{"id":152798,"date":"2022-06-12T10:08:03","date_gmt":"2022-06-12T10:08:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=152798"},"modified":"2022-11-23T13:22:03","modified_gmt":"2022-11-23T13:22:03","slug":"mio-marito-interpreta-male-tutto-cio-che-dico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mio-marito-interpreta-male-tutto-cio-che-dico\/","title":{"rendered":"Mio marito interpreta male tutto ci\u00f2 che dico: come risolvere il problema"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Does this seem familiar to you: you ask your husband what he wants to eat for dinner, and before you know it, you&#8217;re at each other&#8217;s throats, shouting, crying, and fighting about something that has nothing to do with dinner?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se ogni conversazione che avete con vostro marito ha la possibilit\u00e0 di trasformarsi in una discussione e di farvi arrabbiare l'uno con l'altro<\/strong>, one of the biggest complaints you have about your marriage is probably something like, &#8220;My husband misinterprets everything I say.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 lo fa? <strong>Perch\u00e9 vi fa sentire impotenti e incompresi?<\/strong> Ci sono molti problemi che potrebbero essere alla base di questo comportamento e alcuni di essi possono essere risolti se entrambi vi impegnate a lavorare sul vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n<p>Here are 35 possible reasons why he does it, so let&#8217;s see what&#8217;s going on.<strong> When you figure out which of these applies to you, we&#8217;ll talk about what can be done.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Perch\u00e9 mio marito interpreta male tutto ci\u00f2 che dico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152967\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-fighting-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If questions like &#8220;Why is it that my husband misinterprets everything I say?&#8221; or \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mio-marito-mi-rivolta-tutto-contro\/\">Perch\u00e9 mio marito mi rinfaccia tutto?<\/a>\u201d have been plaguing you, you probably already have some idea of why it might be happening. After all, <strong>Nessuno lo conosce meglio di voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The difficulty in dealing with this depends on why he does it, but don&#8217;t rush to break up with him just yet. <strong>Alcune delle cause dei vostri problemi possono essere risolte con un po' di lavoro, mentre altre sono segnali di allarme che tradiscono problemi pi\u00f9 profondi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Per capire quale di questi motivi \u00e8 il pi\u00f9 simile alla vostra situazione, prestate attenzione e <strong>Pensate bene a come \u00e8 vostro marito e a come sono i vostri litigi.<\/strong> A seconda della risposta che troverete, potreste essere in grado di risolvere il problema con successo o decidere che dare la priorit\u00e0 all'amore per se stessi \u00e8 l'opzione migliore per il vostro benessere.<\/p>\n<h3>1. He doesn&#8217;t listen.<\/h3>\n<p>Sometimes it might seem that he&#8217;s listening, but if he always misinterprets your words, he&#8217;s not hearing what you&#8217;re saying. A common reason for this is that he&#8217;s probably<strong> aspetta il suo turno di parola invece di ascoltare ci\u00f2 che avete da dire.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>2. He\u2019s insecure.<\/h3>\n<p>If he&#8217;s insecure about his shortcomings, he might be too focused on them. If <strong>i suoi pensieri sono sempre rivolti a ci\u00f2 di cui si sente insicuro<\/strong>, he&#8217;s constantly waiting for comments or criticism about that, so he&#8217;s not paying attention to your actual words.<\/p>\n<h3>3. He\u2019s overly sensitive.<\/h3>\n<p>Una persona sensibile<strong> si arrabbia rapidamente se percepisce qualcosa che gli \u00e8 stato detto come offensivo o irrispettoso<\/strong>che pu\u00f2 portare a reazioni conflittuali.<\/p>\n<h3>4. He\u2019s emotionally immature.<\/h3>\n<p>Comportamenti come il negare la propria parte nella discussione, l'insultare e l'incolpare di tutto possono far pensare a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segni-mortali-di-un-uomo-immaturo\/\">immaturit\u00e0 emotiva<\/a>. Questo potrebbe essere difficile da accettare per lui e, quindi, da affrontare per voi.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Ha problemi di autostima.