voi vorr\u00e0 indietro la propria libert\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>If you plan on cheating, that\u2019s exactly what you\u2019re going to do, despite them constantly breathing down your neck. So, what exactly is the point of this<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-modi-in-cui-la-gelosia-distrugge-le-relazioni\/\"> la gelosia che sta rovinando il vostro rapporto di coppia<\/a>?<\/p>\n<h3>13. Argomenti malsani<\/h3>\n<p>Ogni <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quanto-spesso-le-coppie-litigano\/\">liti di coppia<\/a>e le discussioni da sole non sono un segno di una relazione malsana. Tuttavia, le discussioni possono essere salutari. O, per essere precisi, dovrebbero essere salutari.<\/p>\n<p>Healthy couples know that it\u2019s them against the problem, not one against the other. They learn a lesson from every fight and come up with a solution.<\/p>\n<p>However, your fights are as toxic as your relationship. Your lack of communication skills have brought you to a point where you don\u2019t solve one problem at a time.<\/p>\n<p>Invece, aspettate che si accumulino e poi esplodete. Oppure litigate in continuazione e fate drammi per ogni piccola cosa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In ogni caso, si finisce sempre per <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-cosa-peggiore-che-un-marito-puo-dire-alla-moglie\/\">insultarsi a vicenda<\/a> e minacciando di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-separare\/\">chiedere il divorzio<\/a>. Si ritorna a vecchie questioni irrisolte e si va avanti e indietro in cerchio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There is gaslighting, manipulation, yelling and even abuse. The worst part is that you never reach a conclusion \u2013 you make up in bed, or you just stop talking for days.<\/p>\n<h4>Nessun combattimento<\/h4>\n<p>Tuttavia, anche non combattere affatto non \u00e8 un buon segno.<strong> Uno dei partner \u00e8 chiaramente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lostruzionismo-e-un-metodo-di-trattamento-silenzioso-perfetto-per-i-narcisisti\/\">ostruzionismo<\/a> ed evitare qualsiasi tipo di comunicazione, compresi i litigi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>La mancanza di comunicazione \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che vi ha portato in questo pasticcio. Forse avete difficolt\u00e0 a esprimervi, quindi scegliete di stare in silenzio, aspettandovi che un problema scompaia magicamente.<\/p>\n<p>Or what\u2019s even worse \u2013 you have no intention of solving the problem because you couldn\u2019t care less about your relationship. You have no desire to fix it, and you just let everything be the way it is until one of you is brave enough to walk away.<\/p>\n<h3>14. Vi rende entrambi infelici<\/h3>\n<p>Dr. John Gottman, a couple\u2019s therapist and relationship expert, claims that being unhappy in your marriage is actually the most important reason marriages end. <strong>In fondo, tutto si riduce a questa domanda: il vostro matrimonio vi rende entrambi infelici?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Se la risposta \u00e8 s\u00ec, non ha senso cercare di lottare contro il divorzio.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that something \u201cbig\u201d has happened in your marriage. Maybe there wasn\u2019t abuse or infidelity included.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, at the end of the day, you don\u2019t feel happy with your partner. Instead of improving the quality of your life, they\u2019re doing the opposite.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciate che vi dica che vivere in questo modo vi porter\u00e0 a seri problemi di salute mentale prima o poi.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Niente pi\u00f9 amore<\/h3>\n<p>Le persone che hanno relazioni di lunga durata, per non parlare dei matrimoni, dopo qualche tempo perdono le farfalle nella pancia. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/leggete-questo-articolo-se-la-vostra-relazione-a-lungo-termine-e-in-crisi\/\">Cadere nella routine<\/a> \u00e8 abbastanza normale e nessuno si aspetta che il vostro matrimonio sia una montagna russa di emozioni dopo anni di vita insieme.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In fact, it\u2019s healthier if that feeling of being in love transforms into a more peaceful kind of love that includes respect, trust, and loyalty.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, <strong>don\u2019t confuse this with a complete <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-dolorosi-che-il-marito-non-ama\/\">mancanza di amore.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che l<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-motivi-per-cui-lamore-non-e-sufficiente-a-tenervi-insieme\/\">o da solo non \u00e8 sufficiente<\/a> per un matrimonio di successo. Tuttavia, \u00e8 ancora fondamentale!<\/p>\n<p>When there is no love between you two, everything else is in vain. Many couples think it\u2019s okay to settle for a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-di-un-matrimonio-senza-amore\/\">matrimonio senza amore<\/a>, but trust me \u2013 it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want to spend the rest of your life waking up next to someone you have no romantic feelings for. Sooner or later, one of you will get tired of this pathetic co-existence, and your marriage will fall apart.<\/p>\n<h2>Come si fa a sapere quando il matrimonio \u00e8 finito?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152493\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-facing-away-from-each-other-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Il matrimonio \u00e8 finito quando sia voi che il vostro partner rinunciate a lottare per esso e quando uno dei due fa qualcosa di imperdonabile.