{"id":15280,"date":"2020-05-03T12:12:04","date_gmt":"2020-05-03T12:12:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15280"},"modified":"2022-07-05T09:44:56","modified_gmt":"2022-07-05T09:44:56","slug":"segnali-da-non-ignorare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segnali-da-non-ignorare\/","title":{"rendered":"13 segnali di allarme di un marito irrispettoso che non dovreste ignorare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non vi mentir\u00f2: nessun matrimonio \u00e8 tutto arcobaleni e unicorni ed \u00e8 tutt'altro che facile.<\/p>\n

What nobody tells you at the beginning is not to expect a fairy tale and that in marriage, you\u2019ll have to compromise on some things you would never usually put up with.<\/p>\n

However, there is one thing you shouldn\u2019t even think about tolerating and that is having a disrespectful husband.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

You need to understand that there cannot exist love where there isn\u2019t respect and that you can never build a relazione sana<\/a> with someone who doesn\u2019t value you as a person or who belittles you in any way possible.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, sometimes you are the only one who doesn\u2019t see the reality of your own marriage; the only one who doesn\u2019t realize the truth and who fails to see that your husband doesn\u2019t treat you right<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ecco perch\u00e9 siamo qui per assistervi dandovi questi 13 segnali che vi faranno capire che avete un marito irrispettoso.<\/p>\n

1. He isn’t honest<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Una delle cose pi\u00f9 importanti in un matrimonio \u00e8 la completa onest\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Il vostro partner coniugale dovrebbe essere il vostro compagno di squadra e non c'\u00e8 posto per le bugie nella vostra relazione, anche quando la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 dura e cruda.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014the two of you have the right to your own privacy but in case your husband is hiding something from you, no matter how small that is, especially if it is something related to your marriage, it is a clear sign that he doesn\u2019t respect you enough.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to share all the parts of his life with you and he is doing that for a reason. This is definitely a sign of disrespect and you should be aware of that.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

2. Vi paragona ad altre donne<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

A man who compares you to other women doesn\u2019t respect and this is one of the clear signs your husband isn’t in love with you<\/a>. <\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether this woman is his ex or someone from his surroundings\u2014he should never make you feel like you should compete for his attention against some other female.<\/p>\n

Suo marito dovrebbe avere occhi solo per lei e non \u00e8 mai accettabile che guardi le altre ragazze e soprattutto che commenti il loro aspetto in sua presenza.<\/p>\n

In questo modo, non fa altro che sminuirti e farti sentire in colpa. E questo non \u00e8 certo segno di una relazione sana e felice, ma di un marito irrispettoso.<\/p>\n

Correlato: 14 segni di una ragazza irrispettosa e 12 modi per affrontarla<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Non ti guarda mai le spalle<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Un buon matrimonio \u00e8 anche un'amicizia. \u00c8 un giuramento che voi e il vostro partner vi sosterrete a vicenda, qualunque cosa accada.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, questo non \u00e8 qualcosa che il vostro marito irrispettoso fa mai. Non importa se avete ragione o meno, lui non prende mai le vostre parti.<\/p>\n

Instead, he thinks that others are always right and that you are wrong. He thinks that you are not smart enough to handle some difficult problems and he doesn\u2019t find you reliable.<\/p>\n

If you see that your husband does something like this, you should know that you have a serious problem and that things can get worse if you don\u2019t do something about it.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

4. He doesn\u2019t take care of your needs<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Quando ci si sposa, la prima cosa da dimenticare \u00e8 l'egoismo.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t look out for your needs only while not giving a damn about your partner\u2019s well-being. However, this is exactly what your disrespectful husband has been doing.<\/p>\n

The most important thing is that he is fed, clothed and satisfied. And you? Well, he doesn\u2019t even ask if you are okay or if you are too tired to prepare dinner after an exhausting day at work.<\/p>\n

He just thinks of himself and his needs and doesn\u2019t feel bad if you don\u2019t feel good. Your relationship is not like it used to be and you shouldn\u2019t tolerate<\/a> questo tipo di comportamento.<\/p>\n

5. Non \u00e8 mai pronto a scendere a compromessi<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If you feel that your husband makes all the important decisions in your marriage by himself and that he doesn\u2019t ask you for your opinion, you should know that something is not right with your relationship.<\/p>\n

If he constantly makes things go his way, no matter what you have to say, it means that he doesn\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n

And you should definitely do something about it because you don\u2019t deserve that kind of treatment. No woman does.<\/p>\n

Correlato: Marito dominante: 10 modi per essere l'alfa del vostro matrimonio<\/a><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

6. He doesn\u2019t listen to you<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If your husband doesn\u2019t listen to what you have to say, even if you are telling him something quite important, it means that he doesn\u2019t respect you<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Vuole solo che smettiate di parlare perch\u00e9 vi trova noiosi. Quando una coppia arriva a uno stadio del genere, deve assolutamente trovare una soluzione al problema, perch\u00e9 questa non \u00e8 una relazione sana.<\/p>\n