<\/h3>\n<p>Low self-esteem can cause a constant state of being on the lookout for criticism because he\u2019s hyper-aware of all of his <strong>difetti reali e immaginari<\/strong>, and he\u2019s waiting for you to bring them up.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Si sente vulnerabile.<\/h3>\n<p>He starts arguments because he\u2019s trying to draw the attention away from whatever he believes is making him vulnerable at that moment. To compensate for it, he attacks before it comes up.<\/p>\n<h3>7. He&#8217;s easily offended.<\/h3>\n<p>Quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/problema-dellego\/\">il suo ego \u00e8 fragile<\/a>, a man becomes offended at the smallest slight. For example, if he thinks what you\u2019re saying is even a little critical, he\u2019ll misinterpret it as being much more than it is.<\/p>\n<h3>8. He\u2019s projecting.<\/h3>\n<p>Whatever it is that he\u2019s feeling, <strong>he\u2019s projecting it onto you<\/strong>. He might not be aware of it at all and really believe that it\u2019s you who is responsible for whatever it is that he considers a problem.<\/p>\n<h3>9. He&#8217;s lashing out because he has other problems.<\/h3>\n<p>He could be experiencing problems at work, mental health issues, or trouble with other people and feel like it\u2019s safe to unload all his stress on you because you\u2019ll forgive him. He doesn\u2019t think about how it might affect you.<\/p>\n<h3>10. Si sente poco apprezzato.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152972\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/photo-of-a-couple-having-an-argument-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-tratti-che-definiscono-luomo-di-alto-valore-che-trattera-correttamente\/\">he feels like you don\u2019t value him<\/a>Suo marito interpreter\u00e0 qualsiasi cosa lei dica come un attacco personale. <strong>He\u2019ll find a way to understand your words as criticism<\/strong>, even if it\u2019s something completely innocent.<\/p>\n<h3>11. He\u2019s self-righteous.<\/h3>\n<p>Because of his holier-than-thou attitude, he thinks that whatever he does is good, correct, and moral and can\u2019t admit when he makes a mistake. When you talk to him, and he doesn&#8217;t like it, or it triggers something in him, <strong>he&#8217;ll never accept that it&#8217;s him who&#8217;s at fault.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>12. He understands but doesn&#8217;t want to deal with it.<\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re talking to him about something he doesn\u2019t want to handle,<strong> he\u2019ll pretend that he\u2019s misunderstood you because that\u2019s easier than taking responsibility<\/strong>. Quando prende l'abitudine di evitare, potrebbe diventare molto difficile per lui smettere.<\/p>\n<h3>13. He&#8217;s convinced he&#8217;s right.<\/h3>\n<p>Suo marito interpreta male le sue parole se sono in contrasto con le sue opinioni o idee. <strong>Pu\u00f2 causare problemi anche da qualcosa di piccolo<\/strong>, such as asking him to do a chore that he doesn\u2019t want to do and thinks he shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<h3>14. He can&#8217;t admit that he&#8217;s wrong.<\/h3>\n<p>He refuses to ever admit that his actions or beliefs might be anything less than perfect. Even if he knows that you\u2019re right, <strong>he\u2019ll never own up to it and accept that he made a mistake<\/strong> perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alluomo-che-ha-dato-piu-valore-al-suo-ego-che-al-nostro-amore\/\">d\u00e0 pi\u00f9 valore al suo ego che a qualsiasi altra cosa.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>15. \u00c8 stato educato a pensare che un uomo abbia sempre ragione.<\/h3>\n<p>If he was brought up to hold sexist beliefs, he\u2019ll never accept that there\u2019s a possibility of him not being right. A man like that<strong> \u00e8 fermamente convinto che qualsiasi cosa dica debba essere ascoltata e accettata senza alcun dubbio <\/strong>and that a woman\u2019s opinions don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n<h3>16. Gli giova.<\/h3>\n<p>Forse sente e capisce molto bene quello che dite, ma<strong> prefers to pretend that he doesn\u2019t because he gets something from it<\/strong>, such as when he doesn\u2019t want to do something you ask him to or wants to get a certain reaction from you.<\/p>\n<h3>17. Si sente in diritto.