{"id":15267,"date":"2020-05-26T11:34:52","date_gmt":"2020-05-26T11:34:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15267"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:33:20","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:33:20","slug":"il-ragazzo-delle-lettere-si-e-reso-conto-di-aver-perso-in-ritardo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-ragazzo-delle-lettere-si-e-reso-conto-di-aver-perso-in-ritardo\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera al ragazzo che ha capito cosa ha perso, ma troppo tardi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Forse \u00e8 vero che la gente si preoccupa solo quando \u00e8 troppo tardi...<\/em><\/p>\n<p>While she was walking away, she told you that you will remember her. She didn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll remember her by the way she wore her hair or how she loved to dance to Ed Sheeran songs or how by the way she looked.<\/p>\n<p>She told you you\u2019ll remember how she made you feel. In the moments you feel most alone and in the moments when you feel like you need this one friend and you\u2019ll remember her.<\/p>\n<p>Nessuno ti faceva sentire come lei. Ti guardava come se fossi l'unico uomo al mondo.<\/p>\n<p>Qualsiasi cosa faceste era speciale per lei e la osservava con una dose di ammirazione.<\/p>\n<p>Nei suoi occhi si vedeva quello che provava per te. Dalle cose che faceva per te, potevi capire quanto eri importante per lei.<\/p>\n<p>Era sempre presente per te. Voleva essere la tua migliore amica e solo dopo la tua ragazza.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89156\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/couple-walking-on-concrete-road.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che cammina su una strada di cemento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>She was one of those girls who did everything in their power to make their loved ones happy and like they\u2019re the most special people in this world.<\/p>\n<p>With her, there was no need to think that you\u2019ll ever be lonely because no matter what, she was there for you.<\/p>\n<p>Era l\u00ec per rendere i giorni bui un po' pi\u00f9 luminosi. Era l\u00ec per illuminarti quando eri triste.<\/p>\n<p>Era l\u00ec per alleviare lo stress dopo una brutta giornata ed era l\u00ec quando avevi bisogno di qualcuno che ti facesse ridere o di qualcuno che condividesse il silenzio con te.<\/p>\n<p>Semplicemente, lei c'era per te. Qualunque cosa fosse necessaria, qualunque cosa ti servisse, lei era sufficiente.<\/p>\n<p>She would\u2019ve never walked away from you if it was up to her. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/programmato-soggiorno-allontanato\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Voleva restare, ma tu l'hai respinta.<\/a>. L'hai trattata male.<\/p>\n<p>Tutti i tuoi sforzi sono stati fatti solo a met\u00e0. E avete barattato una brava ragazza con qualche ragazza temporanea. La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che fino a questo momento non ne eri consapevole.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89157\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/couple-standing-on-the-bridge.jpeg\" alt=\"coppia in piedi sul ponte\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>You realized you did wrong. Only now you figured you should\u2019ve been there.<\/p>\n<p>Now you see that you shouldn\u2019t have let her feel alone when she was obviously with you.<\/p>\n<p>You should\u2019ve cared for her like she did for you. You should\u2019ve taken her hand when she tried to reach out to you. You should\u2019ve listened when she tried to tell you how you make her feel.<\/p>\n<p>Ma tu hai scelto di andare dall'altra parte. E ora sapete <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-lasciano-lamore-degli-uomini\/\">Perch\u00e9 le donne lasciano gli uomini che amano<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>La davate per scontata perch\u00e9 ci teneva troppo. La sua gentilezza nei tuoi confronti \u00e8 diventata qualcosa che ti aspettavi di ottenere ogni volta che volevi.<\/p>\n<p>You expected her to be there for you whenever you needed her, but you never felt the need to give her anything in return. And that\u2019s not how you do love. That\u2019s now how you make her stay.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9, a prescindere da quanto ti amasse, a prescindere da quanto volesse rimanere, aveva una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-ottime-ragioni-per-andarsene-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">un'ottima ragione per andarsene<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Now you think how good it would be to have her back. Now you\u2019d like to relive all those moments with her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89158\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"uomo disperato sdraiato sul letto e guardando la foto con la fidanzata\" width=\"800\" height=\"546\"><\/p>\n<p>You wish she\u2019s there with you to hold your hand and tell you how everything is going to be okay.<\/p>\n<p>Desiderate sentire il calore del suo corpo e desiderate che dia un bacio d'addio a tutte le vostre preoccupazioni.<\/p>\n<p>And you think about reaching out to her again. But that\u2019s so selfish of you.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s imagine you manage to get her back. Will you be able to erase all the pain she went through?<\/p>\n<p>Riuscirete a cancellare tutti i brutti ricordi che ha ancora in testa? Riuscirai a cancellare l'immagine di te che la lasci andare via? S\u00ec, pensavo di no.<\/p>\n<p>You had a chance to fix things already, don\u2019t you remember? You have no idea how much she wanted you to stop her from walking away.<\/p>\n<p>She just wanted you to take her hand and tell her to stay, tell her how you need her, how much you love her and how you\u2019re going to figure everything out together. She just needed you to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/far-ridere-la-ragazza-4-situazioni-di-lavoro-fascino-evitare-i-principali-turn-off\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">farla ridere<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019d forget all the pain and she\u2019d turn back and stay. But you missed that chance.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89159\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/portrait-of-young-lady-in-yellow-jacket-standing-on-street.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di giovane donna in giacca gialla in piedi sulla strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>Mentre tu correvi dietro a tutte quelle donne temporanee, lei aveva abbastanza tempo per pensare a tutto.<\/p>\n<p>She had the time to see how you took her for granted, how you didn\u2019t bother to give her anything she gave you back, how she was the one who loved more and who tried more.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-ora-che-lo-vediate-per-quello-che-e-veramente\/\">Ha avuto abbastanza tempo per vederti per quello che sei.<\/a>&nbsp;e di rendersi conto che era lei a trascinare la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>While she was walking away she told you that you will remember her. What she didn\u2019t tell you is that once <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/hai-dimenticato-di-amarla-ed-e-per-questo-che-se-ne-andata\/\">she\u2019s gone<\/a>, she isn\u2019t coming back. You might\u2019ve realized what you lost, but you realized it too late.<\/p>\n<p>Girls like her don\u2019t wait for anyone. And there is probably now someone who gives her everything she deserves without her needing to ask.<\/p>\n<p>C'\u00e8 qualcuno che ha aspettato che tu commettessi un errore per poter piombare su di te e farle perdere la testa. L'hai persa.<\/p>\n<p>May this be a lesson to all men, too. You don\u2019t leave a good girl for those temporary ones.<\/p>\n<p>Because when you wish to come back, there won\u2019t be anyone waiting for you anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89154\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Realized-What-He-Lost-But-Too-Late-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Una lettera al ragazzo che ha capito cosa ha perso, ma troppo tardi\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe it\u2019s true that people care only when it\u2019s too late\u2026 While she was walking away, she told you that you will remember her. She didn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll remember her by the way she wore her hair or how she loved to dance to Ed Sheeran songs or how by the way she looked. 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