{"id":15248,"date":"2020-07-26T09:47:56","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T09:47:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15248"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:11:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:11:42","slug":"ogni-ragazza-ha-paura-di-muoversi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ogni-ragazza-ha-paura-di-muoversi\/","title":{"rendered":"Questo \u00e8 per tutte le ragazze che hanno paura di andare avanti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, your reasoning keeps telling you that you\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/give-man-everything-still-no-decency-choose\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">dato tutto quello che potevi a un ragazzo<\/a> who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you. You know that this man has treated you poorly and that he will never change, despite all of your hopes and efforts.<\/p>\n<p>Siete ben consapevoli che non potete fare altro per lui e per la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Non ti ha mai amato come avrebbe dovuto e non \u00e8 mai stato l'uomo che avrebbe dovuto essere.<\/p>\n<p>Mentre cercavi di aggiustare lui, hai finito per rompere te stessa. E mentre tu eri sempre l\u00ec per lui, lui non \u00e8 mai stato al tuo fianco per aiutarti a rimetterti in sesto. Quindi sai che allontanarti \u00e8 l'unica opzione ragionevole.<\/p>\n<p>Ma nonostante tutto questo, c'\u00e8 qualcosa che vi impedisce di andare avanti e di non guardarvi indietro. Ogni volta che volete lasciar andare tutto, il vostro cuore e la vostra mente fanno fatica.<\/p>\n<p>Continuate a sperare che le cose cambino, che questo ragazzo veda finalmente il vostro vero valore e che tutto il vostro dolore venga ripagato.<\/p>\n<p>Your conscience doesn\u2019t allow you to walk away, despite everything he did to you.<\/p>\n<p>Siete certi che ha bisogno di voi e vi sentite in colpa a lasciarlo da solo a combattere con i suoi demoni.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94640\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Woman-standing-near-wall.jpg\" alt=\"Donna in piedi vicino al muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Woman-standing-near-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Woman-standing-near-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Woman-standing-near-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you don\u2019t know why, but deep down you are also <a href=\"https:\/\/experiencelife.com\/article\/fear-of-moving-forward\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">paura di andare avanti con la propria vita<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You are even ashamed of feeling this way, because your reasoning keeps telling you it\u2019s the only thing you should do.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014moving on is terrifying and it is never simple. Despite the fact that the situation you are in overwhelms you, at least it is something familiar.<\/p>\n<p>Forse non capite perch\u00e9 andare avanti faccia paura quando \u00e8 evidente che al momento non siete soddisfatti della vostra vita, ma avete paura perch\u00e9 conoscete bene le cose a cui vi aggrappate e andare avanti vi porta incertezza.<\/p>\n<p>Con il tempo, vi siete abituati al dolore che questo ragazzo vi procurava ed \u00e8 diventato parte di voi stessi. Con il tempo, \u00e8 diventato l'unica cosa che ti definiva.<\/p>\n<p>You are afraid of moving on because it is a step into the unknown, a step out of your comfort zone. Remember, there is nothing wrong with being scared and you shouldn\u2019t let anyone else tell you differently.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94641\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-sitting-outside-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata seduta all&#039;aperto nella natura\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-sitting-outside-in-nature.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-sitting-outside-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-sitting-outside-in-nature-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The hardest part about moving on is letting go. You are not just letting go of the person you\u2019ve loved for so long, you are also letting go of all of the past the two of you had and all the future you hoped you would have.<\/p>\n<p>State finalmente lasciando andare tutti i vostri progetti, sogni e speranze legati a lui.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si va davvero avanti, ci si dimentica di tutte le cose che sarebbero potute accadere e ci si rende conto che sarebbero accadute se fossero state destinate.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si va avanti, si lascia finalmente questa persona nel passato, al suo vero posto.<\/p>\n<p>When you move on, you are finally realizing it\u2019s about time to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/joyce-marter-\/21-ways-to-let-go-free-yourself_b_5649680.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">liberarsi<\/a> from someone you\u2019ve been stuck with for so long.<\/p>\n<p>E sono qui per dirvi che potete farcela, nonostante tutte le vostre paure. Sono qui per dirvi che le persone andranno e verranno dalla vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p>The ones who don\u2019t stay by your side are simply not worthy of you. And it\u2019s time for you to accept that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94642\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window.jpg\" alt=\"giovane ragazza al bar che guarda la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sono qui per dirvi che vi aspettano grandi cose e persone straordinarie, nonostante tutte le vostre paure.<\/p>\n<p>I know you are scared that your heart won\u2019t be open to love again once it has been broken. But, trust me\u2014it will heal. You will heal.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che attiriamo ci\u00f2 per cui siamo pronti. Una volta che avrete voltato pagina e vi sarete lasciati andare a grandi cose e a persone che vi meritano, queste arriveranno.<\/p>\n<p>And that is when everything will finally make sense. That is when you\u2019ll realize that everything that has been happening to you was for a reason. All of the pain you\u2019ve been through will be worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Tutto ci\u00f2 che state vivendo diventer\u00e0 una lezione preziosa per voi.<\/p>\n<p>And that is when you\u2019ll understand that moving on from your past was the best decision you have ever made.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi abbiate paura. Ma trovate anche la forza in voi stessi per superare la paura e allontanare finalmente il passato e andare avanti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-94637 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Questo \u00e8 per tutte le ragazze che hanno paura di andare avanti\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, your reasoning keeps telling you that you\u2019ve given everything you could to a guy who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you. You know that this man has treated you poorly and that he will never change, despite all of your hopes and efforts. You are well aware that there is nothing else you can do for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":94638,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15248","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/This-Is-For-Every-Girl-Who-Is-Scared-To-Move-On.jpg",800,543,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15248","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15248"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15248\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94638"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15248"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15248"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15248"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}