<\/h3>\n<p>Se suo marito<strong> feels like it&#8217;s his right to have only his opinions valued<\/strong>, his whole thought process might be directed in that way. For example, you might be talking to him about something you believe is a problem, and he won\u2019t accept that it\u2019s a problem because he doesn\u2019t think it is.<\/p>\n<h3>18. Gli piace discutere.<\/h3>\n<p>Alcuni uomini si nutrono semplicemente della negativit\u00e0 e dell'adrenalina delle discussioni, e lui potrebbe provocarle di proposito. <strong>He doesn\u2019t care at all about what you\u2019re talking about or reaching a solution<\/strong>, as long as you\u2019re arguing.<\/p>\n<h3>19. Non ha alcuna empatia.<\/h3>\n<p>He can\u2019t see your point of view because<strong> he\u2019s incapable of understanding how you feel.<\/strong> A man who has no empathy can\u2019t understand that things aren\u2019t only about him, and for this reason, he can\u2019t take other people\u2019s feelings seriously.<\/p>\n<h3>20. Vuole controllarvi.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152968\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-argue-in-the-middle-of-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Che sia in grado di vedere la vostra prospettiva o meno, se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-orribili-che-i-narcisisti-fanno-per-controllare-le-loro-vittime\/\">vuole controllarti<\/a>, <strong>he\u2019ll use whatever means necessary to get what he wants<\/strong>. A man like this doesn\u2019t even care about being right, only about how he can get you to do what he wants.<\/p>\n<h3>21. He&#8217;s gaslighting you.<\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re tormented daily and can\u2019t stop questioning yourself thinking, \u201cIs it that my husband turns everything around and makes me seem crazy, or am I really going crazy?\u201d<strong> si dovrebbe prestare attenzione a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/gaslighting-in-una-relazione\/\">signs that he\u2019s gaslighting you.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>22. Vuole farti sentire in colpa.<\/h3>\n<p>If he wants to punish you for something or achieve some goal, even when he knows what you\u2019re saying, he\u2019ll pretend he doesn\u2019t. <strong>He\u2019ll try to turn things around on you to make you feel guilty<\/strong>. It\u2019s a devious manipulation technique that is emotionally abusive and can have long-term consequences.<\/p>\n<h3>23. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/narcisisti-manipolatori-psicopatici-persone-tossiche-danno\/\">He&#8217;s a narcissist.<\/a><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Molte delle cose menzionate finora potrebbero far pensare che sia un narcisista.<\/strong> If you\u2019re feeling trapped in a toxic relationship and like you don\u2019t know what to do, you might be a victim of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-fasi-di-guarigione-dallabuso-narcisistico\/\">abuso emotivo del narcisista.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>24. You&#8217;re indirect.<\/h3>\n<p>Alcuni uomini sono letterali e<strong> can\u2019t understand subtler methods of communication.<\/strong> Se a questo si aggiunge il fatto che alle donne viene spesso insegnato a non essere dirette perch\u00e9 sembra che controllino, si ottiene la ricetta per una comunicazione sbagliata.<\/p>\n<h3>25. Il vostro approccio lo fa scattare.<\/h3>\n<p>How you talk to him can be a trigger for him to stop listening and start arguing. If he thinks you sound like you\u2019re accusing him or criticizing him, he might get angry and close off. It doesn\u2019t matter if you weren\u2019t doing it in the first place.<\/p>\n<h3>26. Si diventa frustrati e si inaspriscono le cose.<\/h3>\n<p>If he\u2019s slow to respond or tends to ignore you, it\u2019s natural that you might become frustrated. <strong>Questo potrebbe farvi percepire il suo silenzio come un disaccordo e peggiorare la situazione.<\/strong> iniziando a litigare invece di aspettare che sia lui a mostrarvi la sua reale reazione.<\/p>\n<h3>27. You make a big deal when it&#8217;s not.<\/h3>\n<p>Alcune cose possono essere importanti per voi e non significare nulla per lui. Quando avete modi diversi di vedere le cose, potete arrabbiarvi perch\u00e9 <strong>he doesn\u2019t understand the importance of something that matters to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>28. Aspettate che commetta un errore.<\/h3>\n<p>Se l'esperienza vi ha insegnato che <strong>he\u2019ll misinterpret your words or blame you for things, you start expecting it every time.