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the first case, you\u2019re both tired of trying to revive something that\u2019s been dead for some time. You crave the day when one of you will finally give up this charade and you\u2019ll get your freedom back.<\/p>\n<p>In the other case, you can try your hardest to forgive something your SO did, but deep down, you\u2019re aware that they\u2019ve crossed the line. You do your best to accept their apology, but every time you look at them, their sin appears in front of your eyes.<\/p>\n<p>For some, this is abuse. For others, infidelity, and for some, it\u2019s disrespect&#8230; It can actually be anything \u2013 the bottom line is that after this, things can never go back to the way they were before.<\/p>\n<h2>Quali sono le bandiere rosse in un matrimonio?<\/h2>\n<p>Disonest\u00e0, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segni-che-e-un-traditore-seriale-e-gli-va-bene-cosi\/\">imbroglio seriale<\/a>La mancanza di comunicazione, la mancanza di rispetto, i problemi di fiducia, il permettere ad altri di interferire nella vostra relazione e la mancanza di intimit\u00e0 fisica sono alcune delle pi\u00f9 importanti bandiere rosse a cui prestare attenzione in un matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>Ognuno di noi ha diversi fattori di disturbo, ma nessuno di quelli sopra citati dovrebbe essere ignorato.<\/p>\n<h2>Come si fa a sapere se si sta per divorziare?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-not-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re headed for divorce <strong>if you can\u2019t stand to look at each other anymore, if there is no love present, and if every conversation you try to have ends in an argument.<\/strong> Il divorzio si avvicina se ogni piccola cosa che il vostro partner fa vi infastidisce (e viceversa).<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, se prestate pi\u00f9 attenzione alle loro imperfezioni che a ci\u00f2 che amavate di loro, \u00e8 un segno di divorzio in arrivo.<\/p>\n<h2>Quali matrimoni finiranno con un divorzio?<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Le coppie che si sposano per la pressione dei coetanei, per i soldi o senza amarsi in generale, prima o poi divorziano. <\/strong>Lo stesso vale per quelle coppie immature che pensano che l'amore sia l'unica cosa che conta e che si sposano prima di verificare la loro compatibilit\u00e0 o di conoscersi bene.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, every marriage that doesn\u2019t have a balance between love and other things, such as trust and respect, will not last!<\/p>\n<h2>Per concludere:<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Just because you can relate to all these 15 signs your marriage will end in divorce doesn\u2019t make <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-salvare-un-matrimonio\/\">salvarlo<\/a> assolutamente impossibile.<\/strong> I\u2019ll be honest \u2013 if you\u2019ve reached this point, it will be extremely difficult to revive it.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, dove c'\u00e8 una volont\u00e0, c'\u00e8 un modo. Se pensate davvero che ci sia qualcosa per cui lottare, fatelo. Credetemi, questa \u00e8 la vostra ultima occasione per farlo!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-153712\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"15 segni che il vostro matrimonio finir\u00e0 con un divorzio Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-735x1103.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-223x335.jpg 223w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-231x347.jpg 231w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-347x520.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-427x640.jpg 427w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-512x768.jpg 512w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>According to statistics, the divorce rate among couples is skyrocketing. I mean, just look around you \u2013 everyone you know has either already gotten a divorce or is planning to contact a divorce lawyer sometime soon. But what are the most common predictors of divorce? And most importantly, how is your marriage different? Well, I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":152487,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29620],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-152418","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29620,"label":"RELATIONSHIPS"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/15-Signs-Your-Marriage-Will-End-In-Divorce-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29620,"name":"RELATIONSHIPS","slug":"relationships","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29620,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<b><i>Relationships are complicated, we know. 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That\u2019s why we try to untangle the web of rules, emotions and challenges to help you overcome any possible issues you might have trying to make your relationship work.<\/i><\/b>","cat_name":"RELATIONSHIPS","category_nicename":"relationships","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152418","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=152418"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152418\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/152487"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=152418"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=152418"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=152418"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}