7. Non siete la sua priorit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se vostro marito vi esclude dalla sua vita e passa pi\u00f9 tempo con i suoi amici, significa che non ha rispetto per voi.<\/p>\n

He enjoys spending time with other people more than with you and you can\u2019t make a deeper bond with him.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, quando passate del tempo insieme, litigate sempre, e anche questo \u00e8 un segno di mancanza di rispetto.<\/p>\n

8. Vi critica<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Se vi accorgete che vostro marito vi critica per il vostro aspetto o per i chili di troppo che avete preso, \u00e8 segno di un marito irrispettoso.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t see a smile on his face when he says something like that and if he doesn\u2019t kiss you afterward, it is a sign that he has done that deliberately.<\/p>\n

Vuole che tu stia male e non si vergogna di mostrartelo apertamente.<\/p>\n

9. Non vuole mai aiutarvi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

No matter whether you are just doing household chores or working on some difficult project for work, your partner won\u2019t be there to help you.<\/p>\n

I am not saying that he has to have expertise in the field you are working in but he can help you by making you a cup of coffee or tea when you feel like you can\u2019t do anymore and when you are tired.<\/p>\n

If your husband doesn\u2019t want to do that and he lets you do all the hard things alone, it means that he doesn\u2019t respect you enough.<\/p>\n

E un uomo cos\u00ec non sar\u00e0 mai quello che vi render\u00e0 felici e appagate.<\/p>\n

10. Sta cercando di cambiarvi<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Il rispetto \u00e8 quasi sempre legato all'accettazione. Quando qualcuno vi rispetta, rispetta e accetta la persona che siete, con tutti i vostri difetti e imperfezioni, senza cercare di modificarvi.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014it is a great thing if you have a partner who inspires you to become better but that doesn\u2019t mean that he is entitled to change the essence of who you are.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, questo \u00e8 esattamente ci\u00f2 che sta facendo suo marito.<\/p>\n

Vuole che vi adattiate ai suoi standard immaginari e fa di tutto per plasmarvi a modo suo, senza prendere in considerazione la vostra personalit\u00e0 o individualit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

Se questo \u00e8 il caso del vostro matrimonio, allora \u00e8 pi\u00f9 che evidente che avete a che fare con un marito irrispettoso che cerca di controllare tutti gli aspetti della vostra vita e della vostra personalit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

11. He doesn\u2019t care if you are in the mood for sex<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Remember one thing\u2014even when you are in a relationship or married, sex always has to be consensual. You are allowed to have personal boundaries that no one can or should cross.<\/p>\n

That means that you have the right not to be in the mood for sex of any kind if you don\u2019t feel like it. And it means that your partner has to respect that at all times.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, il vostro marito irrispettoso fa tutt'altro. Al contrario, ti spinge ad andare a letto con lui anche quando gli dici chiaramente che non hai voglia di fare sesso.<\/p>\n

Also, when the two of you do sleep together, this man is only concerned with his needs\u2014he never puts any effort in to satisfy you and he often treats you as nothing more than a sexual object.<\/p>\n

12. He acts as if he\u2019s above you<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Se lei e suo marito avete dei figli, spesso vi sentite come se foste uno dei figli invece di essere un partner paritario del vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n

Suo marito non fa altro che darle ordini e sgridarla in continuazione, comportandosi come se lei fosse subordinata a lui in tutto e per tutto.<\/p>\n

Quest'uomo raramente vi tratta come un partner. Mette in discussione ogni vostra decisione e, di conseguenza, vi fa dubitare delle vostre capacit\u00e0 di giudizio.<\/p>\n

It is more than obvious that he thinks of himself as smarter and more capable than you. At the same time, you are good for nothing and your opinions shouldn\u2019t be taken into consideration.<\/p>\n

Even when he isn\u2019t telling you this directly, it is more than clear that he doesn\u2019t value you and doesn\u2019t give you the place that belongs to you in this marriage.<\/p>\n

Correlato: 4 segni che mio marito \u00e8 un genitore pigro e cosa fare per lui<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

13. Ti tratta come la sua domestica<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When you come to think about it, you can\u2019t remember the last time your husband did any chores around the house.<\/p>\n

Anche quando fa qualcosa, come pulire il tavolo, lo fa dopo che glielo avete chiesto.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, si comporta come se vi stesse aiutando svolgendo una semplice faccenda, come se non vivesse in questa casa.<\/p>\n

This man obviously considers cooking and cleaning to be women\u2019s duties and he doesn\u2019t think of lifting finger to at least make things easier for you.<\/p>\n

What you need to understand is that you are not this guy\u2019s maid, servant, or cook, nor are you your children\u2019s full-time nanny.<\/p>\n

This is your life, not your job, and you can\u2019t be expected to work 24\/7 while he doesn\u2019t show any interest whatsoever in sharing household responsibilities.<\/p>\n

\"13<\/p>\n

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