<\/strong> Even at times when he\u2019s not doing it, if you\u2019re waiting for any hint of disagreement, it\u2019ll eventually end in just that.<\/p>\n<h3>29. Lo si giudica.<\/h3>\n<p>Sentirsi giudicati da voi<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-trucchi-intelligenti-per-aiutarvi-a-parlare-con-un-partner-troppo-difensivo\/\"> pu\u00f2 renderlo difensivo ed emotivo<\/a>. If he believes that you\u2019re judging his behavior, reactions, or feelings, he might not know how to respond and act when something you disagree on comes up.<\/p>\n<h3>30. Si combatte per vincere.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152971\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-an-argument-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una discussione accesa pu\u00f2 essere salutare, ma<strong> if either of you is looking to win at fights, you\u2019re damaging your relationship<\/strong>. If you\u2019re using your arguments as weapons against each other instead of a tool to deal with issues, you might have a problem.<\/p>\n<h3>31. You don&#8217;t know how to communicate.<\/h3>\n<p>La sensazione di dover camminare su gusci d'uovo l'uno con l'altro o di dover litigare all'improvviso pu\u00f2 significare che<strong> you don\u2019t know how to communicate with each other.<\/strong> Quando nessuno dei due sa come parlare all'altro, anche le vostre migliori intenzioni potrebbero essere mal interpretate.<\/p>\n<h3>32. You&#8217;re both stubborn.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Not wanting to give in because you\u2019re both stubborn<\/strong> can make you regret your actions. If you\u2019re stonewalling each other or resorting to the silent treatment just because you won\u2019t let the other person be right, you\u2019re causing damage to your relationship for the sake of pride.<\/p>\n<h3>33. You&#8217;re not discussing the same thing.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Sometimes you\u2019re talking about two completely different things and don\u2019t know it<\/strong>. For example, you might be talking about something that\u2019s been bothering you, and he\u2019s focused on a specific situation, so he disagrees.<\/p>\n<h3>34. You&#8217;re unwilling to compromise.<\/h3>\n<p>When you\u2019re both convinced that your way is the only way, <strong>trovare un compromesso pu\u00f2 essere impossibile.<\/strong> If you\u2019re unwilling to make space for each other in your thought process, arguments are inevitable.<\/p>\n<h3>35. Ci sono problemi pi\u00f9 grandi.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Sometimes the real issue has nothing to do with what you\u2019re arguing about.<\/strong> Potrebbero esserci risentimento, rabbia, gelosia, insicurezza e altri sentimenti o problemi che stanno causando problemi nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/femminilizzazione-di-mio-marito\/\">12 benefici che ci ha portato la femminilizzazione di mio marito<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Posso risolvere il rapporto con mio marito?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152966\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-serious-and-calm-conversation-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La risposta a questa domanda si riduce a tre cose:<strong> C'\u00e8 cattiva volont\u00e0 dietro il suo modo di agire, i vostri sentimenti reciproci e la disponibilit\u00e0 a lavorare sul vostro matrimonio da parte di entrambi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you can say with certainty, &#8220;My husband misinterprets everything I say because he wants to hurt me,&#8221; then <strong>you&#8217;re better off without him.<\/strong> If he hurts you but genuinely regrets it or wasn&#8217;t aware of what he was doing, then there is hope if you&#8217;re both willing to make an effort for your marriage.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Lavorate sulle vostre capacit\u00e0 di comunicazione.<\/h3>\n<p>Una volta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-comunicare-con-gli-uomini\/\">imparare la comunicazione efficace<\/a>, you\u2019ll be able to use those skills to improve all your relationships for the rest of your life. It will take time, many tries, and lots of willingness to work on it, but <strong>questo \u00e8 il primo passo che dovreste fare entrambi<\/strong> se volete migliorare la vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Comunicare con chiarezza.<\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t expect him to read your mind and don\u2019t assume anything, and this goes for him as well. <strong>Siate molto chiari con le vostre parole e dimostrate sempre la vostra buona fede.<\/strong>. If both of you focus on understanding the other person instead of proving a point, you\u2019ll be much more successful in communicating.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Ascoltatevi a vicenda.<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/state-davvero-ascoltando-il-vostro-partner\/\">Praticare l'ascolto attivo<\/a> and try to do your best to understand each other. Some techniques include paying attention, asking questions when you don\u2019t understand something, and providing feedback to check if you understood what the other person was trying to say.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Siate specifici.<\/h3>\n<p>Being vague about what it is you\u2019re talking about can easily cause misunderstandings. <strong>Scegliere con cura le parole<\/strong>, and don\u2019t leave space for ambiguity to make sure that the other person knows exactly what you\u2019re trying to say.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Don&#8217;t blame each other.<\/h3>\n<p>Quando ci si incolpa a vicenda, ci si mette sulla difensiva e non si \u00e8 disposti a spiegare. Se vi accorgete di farlo, fate un passo indietro e riprovate. Per esempio, <strong>don\u2019t say, \u201cYou make me feel ~<\/strong>.\u201d Instead, say,<strong> \u201cI feel ~.\u201d<\/strong> In questo modo l'interlocutore si sente meno sotto pressione e pu\u00f2 parlare senza timori.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Siate pazienti l'uno con l'altro.<\/h3>\n<p>Ci pu\u00f2 volere del tempo perch\u00e9 suo marito impari a cambiare il modo in cui si relaziona con lei, e ci pu\u00f2 volere del tempo perch\u00e9 lei impari a parlare con lui. Finch\u00e9 entrambi avete a cuore il vostro matrimonio e volete migliorarlo, le cose possono funzionare. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/grazie-per-essere-stato-paziente-con-me\/\">Abbiate pazienza mentre entrambi imparate a farlo.<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>7. Cercare di capirsi.<\/h3>\n<p>Truly try to put yourself in one another\u2019s shoes. Try to understand why you\u2019re doing the things you do, and give each other the benefit of the doubt. <strong>Becoming each other\u2019s best friend and being compassionate can make a real difference.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>8. You don&#8217;t always have to be right.<\/h3>\n<p>Would you rather have a happy marriage or always be right? If either of you chooses the second answer, there\u2019s a problem. If your marriage is the priority, then the both of you have to<strong> learn to swallow your egos and try to see the other person\u2019s point of view.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>9. Avere argomenti costruttivi.<\/h3>\n<p>Gli esperti di relazioni parlano spesso di come le discussioni siano necessarie nelle relazioni, ma cosa significa? <strong>It means that when you argue, you shouldn\u2019t be trying to come out on top and prove that you\u2019re right.<\/strong> Le discussioni dovrebbero invece essere un modo per esprimere opinioni diverse e imparare ad accettarle e a trovare compromessi.<\/p>\n<h3>10. Don\u2019t threaten each other.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-152969\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/couple-having-a-discussion-in-a-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Threatening each other with leaving can make you do it in the heat of the moment. It\u2019s not the only kind of threat that creates problems, though. Any time you try to make your partner afraid of doing something by holding something over their head, you damage your relationship.<\/p>\n<h3>11. Evitare di essere accusatori.<\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t bring up something that happened yesterday, last week, or in high school when you\u2019re talking about whatever is bothering you at the moment. Don\u2019t accuse each other of things that might be only in your head. Approach every conversation with openness and willingness to understand.<\/p>\n<h3>12. Attenzione al tono.<\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t yell, scream, or use foul language when you disagree with each other. Don\u2019t be sarcastic or mean. Don\u2019t use words you know trigger each other. All of this<strong> vi render\u00e0 solo pi\u00f9 arrabbiati e meno propensi a cercare un compromesso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>13. Don&#8217;t get frustrated when you disagree.<\/h3>\n<p>While you\u2019re working on solving your problems, there will come a time when you\u2019ll disagree. Unless you let yourself and your husband make mistakes and understand that they will happen, you can get frustrated to the point of giving up.<\/p>\n<h3>14. Try to see each other&#8217;s perspectives.<\/h3>\n<p>Trying to understand your partner\u2019s feelings and see their point of view is of the utmost importance. Stop looking at things from your own perspective and<strong> cercare di capire da dove viene l'altra persona <\/strong>per avvicinarvi.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Accept each other&#8217;s differences.<\/h3>\n<p>Opinioni, idee e sentimenti diversi si manifestano nelle relazioni umane. A parte alcuni valori fondamentali,<strong> you don\u2019t have to agree on everything to be happily married<\/strong> \u2013 you only have to accept each other\u2019s differences.<\/p>\n<h3>16. Take a break if you&#8217;re too upset.<\/h3>\n<p>Learn how to stop things when you see that your argument is about to escalate. Agree beforehand what to do when you notice that you\u2019re on the way to saying or doing something that will hurt each other and<strong> Fermatevi finch\u00e9 non vi sarete calmati.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>17. Don&#8217;t punish each other.<\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t be passive-aggressive or give each other the silent treatment to make the other person regret what they\u2019ve done. These things only make things worse in the long run.<\/p>\n<h3>18. Perdonarsi a vicenda.<\/h3>\n<p>When you do make a mistake, don\u2019t let it turn into a grudge.<strong> Perdonatevi a vicenda tutto ci\u00f2 che potete<\/strong>e darsi reciprocamente la possibilit\u00e0 di fare meglio.<\/p>\n<h3>19. Affrontare i problemi di fondo.<\/h3>\n<p>If there are any issues on either side, from mental health to past issues in your relationship, that might be causing problems now, try to handle them. You\u2019ll feel better if you both do your best to face things head-on and approach your marriage as a work in progress.<\/p>\n<h3>20. Cercate un aiuto professionale.<\/h3>\n<p>Nessuna di queste soluzioni \u00e8 facile. <strong>Se i problemi sono profondi, rivolgersi a un consulente professionista pu\u00f2 essere di grande aiuto.<\/strong>. Un consulente matrimoniale pu\u00f2 aiutarvi a vedere i veri problemi e insegnarvi a comunicare. Tutto ci\u00f2 che serve \u00e8 la volont\u00e0 di lavorare sul vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n<h2>Per concludere<\/h2>\n<p>Do your arguments with your husband start over small things and leave you both feeling angry, frustrated, and sorry? Are you constantly wondering, &#8220;What&#8217;s the reason that my husband misinterprets everything I say?&#8221; and trying to talk to him about it, only to cause more arguing?<\/p>\n<p><strong>I hope I\u2019ve helped you find the answer to these questions<\/strong>. If you&#8217;ve figured out which one applies to your relationship and you want to work on it, I hope you&#8217;ll put my advice on how to deal with it to good use.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-153282\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Mio marito interpreta male tutto ci\u00f2 che dico Come risolvere il problema Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-735x1103.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-223x335.jpg 223w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-231x347.jpg 231w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-347x520.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-427x640.jpg 427w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-512x768.jpg 512w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Does this seem familiar to you: you ask your husband what he wants to eat for dinner, and before you know it, you&#8217;re at each other&#8217;s throats, shouting, crying, and fighting about something that has nothing to do with dinner? If every conversation you have with your husband has the chance of turning into an&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":152970,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-152798","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/My-Husband-Misinterprets-Everything-I-Say-How-To-Fix-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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